
Taking direct action to feed the homeless. (photo: Ryan Cook)
I moved down to the Washington, DC metro area in early September. Jobless, with my fingers crossed, I was fortunate to get an offer to join the FireDogLake team. Joyous with my new employment and the mitigation of my financial anxiety, I started to look for places that I could give back to the community. A friend recommended doing some work at Martha’s Table. Their mission is to provide nutritional, educational, and community support for the homeless. Their main focus is “at risk” children and their families. When I contacted Martha’s Table three weeks before Christmas and asked what I could do to help, they put me on a waiting list. Although discouraging, it was heartwarming to hear that we live in a country where even in times of hardship for the average household there are lots of charitable souls trying to help out during the holiday season.
I waited a week to hear back from them and decided it was time to take action. My roommate and fellow alum of Roger Williams University, Sebastian Herrick and I decided to help out in the most direct way we knew how. We went to Dupont Circle, entered Krispy Kreme in Santa hats and exited with 36 glazed donuts and enough coffee for the New York Giants. We then proceeded to walk around town handing out a donut and coffee to the homeless in DC. At Union Station we were greeted by a large group of individuals who were all incredibly thankful for our warm treats, although some people were not interested.
A couple approached us outside the train station shaking cold, strapped with backpacks, and chapped lips. They had traveled from California by foot and bus in the pursuit of happiness and new beginnings. Stranded in DC with nothing but the clothes on their back and the pins that held their bags shut, they asked if we could give them some coffee. At this point I realized that two months ago I was doing the same thing, wandering around DC hoping to find my way. I am fortunate to have the support of family and friends to assist me, and although some coffee and a donut is hardly going to change their lives, it’s a small gesture that I hope these people can continue to find wherever their travels take them.



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Thanks for the best Christmas story I have read this year!
Welcome, Ryan.
I hope a lot of folks saw what you and Sebastian were doing, and took the hint: No one will save our communities or their inhabitants, but us.
Welcomed to the Lake Ryan, I haven’t seen your name before so welcomed. I am glad your are giving back to your community we all need to do our part. We unlike the Republicans do care about those in need… Look forwarding to seeing more Posts in the New Year..
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Ryan, nice to have your here and that’s a great story. A gold star for you and your friend.
Good for you! When I was in Austin a few years ago, it was high summer and incredibly hot and dry. I was waiting at a red light when a guy with a sign that said he needed a pair of shoes and a bus ticket approached my car. At that moment the light turned green and I drove off. I went to Taco Bell and bought three tacos and I went to the convenience store and bought a large bottle of cold water and a cup full if ice. Then I put it all in a bag with a ten dollar bill and went back. When I saw the guy again, I handed him the bag. He cried. Honest to god tears coming down his cheeks. Though I forbade him to “bless me”, it was a wonderful, warm feeling I carried for the rest of the day. Maybe I’m a soft touch and maybe I’ve been duped before but not by this poor fellow. I’ve always said that if I’m eating, you’re eating. I mean that too. With all my heart.
Good on you Ryan and Sebastian, love your story. And welcome to DC, we need more people like you around here!
I also welcome you, Ryan
Good job. Too bad you in DC don’t have Del Taco — I know this because my daughter lives there and always stops at the first one she see’s when she visits — because they have burritos for 49 cents. I’ve been giving people on the street a dollar and telling them to go buy a burrito. Donuts are good too, though. :)
Rawk on, Ryan…! *g*
You know what I miss about the west coast? Carl’s Jr. Weird huh?
Definitely weird ! :)
Cheers to Ryan and Sebastian! What a kind gesture.
We all have a particular taste and hunger for something, don’t we? Variety and diversity. Yay.
Right? I know! I normally don’t eat that stuff.
I’m hip demi but burgers and fries are generally not my thing.
For me, it was waldorf salad while travelling in India. WTF?! At least it wasn’t ribeye.
Zippy’s still rulz ‘em all…! ;-)
Inn and Out, Del Taco, Carl’s Jr…
Like ya’ll be offered a rib-eye in India…! *sheesh*
So noted.
You should try an “In-n-Out Burger.” Burgers & fries is all they do. They follow the “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it” model.
That’s cool. We got Freebird’s!
Yeah, I was okay with In-n-out Burger.
Heh. Good thing I wasn’t craving ribeye, eh?
I’m pretty sure you are required to eat one when in California. It’s the law. heh…
Then I didn’t break it. First Carl’s Jr I had though was in Oregon.
A similar law is in effect here in the Isles…! ;-)
mmmm
fresh onions
mmmm
Okay…onions are like air, I grant that. You’ll never find any half Cajun who thinks otherwise though to be fair.
Btw, a Spam Musubi is must have…! About the only thing Obama-Rahma has done for Hawai’i…!
I have not been living in DC for many years (77 to 86), but when Reagan destroyed – ended – federal funding of mental health care, the states all cut back – including DC, and we had folks freezing to death at 1701 Penn – right across from the WhiteHouse and where I worked. I hated Reagan then and hate him to this day.
The response of the community was led by the Churches – with Homeless vans being set up with blankets and donated winter clothes (many of the mentally ill released because of Reagan’s actions were afraid of being indoors and chose the outdoors regardless of the weather). Shelters were setup with one in particular holding a couple of hundred and run by a really good guy. It was the post-Reagan that evaluations of shelters showed they may not be the best answer because of the danger to the weaker folks in the shelter population. Indeed only State funded permanent housing is the solution – we went through a long period of rentals of motel rooms before this became obvious – and rental is still used in too many places.
As to giving to the poor folks that panhandle, I always bought them lunch at the fast food spots on 17th and 18th because I saw my food money going for cheap booze otherwise.
The hot drink is a godsend for those outdoors – you are doing good – but the problem is huge and government help is inadequate to say the least – my wish is “may others find time to give you a hand” – and “thanks” – you’re doing good.
And the transgendered homeless were not allowed in the shelters, whether church run or otherwise. Nor are they today. They survive on the generosity of people like you.
As for panhandling for beer/booze money, when I have a job I’ll give them booze money. If they ask for it. I won’t if they lie.
I try very hard NOT to let them be part of my work day.
I am not as successful as I should be.
What? Onions or half Cajuns?
OK, I deserved that.
Thanks, Ryan and Sebastian, for this wonderful effort and for sharing your story with us tonight.
Great job Ryan. Krispy Kreme? Bless you, man. One of the few things in FL I compare favorably to NJ (way better than Dunkin Donuts–but not the coffee. nobody can touch DD coffee). A great read.
As to giving to the poor folks that panhandle, I always bought them lunch at the fast food spots on 17th and 18th because I saw my food money going for cheap booze otherwise.
Your comment reminded me of a story my sister told me where she and a friend stopped at an off ramp and her friend gave the person a 20. My sister said the person would probably buy booze. Her friend looked at her and said, You never know. Maybe not.
The last person I gave $2 to and asked him to go buy a couple burritos and a soda just might have. I had asked him where he was staying these days and he told me “they” were going to put him in some place called New Beginnings. I told him please to go there and hugged him.
I saw him in the Food For Less today. He looked great. 100% better. His hair was cut and his clothes were clean. You just never know which helping hand is going to work out.
Both can ruin your day. :D
That totally rawked, Demi…! *g*
Don’t know about Cajuns but onions surely can.
It’s nice when it rawks, isn’t it?
But, gifts are gifts, right?
Awesome. Donuts and hot coffee is a good start. I like to give hot coffee and burgers. When you get more stable, you might look into how to help the folks in the tent cities in the area. You might need to partner with MCC or one of the big social justice downtown churches to pull this off. Also, for helping GLBIT, you might check in with ASGRA as I observed them doing some good work for the least of the underserved. Keep up the great work and Happy Holidays!
I can’t watch the South Park episode about Mormons without thinking of Mittens.
Of course, “group feedings” are illegal in The City Beautiful.
I’m out.
But, thanks for getting my jonesing going for a donut! Ha.
Night demi.
Laters, dear.
I’m out too. Oya.
*heh* For some strange reason I’m being drawn towards a Horton’s…! ;-)
*cues petro in 5,4,3…*
I guess he’s already at one…! ;-)
“Hey Koharski, have another donut!”
*heh* Next time I see him I’m gonna tell ‘em to ‘Let go my Eggo’…! Bwahahaha…! ;-)
Cold, no…? ;-)
When I saw them chucking breakfast onto the ice, I thought at first that it was a contest.
*heh* Does the 5 second rule still hold…? They’re still frozen after all…! ;-)
i remember that game. vividly! after those imortal words, Schoenfeld called him a “fat fucking pig”. Koharski since lost alot of weight.
Wasn’t that a beaut.
And it was in the days when there really was a hockey network (ESPN). They ran with this night after night, made promo’s out of it.
I think Tom Mees was still alive.
Jumping in at 58 or more, and not reading comments — I love you Ryan! Welcome aboard!
Skip the comments, Chris. It’s degenerated into obese, pugnacious hockey officials, and breakfast.
How’s the cold up there?
I think Mees was alive too. i was living in NJ where I was born & raised. even though i was a Rangers fan, they were out of the playoffs and the Devils were on this Cindarella run and my dad was a big Devils fan. Watched that game – and every Devils playoff game- with him.
turnin’ in. night all
Hey newt! About 18 with wind and snow that feels like zero. Worked like a demon today, with few visitors. Hey, how about you?
I’m almost ashamed to say – fog, rain on and off, never got below 50…
Sigh!
CTuttle is upstairs!
Late, Late Night FDL: Hold The Line
Needed comment, well said. We have transitions Mental Health group homes here. If you are evaluated by County Mental Health you get on a waiting list. Food and shelter and case management including meds are provided. Supervisors on duty to an even keel. These are small groups of 10 or so in residential neighborhoods.
Some Social workers in Santa Barbara CA go out to encampments with sack lunches and try to convince the addicts to come into their shelter and get case management.
Expressing sympathy in giving a little is encouraging hope and relieving suffering. Hope more people get into it.
Reagan in his destruction of Federal mental health aid in the August 81 budget bill was just redoing his destruction of mental health aid in California in the early 60′s.
The horror that was the California massive building “warehouse” approach to care was ended by court order with the legislature passing a plan to build new transitional and group housing for the mentally ill – Reagan signed and gave a speech – sounding much like Obama. Reagan then for every year remaining of his term closed down the warehouses and refused to replace them by doing the building and opening of the transitional and group homes that he had agreed to – indeed they were never funded, tossing the mentally ill onto the street.
So when the streets of DC filled with mentally ill sleeping on subway grills and under stairs, folks just told us non-Californians “you should have expected this because that is what he did in California”.