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Parenthood has a way of changing one’s perspectives and resetting priorities. Where matters might have been blown off or ignored in pre-child years, now they are important. Like clean floors – before kids I was happy to have mine mopped once a week, but once the baby started crawling, I was vacuuming and swabbing the decks every day, worried about little one’s hands running across tracked-in soil and sticking their dirty fingers in their mouth.
And it doesn’t end there; once they can walk and then talk, those little mouths ask increasingly pointed, tough questions. Why is the sky blue? Why is that lady fat? Why is my stepbrother going to war? Why aren’t people who lie going to jail? What’s waterboarding and why would our government do it? Why aren’t they telling us the truth? Can’t we do something to fix this?
Answering those questions with a straight face and an honest heart is one of the toughest jobs I’ve ever had to do. It’s the nature of parenthood, being responsible to family. And it’s why I’ve been a community member at Firedoglake – and why I ask you to help this community by making a donation.
Every day the crew at Firedoglake asks tough questions and digs hard for answers. They are beholden to no one save their family – the crew and its community of readers – just I am beholden to no one but the little persons who’ve asked me for the truth. It seems like a very simple proposition, doesn’t it? Ask a question, get the answer, but I’ve discovered as a parent it’s not, and as a member of the Firedoglake community I’m certain of it. I know it takes many hours of reading research materials and more hours to write and edit cogent summaries based on findings. These people do it on a shoestring and often with little recognition in return, simply because it’s the right thing to do. They know at the end of the day they have done the right thing to protect our democracy and our future – and our children’s future.
But it takes money to make their work appear on line; development and hosting costs along with other operational expenses are far more than the meager amount advertising brings in. Nobody at Firedoglake is getting rich; there’s a lot of time and effort put into this site which are simply labors of love, like plowing through document dumps from the Department of Justice into the wee hours of the morning, or boning up on deepwater drilling technology and sea floor tectonics, capturing and editing video after video of punditry, or reading line by line health care legislation and amendments for months on end. It’s the kind of commitment that we are willing to put into our family because that’s what family does for one another. Yet families still have expenses and this family must ensure that their work is made available to those who need and seek the truth.
I’m asking you to think about the value Firedoglake offers, not just in terms of the solid, hard-hitting questions it asks, or the truths it uncovers and the accountability it demands. I’m asking you to think about your donation to Firedoglake as a way you can personally answer the question, Can’t we do something to fix this? You can make a make a concrete difference through your contribution of $20, $35, $50 or more towards our goal of $50,000 $60,000 before Friday, July 2?
Remember there are some very big questions in the days ahead which will require more resources to answer – we have primary elections and then the mid-term, the outcome of which could be spun by the mainstream media and by partisan politicos. There are commissions stacked with corporatists working against the interests of the people, and investigations into corporations and individuals which when finished could result in indictments or mere findings; somebody must be ready to tackle these to answer the tough questions. Firedoglake will be here to get to the bottom of these, and you can help the Firedoglake family, both crew and readers, with your donation.
Thank you for being a member of this family, and for your continued support. You’re why I can look my own family in the eye every day and answer their tough questions.



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Come on Pups & those who want to be Pups give up few shekels for the Lake!! I did! Twice this month… Don’t you want the very best in progressive dialog and discussions?? Sheesh where else can you find some of the nicest, knowledgeable and smart people to have a decent conservation with??
No WHERE!!
I wrote the check for $181 today, the result of a contest in Late Late Night last night.
Well spent.
Awesome!!
I’m in for another $50.
Rayne! I was just discussing parenting with Margaret this morning.
I wish I could give boodles of cash to FDL, but I can’t.
I’m sending my son to summer camp, starting this weekend, and as I’m not able to afford it, a dear friend is paying the $400.00 to send him. I took my son to the thrift store to buy some new shorts and t-shirts. One of them is a Ahnold shirt that says “Vote For Me If You Want To Live.” It was his choice. I bought him some new underwear and socks, and a low price throw away camera at Big Lots. I make do and we are happy.
This whole discussion (below) about who is the caring one, who can contribute and who can’t, and the ensuing mean comments makes me sad.
I think if we were a little more charitable with each other in the comments that we might have more commenters. More commenters = more money. I may be incorrect, but that is my take on this thing.
CTuttle and his darned exclamation points did me in!
And good on you.
Hee hee — I read LLN this morning over coffee. Good on you!
demi ☺ ☺ ☺ you are a sweetheart!!! Hope that costs newt a few more bucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!+!!!!!!!!! just fer good newt!!!
That’s hilarious!
Well, my tuna noodle, or as a call it Tunaboodle casserole is about ready.
I just hope everyone has as pleasant an evening as I am planning.
Let’s all be kind to each other, shall we? Toodles.
Hugs to Nahant. And, to everyone else. You too, Newton!
Eli is upstairs!
Republican Multiple Choice
Dropping in to say thanks to all of you who’ve given to FDL’s fundraising effort, those of you who are going to give, and those of you who’ve given in the past. You make it happen.
Also want to say thanks to those of you who can’t give now, but are a key part of the FDL community; your comments and your readership keep this place going.
And apparently I need to pay more attention to Late Late Night for “contests”, eh, newtonusr?
Rayne, this is very eloquent. I’m in, of course, for a pittance, but from which as we can afford, right?
And I thank you for it, every little bit helps.
I don’t think the community members here realize how much like family they are; I can point to some of your names and talk about your comments with my kids. They learn a lot from our conversations here in thread. And some of my friends in real life now see FDL as part of a larger social circle. Imagine my surprise to find out that one of my close friends grew up near Grand Isle in Louisiana and still has family there. We talked a lot about what FDL’s Michael Whitney was doing in and around Grand Isle to document BP’s oil disaster in progress. It was amazing to see the world shrink like that and become so intimate.
And all FDL’s donors, commenters and readers make that happen.
Hi Rayne,
Here are two of my favorite questions from my then four-year old boy:
Mommy, what do they do to dead bodies before they put them in the ground?
Why are there so many handicapped people here (as we drive by families walking, with boys wearing yarmulkes) — what? You know, they wear these little “handi caps?”
Great post — many thanks.
Hooboy. I can see the boy in your life is a lot like mine.
Mine comes up with a doozy nearly every single day that sucks the breath away. Today’s question was “What’s a pasty? No, not the hand pie, Mom. Why do people laugh about that word?”
One of my all-time favorites came immediately following a Democratic Party meeting, the first one he’d ever attended when he was in second grade. He asked me, “Mom, I can do a better job than George Bush. Can’t I, Mom?”
Yup, you sure can, I told him, and I’d do whatever he needed help with if that’s what he wanted to do.