In “The Gift of the Magi,” O. Henry tells the story of Della and Jim, a couple rich in love who can barely afford their $8 per week flat. It’s Christmas, and Della sells her long, beautiful hair to a wig maker so she can buy Jim a fob for his pocket watch. Meanwhile, Jim sells his beloved watch to buy Della combs for her silken tresses. Their selfless sacrifices become materially irrelevant as their love triumphs.
Of Della and Jim, O. Henry writes:
…here I have lamely related to you the uneventful chronicle of two foolish children in a flat who most unwisely sacrificed for each other the greatest treasures of their house. But in a last word to the wise of these days let it be said that of all who give gifts these two were the wisest.
O. Henry whipsaws American readers with those two sentences. Within the immoral system that accurately describes much American economic and political behavior, Della and Jim are indeed foolish. In the real America, Della might be expected to pawn Jim’s watch to buy her combs, and Jim would cut Della’s hair in her sleep so he could afford a fob for his watch. Any effort to deter such selfishness would be ridiculed as unwarranted intervention in the free market.
O. Henry speaks of Della and Jim’s unwise sacrifice only to turn and say, think again. Jim and Della are the wisest of all.
I think – with much support from the science of empathy and altruism – that humans have a natural tendency to give, to sacrifice self-interest to strengthen bonds of love, friendship and community. The Thieves of Wealth view that truth as subversive, of course. Their real achievement lies in convincing each of us that the rest of us are bloodthirsty sharks. They teach Della that given the chance, Jim would slice off her hair. Likewise, they convince Jim that Della, given the opportunity, would steal his watch.
Now, a loving couple would probably not behave toward one another as the Thieves say we will behave. To avoid this contradiction, the Thieves preach that human nature is different in the private sphere than in the public sphere. We are, according to the Thieves of Wealth, schizoids. A loving, nurturant father at home becomes a cold, unforgiving tyrant at work. In many instances, we have, sadly, become what the thieves wanted us to become.
In today’s America, Della would be judged in public life only with regard to whether or not she has combs for her hair. How she got them is irrelevant. In fact, since love and compassionate have been banished to private life, it’s rather expected that Della will come by her combs through some trickery or theft.
Wealth of the few gained at the impoverishment of the many becomes its own moral justification. As it is with the Calvinist Elect, material success is taken as a sign of God’s favor. When the rich and powerful stumble, it’s big news, largely because within the context of the national myth, they have literally fallen from Grace.
I don’t think we’re going to make much headway toward economic and social justice until we tear down the private/public divide and reintegrate our natures.
“The Gift of the Magi” is one of the stories included in the marvelous 1952 film, “O. Henry’s Full House.” As John Steinbeck says in his introduction to the “Magi” segment of the film, O. Henry wrote “Magi” and the other stories included in his book, The Four Million, to contest the Gilded Age conceit that there were only 400 people worth knowing in New York City.
Jeanne Crain plays Della and Farley Granger plays Jim. Henry King directs “Magi.” Stars of the film’s other four stories include Marilyn Monroe, Charles Laughton, Richard Widmark, Jean Peters, Gregory Peck, Fred Allen, Oscar Levant, and directors Howard Hawkes and Henry Hathaway.
Part I of the “Magi” segment is embedded above. You can watch Part II here, and Part III here.



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Farley is just so ADORABLE!
And he’s often overlooked or underestimated…
Glenn, thank you.
Mornin’ Glenn.
So it is as it was with Job’s old testament “friends.” In this regard, we haven’t advanced very far, eh?
klynn, you’re very welcome. Thanks for the kind comment.
Thanks Glenn.
This analysis is far too nuanced for any U.S. PTBs.
I like to read about the Gilded Age. Forgot about O’Henry’s contribution to the literature. I’ll have to get a copy.
That’s a great point. It’s amazing how the pious so frequently ignore the idols of their piety, preying upon the poor by day, singing hymns to the meek by night.
Please forgive, but PTB is….?
Maybe too nuanced, but what’s important here is Farley is adorable.
Nice post, Glenn, thank you.
Seems we’re thinking somewhat in the same vein today.
From The Dalai Lama’s Little Book of Wisdom. I posted this selection elsewhere this morning.
Powers-that-be
Well, fairly, some pious ignore their idols by day and just rant and trash anyone else by afternoon or evening. Goose, Gander thing is all I’m saying. I’m not all that impressed with either side right now.
But, I’ve always loved this story and caring about the other is the thing.
“He who knows when enough is enough will always have enough.”
- James Taylor (that’s from whom I heard it, anyway)
Thanks for this. The complex manipulations that force us apart and indoctrinate us with the idea that only endless hyper-individualistic consumption can bring happiness are hard to resist or overcome. Everyone needs to hear the simple wisdom of the Dalai Lama. And I think a simple thought that we ought to apply in the world at large those values we cherish at home — compassion, understanding, patience — could help us change things.
Thanks for the hit on Imogen Heap. Me likee.
In today’s America Jim would be dealing drugs and Della would be turning tricks.
This piece was interesting until you turned it into an attack on capitalism…the greatest system ever devised by man.
I’ve always loved this story too.
Hi Margot. Love is an unselfish thing, isn’t it? Love and Service is all there really is.
What? You don’t write, you don’t call?
Yea, well, even Adam Smith would hate would capitalism has become, which is little more than ideological excuse for theft. It’s not open and free markets that should be condemned, it’s the rascals who claim that means the freedom to exploit.
material success is taken as a sign of God’s favor
And God tells them that killing brown people is okay, that stealing from the population at will is okay, that they can screw people over for their own benefit. It goes on and on, I wonder what bible these people are reading from. Jesus was all about the poor and down trodden. What kind of Christianity does one call that?
It is. I forget sometimes and it makes me ashamed.
Capitalism can do without the robber barons of the Gilded Age…or any age.
And candy bars…
There’s no shame in understanding.
Facts not in evidence. Not!
There are plenty of people struggling to make ends meet. Some take 2nd jobs, and not dealing drugs either.
What a mean spirited thought you shared, but I’m not buying it.
If we were selling drugs and tricks, my family would have more materialistic things….spelling it out….but, we have all we need, without you’re incorrect assumption, or projection.
Glad you like. She is awesome.
Nicolo Machiavelli, Discourses
Shit, I just read your response, and was just selfish and unloving in a comment here.
(((Corner)))
It’s lost on most people that Adam Smith was first and foremost a moral philosopher.
Okay, maybe you made me see that Some People can be reliable.
You, Are, The, Bomb.
whispering to Rat, from the corner.
Yep, the free market extremists wish “Theory of Moral Sentiments” didn’t exist.
(((demi)))
Is that a Hall Pass for Time Out?
Thank you.
Okay. During the lull, can I tell you pups that my tree is faboo? I decided to go back to doing tinsel this year and passed the job off to my son. My Asperger’s son. You know the one. There’s just a tad, /s, more than I would have put on. We’re talking ga ga. But, it’s Very Evenly distributed. I didn’t change one single branch and Lurves it.
Capitalism sure is the Greatest system of concentrating the wealthy of many into the hands of the very few elite. But if you have good regulation and progressive taxes so the few can’t fleece the many well maybe. But the current system lets 45 Thousand die yearly because of the way Capitalism distributes wealth to the few. Thats 450 thousand every ten years and you think it is the greatest system [edited by mod]
Copy that.
Really? I didn’t see it. If you’re referring to the comment I think you are, you are simply putting, as Jane said the other day, “Principles before Personalities.”
God bless.
Ah, reverence for the tree above what’s packaged beneath it. Now we’re talkin’…
I didn’t do any elaborate decorating, just dusted off my Christmas pig.
oh come on lurk that was a fair rebuttal to such and ass.
Imagine that. Principles before personalities. The pundits are growing very uncomfortable right before our very eyes.
Thanks, Glenn. Was just thinking about this O. Henry story yesterday. Read it many years ago and it made quite an impression on me. What if….. and imagine….
Hm. I think I see the problem. You’re human!
bad linky photo restricted.. “account inactive for over 90 days!” ???
good morning ratfood..
She is???
Fixed it, try again.
Top of the morning to you, nahant.
My grandmother gave me a book of O. Henry stories when I was eight or nine. Later, we read this story and a few others in a junior high english class taught by a very matronly, conservative, even priggish teach. We watched the film in class! And I think, how is the ethic dramatized here reconciled with the doggy-eat-doggy Madoffian mentality of the modern world?
Nice PIG ratfood! Time for roast suckling pig???
I can’t reconcile it. I live in a world now that I hardly recognize and wander around like an idiot saying “I don’t understand.” Just don’t get it. I grew up with not much and thrived.
Aw, that’s mean. That one could have roast beef.
huh?
OK OK
Roast side of BEEF..
is that better??
You sure must be stuck on that pig RF??
not even bacon?
My parents both grew up during the Great Depression and were better for the experience. They raised four kids on a civil servant’s income (VERY low in those days). There were few luxuries but we had what we needed. I think I’m better for that experience.
My niece and nephews each had more material possessions by the time they were three years old than my siblings and I had in our entire combined childhoods. I haven’t seen any evidence that they are better for that experience.
I’m a principled omnivore, I will only eat packaged meats. :-)
The key to handling desire is to turn it into a preference.
Similar childhood home. Amazing thing was how natural, unforced, authentic it was. It’s a subject for another time, but that down-to-earthness led me to a certain distance from cool, that is, the purchased poses of the late and post ’60s. Just lucky, I guess.
The rich can’t seem to satisfy their desire for more money. I wonder if they are ever happy.
An interesting thing is that nearly identical experience can affect people differently, even within the same family. Two of my siblings have spent their adult lives overcompensating for what they perceive as their childhood deprivation, i.e. few luxuries. The other sibling and myself are more content with less. For whatever it’s worth, there were 4-5 years between kids in our family. First and third born are materialistic, second and fourth are not.
They aren’t, and they force-feed their unhappiness to the world.
Estate taxes – zero.
Cap gains taxes – zero.
Then they will be happy.
lol roflmao
ya just don’t know what ya missing!!
besides Do You Really Know What is in the packaged meat???
The Zen belief is that happiness is only possible in the absence of desire.
Bit of a cliche though to think or the rich as being unhappy. Money can’t buy happiness but certainly it is possible to be both rich and happy.
Yessir.
My four siblings and I differed, but not so much in core values. Many of the differences had to do with social context. We were separated by some years, I was really the only child of the sixties. Post-Kent State and Vietnam, there was a counter-rebellion among the youth. Away from pot and back to beer. But values? We were very similar.
Nope, better that way. I try to eat a balanced diet and take reasonable precautions in regard to my own food handling and preparation. Aside from that, I try not to sweat the small stuff. I suspect that stress claims more lives than most food additives.
Oh, good. You are.
Just seemed a void for a while.
I’m back. Talked to my Sissy. Have Peach Black Tea to drink.
All is well.
depends just what those additives are!!!
many are cancer causing and the antibiotics used you get to eat!!…
just saying…
but being that is almost the only way to get meat in suburbia and you gotta eat….
Oughta be a band by that name…
I agree!!! If I knew a few other players close by I could name the Band that!!
Happy Sunday Glen (:>))
Thanks, Glenn — wonderful story for the holiday season; and Full House is a hidden gem.
O. Henry’s last paragraph distills two thousand years of human experience into a singularity — the selfless love between one human being and another.
Today, TMZ’s wiseass holes would be stalking Della & Jim from the jewelry store to the wig maker to the pawn shop to the jeweled comb retailer trolling for sound bites of the season.
Nice post, Glen! I thought what Steinbeck said about the 400 vs. The Four Million went to the heart of the problem we have with many, maybe most of our politicians. While the term “The 400″ may be forgotten, the idea that just a few people really matter seems as popular as ever. Recall how the HC bill developed, and I’m not thinking about the opinions of the “few” Senators who had so much sway, I’m thinking more about the wealthy corporations who got what they wanted, even though it might not have been needed while the general population got very little. There’s no doubt that this administration cares only for the 400.
Yes, that remark by O. Henry, eloquently restated by Steinbeck, caught in my gut too. Of course, to note such a thing is called (by the 400) engaging in class warfare….