In case you missed it last week, the twice divorced Prager advised married women to put out on demand. And despite the beating he took around the blogosphere, he’s back for more today.
In Part I, I made the argument that any woman who is married to a good man and who wants a happy marriage ought to consent to at least some form of sexual relations as much as possible. (Men need to understand that intercourse should not necessarily be the goal of every sexual encounter.)
Yes, truly understanding, enlightened men allow the woman the courtesy of blowing him every now and then. After all, women just aren’t that into sex.
If most women wait until they are in the mood before making love with their husband, many women will be waiting a month or more until they next have sex.
And by "most women" here, Dennis means "every woman who’s ever been in a relationship with me."
Why would a loving, wise woman allow mood to determine whether or not she will give her husband one of the most important expressions of love she can show him? What else in life, of such significance, do we allow to be governed by mood?
What if your husband woke up one day and announced that he was not in the mood to go to work? If this happened a few times a year, any wife would have sympathy for her hardworking husband. But what if this happened as often as many wives announce that they are not in the mood to have sex? Most women would gradually stop respecting and therefore eventually stop loving such a man.
Right, because it’s the man job to earn money and the woman’s job to perform sexually. I can’t take much more of this.
Many contemporary women have an almost exclusively romantic notion of sex: It should always be mutually desired and equally satisfying or one should not engage in it. Therefore, if a couple engages in sexual relations when he wants it and she does not, the act is “dehumanizing” and “mechanical.”
And in a nutshell, Dennis describes every sexual encounter he’s ever had.
Good luck getting any woman to so much as talk to your fat ass after spewing misogynist crap like this, Dennis.
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Smooth talker like that, I’m sure he’s having to fight the ladies off.
Well there’s someone out there for everyone I suppose.
In related news, CNN is pleased to announce that Dennis Prager will be taking over Glen Beck’s show after Beck leaves for Fox News.
This guy is a friggin moron.
He seems to be stuck in the nineteenth century or something.
Hello?
Mcfly?
If anyone, man or woman, can’t get the gratification they want at home I’m sure they are quite capable of finding it outside the home.
dennis and rush should form their own sexuality self-help group; that, some viagra, and some oxycontin and a fast internet connection should get them the love and companionship they need.
One of his exes :
“Well there’s good news and bad news about him- the bad news is that the food stinks- the good news is that the portions are small”
EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW! I need some Clorox for my mind after reading this.
Where the hell did this guy get these ideas. Last time I wanted to disavow him from my sex, today it is the whole damn species!
Jeezus…actually read the article. Very disturbing on so many levels. Police should put this guy under surveillance since there’s ample evidence in his own words that he could be a sexual predator. Seriously.
BT – awesome.
Awwwww Crap. This is the rape fantasy of a control rapist set to authoritarian religious views. Lovely.
“It’s her duty. She really likes it, you know? She wanted it, she just couldn’t tell me she wanted it.” Never met a good control rapist who didn’t believe these words.
Again…I always have to throw this out there…why would any man who has had really good mutually orgasmic sex, WANT to have obligatory sex? What’s really in that for him? Oh yah, control. He gets it when he wants it, how he wants it and he doesn’t have to work too hard at it. Yep, that’s it. That’s the pay off.
Why would any man want to have sex with someone who is “just performing an obligation” or “doing her chore”. That is the pertinent question.
His articles are screaming, “I’m a horrible lay!” All the scenarios he describes are symptoms of that. Get some books Dennis.
Bingo!
How much are you paying your wife is the question.
Man-oh-man, this guys a bare for punishment, ain’t he?!
BT, this is just painful. You should get a pay raise. heh
Happy New Year, or is it April Fools Day yet?!
Prager & Sex … I’ll go soak in the giant drums of BrainBleach now …
hehe
in denis’s world it’s;
“put up and shut up
Oh and to every woman who’s had to endure this behavior from a Dennis Pricker- like clone, I sincerely apologize on behalf of my gender !
Can this guy be banished from my gender?
501 hrs & 9 min
Men who talk like this are sick. Seriously. It sounds like window dressing for a sex addiction. It’s disgusting. These are the people who claim that gays are deviant and therefore unable to ”control their urges.” Urges that cannot be controlled are not the norm. Warren is a classic example of this confessing he wants to jump every beautiful woman he sees. Who talks like this unless they have serious problems? Pot calling kettle black. It’s so disturbing that these attitudes are accepted by anyone. I think I will just have to abstain forever.
foothillsmike: I am soooooo appreciating the clock. Thank You!
It would be unfair to respond here at this time because it’s been over twenty minutes since I got a BJ.
Get a new wife you wimp
Methinks the Jergens and Kleenex budget in the Prager household is soon to reach all time highs, spurring a wankonomic recovery of an astounding magnitude.
;>)
lol!!!
EXCELONNI, BT.
Prager should put the pen/keyboard down and save those hand muscles.
He’s gonna need em’ more than ever for the future rest of his life.
LOL!
i like dennis. i am dennis’ right hand. i am always ready to go…
Where’s Pach on this. Is this book a scream for help?
How about this: religious inculcation. Real women loathe all things sexual and only participate for 2 reasons, procreation and obligation.
Thomas Aquinas would be proud. Only thing Prager forgot was the sheet with a hole between man and wife during the deed…that she must launder promply afterwards.
Oh, I’m sure his hand muscles are in great shape.
yellowsnapdragon
”Real women loathe all things sexual and only participate for 2 reasons, procreation and obligation.”
This is only in the real America. *g*
500 hrs & 51 min
*sigh*
Sorry…my sarcasm exceeds my civility.
The rest of us in unreal America will burn in hell.
“And now, Bruce Pardo will describe what Mr. Praeger has won…”
lol!
i’m tryin’ to cook here!
preparing appetizers for the pre-bar party tomorrow night.
and i can’t stop laughing at this, your comments BT.
i need a drink. and it’s only a little after noon here, a full 4 hours before the cocktail hour!
LOL.
tick tock tick tock
obama, barrack
tick tock tick tock
Not soon enough
tick tock tick tock
Stop all this mess
tick tock tick tock
Get on with the new
tick tock tick tock
Dump the cukoo
Wow, this guy is some piece of work; I haven’t laughed this hard in a while. On the level of this being a skit from Saturday Night Live it’s really funny. On the level of this being real advice to men, women and couples, it’s beyond frightening and a sad attempt to justify rape.
John Dean did a book on the mind of the conservative, which I haven’t read, but I believe he comes away documenting how frightened, insecure, daddy-seeking, and follow the leader they are as a group. To me the conservative icons of the last few years are Jeff Gannon, Larry Craig, Mark Foley, you have your Gingrich impeaching Clinton while having a squeeze on the side, as well as others in the GOP, then you have Diaper-Dandy Mr. Vitter, and throw in a helping of Prager, and Mr. show your son who’s the man in the shower himself — James Dobson, and don’t forget Ted Haggard (just google: minister gay meth). A truly outstanding cast of family values and role models.
Dear God, please, please save us from these people!
Happy New Year.
Any woman with any sense at all knows when she is being loved and when she is being used.
This guy has the sensitivity of a bag of hammers.
Lots of replies above express embarrassment at being a fellow male with this dimwit.
It’s tough. It’s always us, we men, who say and do the really bad shit, rape, torture, genocide etc. What can we do?
Oh wait! We are mostly raised by women so it’s their fault.
Oh boy, that was close.
There is a lot of DP out there, he has an audience. Male violence against humans, the environment, institutionalized violence like Reaganomics, really underlies all of out grief.
Females appear to have a leg up on us, a big lump in the brain dedicated to an interest in what’s happening with the other. We need to clone those cells and inject them in the baby boys.
Just an idea, what could it hurt?
Would it be possible to store these people on a primitive reservation someplace (not an existing one)
500 hrs & 31 min
Just read his whole diseased column!
“Bailiff,whack his pee-pee!!”
Yeah. And we women are in the unique position of loving the very same people who perpetuate the hegemony. Sucks.
joelmael @ 39: that makes so much sense it’s kinda comforting. Funny too in a most self-aware way. Thanks.
This sickness is part of the wider fabric that brings us war.
Yeah, I don’t know how you do it. You have to ignore so much everyday and function as if it wasn’t there.
Thank you for acknowledging that. It really means a lot just to be heard.
I love the Ladies Man, but he is leaving out the Courvoisier part.
Hehindeedy.
I’m going to give him the benefit of the doubt and assume it was the meth talking.
I think everyone here needs to stop hyperventalating for a moment. This kind of stuff is very easy to make fun of, and I really don’t understand why this guy needs to write about it. On the other hand, since when is it wrong for one spouse to give to the other, without a quid pro quo of equal return? Why does every aspect of a relationship have to “fair” or “equal” at all times and in all ways? Why shouldn’t one spouse go the extra mile for the other, including sexually?
Dennis seems a might sex obsessed and also confuses sex with love. I also suspect we are only hearing one half of the story. Dennis ignores his lady’s feelings, doesn’t pay much attention to her, let’s her cook, clean and do his laundry and then when he’s got a boner = holy hell, if she doesn’t jump right on it she doesn’t love him. Dennis get a clue…women need respect and attention and flirting and participation in the relationship, if you ain’t giving it it’s likely you ain’t getting it. No one likes feeling used and there is not much lonelier than being on the receiving end of a rutting pig who rolls over and immediately falls asleep.
I do agree that certain religions have ruined sex by telling men that women hate it and it is dirty and just their obligation in order to have children. Some men are horrified to find out that women like it, a lot, and don’t know how to process that. Sad situation all around. I’m glad I opted out of religion at a very young age.
Dennis assumes such things as a satisfied woman.
Back to the drawing boards.
Dennis cries during sex. Pepper spray has that effect.
Its so annoying when stupid people talk about human sexual relations.