
I want to talk a bit about the site, my view of what we do, and the use of language here. Recently there was a dustup when comments made by TRex and Pach were deemed objectionable by some and based on this, characterizations of both as "sexist" were made. While I basically think that people who launch these kinds of attacks, drawing false conclusions based on a superficial analysis of their respective works that consists entirely of the posts in question and engaging in gender- or race-baiting as a way to get their point across (or draw attention to themselves) are either shallow analysts, bad faith artists or both, the discussion of the language used in these posts is a valid topic of discussion and that conversation should have happened here at FDL One of the words used in TRex's post — "cunt" — triggers the comment moderation function here and when the text was quoted in the comments they wound up in the filter and did not get sprung in time for the conversation to be conducted at FDL. So tonight I wanted to give people the opportunity to air their views here, and Pach, Christy and TRex are all here to add their thoughts, which vary by individual.
I don't use the "c" word personally, though I'm hardly a saint on that front — nothing gets Michelle Malkin's blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O'Beirne "sandpaper snatch." Since that time it's been refined by the community (thanks to punaise) into "Ole 60 Grit" and it has become something of blogospheric lore — Jim O'Beirne's notorious hiring of Heritage Foundation interns for the CPA is now commonly referred to as the "60 Grit Employment Agency." We are, first and foremost, writers (and artists) here on this site, and I will not impose limitations on how people can express themselves here. We test the edges of communication, and in doing so often get perilously close to the edge and occasionally step over. It's what makes us exciting, challenging and interesting, in the tradition of Lenny Bruce or Hunter S. Thompson.
I have personally been notoriously short tempered with the Barbara Bushes amongst us who castigate us for lack of "civility" and our part in soiling their beautiful minds. It's a classic accusation leveled against outsiders by members of the established order trying to disempower them, rather than addressing any validity of their viewpoints. Nothing written here has ever led to thousands of bodies lying dead in the Middle East (thank you WaPo and NYT) or approached the extreme outrages of Rush Limbaugh or Ann Coulter, yet we are constantly subjected to characterizations of being dirty, foul hippies. But the fact is that the right owned the public discourse for decades by using hot language that shot straight through the limbic system and engaged people in a primal way while the left wrapped itself in dry wonkery. Our use of strong language is concerted and, I believe, effective. As Alinsky said (thank you RBG):
Ridicule is man's most potent weapon. It is almost impossible to counterattack ridicule. Also it infuriates the opposition, who then react to your advantage.
It's one of the tools we use, some of us more than others, and I think our success is largely a testament to its effectiveness.
But as Pachacutec said in an email, trying to define appropriate limits is going to create a lot of gray area:
I think the online medium does operate according to some more unique physics of communication and social conduct. While I don't think it's acceptable to lie, as Coulter and her ilk do, I do, for myself, think it's acceptable to engage in targeted character assassination and takedowns to strategic purpose, as we did with Lieberman.
Now, when you're doing these character takedowns, insulting or mocking people, some people are going to dislike it. The material we have at our disposal should not include, according to our own principles, racist, homophobic or sexist content. Then again, once we get into the takedown, mockery and insult arena, there are some gray areas that people could interpret either way. Take for example my post on Saturday that started this latest tempest. The #3 definition of the word whore from my online dictionary describes a person who has compromised principles for personal gain. At what point does my application of the term in that context cause offense? Is it the use of the term at all? Is it when I use the language that recalls fellatio rather vividly but metaphorically? I can see arguments for either, but my point is, once we get into the character attack mode, according to some notion that online communication allows for communication that is not likely to occur in direct, offline social discourse, we're going to run into grey areas and lines with this.
A discussion of what is and is not acceptable within this type of discourse is appropriate and desirable here at FDL, and to the extent that we have been dismissive of those who don't agree with our individual interpretations of what is acceptable I take responsibility for setting the tone. And while I think that attacking us (or other liberal bloggers) for a lack of "civility" is often the tack of bad faith artists with other agendas (especially on the heels of our success during this last election with Blue America and other projects and battles we've successfully undertaken), it is our responsibility to take those critiques offered in good faith seriously and be willing to engage in a reasoned conversation about them in an appropriate time and place. So please consider this the appropriate time and place and feel free to express your views (as always with respect for the posters and fellow commenters), and we'll be here to answer your questions.
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I’ll just be making myself a cup of tea. Thanks, Jane.
I am at a loss for f’ing words.
Fix me one, too, while you’re up, Christy. If you don’t mind.
Is there a problem about this?- I have always thought that the earthy language of this place is remarkable and valuable.
Okay, I’ll watch my M*F*ing mouth. But I don’t have to like the bastahd emperor do I? ;)
Actually, I’m going to do Swiss miss tonight. Now, now, I don’t meant ‘thaaaat’.
I’d like to refer people as well to this rather raucus discussion at Tom Watson’s place. Obviously I don’t agree with everything said, but I did offer many responses and the discussion did grow more substantive, generally speaking, as it progressed. Also, to the extent people have questions of me, some of them may already be answered over there. I don’t mean to redirect conversation, only to add to the reference material available to the community.
rwcole @ 5
There’s been a bit of a stink out there, rw. Jane’s opening the door to some dialog it turns into an all-out Bolshevik-style Blogrom.
rwcole @
5
Me too, rw, me too. I think the conversation is about a bit more, however — how we front pagers engage with commenters. At what point is someone a “troll?” If we jump in and start arguing with someone, are we “shouting them down” or just engaging in lively debate?
Execellently put.
I have little or no complaint with the occasionally excessive lack of decorum here in the Big Flaming Muddy. Shit-talkin’ happens.
It’s the response to people who take exception to the shit-talkin’ that gets a little worrisome. The extended screaming over at dkos over Trex’s Japan post was par for the course (including the FDL responses) and is one of the reasons I stay out of the comments there.
The blow up at Tom Watson was harder to excuse. You’re point, Jane, regarding taking honest criticism honestly applies in spades here. When people call us out for perceived mis-steps, we owe it to ourselves to consider where the criticism is coming from and the motivation for it.
Words have power. There is no doubt about that.
I semi-seriously equate the use of those extreme, emotionally-charged words with the use of firearms. You shouldn’t pull out your .380 at every sign of potential trouble, but when you DO, it had better be justified.
And following that analogy even further:
“It’s better to have a “fuck” and not need it, than to need a “fuck” and not have one.”
Oh, and I do have a permit for it. ;)
EPU’d Breaking…
Iraq Panel to Recommend Pullback of Combat Troops
WASHINGTON, Nov. 29 — The bipartisan Iraq Study Group reached a consensus on Wednesday on a final report that will call for a gradual pullback of the 15 American combat brigades now in Iraq but stop short of setting a firm timetable for their withdrawal, according to people familiar with the panel’s deliberations.
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/11…..r=homepage
Rudeness is to be avoided.
There is no one solution that will satisfy everyone. So, blog owner, please impose your own and I hope it tends to the extreme of allowing everything (except I hate ad hominem attacks). If people dont like “vulgarity” then they should read something else. But whatever you do, somebody wont like it. So dont worry and be happy!!!
Jane,
If you think I am one of the “bad faith artists with other agendas,” you are wrong. Further, what you characterize as an “attack” was criticism, plain and simple and honestly meant. It had my real name on it, and I stand by it.
My post was the third in a series on writing by progressive commentators who dipped into sexist terms, from Maureen Dowd to FDL. The posts and FDL bloggers I called out are part of a trend that I and clearly many others find troubling.
Further, when I asked TRex why he hadn’t approved my original comment, he replied on my blog:
Doesn’t seem to be an automod, but a TRexmod.
Finally, the main point of my post was that this kind of thing hurts the greater cause – which is beating this gang of thugs driving our country into historic depths of ignominy, and ensuring a real progressive agenda.
Using this kind of language helps the other side especially when we have the highest-ranking woman is U.S. history and a likely female nominee.
I’m saying it was stupid. Bad strategy. Not smart. Bad for business. So incredibly clumsy and ham-handed that it made me wonder (in purposeful hyperbole, to be sure) whether this might not be some double-reverse Rovian tactic.
Yeah, I know it’s “punk” and “Smashmouth Liberalism” but judging by the comments on my post, plenty of liberal women don’t appreciate it either. You should understand that they’re both angry and hurt.
And when people turn away, the choir gets smaller and more insular. So who are we going to convince then?
Thank you for this post and the opportunity to comment.
Cozumel @ 13
Like I said the other night. Conservative yoga. The art of bending yourself into logistic pretzels without ever actually changing anything.
In the past, I’ve engaged in debate with commenters here, and in some cases that has led people to feel I was being overbearing. Having risen here as a commenter, it’s a little disorienting to become accustomed to the extra power and deference people accord to the front pager. So, I’ve kind of stopped doing debate in the comments, because it intimidated people, and made some think that differing points of view were unwelcome.
To me, that was weird, because in my mind, engagement in debate is a sign of taking someone seriously, and hashing out ideas with them a token of respect. But not everyone experiences conflict that way, so, in response to community feedback, I backed off.
Hurting someone’s feelings is possibly a cardinal sin.
isnt having a debate what its all about?
Patrick 4/4 @ 11
I’m not sure I understand your point. If you’re saying that Watson labeling TRex and Pach as “sexists” was valid, it wasn’t. Whatever comments he had about the use of language, it’s hard to take them seriously when he starts throwing around specious claims like that. TRex and Pach are not sexists, period, and anyone who wants to start off the conversation with that assertion is going to be met with quite a bit of pushback.
Really…..
I don’t use the ‘c’ word unless the situation truly calls for it. You see, cunt stands for somthing and it is not vile, but it is true.
Can’t
Understand,
Never
Tried
This fits those who deserve it well. I will always lump (no pun intended) Ann Coulter, Michele Malkin and yes Rush Slimbaugh and Bill Orally make thelist as well.
So you see, certain words may be vile, but if you think about it, it fits!
All things more or less in moderation. I’m not being wishy-washy here; I’m all for the character assassination of those who have no character, but I don’t think words like “cunt” or “asshole” will wound any target as effectively as deviously clever and well-crafted ridicule. (My favorite quote, from a Versailles aristo: “Vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.”)
These sorts of words usually backfire on those who use them. The writer looks sophomoronic, unable to muster anything better than high school taunts.
This site is appealing exactly because the knowledge and convictions of those who post and comment are delivered with slashing wit.
Don’t censor by any means, but don’t stoop to conquer either.
Pachacutec @ 18
;) I’m rarely intimidated.
What’s good enough for Dostoievski is good enough for me. He was a tough talker.
Been sent to the land of moderation….
Please release my previous comment
Please
Well, for starters, in terms of my perspective (she says, sipping her too-hot tea), I laid out a good bit of that in this post back in August. And I think it pretty much sums up how I try and work things here at FDL. But that’s just me.
I have no clue what set off the sexist criticism but I do know that just because somebody isnt sexist doesnt mean they cant say something that somebody hears that way. On the other hand some folks need to grow a skin if they are going to engage in debates on the net
oddball at 24 — dang, I just checked the mod queue. (goes to look again…)
On the language issue again- (and I now understand that the language only a part of what is being discussed)–in the case of FDL the language is part of the message—it would be hypocritical to pretend to attack conservatives for their “magical thinking” and yet pretend that the use of anglo saxon words rather than latin to describe body parts constitutes a great offense–it would be to express belief in magical thinking.
Trust me, Tom, if I had seen your post on the night in question, I would have been more than happy to respond to it. In fact, I generally have to be pulled back by the moderators from responding with naked hostility to commenters who irritate me.
When you asked why I was afraid to display your comment on my post, I thought you were asking why I hadn’t updated it to include your complaint, hence my response.
I am terribly sorry some good people got their feelings hurt by things I have written. I try to aim my flame-thrower at people who richly deserve it, but there is some occasional collateral damage.
That said, I feel it is worth pointing out that people who get their noses out of joint about the things I say and write should be aware that things are not going to go any easier on them in other parts of the blogging world. You can’t do this job with a thin skin.
The people who are so gleefully proclaiming me a racist and a sexist should know, however, that I do not indulge in the luxury of judging people by their groups, whether that be their race, gender, orientation, religion, or political philosophy. I allow every individual to piss me off on their own merits and act accordingly.
Dammit! just spent 10 mins composing a comment and it disappeared!
Jane, maybe for this we should change the auto feature that closes comments after 12 hours? I for one would be willing to bring back the preelection timing feature since traffic is closer to normal now. Maybe there’s a good reason not to, but I thought I’d throw it out there.
For those not in the know, to manage traffic and bandwidth stuff, we set comments to close automatically after 12 hours heading into the election. We did not want the site to go dark the way it did during the CT-Sen primary, and I was blogging fresh posts until 3 AM EST election night.
What better lead to follow for “civility” than the Vice President of the United States, Dick Cheney? So with that in mind…
“Go fuck yourselves.”
Now that’s class with a capital “ASS.”
Okay — I just freed up a couple of stuck comments. If everyone will refresh, you should see them. :)
I spend my working life writing for businesses–carefully crafting, parsing, massaging, and, at times, beating strong words to a painful pulp. (Ok, maybe I’m being moderately dramatic but not really.) Anyway, the point is, I have lurked and occasionally tossed in a comment here and there for over a year because of the sharp, emotional, and grab-you-by-the-eyeballs-and-force-you-to-read writing here. From the front pagers and the commenters. God for more of this energy and use of language that actually means something! Your words have kept me sane and engaged and even hopeful in rare moments.
I overlook words that I don’t particularly like, or read them in context and either agree or not. If a discussion gives me heartburn, I go back to work or reading or the dishes or to bed. You know, you can turn off the Internet as easily as you can flip the channels on the TV remote.
What drives me insane is that too many people have a massive case of the “politically correct, I’m superior, you’ll harm my sensitive sensibilities” attitude. To them, I say bugger off. Go somewhere else if we’re insulting you.
Ok, I feel better now… :)
In reading the entries on this blog, I have frequently felt that there is a certain level of hatred at work here beyond anything justified by any wrong done by the opposition.
I have considered myself a dissenter from the mainstream for most of my life, but have never felt much kinship with haters, whether I agreed with their politics or not.
The problem with haters is that when they acquire power, they are the most extreme abusers of it, again regardless of their politics.
I guess I have a greater faith in the fair mindedness of the American people and in democracy in general. I don’t think ad hominem arguments are either necessary or useful in the project of self-governance.
I assume this preference for civility that I am expressing will draw vitriolic responses. If so, I will be as unimpressed by them as I was with the “success” Jane had in “beating” an opponent by giving her a label related to her anatomy and not her ideas.
Tom W. @ 16
We speak for ourselves only and if we are “helping the other side” in the process, they don’t seem to see it that way. Our traffic continues to soar, and while many have been quick to make the argument that we need to become more “dull” and “moderate” so we can enfranchise more people (and in the process please their particular tastes), that isn’t what we’re here for. And I think our successes speak for themselves.
Too many deja vus of late….40 years later and we are having the same conversation. When do we get to evolve?
I don’t like to be called a ‘c-word’ and I really don’t even like to hear the word applied to Coulter.
Is the ‘n-word’ still as widely used as the ‘c-word’?
Back in SF in the ’70’s, gay men and women were allies. Our common enemy was the rich, straight white male. If I was called a c-word, my gay friends were insulted as well. Why would a gay man call a woman a c-word? I know there are words that gay men don’t appreciate being called…and I wouldn’t think of using them…especially on a progressive blog.
Certain words are very powerful and create an intense feeling of anger…I believe lives have been lost over the use of such powerful words…why would firedoglake want them used? Unless, of course, women are the last ones to spit on….
Jane, I like the tone and content of your post. It is reasoned and open. It invites thoughtful dialog.
I don’t have any particularly strong opinions about word usage, but I do object when a habit of frequently demeaning others develops, regardless of the words used. The right wingers indulge in that sort of personal nastiness more than anyone on our side, as far as I know.
One exception to my indifference: when my daughter was around thirteen, I tried to discourage her from calling other girls “slut” or “whore” simply because those words seems to suggest that females are not allowed to be sexual or to enjoy sexuality. The tip-off to me is that there is no corresponding male word for those insults!
Also it seemed odd to me that she and her friends would say “don’t be a pussy” or even “don’t be such a girl,” I mean they would say that to other girls! Can you imagine anyone saying, “don’t be such a boy”? That’s a strange thing for a girl to say.
Thanks for your great site!
Here is where I am on this.
Have you ever seen a dead person? In the flesh?
I have and it made me say some very vulgar things (which were nevertheless totally inadequate in expressing what I was feeling)
So hearing those words in political debates with people who have produced thousands of dead people but dont ever want to see them is fine by me. Again totally inadequate to express the true feelings but what can you do when words fail you?
Pachacutec @ 31
That decision was made by our fabulous moderators, to whom the task of running this stuff (as volunteers) falls. If they’re okay with it, I have no problem.
[Mod Notel consider it done]
I don’t use the “c” word personally, though I’m hardly a saint on that front — nothing gets Michelle Malkin’s blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O’Beirne “sandpaper snatch.”
As far as the “c” word I think you answered your own question with that ; ) Sandpaper snatch doesn’t have the same conotation I think
BUCK FUSH!!
Seriously though. With the topics covered here some profanity is warranted. I’ve been amazed that over the last 6 years ‘I’ve been able to still be outraged with this administration on a nearly daily basis. Makes me thing I’m still sane. Yet, they up the ante daily, its amazing in a horrible way. DAILY outrages every morning almost. If you aren’t outraged to the point of using profanity by his lot I think something is wrong with you. That said, I do try to save the profanity for when I really just can’t help it.
Carlin – Words you can’t say on television
It’s not the language, per se, but the tone of the post that accomodates the language.
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others – rightfully so – for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Some of the posts under discussion strayed enough into that territory that, as I was reading them I thought, “Well, this is a bit ironic, isn’t it.”
Tom W. @
16
I think it true we don’t desire a smaller choir… but I also fear a choir without passion.
Pachacutec @ 18 & TRex@ 29 are pretty much at either end of the spectrum of posters. Personally I think TRex often gets too worked up and rather agressively patrols his posts, occassionally to the detriment of freewheeling discussion. Sorry but you’d make a hell of a sheepdog, you wield a nasty kabosh sometimes.
Yes and I prefer a more refined distillate: satire. I see satire as the most potent and maddening weapon that truly civil people have right now and this community thrills me with the outlet it affords its participants.
Thank you firedoglake for all that you are.
I saw the most recent trouble brewing when Walcott referenced a post here as “projectile vomiting” and linked to Tom Watson’s post decrying same.
My own sensibilities are on the rather crude side and I think I’m offended more by the holier than thou types of comments by those who deem themselves more refined than the general run of folks here. I remember several years back when hoi polloi was the word of the day for a month amongst the talking heads. When they said it I detected a pattern of usage that made it seem as if the word was a synonym for “those people”, to be uttered with a sniff from a finely boned nose and a flick from a dainty wrist, pinkie extended.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, just say it. Fuck ‘em if they can’t take a joke.
I think that we can, and do, police our ranks. We should leave the white glove inspections to those who give a shit, but insist that they do them at their own place, and on their own time.
I trust Ms Hampsher, and will abide by her rules in her house.
The very fact that you have opened this discussion is exemplary of the reasons I have stuck around despite being personally bothered by some of the posts and some of the hosts smackdowns.
I do think that there can be a danger of the venue becomming an echo chamber where dissenting thoughts are dismmissed as trolling.
But on the whole, over time it is fairly obvious that is not the case.
Evidence the very idea of asking for input on the subject of bounds.
What I see here is people with “Strong convictions”
(and a better than average command of the english language)
As to the choices of words – my biggest criticism of ‘obscenity’ is that it is so often used in place of a strong argument.
I do not think that is generally the case at FDL.
Certainly the used of any word does not mark the speaker as sexist or racist without context.
Jane Hamsher @ 21
My point, i think, is that the criticism, wrong or right, was honestly meant.
Previous history should be taken into account. Too often, the criticism isn’t taken issue with, the person making the criticism is.
re: Wolcott
Someone made me aware of that link via email, and I thanked her for it, saying:
martha @ 36
ooooH!
more strong language
^_-
spot on martha
I didn’t like the post about Tauscher.
Very visual imagery…that post made me click the computer off for a while.
I think some writers will season their work more than I like; or with more vivid images than I care for. I don’t want to look at “Guernica” all day long either, but God forbid if someone censored it!
There is also discussion on this matter at Shakespeare’s Sister and Feministe (top 2 posts).
First post; I’m usually a lurker here. Jane’s comments about the use of language by creative people really resonates with me. I am sick of the PC crowd, who, in the interest of not hurting feelings, de-germinate language. It’s the infantilization of discourse. I post a bit at DKos, but I am becoming increasingly exasperated by the hall monitors over there (the TRex thing being one; and BTW I lived in Japan for 18 months and used to speak pretty good Japanese and TRex’s observations were pretty spot on ).
What is appropriate language is, for me, ultimately a question of what is good writing.
A favorite quote: “In this country, vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.” Comes from a Fench aristo at the court of Versailles.
Anyway, gratuitous name-calling just makes a commentator or poster look sophomoric, as if he or she couldn’t marshall a real argument to bring down his or her target.
I’m all for character assassination when there is no evidence of character, but it should be done with deadly wit and solid facts, not cheap vulgarities.
I’ve always thought that finely honed snark was the hallmark of FDL. Love it.
The Canadian said:
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others – rightfully so – for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Exactly. And there was Taylor Marsh’s excellent post of the anti-Pelosi sexism. And then all of it ruined by criticizing our political enemies in sexist terms.
And Jane, c’mon down off the riser and outta the splotlight for a second and hang on the floor with the rest of us, will you? It’s great your traffic is growing and you’re finding success. But don’t pretend that this kind of language doesn’t injure, because it does. And it reflects on some otherwise excellent work – yours, Christy’s and Pach’s otherwise incisive post. And it’ll come back to haunt us at some very bad time.
I watched La Dolce Vita last night and I’m unable to think about anything else really. It’s that last scene where the little girl is looking directly at me. I think it’s about hope.
Does this mean that I can once again refer to Coulter as the cunt she truly is…without being attacked and derided as being sexist?
Larry
What has driven me crazy from a bigger picture perspective is something that Jane, Christy, Pach and TRex and others have written about for years. The rethugs played offense and most of the wimpy DINOs played appeaser and defense.
Well, language is a tool as well as a particularly useful weapon, if used to one’s advantage. And, as with many weapons, sometimes it is mishandled. So be it. But use it for heaven’s sake.
Larry @ 61
AND WE HAVE A WINNER!!
Larry wins the race to the bottom!
from a lurker @ 48
I’m going to take that as a compliment, although you should know I almost never pull a comment out of the thread and into moderation. That is entirely the work of our moderation team. I’m all for smacking them down in plain sight.
My personal sense is that this is one of the better behaved and most respectful weblogs out there. There’s simply no comparison between this (and just about any blue-of-center blog I can think of) relative to something like Freeperville or even the Wall Street Journal’s weblog (which, ironically, has recently turned into a .. how many obscenities can lay on the president in a single sentence free-for-all).
I did find it odd when Egregious jumped all over me earlier today when I mentioned that Russia could also become a potential “enemy” around which Bush may try to rally support at some point in the near future, since they’re now suspected of terroristic naughtiness AND just agreed to supply a lot of military equipment to Iran, but I suppose everybody has their sensitive points.
Ms. Hamsher—you are one of the most impressive, and equally infuriating, people it has ever been my pleasure to know…and that goes for some of the rest of you as well…and yes…you know who you are.
Jane Hamsher @
10
This discussion is a great example of the value of checks and balances. Now if we could only get that back in our Federal Government…
I don’t use much profanity in the comments I leave here at FDL, but I have a subconscious appreciation of the fact that there aren’t any strict parameters that would prevent such usage if I was so inclined.
Hi pups!
Jane, I love this:
I’m glad you’re raising this topic and the lake is talking about it – and I appreciate your and Pach’s observations (10/18) and sensitivity to power dynamics.
This issue has at least three facets I stumble over:
(1) words/lexicon:
“cunt”, the “n-word” and other sets of letters wth great emotional power.
(2) tone:
“Jane you ignorant slut” vs “My learned co-discussant” – and the innumerable gradations between.
(3) conceptual:
“Cheney whores for Halliburton” vs “Cheney blew up the WTC and sent out the twins to place the thermite.”
For me, the Lake is a sort of e-coffee house where progressive people who GET IT DONE come together – and you and Christy get to decide if someone needs to be cut off for the thread or the day. Or 86′d.
Your (collective) determinations on these three axes (and others) seems to work!
Dinner’s ready. To be brief – we commenters also set the tone, to some extent.
Two nights ago I was a fool and misconstrued a perfectly well-written comment here.
I wrote a very nasty response. Your thread isn’t about me(I hope) – but I’m owning this to be honest.
I’m also pointnig it out because my stupid attack will turn off “lurkers” from joining us – and that is a very great loss.
[pt 1 - I keep losing text on wordpress tonight…]
RBG at 66 — oh sure, I don’t get to be infuriating. *sniffle*
Pachacutec @
18
very cool
very thoughtful.
it is why I read what you say.
write on.
In traveling the web’s many forums, I prefer to talk issues. What is wrong with America, and what should be done to fix it? Quite commonly, there is a pattern of degradation. The conversation moves from talking about issues to talking about politicians involved in said issues, to flaming at politicians to flaming at the other posters. As one who sees things wrong with our country, and would like to see them fixed, watching conversations degrade into strawman and ad-hominem as bloggers find excuses to misrepresent other’s bloggers opinions and launch personal attacks is disappointing.
When bloggers are more about character assassination and insults than issues, I’m gone. Next article. Next blog. When a blogger is attacking a deliberately skewed parody of a rival bloggers or opposition politician’s position, same thing. Next article. Next blog.
I am bothered when writers can’t find a better way to express their opinions than resorting to foul language. To me, this is a sign of lazy writing, of a writer who does not want to bother speaking clearly. It is also a good way of turning off many a reader who doesn’t share one’s values. In political blogs, the left talks too much to the left and the right to the right in part because lazy or angry writers are not articulating ideas in a way someone with different values will be ready to hear.
I’m also a bit upset at the high and mighty conservative writers who love to show off their vocabulary. There seems to be a notion that the more a writer can use obscure vocabulary, the smarter that writer must be. This is the opposite of the gutter side blogs that roll in the mud whenever they can, but both styles turn off the open minded people looking for ideas and ideals.
Maybe this is just personal taste, but I’d like to see y’all saying what should be done and less time trading dirty words and insults. Every four score and seven years or so there is a need for a new birth of freedom. There is a real need to reinvent America. There is more to it than an obsession with insults and character assassination.
Who can forget
“Shut your fractious pie hole.”
or Trex’s wild desire to post a black-face Malkin?
Plenty of reasonable criticism has just been disappeared here.
Your “we are never wrong, we are victims” attitude is disturbing at best.
Tom W. @ 16
In what ways, precisely? Your statements are every bit as vague as those made by finger-wagging Bush cabinet members who warn us not to say things that “help the terrorists.”
I expect that a claim of injury will be more specific than this before I take it seriously. You need to offer something a lot more concrete than “This word hurts the cause.”
I think there’s two issues here: the words used and then what happens when people react to those words.
Personally, I’d hunt you all down and throw eggs at your cars if you stopped writing the way you do. For whatever reason, you all found each other and this place has a distinct voice–the writing is great as is.
But the comment threads at the site rarely rise up to the level of the posts. The threads seem more like strings of shout outs than discussions. I don’t know why this happens, but I suspect it’s just the software. This is a blog with huge traffic, but it still uses comment software made for blogs with small traffic.
But it is possible–and I raise this in good faith–it is possible that there is a dynamic on the site that is limiting dicussion. Strong FDL writing that if posted on DKos would generate huge discussions–tend to lead to a bunch of disconncetd comments, complements to the writers, and a few personal jibes from people who don’t like the site (but come here anyway–which I really don’t understand), and that’s pretty much it. I love to participate in comment threads when I find good writing on progressive blogs, so I feel frustrated by this dynamic at FDL.
But beyond my frustration, I think the comment dynamic can also turn frustration into anger in an unproductive way–in a way that distracts from the ideas in the post.
The “c**” issue raised here was one of those moments. You all have really good descriptions of why that kind of language is not just appropriate here, but valuable to the progressive movement. But when the topic was brought up in that thread in question, for some reason the good description never made it out–until this new post. Learning about that comment filter now brings it all into perspective.
So, I appreciate the invitation to feedback very much. If I had a Chanukkah wish list–it would the addition of diaries on FDL to allow for discussion to flourish on the site.
This can be self-fulfilling, no? By lighting up the blogosphere over this at your place, alerting the folks at Feministing, Shakespeare’s Sister and elsewhere, I can’t think of a better way to wave a big flag over something that could have rather passed with less heat and more light in discussion, all for the wingers to pay attention.
When we attack people like Schumer or Tauscher, it is for throwing progressives – Democrats – under the bus. And yet there’s a group in the lefty blogosphere that seems to find some of it’s raison d’etre in monitoring sites like this one for perceived offenses. Were your sites to be attacked by wingers, we’d stick up for you, because we’re progressive fighters. But it gets to feel like the knives are already out for us, and by some of the comments at your place, Tom, some people don’t even try to deny it.
If the concern is with handling right wing attacks, as they most assuredly will come (when they’re not busy now eating each other), then the solution is solidarity, not preemptive family feuds.
I’ve written six responses to this statement, all of which have made generous use of four-letter words. I may have to bail out of this discussion for now before I start banging heads.
Tom W. @
16
Tom I’ve spent a lot of time the last three days in the comments on your post criticizing Pach and TRex. In that time you have never responded to the fact that by calling someone “insane” you are deploying in the exact sort of language that you are criticizing.
Your “honestly meant” criticism lead with a baseball bat to the face. You called Pach “stupid”, “insane”, and suggested he’s a plant for Karl Rove. You do a disservice to your argument by opening with ad hominem and then complaining when the people that you attacked (but had not attacked you) respond in your comment thread with the same air of venom that you brought to your post. I’m not defending anyone’s diction here, but you got what you gave.
You have also repeatedly referenced that you use your real name on your blog posts. I haven’t seen Pach and TRex stoop so low as to respond and while I don’t speak for them, I do believe you’re coming across like a cranky blogger on this one. What, exactly, is your point? TRex has revealed his identity multiple times on this site, so I’m not sure what bearing that has on him. And Pachacutec is entitled to his privacy, as is Digby, Billmon, Retardo Montalban, zuzu, piny, and a slew of other phenomenal anonymous bloggers. Really. What is your point?
I would add that the debate in Tom’s thread has been a good one and I recommend people check out the whole three day discussion here.
I think foul language is a lot less of a problem than attacking or just being mean. Plenty of total A-holes never cuss and plenty of righteous individuals do. (Like Lenny Bruce and HST did). Never hear Donald Rumsfield cuss (Henny Penny!) but he is the most one of the most offensive S.O.B.’s to ever make evolve to a biped.
The spirit of the post is what can something offensive (to me anyway) not nessaciarly the actual language.
Larry @ 61
You see, I just don’t know if that’s OK here. I feel that if someone deserves the moniker, it’s Ms. Coulter. But knowing the FDL community (where it became a matter of heated discussion not too long ago when a woman’s legs were displayed in a very innocuous post), I don’t think that it’s necessarily permissable to use the word in that context.
I like the British use of the word…it’s almost always used to refer to a guy, and it’s about the equivalant to calling someone a “bastard”.
It’s sort of the “nigger-nigga’” debate (and with that line, I’m kind of wondering if I’ll set off the auto-moderation software).
Speaking from personal experience, my hearing-impared wife always seems to hear me if I whisper the word from three rooms away…I don’t know how they DO that!
RBG @ 66
a fine compliment to a truly remarkable woman.
Larry
I’m not looking for perfection here, nor do I expect it (or anywhere else for that matter).
Sometimes (very rarely) fur flies here and a choice word or two is used that offends some.
I can’t say that my sensibilities haven’t ever been…ahmmmm…stretched once or twice, but 99.9999 % of the time, the discourse here is far more civilized and moderate than 5 minutes on any grade-school playground today or 25 years ago (no, we haven’t evolved much to our chagrin *g*).
That said, there is NO single other place I’d rather hang around than FDL!
There are many outstanding blogsters writing in lots of other places, but there ain’t one other place that I’ve come to feel as Home.
And Home is where they have to take you in
when you have nowhere else to go.even if they don’t like you. even if they don’t agree with you.Tom W 69 — you called TRex and Pach sexists. They’re not. There is no ‘riser’ and there is no ‘us.’
Bringing across what I’ve said at Tom Watson’s place:
I think the feedback loop at FDL has become harder to manage as the site has gathered momentum. (The shift to WordPress may have also contributed.) Diarists at DKos can raise ‘meta’ issues; MetaFilter devotes the MetaTalk section of the site to housekeeping; Haloscan-based comments have a tendency to be more amenable to topic-drift and meta-discussion. This post is a great first step — thank you, Jane — but it shouldn’t be the only step. FDL ought to have somewhere where it’s always an appropriate time to bring these things up.
I don’t like the direction of Late Nite, but that’s your choice. But you ought to consider that Late Nite posts stay at the top of the pile for hours at a time. (Last night’s was up top for 11 hours.) As such, they’re often the first thing that people on the east coast see in the morning, and the last thing that people on the west coast see in the evening.
In short, Late Nite weighs upon FDL’s tone — and on casual visitors’ perceptions of FDL — in a way that the cascade of posts during office hours do not.
If you think that Late Nite is what makes FDL successful, then feel free to go with that hunch. I disagree, but it ain’t my blog. But recognise that in recent months you’ve alienated plenty of people who defended you over the blackface fracas, and to rumble about jealousy or establishment conspiracies just accentuates any ‘with us or against us’ sentiment.
Mistake genuine concern for concern trolling, and you’ll fulfil your own prophecy and end up with a bunch of people who’ll look on with indifference if the tremendous momentum you’ve built takes you over a cliff.
I’m not averse to edgy humour. You quoted me way back when, noting that editorialising wasn’t Lil’ Debbie’s fucking job. I still laugh myself stupid at Derek and Clive out-c*nting one another. I made a pilgrimage to Bill Hicks’ grave a couple of years ago, and curse the cancer that kept him from being around to rip into Bush Minor. Lenny Bruce’s ‘Are There Any N*ggers Here Tonight?’ is revolutionary to my ears. But Late Nite these days sounds much more like Michael Richards.
Jeffrey–I’ve noticed an increase in the quantity and quality of serious discussion and argument here- a very positive thing in my opinion.
Hear hear! Hear Fucking Hear! Nothing written here has been as obscene as what Tom Friedman wrote just today, that we need to “eliminate” the local militias and “start again” (I paraphrase). So these people need to be killed for the crime of not wanting the BushRumsfeld designed occupation of their country, and if a few more innocent Iraqis, including children, are killed while we eliminate the miliitias, if a few hundred more American children are killed along with ‘em (and a couple of thousand maimed pyshically or psychologically along the way), well that’s the price of doin’ business in Tom Friedman’s Flat World, where we had to go into Iraq to make a show of strength after 9/11. It’s a little less crude, glib and narcissistic than Cohen’s “therapeutic violence”, but it’s every bit as disgusting.
So if I say that Tom Friedman is a fucking wanker, it’s not that I’m crude, it’s just that English language runs up against its limits in trying to describe the sheer moral bankruptcy and intellectual obtuseness of people like him who, somehow, actually manage to get out of bed and look at themselves in the mirror every morning, their inability to grasp the consequences of their typing serving as a sixteen foot concrete wall that protects their destructive arrogance.
Fuck them, fuck them all. I’d say damn them, but I’m too much of an agnostic to find comfort in some notion of justice in a next world.
Jeffrey Feldman @ 76
Seconded!
this is so interesting and intricate–goddammit–that you made me turn off the daily show rerun.
thanks and keep it up.
Christy Hardin Smith @
2
I sure picked a good night to pour a cup of coffee with Bourbon and Baileys in it. (Damn head colds… I wish I could have brought Hawaii’s weather with me to CA) Just settled in to read the post and now I’m off to read the rest of the comments.
when the wingers are reduced to complaining about the vulgarity of all things it is pretty clear they have nothing of substance to argue with. i am happy to ignore that kind of carping because it really doesnt matter to anything. by now, havent we all figured out that no matter what we say or do they will find SOMETHING to complain about? 31% of the people STILL LIKE BUSH!! They arent listening or cant understand the arguments and if all they do is complain about four letter words it is time for me to leave my computer and go have sex or something else useful.
I use the c-word quite frequently. It is actually for me and my partner the new “bitch”. I adore irreverancy.
This isn’t church.
As for being on echochamber, thank goodness. If it wasn’t, you’d get this.
I no longer post or visit that real estate site because of it. I can’t believe the things they accused me of.
Context is everything. I mean everything when it comes to writing and reading.
If you call someone a bitch, with no context, or in the context of simply disagreeing with her, I think that’s over the line. A clueless man trying to hit on a woman and calling her a cunt when she tells him to put it where the sun don’t shine is awful. However, calling Ann Coulter or Michelle Malkin a cunt or bitch in the context of explaining why (and there are plenty of examples of the “whys”) can be not only appropriate, but the spot-on way to express how you feel about these…well…bitches.
The sad fact is, on the left, we do have some delicate flowers who seem to eagerly search out reasons to be offended. And Jane, you cannot make these people happy, no matter what you do…they’ll find something that offends them.
What I’m trying to say is that in the context of a site with a “voice” such as this one, and part of that voice is edgy snark, a reader should expect to see stuff that everyone doesn’t like.
As for me….keep it up :) FDL is one of my daily reads. And I don’t want that voice to change because a few people took offense.
rwcole @ 85
I’ve noticed it, too. But it’s still not what it could be–and I think the real power of a progressive blog is the way it fosters participation. So I see the comment threads as a starting point–and hope there will be much better FDL software and comment discussions up the road, so to speak.
…and just for the record:
Jane, I love the way you take no prisoners. Rhetorically.
Jeebus, you people all need to lighten the fuck up.
is piggington site real? kristineboy?
or did you make it up?
Clearly references to specific organs are out of bounds. You can talk about the monkey but only in the third person. Didn’t you Sons of Bitches get the style book?
I hesitate to offer this, but given the tone of Jane’s post, perhaps some might be interested.
I found this site a while back. Not ultra-early on, but well before it moved from blogger. First blog I regularly read. I eventually engaged actively in the comments, under another name.
I went kind of inactive for a while. Largely due to a mental health crisis one of my children had. Thought I still enjoyed reading Jane and Christy’s posts, I just wasn’t feeling verbose for the longest time. I also began sampling other sites even though my time was limited. I also spent what little time extra I had working for someone in the governor’s race in my state.
When I came back to read regularly, readership was up. Still liked the writing and perspective, but things changed. I appreciate snark and am hardly a wallflower myself, but there was a mean spiritdness I picked up on. I hope this can be taken constructively – I will not single out the particular main pager, but one of them, whose work and perspective and life experience I respect, can really be nasty when attacking someone for being fat, among other things. You know there is plenty to take someone like KLo on for without resorting to that. But I have noticed this repeatedly in this persons writing, so it wasn’t just a one off. There are other examples, but I don’t think I need to belabor the point. I’ll just say that I have winced on a number of occasions.
Another thing to note. I have probably posted 5-10 times under my new handle. Not a single time did anyone engage with me in the comments. Please don’t think that bothers me, I am far too thick skinned for that. I just mention it for your consideration. Earlier on it seemed a lot more open that that. Maybe it was because I was considered a “regular” back then – there may have been some then that feel the way I do now. But it does seem that regulars banter back and forth with each other.
Please don’t feel the need to respond or defend. I’ll still stop by to read some of the main page posts, which are good. And its Jane’s site, so the tone can be whatever she likes. but if the attitude is that I can just bugger off if I am offended that people are attacked because of their appearance or what they wear, then maybe I should take the advice of a previous comment and bugger off completely.
I just thought that maybe some of you might be interested in this perspective, coming from someone previously familiar with the site.
To Jane and Christy – if you like you could e-mail me and I will tell you what my handle used to be, just so you know I am not full of shit. I recall that a comment or two I made way back was even moved to the front page.
My internet went out so I’m on Treo now. Add my name to Matt Browner-Hamlin’s comme t above and I’m good.
Many psychologist theorists have come up with various paradigms for addressing mistakes. Pach is the psych major — check it out. Hint: It involves recognizing when a mistake is made.
global yokel @ 69
I agree. Also it is not just about words, but parallel/complimentary worlds of critique across the genders.
Jane – your slap down of Dowd (who has pissed me off for years on her crapping on women) was just purrfect!
jane hamsher @ 99
Que? Are you suggesting you’ll egg your own car if you stop blogging as you have in the past?
Save yourself the trouble Jane…
RGB — thank you for that high compliment. Your patience with my more infuriating qualities is both impressive and appreciated.
Hmm. I used to spend a lot of time on a forum which shall not be named, and then one day, I wrote, “John Yoo is a sniveling little cocksucker.”
That was censored as being unnecessarily rude to all fellaters. The intent of it was to be rude to John Yoo. Deciding not to be censored, I simply stopped spending time there (and stopped supporting them financially).
But, the tendency to interpret language too finely in order not to offend anyone is a form of self-censorship. We, and others, are forever complaining about that failing in the press, so to expect that same inclination here is a bit, well, difficult to parse.
What few wish to admit is that political correctness, like anything else, can be taken to absurd extremes. Call some politician or public figure a “weasel” and the people with weasels as pets are up in arms. Everyone knows what calling a sleazy prick a weasel means, but, it’s guaranteed to make a weasel-lover somewhere flinch–even though the person intended to flinch was the sleazy prick.
As for sexism and language, sure–but that can exist without saying a single “dirty” word. There are some incredibly foul, disgusting women in the world for whom the “c” word appelation would be complimentary in relation to what they actually are, but there are some who feel that denigrates all women. Actually, it doesn’t–it denigrates the subject. That’s a crucial distinction, I think. To say, “all women are c**ts” is sexist in its inclusivity. Saying that Michelle Malkin is a flaming c**t might well be accurate in its specificity and its vituperativeness. Sometimes that’s an essential part of ridiculing those who deserve ridicule.
No one gets upset (well, except those with Hitler’s tears tattooed under their eyes) by villifying Hitler in ever-more creative ways, but would one tend to be more reserved in one’s language, these days, if Hitler had been a woman? I would hope not.
Cheers.
Jane – your slap down of Dowd (who has pissed me off for years on her crapping on women) was just purrfect!
Still another point: Why is it okay, virtually obligatory, to comment on Hillary’s wardrobe and thighs, and Barbara Boxer and Nancy Pelosi’s alledged Botox, but pointing out Kate O’Beirne’s resemblence to a Budweiser drafthorse is out of bounds? Down may have started this trend, but she’s hardly the only one.
Candy-asses who can’t take a bit of a rough and tumble environment can go to their fucking clogging club or whatever.
This fightr, in which we recently went to the locker room with a three-point lead, is hardly over.
I think Jim Webb set the tone we all need to take with repukes in every venue, every time. NO QUARTER GIVEN, NO EXCUSES ACCEPTED.
The only way to make the repukes irrelevant is to DESTROY them. Since we can’t start shooting, we need to take every chance to smack them down,. hold them responsible, make them uncomfortable, humiliate them, deride them, ridicule them and make fools of them.
If anybody doesn’t have the stomach for that, I suggest they take their place in the stands and let the people who can get in there and HIT (there i go with the football metaphors again) get in there and do the job.
There is no room for civility until we have a veto-proof majority and the white house.
THEN we can see about a civil discourse. Not before.
Okay, I’m back. Went outside and smoked a cigarette.
I have this to say:
We live in a democracy where our freedom is speech is enshrined in the constitution which binds us together as a people.
You absolutely positively do not have to agree with everything I say, but when if comes to my right to say it, BACK THE FUCK OFF.
I don’t know how I can put it more clearly than that.
montag @ 104
No – you were unnecessarily rude to snivellers.
Patrick 4/4 @ 109
I think the little people should file a class-action defamation suit.
Cigarette
Mmm that sounds good.
One further thought: TRex has talked about ‘collateral damage’. Well, the invective of Late Nite leaves a blast crater that carries over into the comments threads.
The satirist traditionally wields a scalpel, not a bludgeon, and is all the more effective because of it. No-one reads the Coulters of the 1740s; people only know they existed through Alexander Pope’s responses to them. Or as that man’s friend once wrote:
Jane @84: as I said to Christy chez Tom, you have the benefit of knowing Pach and TRex personally. We, on the other hand, can only judge them by what they write.
Guitar bastard…
I can’t agree more about Webb. They guy has earned the right to tello Bush in the WH that he is full of shit and he did it with grace. He didnt confront Bush. That freak came to him.
Nobless oblige? NO MORE!
The French in 1789 had it right with their sharp new toy for dealing with the aristocracy.
steve kyle @ 41
Excellent comment. Pretty much says it all in a nutshell.
In society, civility serves the critical function of keeping things running smoothly according to the status quo. This is well and good in its place.
Now think about firedoglake.
What does it exist to accomplish?
In a nutshell, you might say that it exists to challenge the status quo, bring about change, and improve society by stepping “out of bounds” of normal discourse in order to achieve a new vantage point from which to view and evaluate the way things currently stand in our country and our world. To do so, we absolutely must confront reality, dead bodies and all.
It seems to me that the important work of FDL can only be accomplished if we deliberately avoid getting caught up in matters of “civility”. From time to time, fine, but too much hand-wringing brings us right smack dab into Althouse’s realm.
Civility and decency are two extremely different concepts. Once might say that civility is one of the greatest impediments to decency.
I have every confidence that FDL will continue to focus on being decent, which necessarily often comes at the cost of being uncivil.
I second Crick’s sentiments.
Frankly, I’m all for ridicule as long as it’s backed up by examples.
I think that is what defines the Left blogosphere vs. the right wing hate-ards – we back up the ’stuff’ with facts/links, they just rely on unsourced innuendo and ‘group-think’.
It doesn’t matter what we do or say, we will be characterized as dirty fucking hippies. We could sit around sipping tea with our pinkies in the air and dabbing daintily at the corners of our mouths with fine linen serviettes, and we would still be DFH.
Pach’s “whore post” acts as a marker that gives depth to the range of voices used by us DFH. And it was funny.
It was also true. There is perhaps nothing that has so fucked our political system than the rampant influence peddling (bribery, to call it by its real name) that runs our government. To take one of the more egregious and shameless practicioners and call her out the way Pach did was certainly uncivil. But incivility is an appropriate response to such indecent behavior. Given the choice between incivility and indecency, and I’ll take incivility every time.
I quit in 1984, at age 30. It was my birthday gift to myself.
I love my fdl home…. without the edge, I might as well just watch tv.
rwcole @ 111
Yeah. Too good. Just had to have one myself.
TRex @ 107
I doubt if many here would quarrel with your right to say anything. The issue, I think, is the wisdom of saying it.
I generally find myself to be beyond offending, but people of good will may differ.
I don’t have a car. There is only Kobe’s car, I am just the chauffer.
montag @ 104
The comment about John Yoo does nothing to refute his ideas. And it is ideas which need refuting. Speculating about what is coming out of his nostrels or going into his mouth only indicates an unwillingness to analyze why he’s wrong and explain it.
I’m not hearing as much from our regulars that they felt stifled in their ability to express themselves here, but I am hearing some people who say they are former readers say that. Some of them also say our regular commenters are mindless sheep. Now, I’m not trying to start a pie fight, but are the commenters here mindless sheep, or do they just have another oint of view from those who are lodging complaints?
You may think I’m being provocative, making a point, but really, I’d like to get a sense of what people think, purely form a site and culture point of view.
okay, first off I haven’t read any of the previous comments…
My take on “civil discouse” is this…. in almost all cases demands for civil discourse are bullshit.
“Civil discouse” is generally something demanded by those in power of those who have little or no power — and its a means by which those with power allow themselves to ignore legitimate objections to the use/abuse of power.
I refuse to engage in “civil discourse” with those in power — if anything, I’ll be as provocative as possible in my language. I’ve called the Executive Vice President of an Ivy League University a “scumbag” in public — and with good reason. Everyone knew this guy was a scumbag — and everyone condemned me for saying it. But what it accomplished was that people became far more willing to agressively challenge this scumbag, because next to me their challenges looked civil.
The message here is this….when you see bullshit, say “Bullshit” as loud as you can. If you see someone acting like a cunt, call him or her a “Cunt” as loud as you can. Because everyone really knows its bullshit, and everyone really knows the person is a cunt — and unless you care more about your own personal ambitions than the truth, speaking the unvanished, obscene truth is the most effective way to make that truth part of the public consciousness.
jane hamsher @ 84
Who gets to decide this?
You?
Is my brother a sexist? I would like to know.
The thing about writing is that the author does not own it once published.
Is Ted Hughs a sexist? I remember TRex going medieval on a woman writer calling her all sorts of names. So, OK for your people, but bad about them?
Bully trait — can dish it out, can’t take it.
Pachacutec @
18
I am so sorry. It’s all of our loss when this happens. I don’t want to agree with everyone and learn far more by reading along with passionate debates of differing opinions and choice of words expressing them. Including what I don’t like.
For a long time now I have admired Janes point of view on this subject. Now I wont try to sum it up, just continue to savor most of it as long as it lasts. I will never take it for granted.
Christy, Jane, TRex, Pachacutec and so many commenters here enrich my life most every day. Say what you want, Please! I am so tired of the err on the side of polite no kerfuffle approach to dialogue on topics that are at times so terribly gruesome and important.
I trust each and every one of the post writers or mods to do what they think is appropriate at the time. The willingness to have this conversation and revisit as needed only confirms that trust.
As a former moderator (don’t have time to do it now), I can offer some perspective.
There seems to be a minor meme from posters at the Watson blog laying blame at the feet of “the moderators”. I started moderating back when FDL was Jane and Christy. Most of my many many hours were spent clearing out polish spam from the threads, and def. not trying to stifle dissent. If there was a questionable comment, or one that I didn’t understand, I put it into moderation, so that others could look at it and weigh in.
I always viewed my job as a moderator not as proactive, but reactive, in the sense that my main goal was to try to understand and execute the choices that Jane or Christy would made, but at times that they were not available to moderate comments themselves. I did this for many months, with considerable dedication, because I believed in the two strong female voices given by J and C. I have never deleted a post because I found it personally antithetical to my viewpoint- I favor letting the discussion roll, barring obvious, like really really obvious, troll inputs.
So, if anyone wants to get into moderator bashing, please distinguish between the moderators (small m) who clean out the spam and release comments from moderation, which happened to end up there for reasons totally unrelated to content (like too many links, too many paragraphs, etc) and front-pagers, who can also “moderate” comments, or delete them at will.
Pach, I have no problem with changing the time window of closing posts back to 24 hours. The closing of posts after a certain time frame was based on the moderators (small m) observation that after a certain point, the only comments that appeared in older threads were SPAM, pure and simple. Not trolls, not dissenters, just plain spam. At one point, the closing window was 3 days. Same deal- added comments just spam.
Alas, Pach, despite what outsiders might think, and perhaps you yourself might think, moderators (small m) get virtually zero feedback as to the details of things like time for closing posts, problems with WordPress, and the like. We (myself anyway), unlike you, don’t chat on the phone on a regular basis with front pagers. Pretty much left out of the loop, and have to make it up as we go along. At best, I would interpret this as a sign of trust, at worst I would interpret this as a certain class distinction between the CEOs and the people who take out the trash (moderators, small m). Moderators (small m) do the work that they do at FDL to support the efforts of the front- pagers. We don’t impose the “rules”- like “the 12 hour rule” out of some entitlement as moderators- we do stuff like that to try to keep things running smoothly- in that case, on election eve. We moderate (small m) to serve, and a greater awareness of how hard we work, and what we actually do, coupled with more communication would be much appreciated.
Julie @ 120
Thirteen years and two weeks later, i could start again right now.
njr @
47
Amen!
Does a vicarious cig count? I gave it up 35 years ago. Still miss it. I think I’ll join you all in a vicarious one though. (Don’t tell).
Not exactly OT: here’s what happens when you get oversensitive about parsing language use.
Well, let me give you one word of advice, John. Don’t. You’ve been right in there with the instigators in not letting this go, and every time you whine about it you give them ammunition. If this is how you handle criticism of your “botched joke,” you aren’t yet ready to takw on the Swift Boat Veterans.
If an apology is warranted, make it–once–and make it count. If a counterattack is appropriate, make it–once–and make it count. And then move on. But don’t stand around in the ring trading jabs unless you plan to follow up with a knockout punch and end the damned fight.
It’s funny how the n-word has become taboo, yet the c-word is still here….and we are right now having a discussion on why it is man’s god-given right to use it to refer to women who don’t agree with them.
It does seem like the language on FDL has been on a downward trajectory. To me, the problem with out of control ranting or the use of major strings of profanity is that it’s not effective. It might get a like-minded crowd worked up, or be fun for a subgroup or a clique, but it chases off a newcomer and it gives a skeptic a reason to be discounting.
Blogs keep people informed, but they can also change peoples minds. Flaming rants do neither…
Jane Hamsher @ 38
I don’t believe this is the whole story, Jane. I hear the “we are artists” claim, and I respect that. Say and write what you want, and how you want. If that is all there is, then you are right.
But you and Christy did something else this year. You purposely and enthusiastically enlisted dozens/hundreds of us in a “cause.” And part of the cause was to convince hundreds/thousands of others to act/vote in a certain way. You used this blog to start/lead/feed/encourage/grow a political movement (and thank the goddesses you did!) and I don’t think you’d suggest that this was not part of this blog, because it was. There was a lot more than artistry going on here. You brought in Pach to focus on that other part.
I could be mistaken, but I think Tom is asking you to consider the implications of that calling us to the cause for how we conduct political discourse, as well as how we conduct personal discourse within the group, so that the group can stay together, work together, debate and teach each other, but still care enough about each other to remain a cohesive movement.
As Bob CT says, language matters. Tone matters. And if you want to lead a movement that is not bounded by those of us who show up here, every day, then you have to acknowledge that different words and different tones appeal to or repel different types of people. Who is your audience?
Well, last year, you/we wanted to expand our audience. You added SPOTLIGHT. At your urging, your movement e-mailed your posts and Christy’s posts, etc tens of thousands of times, to all kinds of media folks in all parts of the country. And many of those posts were meant to be sent to reporters and editors in Kansas, and Tennessee and … well you get the point. You made a “deal” with me because you fully understood this point. And you apologized, not as an artist but as the leader of a political movement, for a perfectly legitimate “artistic” work, which I and others defended, not because you thought it was wrong or outside the artistic bounds but precisely because you understood the need to empathize with the sensitivies of those you wanted to reach.
Be an artist, be an advocate — you have my respect either way. But I think we have to acknowledge they aren’t the same and they may require different langauge to be successful.
4:20
TRex @ 106
No worries, have another smoke (theropods smoke?).
But here’s a philosofistical question , and a serious one because I think its answer can only lend creedence to this venue. Where does the, “Can’t yell fire in a movie theater,” line exist on the blogosphere. Is it classic rules of libel; or there is something more intricate at work here? (oh, oh, please, please be more intricate, please…?)
Richmond @ 131
Good for you!
Just chug a cup of coffee (or down a Vivarin) and pretend it’s a nicotine rush. ;-)
EvilDrPuma @
132
This is what I believe Jim Webb will give others the stones to do.
eh…stupid fuckin blockquotes anyway. Sorry about the hatchet-job @ 67
p.lukasiak @ 125
Thank you, Jesus, for Mr. Lukasiak.
Will you marry me?
re: Valley Girl…
Christy, Jane, Pach, TRex….you NEED to give the moderators a bigass thread giving them the props they deserve. They are “invisible” to most of us, yet their contribution is invaluable.
Fuck em
Your snark is great.
Pachacutec @ 123
I think there is probably some reticence from people who might take issue with a post or a point. This is unsurprising behavior in any group. It is inherently difficult to oppose the prevailing wind.
The perceived cheerleading from commenters is more a function of people very grateful to have a place where they can read what they’ve been thinking themselves and to talk with like-minded people – no matter how harsh. Or silly. Or serious.
Baa.
Pachacutec @ 77
Ever been in the back of a bus (or the passenger seat of a car) and you get the gut feeling that the driver is going too fast, or taking too many risks? Sure, it’s exhilarating to be blasting along with the windows down, but then the feeling hits you that you might just end up in a mangled wreck.
It might just be an irrational feeling, but the last thing you want from the driver is to laugh and hit the gas some more.
Patrick 4/4 @ 109
{laughing] But, that’s not what the moderators and site owners told me. :)
p.lukasiak @ 123
Ahhh, I smell the very nexus of a philosophical postulate! Tell me more!
jane hamsher @ 100
A Treo, eh? How’s that working out for ya?
Much as I like FDL, Haloscan comments are much more Treo-friendly – less overhead of stuff to load.
the chronicler @ 126
Oh, I can more than take it, I assure you. If I had my way, this would be a fucking brawl. Don’t mistake the cautious actions of my cohorts as an endorsement of soft tactics on my part.
Tom W. has an interesting point about audience. As the site matures, there is the question for its authors of whether it wants to have one personna for the regulars but some other personna that can be projected to the outside. Before spotlight, that wasnt an issue. but now it is.
I think that the way the blog is ordered around posts solves the duality.
This post is obviously not one for spotlighting to David Broder/Adam Nagourney-land; this is just us talking.
Just like there is dinner table conversation for the family and the conversation you carry outside.
slade @ 133
I view that C-word as something of a swear word – I have no compunction using that word, regardlesss of gender, to describe its subject.
I’m kinda disappointed Tom left and the other bloggers who wrote in support of his critique have not stopped by.
ceci at 115 — I don’t know if you meant it this way, but that was awfully sweet. And crick (or whomever you used to post as at some point), glad you are back. With everything we have been juggling through the election, a lot of the little things got lost in the shuffle. And welcoming folks, unfortunately, appears to be one of those things — which I will certainly try to remedy, for my part. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. :)
p.lukasiak @ 142
Amen to that! I was a moderator on a forum…and it was a forum dedicated to Photoshop software. I spent a LOT of time deleting posts that were offensive and trollish…that is, posts that had nothing to do with the forum topics, but were written only to offend. I can well imagine what moderating a political site like this one would entail!
Let’s hear it for the mods!!
Patrick 4/4 @
144
You may be right about some but I promise you, the prevailing wind only blows a fart in its direction.
I am not a fart.
oddball @ 135
Is that what time it is? ‘ere!
;)
Pachacutec @ 77
Pach, there are two posts at Feministe, nothing at Feministing.
jane hamsher @ 121
You would throw eggs at Kobe’s car?!?! I’m shocked.
TRex @
108
Maybe. But you don’t have the right to incite violence with your words, for example. So I think the warning in caps is overstated.
But there’s another point, here: on any group blog, readers are looking to front pagers not just to state opinions, but also to foster discussion–to respond to even the most critical remarks with an eye towards growing participation. Telling someone to BACK THE FUCK OFF in a main post invites people into the discussion. Telling them the same thing in a comment thread does the opposite.
I think it’s possible to be aggressive as a writer and accomodating as a discussion moderator–without sacrificing integrity, honesty or freedom of speech.
Last I heard, he was married to Mary Magdalene, and frowned upon divorce.
Plus, he’s dead.
wandering mind @ 123
Well, you’ve assumed I had nothing to say about his ideas. What I mentioned here was just the introduction… and that was what garnered the attention of the site owners. You make the fallacious assumption that that is all I’ve had to say about John Yoo and his ilk.
Cheers.
First of all — WHY in the $#%$#%$# should anyone be “polite” in these times? Our country if falling apart and we still say “Please” and “Thank you?” F that.
Secondly, why can the right-wing loons say anything they want to and it is never uncalled-for, but for a librul to say FUCK is the end of the world?
Thirdly, the “accusation” of being HIPPIES is hysterical! I am 53 years old and even *I* am rather young to be called that. And to accuse 30- and 40-somethings of being “dirty hippies” is a hoot. Wanna know what it is? THEY are old coots, the real hippies made them feel inferior, and they are finally “GITTING” them. Yawn.
I really like those who are most accused of “saying naughty words.” Try reading some literature. Jesus!
I am trying not to cuss, but this is SO 1955. IF you don’t like a certain contributor’s language, DON’T READ THAT ONE! Christy seems to never cuss — read her writing. If TRex “cusses” too much for you, don’t read him.
I just get sick to damn death of Americans trying to make everything a vanilla-type boring deal. I say GOOD to difference!
Thank you mods, whoever you are, for what you do for FDL. :D
This site (along with John Amato’s) rekindled my hope in democracy when I discovered it several years ago. I thank you all for that. But there have been times that I really wanted to share the ideas at this site with acquaintences and family but have not because I knew their visceral reaction to the presence of the occasional offensive words (f***, s***, c***, etc.) in front-page articles would simply upstage the strength of the idea being presented. I’m not suggesting anyone stifle how they need to express themselves, especially in the comments area (which is really a conversation, and anything reasonable should be ok)…but I do wonder, in the front page, is the use of such language really that important or necessary? In the marketplace of ideas, those expressed at your site have to me proven very valuable. Why would you want to do anything (like using words that might not sit well with some people) when it mostly detracts from the value of your message? I took the time to write this, not to criticize, but to simply ask you to consider the importance of ensuring your ideas have a chance of reaching outside the tight knit circle of the blog’s present readership?
I’m afraid to post, but I will. I know I’m not one of the more intelligent or careful posters here (I’m an exhausted single parent of a small child on call 24×7 and in perpetual brain fog…), but I’ll give it a go. Perhaps I’m one of the “concern trolls” that you despise. I hope not. The following sort of scenario causes me to speak up:
- when groups that are not even related to the actual target get pummeled in the driveby.
As invigorating and spot-on as the curse-filled posts are (I never miss a TRex and I’ve proclaimed insta-love for Jane H.), the “collateral damage” that people don’t notice that their doing confounds me. I will offer one example:
Foley is a pedophile. An apparent creep without a conscience. It also happens that the [main?] targets of his predation were boys. So, ok, he is also homosexual.
Somebody took to calling the whole story La Cage Aux Foley. It would be a funny play on words, but for the fact that it totally veered off course. La Cage was about a committed and aging homosexual couple. Not pedophiles. Jane, you enjoyed the expression and decided to use it. But if it had become popular, if some FREEPER had gotten a hold of it, the emphasis and blame would have stayed on gays. Like they really need one more cute way to blame them for all the country’s ills.
I do not consider myself a hall monitor. I don’t want any particular power. I am sincere when I say, “Great! Fire with all guns on the right targets!” Smack ‘em down. I’m sick of them doing it to us. And smack downs WORK. I first became a TRex afficionado when he implored us to STOP playing nice on one of his early posts. It was glorious! I took it to heart and it changed my way of interacting with the people I debate face-to-face, with great success.
But, you know, the ricochets really suck when they hit the innocent.
Sometimes, it feels like it devolves into more ricochets than good shots once commenters start egging each other on.
Julie @ 153
we are the mods we are the mods we are we are we are the mods
G-P-B @104 & TRex @105
These are pretty much prototype posts that sum up the attitude of soil-your-own-house that people are debating here.
They’re posts fueled by rage, and the rage thus justifies the obscenities. We’re all grown-ups here and I assume we can all swear like sailors too, so that doesn’t impress. And the agressive in-your-face junkyard dog delivery is none too appealing either. TRex for his part starts off perfectly reasonably then throws out a big fuck you in all caps. But to who exactly? We all basically agree on the issues here. Who’s this aimed at, really?
Frankly these posts are a bit embarrassing; we’re all pissed off at Washington, but blindly spewing invective is something best done at home alone, when your fingers are NOT poised over a keyboard.
Though the community here is essentially anonymous, FDL is after all a public forum. No need to rage and howl and curse a blue streak to make your points, you do your arguments a grave disservice.
Shell @ 162
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amen to every graf
p.lukasiak @ 125
“Civil discourse” may also be demanded, of course, by those who seek more power of those on whose backs they intend to seek it. After looking over Tom Watson’s comments here and on his site, my impression is that there is no sincere criticism intended, and a good deal of power assumed. (I will not include any other bloggers who have discussed the matter at this time.) What I read is a distinct lack of respect or moderation of language from an individual who is demanding respect and moderation of language for himself and/or somebody else, and that should be a red light. There may be merit in discussing the boundaries of acceptability within this community–but not at the behest of, nor in response to, such a weak third-party chastisement.
Ahhh, I smell the very nexus of a philosophical postulate! Tell me more!
I will as soon as I figure out what the fuck “the very nexus of a philosophical postulate” is supposed to mean :)
FDL mentioned in Wonkette today…
“Giant “Republican Rubberstamp Congress” prop to be retired in whatever hilarious fashion you can think up”
:)
OT – NYT has up that the bilateral commission is calling for Bush to bring home the troops!
montag @ 160
Now you’re insulting ilk.
Jeffrey Feldman @
159
Yes, he DOES have the right. I think when it comes to restricting free speech, BACK THE FUCK OFF, is the appropriate response, whether the person is going with the flow or swimming upstream,. Who died and left you Miss Manners, anyway?
Trex. I make only one asumption about you: you a a tough talking little boy who has the thinnest skin I have ever observed in my life. You are not particularly learned or travelled, just a big mouth with second hand opinions amplified by invective.
Everyone protects you. Criticism about you is shouted down or disappeared. You have no problem calling women fat and ugly or cunts or other versions of that name. You seem to relish your coulter-esque position.
I sense you are one step away from moving back in with your parents (actually, you said that didn’t you?)
p.lukasiak @
125
Civil discourse is a luxury enjoyed by the empowered. Combine incivility with power — e.g. Bush to Webb — and you have a potent and often dangerous mixture. Calling Bush a fuckwit is quite different from having Bush call you a fuckwit.
But to some degree, FDL now wields power. (Oh, and I’ll give it up for the mods if they deign to release an early comment that’s gone awry for some unknown reason.)
jane hamsher @ 103
First Jane, I’m impressed that you’re sufficiently high-tech enough to have a back-up connectivity solution so handy.
I’ll add my compliments above and add to it by saying, that I, and I suspect several others who I have turned on to this site, would likely wander away if you all didn’t have the level of passion and energy that you do.
This is FireDogLake after all. You all are a blast to read and enjoy and great symbols of purpose and commitment to high ideals.
Personally I’m an ex-WestPac Sailor with a penchant for expressing my views in language more appropriate to the docks on midwatch. I barely notice the foul language as I frequently hear essentially every combination of assembled cuss words in strings of complexity to inspire a poet, in daily conversation.
This post and all the others associated with it are perfect opportunities to “people-watch” in cyberspace. Great fuckin’ stuff folks!
Julie @ 120
So did I.
Valley Girl at 128 — You and I have conversed a lot behind the scenes on the moderation page, so I would disagree with that somewhat. But you are correct in that, in the frenzy of the research, the writing, the posting, the discussion in the comments and everything else, we do lose sight of talking with the moderator crew enough. And we could use a lot more, frankly, because it’s exhausting work to slog through gibberish, foreign porn spam day in and day out. I don’t think folks who demand a sort of “snap to” for releasing comments understand this. And truly, you should understand how valued the moderators are to Jane and I, especially, because our lives utterly sucked trying to write and moderate nonstop, all day long, before you started.
the chronicler @ 175
And, um…was there anything negative about him you wanted to add? [-/
montag @ 160
The comment about Mr. Yoo is meaningless. It is as irrelevant as what color his house is. It doesn’t matter whether it is followed by 100 rational arguments.
p.lukasiak @ 169
I am “the very nexus of a philosphical postulate,”
I’ve information vegetable, animal, and mineral
I know the kings of England, and I quote the fights historical
From Marathon to Waterloo, in order categorical
Jeffrey Feldman @ 159
Since the words “back the fuck off” imply, apart from anger, a wish to place distance between antagonists rather than to close in for a fight, perhaps you could explain precisely why you regard them as an incitement of violence.
Tom, if it was not a thread where Jane had expressly permitted that kind of thing, I’d have come after you hard on that one, demanding you apologize to her. To me that sentence is totally gratuitous. It carries zero content and at the same time completely distorts who Jane is. Since Jane said it was ok, no problem, on this thread.
Jane, I really appreciate you opening up a thread to discuss this. IMO, the elephant on the thread is the pressure you, Christy, TRex, and Pach must feel to always post something interesting. I frankly don’t know how you do it. Tom, I think you make a valid point. The sandpaper snatch thing may follow Jane around. It does reinforce a theme about the liberal blogs that is unfortunate and unhelpful. I just don’t see how to get around it and I wouldn’t want to lose it. Without the “edginess,” I don’t think FDL would be where it is. I know I wouldn’t be here as much without it. Without the traffic, a lot fewer Dems would have gotten elected. Jane doesn’t go after people for no reason. They deserve it, because their actions have been a lot more obscene wrt what the Founders had in mind than any nickname we can hang on them. If a poster, or a commenter, steps over the line, we can always apologize. The whole community over time can usually make pretty good decisions about that. IMHO, I hope that the trust has been built up by the posters helps them feel freer to take risks as they see fit. (I don’t try the kind of snark that I read here. It takes talent I don’t have, but that I also really appreciate.)
I also don’t mean to imply that this process is painless. I’m sure we have lost others, but I haven’t seen op99 here in some time and I really enjoyed her perspective. I hope she comes back, but I am more convinced than ever that when the content doesn’t drive the blog, as it did when Luskin was leaking to pool boy for just one example among many, snark drives traffic, because it is fused with excellent content that we can trust. FDL doesn’t use unnamed sources.
I agree @ 142
Okay who are some of these people commenting tonight?
the chronicler @ 174
Fuck you! Who do you think you are?
Christy Hardin Smith @ 153
First, tahnks to ceci for the sentiment.
Thanks Reddhedd(sp? -don’t remember). I never really went away, I just decided to STFU and learn how to be a better listener, which one cannot do when focusing to much on what one wants to say next.
The welcoming is thoughtful, but its the engagement I miss. You know I made essentially the same comment here earlier today that I did at another site. At the other site, it led to a give and take that both informed me and apparently informed others. I guess that might happen again here if I work my way back to regular status, but given my personal situation I may not have the time to work that consistently, so I will commment palces where I can jump in and engage more freely. Of course, I will always drop by to read your stuff.
BTW, it was sonofslothrop.
JoyB @ 163
Oh you sand bagger, you! That was marvelous and well put. Your points are valid and your vision is crystal. Thank you for speaking out. I would love to read more, when duty does not call too loudly :)
from a lurker @ 167
Sorry, you’re wrong. People like you are why the damn Dems were a bunch of spineless pussies for 12 years.
TRex @
149
I don’t have a preference, but I have to concur in the sense that I cut my online-politics teeth on Usenet in the ’90s — and every “offensive” comment I’ve seen stir debate on the blogosphere (not counting LGF and other sites I don’t read) has been so fucking tame by comparison that it’s reminiscent of 1950s prudes condemning Elvis for shaking his hips.
Matt Browner-Hamlin @ 157
Thanks for the correction. You fucking bastard. Ban him!
from a lurker @
167
Well said…
p.lukasiak @ 168
You got the fucking idea by the nuts, MAN. Now just squeeze the gist out of it!
the chronicler @ 175
Ha haaaa haaaaa!!
You’re funny.
Oh, and blow me.
Yes I do get to decide if TRex and Pach are sexists. If you read one post and you conclude that the use of language is inappropriate, you better be familiar with their larger body of work before making such accusations or I think you are fairly well guilty of drawing conclusions based on too little information. I know them both, know their work and would gladly refute that charge point-by-point against anyone who cared to make it. That does not make me a bully but it does make those not willing to do the work look a bit lazy.
I could say “this whole thing smacks of homophobia” but lacking any concrete evidence of that, it would be irresponsible.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 179
Um, I would associate myself with this, and I’m sure TRex would, too.
I post, but the mods run the site.
the chronicler @ 175
I sense that “responses” like this (from people whom I have never seen post here before) will fast reduce the relevance of this thread below zero. Good night, all.
Heading home.
Late Late Nite post coming up in 30 minutes.
Who am I?
I am the Chronicler.
Remek @
151
And if the c-word bothers a majority of women, you couldn’t care less? It’s a powerful and hateful word to many. You don’t care if it angers others? And how often have you seen this word used to describe men? Maybe it’s used just to describe short, bald men….with no compunction?
And how about the n-word? Many feel like you…it’s just a swear word. OK to use it on a progressive blog?
well, this is a comment i would never make without an explicit request… i’m a big fan and wouldn’t want you-all to think otherwise. but since you asked… ;-)
first let me just say that these are only my personal reactions – no relation what so ever to right/wrong, stupid/smart or sexist/not sexist. just what i am comfortable with or has made me feel uncomfortable…
so, here goes….
i love “colorful” language used creatively. my “normal” (when my nephews aren’t around) speaking language includes many “fuck”s -but if i’m ashamed of anything, it is only the the lack of creativity of using one word so frequently.
loved “sandpaper snatch” – thought that was hilarious… but, “cunt” makes me really uncomfortable… in the same way the use of “nigger” makes me feel. and i’m not comfortable with the late nite tauscher post… in the same way i’m sometimes comfortable with maureen dowd’s column.
wow… meta at fdl.
Patrick 4/4 @ 173
Well, they damned well deserve it, hanging out as they do with John Yoo. :)
the chronicler @ 199
I doubt that.
Every blog has its own ‘personality’. Over the years FDL has established the reputation for fostering some really good give and take, especially among the commenters. Part of the reputation includes the expectation of hearing each other out – and therein lies the civility. I am not aware of forbidden words by the host/hostess, but more often read about comments getting caught in the spam filters for using the ‘trigger’ words.
If this place ever tries to please everyone, it’ll get effing boring really fast. Really, reading and commenting with the expectation of having human interaction is the best (and I mean that) we can hope for. Why ruin it with a list of forbidden words? Why not use our marvelous inventions of words to the fullest extent?
As long as one remains interesting, that is.
Patrick 4/4 @ 173
This is what they mean by Democrats becoming imprisoned by special interest groups.
First the fellaters, then the snivellers, then the little people, then the ilks. Will it never stop?!?
EvilDrPuma @ 197
Really? Well, that’s awfully good of you to say so, Pope EvilDrPuma XXIX. Let’s all pack up and go home.
crankyNYC @ 57
Welcome, crankynyc!
Here in the Bay Area, I have trouble walking about without stumbling over the big national trip wires:
Black/white
Gay/straight
Poor/rich
Renter/owner
Weird/normal
Crazy/sane
Person/citizen
European/indigneous
Antonyms from the perspective of grief and oppression.
I’ve worked with progressive and radical activists here and elsewhere. I believe language is the tool of thought.
And yet – I use tools of thought to get stuff done.
I am wary of group X’s claim for ultimate say on acceptable speech, cause I WANT TO GET STUFF DONE.
And I’ve watched productive groups spend YEARS diverted into self-absorption while sub-groups battled for control. They didn’t want to control the groups’ public service – they were fighting to determine which narrative of suffering would frame the organization’s culture.
As European economic oppression and genocide (in North America and elsewhere) imploded so many cultures, the battle for “pride of hurt” has no end point.
And while the fighting among the ideologies went on in LA, MLK Hospital degenerated into “Killer King”. Incompetent corrupt physicians were retaained solely due to ethnic loyalty.
Their patients – of the same ethnicity – died.
I’m grateful for the Lake. We respect diversity, and keep our discussions well-germinated.
And our “patients” seem to thrive.
Just check their discharge summaries – at Blue America.
The mod props are much appreciated…but do all you cocksuckers have any idea how fucking hard this particular thread is to moderate?
Whew, I feel better now.
Jane, you know I generally love you to death, but I must call bullshit. Invoking Lenny Bruce is out of line. Bruce used racial slurs and “bad” words, but always to expose the lies, not reinforce them. Not a one of you would call Condi Rice the N-word and for a damn good reason; because if you do that you’re not insulting her by the content of her character but by the color of her skin and thereby insulting all good people who share her skin color but not her character. Same with the sexist slurs. Jane, if Laura Ingraham is a cunt, then so are you and so am I. When Trex called her a cunt, he called you and me cunts. Because the word means “woman” and if you are one, he means to insult you. Intention counts for shit, unless you’re Jeff Goldstein.
I for one think Trex is funny and awesome, so long as he doesn’t lean on cheap insults. To hide behind the Muses to defend that word is lame. The Muses prefer funnier, more creative insults than reminding someone of her inferior social status because of her genital and implying that it’s deserved.
You got the fucking idea by the nuts, MAN. Now just squeeze the gist out of it!
now I need a cigarette…
This is not the first time that commenters have prefaced their remarks in this way.
This is a shame. Why should someone be afraid to post?
If free speech and open debate is the goal, the tone of the comment shouldn’t discourage or intimidate those who’d like to add their voices. And they shouldn’t have to publically disavow trolldom before making their point.
Free speech is not just about saying anything you want, but creating an environment in which everybody feels comfortable expressing their sincerely held opinions.
“If you want an audience, start a fight.”
– Banksy
The marketing M.O. of this site. Don’t expect FDL to give up the “edgy.” It puts asses in seats.
Agree with TW – climb down off the high horse. And the freedom of speech speech. Comical huffing and puffing, that. Reminds me of them pasty-faced keyboard warriors and their “Why We Fight” bullshit.
And a reference point: the Lieberman black face picture was the same kind of smashmouth, punk progressivism. It gave Lieberman an issue and a news cycle, and I remember vividly Lamont throwing FDL under the bus: “I don’t know the people who did this,” words to that effect, on national TV. This is TW’s point.
Suck it up. There’s something to what he says. Give him that, then if you must, kiss him off and move on.
Swopa @ 189
So what’s happened? Has the expansion/democratization of web communications brought in too many thin skinned people? Or are we just not used to hearing people of differing views or patterns of diction and flip our collective shit when we experience something different?
I can’t wait to wake up tomorrow and read the rest of the comments here…something tells me this thread will descend into a very creative miasma of uncivil, yet massively hysterical discourse!
G’night pups!
I tune every night to read T-Rex, he is hilarious. Of course he will say something that’ll piss you off on occasion (though not in a long while), he’s not holding back and on a deadline. And Jane with the “60 grit” comment! People need to relax and do the math. Positives way out weigh the negatives even if you’re a prune.
Pachacutec @ 190
I’m cowering in the corner, whimpering “there’s no place like home, there’s no place like home…”
oh, at patrick 4/4 @ 181…..
simply brilliant. Thank you.
How’s this for taking something out of context:
Discuss.
People like you are why the damn Dems were a bunch of spineless pussies for 12 years.
I wonder how many of the regulars on this blog understand why this is a sexist comment, that is why it is insulting to all women and not to Dems?
Connecticut Bob @
214
Well if there’s gonna be a lot of UNcivility in this thread, I’m staying to join in the fun, motherfuckers!
EvilDrPuma @ 183
I didn’t imply that those words incite violence. I was just noting that the argument about freedom of speech has limits. In our Constitution, we have freedom of speech, but not freedom of consequences brought on by our speech. “I have a right to say anything I want,” for example, is not correct. That was my only point.
But the larger issue I was trying to bring up was about the dual role that a front page poster plays on FDL–hard-hitting writer and discussion moderator.
Bastard @ 186
“Sorry, you’re wrong.”
Well argued.
Jane @ 38 “Our traffic continues to soar…”
Can someone show me where the soaring is? Do we look stupid?
http://www.sitemeter.com/?a=st…..e&r=36
p.lukasiak @ 216
A plezh.
It’s probably already been proposed, but surely there’s a technical solution to this. Something along the line of “parental controls” available on computers and cable subscriptions. It would require visitors to register, but it would answer the objection. Here of course, you simply let the user add to his profile a list of objectionable words and for that user sub a character string like **** for cunt in the posts and comments that appear on their screens. Or, even more useful, let the user create his or her own, less offensive, substitute character strings. It would be sort of like the auto-correct feature in word processing software; or mad libs which are kind of fun for those easily excited, or overexcited, by written language.
the chronicler @ 199
Here in SF, that’s a Hearst paper.
Are there any wars you haven’t supported?
Christy
Your post linked here was most appreciated, and was instrumental in keeping me reading some very interesting things.
Pach, you are welcome to use “whore” anytime you like. You are a very inciteful young man.
TRex, a little maturity goes a long way. You attack folks when you clearly don’t understand their point. You attack when it would be preferable that you debate. And we love you in spite of this.
Regarding cunt: Ann Coulter not withstanding, thirty years ago my wife explained to me that it is a very hateful word on a par with nigger, and she never expected to here me use those two words outside of quotations. I’ve always respected her request.
Jane, the black face episode is an example of what can go wrong. I knew what you meant and was not offended. Because of you, my wife and I put time and money into Ned and Blue America. I wanted to be a LaMonster. But damn, if you don’t think that hurt the cause…
Christy Hardin Smith @ 27
I wonder how many of the regulars on this blog understand why this is a sexist comment, that is why it is insulting to all women and not to Dems?
actually, I see it as an insult only to female invertebrates…
a former commenter @
56
Pach’s and TRex’s posts didn’t bother me at all when I read them, but I found these posts to be well thought out and very much on point.
I’m guessing there’s a mix od David Chappelle fans in here and people who thinks he sucks. I’m guessing there’s a similar split about Borat.
Amanda Marcotte @ 208
Jeff Goldstein has intentions? Could’ve fooled me… I’m not even sure he’s conscious.
And, I think if you feel that you’re reduced to the level of Laura Ingraham by a remark which is directed at her, not you, simply because you share a common sex with her, how do you feel about my calling Rush Limbaugh a sleazy prick?
statistician @ 222
OH MY GOD. A GRAPH. THIS MUST PROVE JANE WRONG.
Fuck this, I’m leaving. I thought this was An Important Blog. See you fools at DailyKos…
jcricket @ 201
I have to confess a certain serious prejudice. I am heavily biased towards intelligent folk. This site is one of the most highly concentrated I’ve found and, almost as important, provides ample links to other points of interest. It is populated with interesting and well spoken souls; and their voices are varied; their approaches are varied. The direction is decidedly progressive; and sometimes that progress might appear to bend back on itself but I think it is just that this environment has more dimensions than most people are used to cogitating over. It takes a lot mental energy to engage, amalgamate, synthesis and regurgitate all the information, wit and wisdom here. It’s worth it. It’s worth putting up with everything. And, if you don’t like it, try, try again and then give up because there’s no use being a fool about it.
NealB @ 224
Once again, those of us who wish to be more offended are ignored…
statistician @ 223
Compare year on year. Get a reasonable sample that knocks out seasonal fluctuations. Mr. Statistician.
Watch out, TRex! “the chronicler” has a crush on you! Eeeewwwww
p.lukasiak @ 207
Immediately on top of the post this links to, Amanda is making a case for drawing a line. This is your gist baby! You know what I mean?
rounding third, heading for the nitecap and bed.
a former commenter @ 219
How do you know I’m not referring to cowering pussycats? In any event, it’s not a gender-specific term, it’s descrpitive of weakness and ineffectivness (and spinelessness) on the part of both genders (or should that read ALL genders) of the Democratic party for the last 12 years. I stand by the statement. Weak little pussies like Barbara Boxer and John Kerry, traitorous pussies like Joe “Bush is my girlfriend” Lieberman and Dianne “I never met a Lieberman I didn’t like” Feinstein are why the dems were rendered useless by the repukes.
If that kinda language don’t suitcha, that’s a drag, but that’s how *I* talk. I see no reason to change for the kind of spineless PEOPLE who sterilized the party for so long.
kirk murphy @ 226
Rosebud, baby!
from a lurker @ 222
All the argument. I believe the results of the last 12 years of Democratoic emascuulation because of the whiny little prudes who are too afraid of a fight, speak for themselves. N’est Pas?
You’re the Chronicler? Speaking to you now is the Moose. The Bull Moose. The Moose always refers to himself in the third person.
p.lukasiak @ 227
FYI – invertebrates do not have parts that can reasonably be characterized that way.
which (in a personal aside) I think sucks. By the time I read a post, and the comments, all the smart people here have already said everything I want to say, and said it better.
I liked it alot more before so damned many smart people started showing up here! ;)
slade at 200 — we actually had a discussion about the “c” word via e-mail between the front pagers today and I do have a problem with it. (But, if you read here regularly, you probably already guessed that because I never use it.) I have seen it hurled at one too many women by abusive partners, along with any number of words which I also rarely use. And we all discussed that fact today, my reasons for disliking that word and others. But, ultimately, those are my choices in my writing. Would I prefer they not be used? Yep. Am I going to demand that no one ever use them in any writing? No. You know why? Because I believe in the Constitution and the Bill of Rights more. That doesn’t mean that I think they are wise choices — but we all have to make those choices for ourselves, and face the consequences once we’ve made them. You know, like a big long thread wherein we discuss language usage on the blog…
Pachacutec @ 235
Hmmm, why do you think “statistician” is a “mister.” Watch out, you gender bias is showing!!
Civility is running from the room in tears when your husband’s views are characterized by his supporters as “racist” in the eyes of his opponents.
Civility is saying it’s working out rather nicely for Katrina victims, since they’re low-income and now in the Astrodome, homeless and far from family.
Civility is ignoring a PDF entitled “Bin-laden Determined to Attack in US” since it’s an historical document.
Civility is telling an intelligence analyst who’s traveled to your pig farm with news that terrorists are coming for your countrymen in our homeland, “you’ve covered your ass, you can go back to Washington now.”
Civility: feh.
I’m an American. Honesty works for me. Fuck civility.
Troops
Home
NOW
Guitar_Playing_Bastard @ 239
And “pussy” is a metaphor for what? Don’t expect me or anyone else to believe that you think that when someone calls you one they are calling you a kitty cat.
No, it is an insult which demeans weakness. And weakness is associated with all things feminine. It is no different than .Robo-Gov calling his political oponents “girly-men”
Not to be a blog whore or anything (”whore” is okay, I hope), but I have a diary up on dKos entitled National Institute to Recommend Decertification of All Touch-Screen Voting: http://www.dailykos.com/story/2006/11/29/205434/88
An excerpt:
Btw, vis-a-vis “sandpaper snatch”, I guess she doesn’t wax :-)
Pachacutec @ 8:40 pm (#124)
I trust you’re not ignoring the fact that you’re comparing two self-selecting populations. The folks who stay here will be the ones who like it. Those who leave probably won’t.
To answer the question, though, there does seem to be some groupthink here at times. The worst thing is the labeling of “concern trolls”. There may be reasons that moderators do this that we’re not aware of, but it ought to be possible for new commenters to write things here that disagree with the group without being labeled as such, or as Rovian plants or whatever. I’ve even been accused of being a concern troll once or twice.
There are other phenomena that have contributed to this site being less fun to comment at, but that’s the big one for me.
Even if I didn’t know that about you already, your remarks at the Tom Watson site bear that out. Properly defining something is a prerequisite for understanding it.
I agree with Shell, and I’m older, 62. When I post a comment I’m talking to the other people here. I’m not writing considering off-site readers.
I absolutly love Late Night and TRex. Everything in the daytime is wonderfully informative and well-written. But Late Night is “vent time” for me. I’ve been in a constant rage since Bush the Lesser was “selected” in 2000. TRex provides an enjoyable, nonlethal release for some of that.
Anybody can find something to be offended at, if that’s what they’re looking for. And there are some people who hunt for something to be offended by.
Even as a little old lady I have a prolific array of curse words and I deploy them regularly. Sometimes curses (especially with the Bushistas in power) are the only words that cover it.
And if we don our white gloves and pearls and engage in “civil discourse” do you think the wingers will take us more seriously?
Jane Hamsher @
10
You are keeping happy your paying customers, of which I am one. Carry on.
I hope FDL doesn’t lose its “edge”. I’ve tried reading a few other blogs, and haven’t stayed with any of them. I think FDL’s editorial policy for comments is the best of the bunch. It allows folk to be themselves & have good tough discussions, but doesn’t allow things to degenerate into raw attacks for no reason.
Re: language. I don’t use language that I wouldn’t use at home or with friends, but that’s because several acquaintances know I lurk a lot, and comment fairly regularly. But other people’s more colorful language doesn’t bother a bit. I’d hate to see FDL’s policy on that change much, if at all. It’s just fine now, in my book.
I have occasionally been frustrated at not quite having the courage to recommend FDL to certain people who would really benefit from reading the discussions here – yes, because of the language. In our neck-a-the-woods, it just wouldn’t go over too well. But that’s not too much of a problem, because I can always ‘translate’ content for them in language they’d find o.k. and, besides, it’s so time-consuming to keep up with the blog, I know they wouldn’t have the staying power to keep up with it anyway.
The only time I became really worried about FDL and where it was heading, if it would even fizzle & disappear, was shortly before this past election, when everyone was very tense, and some pretty nasty-tempered sniping occurred. I know of some good people who left at that time, and I don’t believe they have returned. I myself was targeted once, unfairly I think, and to this day I still don’t comment on threads when that person who earlier, verbally smacked me upside the head for no earthly reason & continued to pursue and harass me through the threads, is part of a discussion.
So maybe not the language so much, but the tenor of the discussion should continue to be monitored. But I wouldn’t change a thing about how it’s done. I think it works well now.
lotsa words about not much… sorry…
it’s a good community here. I for one savor its diversity ;->
FYI – invertebrates do not have parts that can reasonably be characterized that way.
well, then, you can just take the nexus of a philosophical postulate you have there, and shove it up your undifferentiated parts, if you catch my drift…
I might as well weigh in, since this is actually a big reason why I’ve sort of drifted away from FDL.
I personally don’t swear much; I’m not opposed to it, I just don’t really feel the need to. But swearing in and of itself really doesn’t bother me, I don’t find it problematic in the least, *except* for the “c-word” and “n-word” infallibly make me wince every time I see or hear them. Still, I can chalk that up to my own personal sensibilities and conditioning (well, the c-word anyway; and I don’t *think* I have to worry about any of the front-pagers going KKKramer on us).
What disturbs me has been precisely the intolerance and active hostility towards criticism that others have already described. It goes beyond pushback or counterargument, and into active suppression and intimidation, and even, in at least one case, a full-blown ban (to the point where even the commenter’s *name* now triggers the spam filters).
And I don’t think this was a justifiable reaction to insincere, concern-troll criticism, but an unjustifiable reaction to sincere criticism by someone who was genuinely offended. Granted, they were obviously a lot more sensitive than a lot of the people here, myself included, but to treat them like a right-wing censor or concern troll was just disproportionate and unwarranted – and rather cruel, IMHO. Sometimes, criticism is just… criticism – it doesn’t have to be treated like an existential threat.
So yeah, basically what I’m saying is lighten the fuck up. People will disagree or be offended, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they have any agenda beyond expressing their own viewpoint, especially if they’ve been around long enough that they’re clearly not a troll. Let’s please not be like LGF or FR, okay?
There goes my political capital…
the chronicler @ 246
Quite right. I am, after all, not only a sexist, but a racist.
After reading more of these posts, I am more astounded than ever. The word “cunt” makes someone “uneasy?”
I am a female. I have a cunt. So what? It is fine to call a male a “dick” but not to call a female a “cunt?”
You would think this country was perfect in every way — all we have to whine about is words.
p.lukasiak @ 226
Ho, ho, I didn’t see that comin’. Well played!
I think it is important to see the difference between the words chosen by the posters and those chosen by the commenters. Posters are the principle draw to the site, and their words have more weight than commenters. I don’t think that we can assume that the posters will be perfect, but I can see that they are alert to the connotations and of their words and work to establish a tone for the site.
Commenters frequently engage in spirals of language, wordplay, puns and plenty of bad language. I read through most of the comment strings, but I skip that kind of stuff and move to the commenters who write more substantively.
I think we all have to draw our own lines. For me, I don’t get much from four-letter words, and avoid posting them myself. But I am frequently at a total loss for real words when confronted with the issues and people discussed here, and fully understand when other people explode with anger and obscenity at them. If I don’t like it, I move on.
The point of a site is to give space to people who think reasonably alike. Those who think too differently won’t like it and will move on. There are plenty of sites, and something for everyone. I like it here. I comment when I have something short to say. On the rare occasions I want to write longer, I can go elsewhere. So can everyone.
Markinsanfran @ 248
i don’t think anybody was talkin’ about the outside.
I recently unsubbed from an email list because the people there didn’t seem to know how to communicate. Yes, words have power, but only if someone else is actually reading them and thinking about what they mean. I read TRex’s post when it was originally posted, and I wasn’t offended in the least. Why? I don’t know, maybe because I took his words in context, in their entirety.
SusanD @ 250
I was about to make a joke about Barbara Bush, but, then, I remembered there’s nothing civil about her. :)
{{{TSF}}}
oh boy.
A problem, so it seems to me, is that TRex purports to speak from the left, in the name of progressive values–and actually, he does, quite eloquently (despite occasional grammatical lapses and no knowledge of a green screen), in both cases.
So the problem is that he speaks from the gay male perspective, which, while utterly valid and parallel to, is de facto a subset of, the left, and of progressive, values. Therefore, some sexist language difficulties may arise from a generalized cultural difference.
(Kinda like Ebonics–I saw the main proponent of Ebonics speak, and he made crystal clear the difficulty encountered by a student while taking a standardized test, faced with the representation of a situation that she knew well, but that was not described to her in any of the test’s given options, in a parlance with which she was familiar.)
Gay male parlance may well have more specialized aspects than this country’s overall speech patterns; hence certain references, to weight and other aspects of grooming, that to a het audience, even a liberal one, may come off as sexist.
What if I don’t know that you’re gay, and I read a comment? Some of the context of that comment is lost, and depending on the nature of the comment and what it is about, that context may be quite important.
This sounds terrible upon rereading, but in terms of language and how it’s used, I still think the comments are valid points of discussion: if one’s political leanings are reason for commentary, as well they should be on a site like this one, should not other defining aspects of one’s identity be brought into play to broaden the nature, scope, and accuracy of assertions made in a discussion?
As Margaret Cho says, the problem with racism and homophobia is that at a basic level, one chooses to be liberal or conservative, but one cannot choose one’s race or orientation, which turns racism and homphobia into a different class of discrimination.
Hence the difficulty of my difficulty: treading the fine line between what is given and what is chosen, when the two interwine so closely.
Fodder for discussion, perhaps.
Just my 2 cents.
the chronicler @ 244
Dude, you’re a faggot, pure and simple, regardless of male or female. You are a burning brand, attempting to start a conflagration. I honor you for it.
Freaked-Out Canadian @ 211
This ignores biology.
All interactions involving two or more sentient humanoids involve:
both humanoids’ perceptions of their internal environments.
both humanoids’ perceptions of their external environment
For some people, their biology will cause discomfort in any group social interaction.
That says nothing about about FDL (and says nothing negative about the person – they didn’t choose their biology.)
PS: That’s NOT to say anyone who doesn’t like FDL has social phobia. Nope.
Y’know, Yogi Berra was on to something when he said ‘Nobody goes there anymore, it’s too crowded.’ G’night.
Pachacutec @
18
If that’s where you’ve been I would have liked to have known. Did I miss your explanation about your decision to back off? I would have defended your speech here in comments, Pach, in fact I’ve missed it. I stupidly assumed you were earning a living or having a relationship, while I treasured your Saturday nite visits. But missed you.
a former commenter @ 218
I’m not a regular, but it seems to my ears more of a feline slur than a sexist one. Tony Tiger is gonna be pissed, not to mention Hobbes.
Y’know, after everyone got their licks in, I was really looking forward to a “dirty word”-themed punfest… PUNAISE! Where’d you go? :)
i’m coming very late to these comments, and this example may have been sited in some form already, but just today i saw a billboard for “south park” and was thinking about the way that it has often been accused of “crossing the line,” but how important it is for the purposes of communicating ideas to sometimes go just a little too far. and while i’m generally not a fan of excessive profanity, since i do think when overused it can diminish an agrument, sometimes it becomes the most effective way for an intelegent writer to capture the basic and elemental frustration they feel with the world today.
masaccio @ 258
I was wrong. I can be offended.
TeddySanFran @ 268
Work and “marriage” have kept me from comments in other people’s posts, mostly, but I always see it as my resposnibility to the community to hang around my own comment threads. Still, I backed off the wrestling matches over ideas, and stuck to light banter.
Nice to see you here again, Adie!
Adie @ 253
Christy Hardin Smith @ 244
I agree with the principal of free speech, too. I also think normal rules of debate, which do not include ad hominem attacks, because they are irrelevant, are valuable.
So, hopefully, those who believe in both free speech and the value of discourse will not be afraid to object when others ignore those rules. Not because of any “offense” taken, but because things like ad hominem attacks are a distraction from the important work of being a citizen in a free country.
It seems that many of the men on this site are underage boys whose computers are rigged with parental controls/ Poor young virgins don’t even know what the word “pussy” means!
Language. Now there’s a name to conjure with. To me, language is neither appropriate nor inappropriate. I for one don’t care, because I think there is no such thing as civility, or more to the point, that “civility” as the Washington Post defines it is a weapon, not something to keep the wheels running smoothly. We live in interesting times. Is a discussion any less important because it is “uncivil?” Is this a place where we have to be polite about corruption, murder, rape, and the destruction of America. I don’t think Patrick Henry would have said “listen, (fill in your own swear word), give me liberty or effing kill me), but I think that was the idea. Some people use language to keep other people down, but it takes two to play that game, one to do it and one to fall for it. I’m not saying that we should now intersperse all of our comments or posts with obscene words, but to say that a certain king is buggering the country (substitute the f word for that) is true, and expresses the depth of anger of the fukees. Yes, I know that’s not spelled right. It is righteous anger. It is anger that deserves to have a forum, and it is political speech, which, I believe used to be protected in this country. We tolerate porn, because if we don’t then whoever is making the laws is free to call political speech porn (it can happen). We must also tolerate the occasional use of a few well chosen words, even when they aren’t politically correct. You wouldn’t hesitate to call a certain Vice President a Dickhead (which is a sexual reference, and quite frankly doesn’t bother me as a male). Nothing about sexuality bothers me. I’m a pretty secure individual when it comes to that. What’s wrong with a “vulgar” reference to female parts in relation to a woman who could never possibly be a dickhead, because she doesn’t have a dick. As the satisfied owner of the aforementioned male part, nothing Trex or Pach could say should take away from the criticism they level at people who deserve it. Whether it is the mention of a male or female part or the slang for either. What we’re all doing here is too important to get side tracked with an F word discussion.
Special to Pach….
you’re attitude toward engaging/debating the commenters is precisely wrong. At least from this perspective, nothing validates me more than being acknowledged by a “front pager”… even if they disagree with me. (at least it means they’ve read what I’ve written, and found it worthy of response.)
……
(and if you don’t respond to this, I’ll assume you don’t respect me) :)
Pach’s whore post was good. It was methodically laid out and he came in quickly with the definition of the term as he meant it. It retained the subliminal connotation still, but he did it right and the piece was effective and true. I like Trex’s stuff, but I was a bit taken aback by the cunt word, because I know that women hate that word more than anything. In my mind, I let it slide.
In reality there are truly vulgar individuals in our government and others who have their own teevee or radio shows. Pach and Trex have got nothing on those characters.
Patrick 4/4 @ 272:
Good to know that I can offend!
Patrick 4/4 @ 260
TMI!
kirk murphy @ 281
TMJ!
montag @ 269
I can’t help on that front, but I will pass along what someone else (I forget who, or when) told me… regarding the c-word that causes controversy, “Ann Coulter” is an anagram for “loaner ____.”
I merely offer this without comment as a
pubicpublic service.new thread
masaccio @ 279
Then my work here is done.
Amanda Marcotte @ 9:05 pm (#209)
Well said, er, written. Insults that are directed at the things we really dislike or despise about people work better, at least for me. Just calling someone a b*tch, c*nt, or n*gg*r doesn’t show what it is we dislike, only something largely irrelevant about what they are. The great thing about the written word is that when such a word springs into your head, you can usually think of a better one before you write it down.
Cujo359 @ 250
Ahem– Cujo- of which moderators do you speak? I never labeled anyone as a “concern troll”. And, I know some other invisible moderators who have not done so either. And, then, your comment raises an interesting point- once one becomes known as a moderator (and I, personally, would have preferred not to have been identified as such, but it happened, and I couldn’t undo it) then one’s ability to be comment as part of the community in an ordinary way, seems to vanish. This makes the job extra-tough. Isolating, in many ways.
kirk murphy @ 266
I agree that I am kind of an approval-seeker, and by nature makes sense. And shy. And not confident. So YES. My preface was not to blame FDL, but to call attention to the fact that I was sincere in trying to post meaningfully. Not to grab for attention. I recognize that shy wimps like me would kill the left if that’s all the left had. But my value might be in helping the Big Guns tighten their shot groupings a little.
Swopa @ 283
Anagrams are fun, too. :)
I just want to say that I stayed up way past my bedtime for this, and not one of you people bitched about me yet. I’m feeling left out.
Oh, Jesus H. Christ on a raft. I went and read the entire argument(s). Sorry, but this is nothing but an old fashioned online flamewar. I want no parts of it, and TRex, you’re an asshat. Shut up for a couple of days. Take a break from the computer. Hike, bike, buy a balloon and walk in the park. C.S. Lewis once said that the invented world must have some relevence to the real world, and I believe him. Virtually.
Ich bin ein apple fritter, bitch.
p.lukasiak @ 278
Paul, that’s how I always felt. But we had a serious meltdown a while back with people accusing me of taking a machine gun to the threads, and many emails flew, and so I just disnegaged on that level. I personally felt it as a loss, because having the chance to question commenters gave me a chance to learn lots more, but there you have it.
That memorable time we got accused of censoring comments, it was when I was engaging in these debate/discussions. To my mind, at least, I felt my experience of the community was cheapened. But let’s not allow it to be said we haven’t responded to feedback.
So what’s it all about? Is it about what words mean? Yes, of course, exactly and not at all.
Is it about what people who use the words are feeling?
Is it about the methods they use to convey their emotion, thoughts and passions.
Is it about the perceptive abilities of the audience and the way those words are interpreted.
Is it that all this is happening so very fast over an information super highway that finally, at long last, is becoming just that. And why (because I think this is important), is it that the internetz are becoming so very adept in terms of utilizing the wealth of information just NOW?
I think it is because forums like this are just as fantastic as they are; marvelous, living, growing things. firedoglake, I say you are in your infancy and are experiencing some of the first of many, many interesting growing pains.
I am firmly convinced that your life will be long and honorable because of discussions like this evenings; and, I think you owe that, in part to all the people who express their opinions here…even the cunts.
God Bless you, everyone!
Peace, love! Out, here.
p.lukasiak @
254
I agree with this psot.
that’s what you get for always being such a “civil” pussy, christy!
(((I now assume I’m banned for life))))
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
You need to swear more, Christy. That’s the big problem I have with your posts.
the chronicler @ 240
salad, baby.
tossed.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
I’m sure with an invitation like that, someone, somewhere, is bound to say something, uh, mildly discomfiting. Not me, though.
Cheers.
Guitar_Playing_Bastard @ 237
Take a deep breath there, Little Bastard. Your strummin’ fingers are having trouble keeping up with your drivel.
A good rule of thumb is that a functioning brain and a logical argument help to convince other people, insults and grade-school vulgarity do not.
Et si tu veux continuer tes vomissements en francais, il serait mon plaisir. A toi, alors.
Amanda Marcotte @
209
Amanda the comparison to Lenny Bruce was not that literal — it was meant more in the context of testing the limits of language, as outsiders challenging establishment conventions in a way they often found nshocking. I don’t use the “c” word either, but I’ll defend TRex’s (or any poster’s) right to test the limits of acceptability with it. The flip side of that is being willing to respond to the community in the comments, which is happening here now and I think that’s a fair representation of how we expect the give-and-take to work. That doesn’t mean that every flame throwing Red State cretin is allowed to show up here and dominate the conversation, but we should be willing to listen to — and address — reasonable criticism.
hackworth @ 278
I think Pach’s post was based around Tauscher selling her principles for political gain. He took advantage of linguistic slippage between the definitions of whore and crafted imagery that while supporting the argument against Tauscher as a political whore had recourse to sexual metaphors.
I’m not sure all the people commenting on Watson’s thread took the time to read Pach’s post. Oh well.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 289
You &^%$#@*&%!!!!! Happy now? ; )
Sigh, I tried to make this short. As often happens, I’m sure someone is going to come along and make exactly the point I’m trying to, in seven words. I need an aphorist…
Due to an oversheltered childhood, I am simply incapable of uttering half of the words we’re discussing here, and I have my own personal little pearl-clutching episodes now and then while reading here.
But that’s my problem, not the sites’.
There’s no “language problem” in general at FDL. I do think there are occasional specific problems, but to my mind, they generally fall under the category of “weaker posts”, not language problems. And I do think that one of the things that most marks out a weaker post is an overreliance on ad homeinem attacks, whatever the language employed. I’ve slowly come to believe that a sprinkling of ad homeinem attacks are actually OK, as long as they are used in service of a good principle. Something that happens sometimes, though, when the attacks become an focus in themselves, is that the writing itself is still so good that it is sort of fun to come along for the ride. But then sometimes afterwords I don’t feel so great.
I’ve never counted, but there must be sixty or so posts a week here, so if one or two aren’t gems, that’s still batting about 0.967 . In fact I have no idea how it’s even possible to be this consistently good. I don’t think any other place comes close to that kind of signal to noise.
As for posters mixing it up in the comments. I kind of like how Trex is around for Late Nite, and I don’t see that we are well served by Pach’s commenting reticence. But I appreciate some people may take it hard when a front-pager mixes it up with them.
Finally, I’m going to disagree a little with something RH said. I think the freedom of speech found in the Constitution is a freedom from the coercive power of a government–the ability to throw you in jail or seize your property. If you or Jane or anyone else want to place limits on the posts or comments that take place here, I don’t see that it’s the same kind of issue. Churches, for instance, have rules about what you can and can’t say (and even when you’re allowed to open your mouth) and nobody thinks of that as coercive. I might think it would likely be counterproductive for you to have too many such rules–after all, discussion is one of the main draws here, as opposed to church–but I’d be hard pressed to say it’s unconstitutional. I do think the boundaries need to be clear, though, if there are to be any. What pissed me off most about the infamous Washington Post comment-deleting episode was that I had taken some time to write a comment; if I had known they were just going to delete them all I would have done something else.
I’m off to bed. I look forwarding to learning how vile I am in the morning. Best to all!
“asshat”? You made me laugh, and for that I thank you.
jennifer from pittsburgh @ 291
Jane, I was going to bed 2 hours ago when I saw this post. I’m kinda sick and beyond tired.
Thanks for giving us this space to revisit this discussion on FDL itself. Sorry more critiques didn’t take the time to show up and make their arguments here…
Night kids.
Pachacutec @
18
I’m drawn to this comment on a variety of levels. If the problem was that you were overbearing in your comments, why not remain in the comments but try not to be overbearing?
I don’t know if you were. I wasn’t there. But I think it’s worth considering the role of moderator in the threads, how it calls into play–or can call into play, if we choose–a set of moves distinct from those used in main blog posts. The tricky part is that same writing can be fantastic in a post, but overbearing in a comment. And it isn’t because the writer is suddenly mean spirited in the comments–just that the power dynamics and logistics of a comment thread are different for front pagers. This is a challenge that only the main posters are faced with. Commenters don’t have that responsibility or challenge of moving between two roles on the site.
I think, actually, that this points to a larger issue for blogs in general. We have posting policies, comment policies, ad policies–but we don’t have discussion moderator policies.
I know, for example, on DKos that the front pagers are asked to take on certain responsibilities in the comment threads that saddle them with a slightly different profile than everyone else.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
That damned, lazy Christy Hardin Smith sleeps in on Saturdays. My coffee is COLD by the time “Pull Up A Chair” FIIINALLY comes up on my monitor. I wonder why people aren’t addressing this? I feel like a voice in the wilderness!
I hope I made you feel better, Christy. {{hugs}}
RBG @
66
*whistles in corner*
Amanda Marcotte @
209
Great post…thank you.
Swopa @ 297
Yeah! What’s the fun in being a ReddHedd if you can’t be a flame throwing, foul-mouthed, fiery-headed bitch now and again? :)
Someone has to be the grownup. Guess you got tagged, so to type.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
Swopa @ 297
Plus, she drinks tea and takes pictures of birds. And she was lawyer! Bad, Christy….BAD!
Feel better now?
from a lurker @
300
OK, i didn’t want to do this but you give me no choice.
Bite me.
Agree with above comment
Totally disagree.
1) This blog is not full of “haters” – nothing could be further from the truth. 2) It would be impossible for any commenter on this blog to reach the level of hatred and hate mongering done by Coulter, Limbaugh, etc.
This country has nearly been destroyed over the past six years and unfortunately there are plenty of real obscenities to discuss at FDL.
For me, the problem isn’t the occasional shit or fuck. It’s the way we choose to attack people.
The problem with Ann Coulter is not that she looks mannish, and it feels like something right out of Heathers when people use terms like that (not to mention the transsexual jokes can make the left blogosphere feel unfriendly to actual transexuals; a number of transsexual Kossacks have complained about this). Similarly, I’ve seen more than one attack on Ellen Tauscher focus on her physical appearance, like whether she looks like a linebacker. I don’t like that crap any better coming from progressives (or alleged progressives like Maureen Dodd); it’s just cheap snark.
Tauscher takes her marching orders from corporations and moneyed interests, and is on the wrong side of almost every issue. Coulter is a batshit insane fascist, and comparisons to Leni Riefenstahl are, I think, completely fair. But calling someone “sandpaper snatch” (or Old 60 Grit or whatever the current name is) says that her offense is not related to her monstrous politics, but the fact that she’s menopausal, dried up, used up, no longer attractive, not like the very attractive proprietors of this site.
I love the part of Firedoglake that rallies the community to support progressive candidates like Ned Lamont, or that has all the best explanations of what’s going on with the Valerie Plame affair, that does hilarious sendups of the right. But please resist your inner Maureen Dodd.
TeddySanFran @
310
Try as hard as you like, my friend, you only meet the impressive part. Sorry.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 291
Pachacutec @ 294
Hey Pach -
#1 – I hope you return to our previous level of engagement. I miss it.
#2 – Somewhere above this thread sez the mods care for the lawn o’ comments. I’m inferring that means the “front pager” ain’t pruning the comments. (or usually isn’t).
For “front-page” posts, would it be useful to have a line after the end of the piece (in happy editorial italics, natch) stating the author does not moderate comments?
p.lukasiak @ 254
Its not a postulate, its a fact. Might behoove you to learn the difference between the two. Might save you some embarrassment in the future, unless, of course, you prefer to be unrestrained by facts.
Patrick 4/4 @ 282
Oh, my face is red (hence the “wax” comment :-)
G-P-b @ 311
Arghh! I’m melting!
You are an amazing intellect.
(This, btw, is how you use ridicule to wipe the floor with a troll. You can take notes.)
Joe Buck @ 317
As I said on my blog a long while back (don’t bother trying to find it; this is not intended as a blogwhore), we shouldn’t be attacking these people for being mannish crypto-transsexuals, we should be attacking them for being EVIL INCARNATE.
But maybe that’s just me…
Liberal communities like ours are so diverse that I think trying to develop a comprehensive policy is just impossible. I’d say don’t bother with that. Just take it day by day.
That’s the best I can come up with. :)
I am of the opinion that to forbid a word is to give it power. I’ve been through the argument over the “C” word on another blog, so I have a not-safe-for-work link at my fingertips, Cunt:A Cultural History
Maybe I wouldn’t get EPU’d if I could type more quickly. :-)
It’s fascinating to read through the posts and see the wide spectrum of opinions, and the wide variety of “takes” on what is acceptable discourse. We are a microcosm of the human world.
I agree with Christy on the topic of those highly-charged c- and n- words (highly-charged because of the long, tangled, and often vicious history of their usage): don’t use them myself, don’t like hearing/reading them because of the hurt they can cause, won’t bar others from using them.
So much of human communication is, as kirk murphy said, tone and context. Furthermore, body language is a huge component of communication that is often overlooked, even in face-to-face exchanges. In venues like FDL, e-mail, etc., we’re operating without the myriad of cues that clue us in when we talk in person. It’s no wonder we overstep other people’s toes. (A treasured family malapropism.)
I’m a reader of this site because I appreciate – in main-page posters and commenters alike – the activism on issues that are important to me, the commitment and passion in service to those issues, and the sense of community that, for the most part, is manifest here. May we all stay true to the better angels of our natures, and reach past our differences to *make* a difference for the better.
carolyn13 @ 325
Shouldn’t the domain be michaelhunt.com?
Remember, thread closes after 12 hours.
Patrick 4/4 @ 328
Almost… finished… typing…
Valley Girl @ 9:32 pm (#287)
I’m sorry, Valley Girl, I can’t recall. What’s worse, what I was really trying to point out, but not doing very well, is that other commenters are taking that role on themselves, accusing folks of being concern trolls. They certainly don’t have the benefit of knowing whatever it is that goes on behind the curtain (and I hope I’m leaving the impression I don’t know what that is, because I don’t).
UPDATE: Come to think of it, *ilson46201 had an amusing habit of re-writing some comments that came from trolls, although I must say in the cases I witnessed he was spot-on, and they were plain old trolls mostly, not concern trolls. Hope that helps. If nothing else, it may explain memory issues on my part. [END OF UPDATE]
Another point my confused language illustrates is that folks know moderation goes on here, and there’s clearly some mystery about what does and does not happen in moderation. I can only recall two comments of mine that were ever altered, and they were marked as altered by the mods, not just silently deleted. I’ve learned to trust the moderators through experience. A first-time commenter might not be aware of what’s happening if his comment disappears into moderation purgatory, and as we all know lack of information never stops people from speculating.
TRex @ 108
I have no problem with anything you’ve written, but appeals to the First Amendment are a bit of a hobbyhorse of mine. Freedom of speech means the government can’t censor you, and I don’t think anyone here is questioning that right. It doesn’t mean freedom from consequences, which is what we’re talking about here. You have a right to speak, but you don’t have a right to an audience (because other people can exercise their right not to listen) nor a right to be without criticism. Just as one of us can say we think the criticism is inappropriate, those criticizing can say they think the post is inappropriate.
Now as it happens, I’m generally more in agreement with you than with them, but in either case, we’re not talking about the right to free speech here.
RBG @
318
Damn. I was going to bet he met only one of the two criteria, but I picked the wrong one.
Either that, or you did.
Eli — I appreciate your comment at 255. Thanks.
Jane’s sandpaper snatch post was brilliant, strategic and effective. Oh, and funny ; )
The day to day potty mouth crap, over and over about feces and descriptions thereof in the comments gets REAL old quick though. If the shoe fits, grow up. Lenny Bruce you ain’t
It’s not all that hard to tell an ad hominem attack from a fast-held opinion. Commenters who scream censorship are usually guilty of the former, rarely the latter.
some random ideas while trying to think further on this….
when offense is taken, there is a BIG difference between responding with:
1. “STFU, you’re not allowed to say that – it’s against the rules”.
or,
2. an invitation to reconsider the implications and effects of how language is used.
a voiced objection doesn’t necessarily include an attempt to censor (#1).
carolyn13 @
325
Mom? Is that you?
I TOLD you not to come here!
You know what I don’t understand? How come Brits can use the c-word with abandon and Americans can’t? I kind of think that this is a form of sexism in and of itself. That to use the word for female genitalia is somehow more vile and despicable than to call someone a dick. And therefore women, being SO MUCH MORE DELICATE AND SENSITIVE THAN MEN must therefore be protected from that word AT ALL COSTS.
I say we use the words and dis-empower them as epithets, which has kind of always been my philosophy of swearing. But like I said at the end of the Late Late Nite thread, if my use of certain words hurts people who would otherwise be on “our side”, then I am not so attached to them that I must continue to use them.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
I’m usually a very obliging masculine Internet persona, but in this case I …
Well, the “Pull Up A Chair” threads are usually over by the time I start reading. There – a complaint.
TRex @
108
That and RBG’s #66!
I’ve been commenting at forums on the internet for about twenty years. There’s no more need for more PC here than for less…
Good introduction to this topic, Jane. When Christy brought something like this up back in August, the comments weren’t nearly as, as, as – what? I’m not sure, ’cause I haven’t read them all. But I’ve read half, and I’m glad people here care as much as they do about how and what others think.
fdl is to the brain what right-wing talk radio is to the lizard brain
Bottom line, vulgarity is lazy writing.
If you work hard at your craft you will find the right phrase or words with the higher impact.
Vulgarity is like cooking with spices, to much you overwhelm the dish.
Clear concise writing is the goal, you want readers to remember your message not the vulgarities.
Organic George @ 340
This was, in part, the reason that I forswore swearing entirely for several years. But eventually I came around to the viewpoint that sometimes a good cussword is helpful for emphasis. Plus I find that “shit” quite often *is* le mot juste for many Republican policies.
Cujo359 @ 338
exactly. We all need to move to the same time zone. The only times I’ve been able to “pull up a chair” have been when I was already there from an all-nighter.
Eli @ 341
Like right after that last Giants game? :)
Did someone already conjur up you can’t yell “fire” in a theater? I’m no wallflower. I’ve been in fistfights with men (and won), and had more than my share of smashdowns with both sexes, but calling women, any woman (or man for that matter) “cunt” is the equivalent to “fire”, especially in the Progressive community. It’s not about ‘free speech’. It’s about hate speech.
Amanda had it right in comment 209. Pach and TRex and Jane seem to simply to be unable to admit when they are wrong. That is the essence of why fdl is no longer a ’safe’ place for free speech and real debate.
I thought we were opposed to Bushco and the evils of the cabal, but no in fact it’s just about being the biggest bully on the block and oh yeah, traffic.
Rob Zuber @ 343
Too fucking right. Oy.
Well, Christy, post 309 hits you coming (me) for being a layabout, and posts 338 and 342 hit you going.
I hope you are satisfied!
Pachacutec @ 293
I agree that it’s a shame, Pach, that you felt you couldn’t engage the commenters. I for one enjoy that, but because I do, I’ve found that many don’t, and when I tried to pursue the arguments (but, I hoped, not them, personally), they were still offended. So, like you, I backed off. Debate is fun/stimulating/educational for some but not for others, even though your intentions were fine. For what it’s worth, you can take me on any time.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 291
Well Redd, I have a bone to pick with you.
Two, if I can find them.
(1) On a happy Saturday baking thread, I shared my post-move failure. Your advice was crucial in restoring the home bread line.
I gained 10 pounds.
(2) I’ve talked here about the Federal criminal trial of my friend. I’ve helped EarthFirst! (and other non-violent groups of civil disobedients), and praised them on FDL.
A few weeks ago, my friend Jonathan Paul pled guilty to burning a slaughterhouse where wild horses from our Federal lands were brought to death.
Now EarthFirst! doesn’t burn stuff, but many blogs would throw me off anyway – I’ve spoken up for a confessed eco-criminal.
You’ve never said a word of rebuke, never even commented on my criticism of active Federal prosecutors.
Seriously –
you are a former Federal prosecutor. Jane meets with Big Dog.
I’ve been helping EarthFirst! and tree-sitters for over a decade, and I was one of the team responsible for bottom lining logistics for the protests AGAINST the DNC in LA in 2000.
I’ve mentioned this enough that both of you – and the mods – have surely seen it, yet I’m allowed to comment here.
This tolerance will be too much for some to endure!
You have been gracious and welcoming of my comments. All the paranoid conspiriacy theorists I know will be upset.
Good work.I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m not ready to calm the fuck down. We’re not out of the woods yet, and those bastards are still in control of our country. There is plenty of thoughtful, well researched writing here. There is also some invective where (i firmly believe) it is called for. My bumper sticker reads, “If you’re not furious, you haven’t been paying attention.” I will not be civil to thugs and their tools. The people in this administration are criminal, and the the congress and the corporate media have been accessories to their crimes.
I stumbled on this site a while back, and the writing here…and the discussion (rambling though it sometimes is…full of links and sidelights) brought me back from the edge of despair and renewed my hope.
I’m not genius material, but I do know we’re in deep trouble. I read other blogs, and find news and views that I appreciate, but I participate at this blog because we’ve managed to accomplish something real here and I choose to support that and the people who made it possible.
I’m a firm believer in the right of self-expression. If a post makes me uncomfortable, I don’t read it. It doesn’t put me off firedoglake, though…or even whichever writer wrote the post. I think that the front pagers here are pretty representative of Americans in general, and frankly, I find the idea that a few choice words are going to damage my sensitive soul a bit laughable. What I find really soul-destroying is watching the rape of America.
One of the great attractions of the blogosphere is that it is a place where we are enabled – nay, encouraged – to let it all hang out. The downside of that, of course, is that sometimes the caffeine and the rush of freedom leads us to hit the send key somewhat in advance of the little editor in our heads (see: “Dooce”). I have been guilty of this many, many times since I first started engaging in on-line discussions, way way back when CompuServe was THE hot place to hang out online, and the best discussions to be had were on the Mensa bulletin boards. Man, you had to bring the A-Game if you were going to hang with the eggheads.
As many others have pointed out in this overly masticated thread, the point isn’t to censor TRex’s use of the venerable old “C-word” … the point is that overuse starts to sound like hysteria. Which makes it easy to pigeonhole our arguments as being the rantings of fringie frothing at the mouth hippies and powerless victimhood cherishers. It’s far more fun to compose an erudite deconstruction of the latest neocon ridiculousness than to just hurl scatological insults.
Then again, sometimes a c-word is more eloquent than a thesis (apologies to Ginsberg)…
Oh, my god. “The Chronicler” is Althouse!!!
Ed*ard Teller @ 10:06 pm (#342)
Ironically, an earlier commenter (from EST, presumably) complained about it being too late.
Sounds personal to me, Hope.
Not personal mommy…professional.