
I want to talk a bit about the site, my view of what we do, and the use of language here. Recently there was a dustup when comments made by TRex and Pach were deemed objectionable by some and based on this, characterizations of both as "sexist" were made. While I basically think that people who launch these kinds of attacks, drawing false conclusions based on a superficial analysis of their respective works that consists entirely of the posts in question and engaging in gender- or race-baiting as a way to get their point across (or draw attention to themselves) are either shallow analysts, bad faith artists or both, the discussion of the language used in these posts is a valid topic of discussion and that conversation should have happened here at FDL One of the words used in TRex's post — "cunt" — triggers the comment moderation function here and when the text was quoted in the comments they wound up in the filter and did not get sprung in time for the conversation to be conducted at FDL. So tonight I wanted to give people the opportunity to air their views here, and Pach, Christy and TRex are all here to add their thoughts, which vary by individual.
I don't use the "c" word personally, though I'm hardly a saint on that front — nothing gets Michelle Malkin's blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O'Beirne "sandpaper snatch." Since that time it's been refined by the community (thanks to punaise) into "Ole 60 Grit" and it has become something of blogospheric lore — Jim O'Beirne's notorious hiring of Heritage Foundation interns for the CPA is now commonly referred to as the "60 Grit Employment Agency." We are, first and foremost, writers (and artists) here on this site, and I will not impose limitations on how people can express themselves here. We test the edges of communication, and in doing so often get perilously close to the edge and occasionally step over. It's what makes us exciting, challenging and interesting, in the tradition of Lenny Bruce or Hunter S. Thompson.
I have personally been notoriously short tempered with the Barbara Bushes amongst us who castigate us for lack of "civility" and our part in soiling their beautiful minds. It's a classic accusation leveled against outsiders by members of the established order trying to disempower them, rather than addressing any validity of their viewpoints. Nothing written here has ever led to thousands of bodies lying dead in the Middle East (thank you WaPo and NYT) or approached the extreme outrages of Rush Limbaugh or Ann Coulter, yet we are constantly subjected to characterizations of being dirty, foul hippies. But the fact is that the right owned the public discourse for decades by using hot language that shot straight through the limbic system and engaged people in a primal way while the left wrapped itself in dry wonkery. Our use of strong language is concerted and, I believe, effective. As Alinsky said (thank you RBG):
Ridicule is man's most potent weapon. It is almost impossible to counterattack ridicule. Also it infuriates the opposition, who then react to your advantage.
It's one of the tools we use, some of us more than others, and I think our success is largely a testament to its effectiveness.
But as Pachacutec said in an email, trying to define appropriate limits is going to create a lot of gray area:
I think the online medium does operate according to some more unique physics of communication and social conduct. While I don't think it's acceptable to lie, as Coulter and her ilk do, I do, for myself, think it's acceptable to engage in targeted character assassination and takedowns to strategic purpose, as we did with Lieberman.
Now, when you're doing these character takedowns, insulting or mocking people, some people are going to dislike it. The material we have at our disposal should not include, according to our own principles, racist, homophobic or sexist content. Then again, once we get into the takedown, mockery and insult arena, there are some gray areas that people could interpret either way. Take for example my post on Saturday that started this latest tempest. The #3 definition of the word whore from my online dictionary describes a person who has compromised principles for personal gain. At what point does my application of the term in that context cause offense? Is it the use of the term at all? Is it when I use the language that recalls fellatio rather vividly but metaphorically? I can see arguments for either, but my point is, once we get into the character attack mode, according to some notion that online communication allows for communication that is not likely to occur in direct, offline social discourse, we're going to run into grey areas and lines with this.
A discussion of what is and is not acceptable within this type of discourse is appropriate and desirable here at FDL, and to the extent that we have been dismissive of those who don't agree with our individual interpretations of what is acceptable I take responsibility for setting the tone. And while I think that attacking us (or other liberal bloggers) for a lack of "civility" is often the tack of bad faith artists with other agendas (especially on the heels of our success during this last election with Blue America and other projects and battles we've successfully undertaken), it is our responsibility to take those critiques offered in good faith seriously and be willing to engage in a reasoned conversation about them in an appropriate time and place. So please consider this the appropriate time and place and feel free to express your views (as always with respect for the posters and fellow commenters), and we'll be here to answer your questions.



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I’ll just be making myself a cup of tea. Thanks, Jane.
I am at a loss for f’ing words.
Fix me one, too, while you’re up, Christy. If you don’t mind.
Is there a problem about this?- I have always thought that the earthy language of this place is remarkable and valuable.
Okay, I’ll watch my M*F*ing mouth. But I don’t have to like the bastahd emperor do I? ;)
Actually, I’m going to do Swiss miss tonight. Now, now, I don’t meant ‘thaaaat’.
I’d like to refer people as well to this rather raucus discussion at Tom Watson’s place. Obviously I don’t agree with everything said, but I did offer many responses and the discussion did grow more substantive, generally speaking, as it progressed. Also, to the extent people have questions of me, some of them may already be answered over there. I don’t mean to redirect conversation, only to add to the reference material available to the community.
rwcole @ 5
There’s been a bit of a stink out there, rw. Jane’s opening the door to some dialog it turns into an all-out Bolshevik-style Blogrom.
rwcole @
5
Me too, rw, me too. I think the conversation is about a bit more, however — how we front pagers engage with commenters. At what point is someone a “troll?” If we jump in and start arguing with someone, are we “shouting them down” or just engaging in lively debate?
Execellently put.
I have little or no complaint with the occasionally excessive lack of decorum here in the Big Flaming Muddy. Shit-talkin’ happens.
It’s the response to people who take exception to the shit-talkin’ that gets a little worrisome. The extended screaming over at dkos over Trex’s Japan post was par for the course (including the FDL responses) and is one of the reasons I stay out of the comments there.
The blow up at Tom Watson was harder to excuse. You’re point, Jane, regarding taking honest criticism honestly applies in spades here. When people call us out for perceived mis-steps, we owe it to ourselves to consider where the criticism is coming from and the motivation for it.
Words have power. There is no doubt about that.
I semi-seriously equate the use of those extreme, emotionally-charged words with the use of firearms. You shouldn’t pull out your .380 at every sign of potential trouble, but when you DO, it had better be justified.
And following that analogy even further:
“It’s better to have a “fuck” and not need it, than to need a “fuck” and not have one.”
Oh, and I do have a permit for it. ;)
EPU’d Breaking…
Iraq Panel to Recommend Pullback of Combat Troops
WASHINGTON, Nov. 29 — The bipartisan Iraq Study Group reached a consensus on Wednesday on a final report that will call for a gradual pullback of the 15 American combat brigades now in Iraq but stop short of setting a firm timetable for their withdrawal, according to people familiar with the panel’s deliberations.
http://www.nytimes.com/2006/11…..r=homepage
Rudeness is to be avoided.
There is no one solution that will satisfy everyone. So, blog owner, please impose your own and I hope it tends to the extreme of allowing everything (except I hate ad hominem attacks). If people dont like “vulgarity” then they should read something else. But whatever you do, somebody wont like it. So dont worry and be happy!!!
Jane,
If you think I am one of the “bad faith artists with other agendas,” you are wrong. Further, what you characterize as an “attack” was criticism, plain and simple and honestly meant. It had my real name on it, and I stand by it.
My post was the third in a series on writing by progressive commentators who dipped into sexist terms, from Maureen Dowd to FDL. The posts and FDL bloggers I called out are part of a trend that I and clearly many others find troubling.
Further, when I asked TRex why he hadn’t approved my original comment, he replied on my blog:
Doesn’t seem to be an automod, but a TRexmod.
Finally, the main point of my post was that this kind of thing hurts the greater cause – which is beating this gang of thugs driving our country into historic depths of ignominy, and ensuring a real progressive agenda.
Using this kind of language helps the other side especially when we have the highest-ranking woman is U.S. history and a likely female nominee.
I’m saying it was stupid. Bad strategy. Not smart. Bad for business. So incredibly clumsy and ham-handed that it made me wonder (in purposeful hyperbole, to be sure) whether this might not be some double-reverse Rovian tactic.
Yeah, I know it’s “punk” and “Smashmouth Liberalism” but judging by the comments on my post, plenty of liberal women don’t appreciate it either. You should understand that they’re both angry and hurt.
And when people turn away, the choir gets smaller and more insular. So who are we going to convince then?
Thank you for this post and the opportunity to comment.
Cozumel @ 13
Like I said the other night. Conservative yoga. The art of bending yourself into logistic pretzels without ever actually changing anything.
In the past, I’ve engaged in debate with commenters here, and in some cases that has led people to feel I was being overbearing. Having risen here as a commenter, it’s a little disorienting to become accustomed to the extra power and deference people accord to the front pager. So, I’ve kind of stopped doing debate in the comments, because it intimidated people, and made some think that differing points of view were unwelcome.
To me, that was weird, because in my mind, engagement in debate is a sign of taking someone seriously, and hashing out ideas with them a token of respect. But not everyone experiences conflict that way, so, in response to community feedback, I backed off.
Hurting someone’s feelings is possibly a cardinal sin.
isnt having a debate what its all about?
Patrick 4/4 @ 11
I’m not sure I understand your point. If you’re saying that Watson labeling TRex and Pach as “sexists” was valid, it wasn’t. Whatever comments he had about the use of language, it’s hard to take them seriously when he starts throwing around specious claims like that. TRex and Pach are not sexists, period, and anyone who wants to start off the conversation with that assertion is going to be met with quite a bit of pushback.
Really…..
I don’t use the ‘c’ word unless the situation truly calls for it. You see, cunt stands for somthing and it is not vile, but it is true.
Can’t
Understand,
Never
Tried
This fits those who deserve it well. I will always lump (no pun intended) Ann Coulter, Michele Malkin and yes Rush Slimbaugh and Bill Orally make thelist as well.
So you see, certain words may be vile, but if you think about it, it fits!
All things more or less in moderation. I’m not being wishy-washy here; I’m all for the character assassination of those who have no character, but I don’t think words like “cunt” or “asshole” will wound any target as effectively as deviously clever and well-crafted ridicule. (My favorite quote, from a Versailles aristo: “Vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.”)
These sorts of words usually backfire on those who use them. The writer looks sophomoronic, unable to muster anything better than high school taunts.
This site is appealing exactly because the knowledge and convictions of those who post and comment are delivered with slashing wit.
Don’t censor by any means, but don’t stoop to conquer either.
Pachacutec @ 18
;) I’m rarely intimidated.
What’s good enough for Dostoievski is good enough for me. He was a tough talker.
Been sent to the land of moderation….
Please release my previous comment
Please
Well, for starters, in terms of my perspective (she says, sipping her too-hot tea), I laid out a good bit of that in this post back in August. And I think it pretty much sums up how I try and work things here at FDL. But that’s just me.
I have no clue what set off the sexist criticism but I do know that just because somebody isnt sexist doesnt mean they cant say something that somebody hears that way. On the other hand some folks need to grow a skin if they are going to engage in debates on the net
oddball at 24 — dang, I just checked the mod queue. (goes to look again…)
On the language issue again- (and I now understand that the language only a part of what is being discussed)–in the case of FDL the language is part of the message—it would be hypocritical to pretend to attack conservatives for their “magical thinking” and yet pretend that the use of anglo saxon words rather than latin to describe body parts constitutes a great offense–it would be to express belief in magical thinking.
Trust me, Tom, if I had seen your post on the night in question, I would have been more than happy to respond to it. In fact, I generally have to be pulled back by the moderators from responding with naked hostility to commenters who irritate me.
When you asked why I was afraid to display your comment on my post, I thought you were asking why I hadn’t updated it to include your complaint, hence my response.
I am terribly sorry some good people got their feelings hurt by things I have written. I try to aim my flame-thrower at people who richly deserve it, but there is some occasional collateral damage.
That said, I feel it is worth pointing out that people who get their noses out of joint about the things I say and write should be aware that things are not going to go any easier on them in other parts of the blogging world. You can’t do this job with a thin skin.
The people who are so gleefully proclaiming me a racist and a sexist should know, however, that I do not indulge in the luxury of judging people by their groups, whether that be their race, gender, orientation, religion, or political philosophy. I allow every individual to piss me off on their own merits and act accordingly.
Dammit! just spent 10 mins composing a comment and it disappeared!
Jane, maybe for this we should change the auto feature that closes comments after 12 hours? I for one would be willing to bring back the preelection timing feature since traffic is closer to normal now. Maybe there’s a good reason not to, but I thought I’d throw it out there.
For those not in the know, to manage traffic and bandwidth stuff, we set comments to close automatically after 12 hours heading into the election. We did not want the site to go dark the way it did during the CT-Sen primary, and I was blogging fresh posts until 3 AM EST election night.
What better lead to follow for “civility” than the Vice President of the United States, Dick Cheney? So with that in mind…
“Go fuck yourselves.”
Now that’s class with a capital “ASS.”
Okay — I just freed up a couple of stuck comments. If everyone will refresh, you should see them. :)
I spend my working life writing for businesses–carefully crafting, parsing, massaging, and, at times, beating strong words to a painful pulp. (Ok, maybe I’m being moderately dramatic but not really.) Anyway, the point is, I have lurked and occasionally tossed in a comment here and there for over a year because of the sharp, emotional, and grab-you-by-the-eyeballs-and-force-you-to-read writing here. From the front pagers and the commenters. God for more of this energy and use of language that actually means something! Your words have kept me sane and engaged and even hopeful in rare moments.
I overlook words that I don’t particularly like, or read them in context and either agree or not. If a discussion gives me heartburn, I go back to work or reading or the dishes or to bed. You know, you can turn off the Internet as easily as you can flip the channels on the TV remote.
What drives me insane is that too many people have a massive case of the “politically correct, I’m superior, you’ll harm my sensitive sensibilities” attitude. To them, I say bugger off. Go somewhere else if we’re insulting you.
Ok, I feel better now… :)
In reading the entries on this blog, I have frequently felt that there is a certain level of hatred at work here beyond anything justified by any wrong done by the opposition.
I have considered myself a dissenter from the mainstream for most of my life, but have never felt much kinship with haters, whether I agreed with their politics or not.
The problem with haters is that when they acquire power, they are the most extreme abusers of it, again regardless of their politics.
I guess I have a greater faith in the fair mindedness of the American people and in democracy in general. I don’t think ad hominem arguments are either necessary or useful in the project of self-governance.
I assume this preference for civility that I am expressing will draw vitriolic responses. If so, I will be as unimpressed by them as I was with the “success” Jane had in “beating” an opponent by giving her a label related to her anatomy and not her ideas.
Tom W. @ 16
We speak for ourselves only and if we are “helping the other side” in the process, they don’t seem to see it that way. Our traffic continues to soar, and while many have been quick to make the argument that we need to become more “dull” and “moderate” so we can enfranchise more people (and in the process please their particular tastes), that isn’t what we’re here for. And I think our successes speak for themselves.
Too many deja vus of late….40 years later and we are having the same conversation. When do we get to evolve?
I don’t like to be called a ‘c-word’ and I really don’t even like to hear the word applied to Coulter.
Is the ‘n-word’ still as widely used as the ‘c-word’?
Back in SF in the ’70’s, gay men and women were allies. Our common enemy was the rich, straight white male. If I was called a c-word, my gay friends were insulted as well. Why would a gay man call a woman a c-word? I know there are words that gay men don’t appreciate being called…and I wouldn’t think of using them…especially on a progressive blog.
Certain words are very powerful and create an intense feeling of anger…I believe lives have been lost over the use of such powerful words…why would firedoglake want them used? Unless, of course, women are the last ones to spit on….
Jane, I like the tone and content of your post. It is reasoned and open. It invites thoughtful dialog.
I don’t have any particularly strong opinions about word usage, but I do object when a habit of frequently demeaning others develops, regardless of the words used. The right wingers indulge in that sort of personal nastiness more than anyone on our side, as far as I know.
One exception to my indifference: when my daughter was around thirteen, I tried to discourage her from calling other girls “slut” or “whore” simply because those words seems to suggest that females are not allowed to be sexual or to enjoy sexuality. The tip-off to me is that there is no corresponding male word for those insults!
Also it seemed odd to me that she and her friends would say “don’t be a pussy” or even “don’t be such a girl,” I mean they would say that to other girls! Can you imagine anyone saying, “don’t be such a boy”? That’s a strange thing for a girl to say.
Thanks for your great site!
Here is where I am on this.
Have you ever seen a dead person? In the flesh?
I have and it made me say some very vulgar things (which were nevertheless totally inadequate in expressing what I was feeling)
So hearing those words in political debates with people who have produced thousands of dead people but dont ever want to see them is fine by me. Again totally inadequate to express the true feelings but what can you do when words fail you?
Pachacutec @ 31
That decision was made by our fabulous moderators, to whom the task of running this stuff (as volunteers) falls. If they’re okay with it, I have no problem.
[Mod Notel consider it done]
I don’t use the “c” word personally, though I’m hardly a saint on that front — nothing gets Michelle Malkin’s blood boiling faster than to remind her that I once called Kate O’Beirne “sandpaper snatch.”
As far as the “c” word I think you answered your own question with that ; ) Sandpaper snatch doesn’t have the same conotation I think
BUCK FUSH!!
Seriously though. With the topics covered here some profanity is warranted. I’ve been amazed that over the last 6 years ‘I’ve been able to still be outraged with this administration on a nearly daily basis. Makes me thing I’m still sane. Yet, they up the ante daily, its amazing in a horrible way. DAILY outrages every morning almost. If you aren’t outraged to the point of using profanity by his lot I think something is wrong with you. That said, I do try to save the profanity for when I really just can’t help it.
Carlin – Words you can’t say on television
It’s not the language, per se, but the tone of the post that accomodates the language.
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others – rightfully so – for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Some of the posts under discussion strayed enough into that territory that, as I was reading them I thought, “Well, this is a bit ironic, isn’t it.”
Tom W. @
16
I think it true we don’t desire a smaller choir… but I also fear a choir without passion.
Pachacutec @ 18 & TRex@ 29 are pretty much at either end of the spectrum of posters. Personally I think TRex often gets too worked up and rather agressively patrols his posts, occassionally to the detriment of freewheeling discussion. Sorry but you’d make a hell of a sheepdog, you wield a nasty kabosh sometimes.
Yes and I prefer a more refined distillate: satire. I see satire as the most potent and maddening weapon that truly civil people have right now and this community thrills me with the outlet it affords its participants.
Thank you firedoglake for all that you are.
I saw the most recent trouble brewing when Walcott referenced a post here as “projectile vomiting” and linked to Tom Watson’s post decrying same.
My own sensibilities are on the rather crude side and I think I’m offended more by the holier than thou types of comments by those who deem themselves more refined than the general run of folks here. I remember several years back when hoi polloi was the word of the day for a month amongst the talking heads. When they said it I detected a pattern of usage that made it seem as if the word was a synonym for “those people”, to be uttered with a sniff from a finely boned nose and a flick from a dainty wrist, pinkie extended.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, just say it. Fuck ‘em if they can’t take a joke.
I think that we can, and do, police our ranks. We should leave the white glove inspections to those who give a shit, but insist that they do them at their own place, and on their own time.
I trust Ms Hampsher, and will abide by her rules in her house.
The very fact that you have opened this discussion is exemplary of the reasons I have stuck around despite being personally bothered by some of the posts and some of the hosts smackdowns.
I do think that there can be a danger of the venue becomming an echo chamber where dissenting thoughts are dismmissed as trolling.
But on the whole, over time it is fairly obvious that is not the case.
Evidence the very idea of asking for input on the subject of bounds.
What I see here is people with “Strong convictions”
(and a better than average command of the english language)
As to the choices of words – my biggest criticism of ‘obscenity’ is that it is so often used in place of a strong argument.
I do not think that is generally the case at FDL.
Certainly the used of any word does not mark the speaker as sexist or racist without context.
Jane Hamsher @ 21
My point, i think, is that the criticism, wrong or right, was honestly meant.
Previous history should be taken into account. Too often, the criticism isn’t taken issue with, the person making the criticism is.
re: Wolcott
Someone made me aware of that link via email, and I thanked her for it, saying:
martha @ 36
ooooH!
more strong language
^_-
spot on martha
I didn’t like the post about Tauscher.
Very visual imagery…that post made me click the computer off for a while.
I think some writers will season their work more than I like; or with more vivid images than I care for. I don’t want to look at “Guernica” all day long either, but God forbid if someone censored it!
There is also discussion on this matter at Shakespeare’s Sister and Feministe (top 2 posts).
First post; I’m usually a lurker here. Jane’s comments about the use of language by creative people really resonates with me. I am sick of the PC crowd, who, in the interest of not hurting feelings, de-germinate language. It’s the infantilization of discourse. I post a bit at DKos, but I am becoming increasingly exasperated by the hall monitors over there (the TRex thing being one; and BTW I lived in Japan for 18 months and used to speak pretty good Japanese and TRex’s observations were pretty spot on ).
What is appropriate language is, for me, ultimately a question of what is good writing.
A favorite quote: “In this country, vice is immaterial, but ridicule is fatal.” Comes from a Fench aristo at the court of Versailles.
Anyway, gratuitous name-calling just makes a commentator or poster look sophomoric, as if he or she couldn’t marshall a real argument to bring down his or her target.
I’m all for character assassination when there is no evidence of character, but it should be done with deadly wit and solid facts, not cheap vulgarities.
I’ve always thought that finely honed snark was the hallmark of FDL. Love it.
The Canadian said:
A while back, there were posts here and elsewhere, that excoriated Maureen Dowd and others – rightfully so – for their Kewl Kids/Mean Girls sense of bullying.
Exactly. And there was Taylor Marsh’s excellent post of the anti-Pelosi sexism. And then all of it ruined by criticizing our political enemies in sexist terms.
And Jane, c’mon down off the riser and outta the splotlight for a second and hang on the floor with the rest of us, will you? It’s great your traffic is growing and you’re finding success. But don’t pretend that this kind of language doesn’t injure, because it does. And it reflects on some otherwise excellent work – yours, Christy’s and Pach’s otherwise incisive post. And it’ll come back to haunt us at some very bad time.
I watched La Dolce Vita last night and I’m unable to think about anything else really. It’s that last scene where the little girl is looking directly at me. I think it’s about hope.
Does this mean that I can once again refer to Coulter as the cunt she truly is…without being attacked and derided as being sexist?
Larry
What has driven me crazy from a bigger picture perspective is something that Jane, Christy, Pach and TRex and others have written about for years. The rethugs played offense and most of the wimpy DINOs played appeaser and defense.
Well, language is a tool as well as a particularly useful weapon, if used to one’s advantage. And, as with many weapons, sometimes it is mishandled. So be it. But use it for heaven’s sake.
Larry @ 61
AND WE HAVE A WINNER!!
Larry wins the race to the bottom!
from a lurker @ 48
I’m going to take that as a compliment, although you should know I almost never pull a comment out of the thread and into moderation. That is entirely the work of our moderation team. I’m all for smacking them down in plain sight.
My personal sense is that this is one of the better behaved and most respectful weblogs out there. There’s simply no comparison between this (and just about any blue-of-center blog I can think of) relative to something like Freeperville or even the Wall Street Journal’s weblog (which, ironically, has recently turned into a .. how many obscenities can lay on the president in a single sentence free-for-all).
I did find it odd when Egregious jumped all over me earlier today when I mentioned that Russia could also become a potential “enemy” around which Bush may try to rally support at some point in the near future, since they’re now suspected of terroristic naughtiness AND just agreed to supply a lot of military equipment to Iran, but I suppose everybody has their sensitive points.
Ms. Hamsher—you are one of the most impressive, and equally infuriating, people it has ever been my pleasure to know…and that goes for some of the rest of you as well…and yes…you know who you are.
Jane Hamsher @
10
This discussion is a great example of the value of checks and balances. Now if we could only get that back in our Federal Government…
I don’t use much profanity in the comments I leave here at FDL, but I have a subconscious appreciation of the fact that there aren’t any strict parameters that would prevent such usage if I was so inclined.
Hi pups!
Jane, I love this:
I’m glad you’re raising this topic and the lake is talking about it – and I appreciate your and Pach’s observations (10/18) and sensitivity to power dynamics.
This issue has at least three facets I stumble over:
(1) words/lexicon:
“cunt”, the “n-word” and other sets of letters wth great emotional power.
(2) tone:
“Jane you ignorant slut” vs “My learned co-discussant” – and the innumerable gradations between.
(3) conceptual:
“Cheney whores for Halliburton” vs “Cheney blew up the WTC and sent out the twins to place the thermite.”
For me, the Lake is a sort of e-coffee house where progressive people who GET IT DONE come together – and you and Christy get to decide if someone needs to be cut off for the thread or the day. Or 86′d.
Your (collective) determinations on these three axes (and others) seems to work!
Dinner’s ready. To be brief – we commenters also set the tone, to some extent.
Two nights ago I was a fool and misconstrued a perfectly well-written comment here.
I wrote a very nasty response. Your thread isn’t about me(I hope) – but I’m owning this to be honest.
I’m also pointnig it out because my stupid attack will turn off “lurkers” from joining us – and that is a very great loss.
[pt 1 - I keep losing text on wordpress tonight…]
RBG at 66 — oh sure, I don’t get to be infuriating. *sniffle*
Pachacutec @
18
very cool
very thoughtful.
it is why I read what you say.
write on.
In traveling the web’s many forums, I prefer to talk issues. What is wrong with America, and what should be done to fix it? Quite commonly, there is a pattern of degradation. The conversation moves from talking about issues to talking about politicians involved in said issues, to flaming at politicians to flaming at the other posters. As one who sees things wrong with our country, and would like to see them fixed, watching conversations degrade into strawman and ad-hominem as bloggers find excuses to misrepresent other’s bloggers opinions and launch personal attacks is disappointing.
When bloggers are more about character assassination and insults than issues, I’m gone. Next article. Next blog. When a blogger is attacking a deliberately skewed parody of a rival bloggers or opposition politician’s position, same thing. Next article. Next blog.
I am bothered when writers can’t find a better way to express their opinions than resorting to foul language. To me, this is a sign of lazy writing, of a writer who does not want to bother speaking clearly. It is also a good way of turning off many a reader who doesn’t share one’s values. In political blogs, the left talks too much to the left and the right to the right in part because lazy or angry writers are not articulating ideas in a way someone with different values will be ready to hear.
I’m also a bit upset at the high and mighty conservative writers who love to show off their vocabulary. There seems to be a notion that the more a writer can use obscure vocabulary, the smarter that writer must be. This is the opposite of the gutter side blogs that roll in the mud whenever they can, but both styles turn off the open minded people looking for ideas and ideals.
Maybe this is just personal taste, but I’d like to see y’all saying what should be done and less time trading dirty words and insults. Every four score and seven years or so there is a need for a new birth of freedom. There is a real need to reinvent America. There is more to it than an obsession with insults and character assassination.
Who can forget
“Shut your fractious pie hole.”
or Trex’s wild desire to post a black-face Malkin?
Plenty of reasonable criticism has just been disappeared here.
Your “we are never wrong, we are victims” attitude is disturbing at best.
Tom W. @ 16
In what ways, precisely? Your statements are every bit as vague as those made by finger-wagging Bush cabinet members who warn us not to say things that “help the terrorists.”
I expect that a claim of injury will be more specific than this before I take it seriously. You need to offer something a lot more concrete than “This word hurts the cause.”
I think there’s two issues here: the words used and then what happens when people react to those words.
Personally, I’d hunt you all down and throw eggs at your cars if you stopped writing the way you do. For whatever reason, you all found each other and this place has a distinct voice–the writing is great as is.
But the comment threads at the site rarely rise up to the level of the posts. The threads seem more like strings of shout outs than discussions. I don’t know why this happens, but I suspect it’s just the software. This is a blog with huge traffic, but it still uses comment software made for blogs with small traffic.
But it is possible–and I raise this in good faith–it is possible that there is a dynamic on the site that is limiting dicussion. Strong FDL writing that if posted on DKos would generate huge discussions–tend to lead to a bunch of disconncetd comments, complements to the writers, and a few personal jibes from people who don’t like the site (but come here anyway–which I really don’t understand), and that’s pretty much it. I love to participate in comment threads when I find good writing on progressive blogs, so I feel frustrated by this dynamic at FDL.
But beyond my frustration, I think the comment dynamic can also turn frustration into anger in an unproductive way–in a way that distracts from the ideas in the post.
The “c**” issue raised here was one of those moments. You all have really good descriptions of why that kind of language is not just appropriate here, but valuable to the progressive movement. But when the topic was brought up in that thread in question, for some reason the good description never made it out–until this new post. Learning about that comment filter now brings it all into perspective.
So, I appreciate the invitation to feedback very much. If I had a Chanukkah wish list–it would the addition of diaries on FDL to allow for discussion to flourish on the site.
This can be self-fulfilling, no? By lighting up the blogosphere over this at your place, alerting the folks at Feministing, Shakespeare’s Sister and elsewhere, I can’t think of a better way to wave a big flag over something that could have rather passed with less heat and more light in discussion, all for the wingers to pay attention.
When we attack people like Schumer or Tauscher, it is for throwing progressives – Democrats – under the bus. And yet there’s a group in the lefty blogosphere that seems to find some of it’s raison d’etre in monitoring sites like this one for perceived offenses. Were your sites to be attacked by wingers, we’d stick up for you, because we’re progressive fighters. But it gets to feel like the knives are already out for us, and by some of the comments at your place, Tom, some people don’t even try to deny it.
If the concern is with handling right wing attacks, as they most assuredly will come (when they’re not busy now eating each other), then the solution is solidarity, not preemptive family feuds.
I’ve written six responses to this statement, all of which have made generous use of four-letter words. I may have to bail out of this discussion for now before I start banging heads.
Tom W. @
16
Tom I’ve spent a lot of time the last three days in the comments on your post criticizing Pach and TRex. In that time you have never responded to the fact that by calling someone “insane” you are deploying in the exact sort of language that you are criticizing.
Your “honestly meant” criticism lead with a baseball bat to the face. You called Pach “stupid”, “insane”, and suggested he’s a plant for Karl Rove. You do a disservice to your argument by opening with ad hominem and then complaining when the people that you attacked (but had not attacked you) respond in your comment thread with the same air of venom that you brought to your post. I’m not defending anyone’s diction here, but you got what you gave.
You have also repeatedly referenced that you use your real name on your blog posts. I haven’t seen Pach and TRex stoop so low as to respond and while I don’t speak for them, I do believe you’re coming across like a cranky blogger on this one. What, exactly, is your point? TRex has revealed his identity multiple times on this site, so I’m not sure what bearing that has on him. And Pachacutec is entitled to his privacy, as is Digby, Billmon, Retardo Montalban, zuzu, piny, and a slew of other phenomenal anonymous bloggers. Really. What is your point?
I would add that the debate in Tom’s thread has been a good one and I recommend people check out the whole three day discussion here.
I think foul language is a lot less of a problem than attacking or just being mean. Plenty of total A-holes never cuss and plenty of righteous individuals do. (Like Lenny Bruce and HST did). Never hear Donald Rumsfield cuss (Henny Penny!) but he is the most one of the most offensive S.O.B.’s to ever make evolve to a biped.
The spirit of the post is what can something offensive (to me anyway) not nessaciarly the actual language.
Larry @ 61
You see, I just don’t know if that’s OK here. I feel that if someone deserves the moniker, it’s Ms. Coulter. But knowing the FDL community (where it became a matter of heated discussion not too long ago when a woman’s legs were displayed in a very innocuous post), I don’t think that it’s necessarily permissable to use the word in that context.
I like the British use of the word…it’s almost always used to refer to a guy, and it’s about the equivalant to calling someone a “bastard”.
It’s sort of the “nigger-nigga’” debate (and with that line, I’m kind of wondering if I’ll set off the auto-moderation software).
Speaking from personal experience, my hearing-impared wife always seems to hear me if I whisper the word from three rooms away…I don’t know how they DO that!
RBG @ 66
a fine compliment to a truly remarkable woman.
Larry
I’m not looking for perfection here, nor do I expect it (or anywhere else for that matter).
Sometimes (very rarely) fur flies here and a choice word or two is used that offends some.
I can’t say that my sensibilities haven’t ever been…ahmmmm…stretched once or twice, but 99.9999 % of the time, the discourse here is far more civilized and moderate than 5 minutes on any grade-school playground today or 25 years ago (no, we haven’t evolved much to our chagrin *g*).
That said, there is NO single other place I’d rather hang around than FDL!
There are many outstanding blogsters writing in lots of other places, but there ain’t one other place that I’ve come to feel as Home.
And Home is where they have to take you in
when you have nowhere else to go.even if they don’t like you. even if they don’t agree with you.Tom W 69 — you called TRex and Pach sexists. They’re not. There is no ‘riser’ and there is no ‘us.’
Bringing across what I’ve said at Tom Watson’s place:
I think the feedback loop at FDL has become harder to manage as the site has gathered momentum. (The shift to WordPress may have also contributed.) Diarists at DKos can raise ‘meta’ issues; MetaFilter devotes the MetaTalk section of the site to housekeeping; Haloscan-based comments have a tendency to be more amenable to topic-drift and meta-discussion. This post is a great first step — thank you, Jane — but it shouldn’t be the only step. FDL ought to have somewhere where it’s always an appropriate time to bring these things up.
I don’t like the direction of Late Nite, but that’s your choice. But you ought to consider that Late Nite posts stay at the top of the pile for hours at a time. (Last night’s was up top for 11 hours.) As such, they’re often the first thing that people on the east coast see in the morning, and the last thing that people on the west coast see in the evening.
In short, Late Nite weighs upon FDL’s tone — and on casual visitors’ perceptions of FDL — in a way that the cascade of posts during office hours do not.
If you think that Late Nite is what makes FDL successful, then feel free to go with that hunch. I disagree, but it ain’t my blog. But recognise that in recent months you’ve alienated plenty of people who defended you over the blackface fracas, and to rumble about jealousy or establishment conspiracies just accentuates any ‘with us or against us’ sentiment.
Mistake genuine concern for concern trolling, and you’ll fulfil your own prophecy and end up with a bunch of people who’ll look on with indifference if the tremendous momentum you’ve built takes you over a cliff.
I’m not averse to edgy humour. You quoted me way back when, noting that editorialising wasn’t Lil’ Debbie’s fucking job. I still laugh myself stupid at Derek and Clive out-c*nting one another. I made a pilgrimage to Bill Hicks’ grave a couple of years ago, and curse the cancer that kept him from being around to rip into Bush Minor. Lenny Bruce’s ‘Are There Any N*ggers Here Tonight?’ is revolutionary to my ears. But Late Nite these days sounds much more like Michael Richards.
Jeffrey–I’ve noticed an increase in the quantity and quality of serious discussion and argument here- a very positive thing in my opinion.
Hear hear! Hear Fucking Hear! Nothing written here has been as obscene as what Tom Friedman wrote just today, that we need to “eliminate” the local militias and “start again” (I paraphrase). So these people need to be killed for the crime of not wanting the BushRumsfeld designed occupation of their country, and if a few more innocent Iraqis, including children, are killed while we eliminate the miliitias, if a few hundred more American children are killed along with ‘em (and a couple of thousand maimed pyshically or psychologically along the way), well that’s the price of doin’ business in Tom Friedman’s Flat World, where we had to go into Iraq to make a show of strength after 9/11. It’s a little less crude, glib and narcissistic than Cohen’s “therapeutic violence”, but it’s every bit as disgusting.
So if I say that Tom Friedman is a fucking wanker, it’s not that I’m crude, it’s just that English language runs up against its limits in trying to describe the sheer moral bankruptcy and intellectual obtuseness of people like him who, somehow, actually manage to get out of bed and look at themselves in the mirror every morning, their inability to grasp the consequences of their typing serving as a sixteen foot concrete wall that protects their destructive arrogance.
Fuck them, fuck them all. I’d say damn them, but I’m too much of an agnostic to find comfort in some notion of justice in a next world.
Jeffrey Feldman @ 76
Seconded!
this is so interesting and intricate–goddammit–that you made me turn off the daily show rerun.
thanks and keep it up.
Christy Hardin Smith @
2
I sure picked a good night to pour a cup of coffee with Bourbon and Baileys in it. (Damn head colds… I wish I could have brought Hawaii’s weather with me to CA) Just settled in to read the post and now I’m off to read the rest of the comments.
when the wingers are reduced to complaining about the vulgarity of all things it is pretty clear they have nothing of substance to argue with. i am happy to ignore that kind of carping because it really doesnt matter to anything. by now, havent we all figured out that no matter what we say or do they will find SOMETHING to complain about? 31% of the people STILL LIKE BUSH!! They arent listening or cant understand the arguments and if all they do is complain about four letter words it is time for me to leave my computer and go have sex or something else useful.
I use the c-word quite frequently. It is actually for me and my partner the new “bitch”. I adore irreverancy.
This isn’t church.
As for being on echochamber, thank goodness. If it wasn’t, you’d get this.
I no longer post or visit that real estate site because of it. I can’t believe the things they accused me of.
Context is everything. I mean everything when it comes to writing and reading.
If you call someone a bitch, with no context, or in the context of simply disagreeing with her, I think that’s over the line. A clueless man trying to hit on a woman and calling her a cunt when she tells him to put it where the sun don’t shine is awful. However, calling Ann Coulter or Michelle Malkin a cunt or bitch in the context of explaining why (and there are plenty of examples of the “whys”) can be not only appropriate, but the spot-on way to express how you feel about these…well…bitches.
The sad fact is, on the left, we do have some delicate flowers who seem to eagerly search out reasons to be offended. And Jane, you cannot make these people happy, no matter what you do…they’ll find something that offends them.
What I’m trying to say is that in the context of a site with a “voice” such as this one, and part of that voice is edgy snark, a reader should expect to see stuff that everyone doesn’t like.
As for me….keep it up :) FDL is one of my daily reads. And I don’t want that voice to change because a few people took offense.
rwcole @ 85
I’ve noticed it, too. But it’s still not what it could be–and I think the real power of a progressive blog is the way it fosters participation. So I see the comment threads as a starting point–and hope there will be much better FDL software and comment discussions up the road, so to speak.
…and just for the record:
Jane, I love the way you take no prisoners. Rhetorically.
Jeebus, you people all need to lighten the fuck up.
is piggington site real? kristineboy?
or did you make it up?
Clearly references to specific organs are out of bounds. You can talk about the monkey but only in the third person. Didn’t you Sons of Bitches get the style book?
I hesitate to offer this, but given the tone of Jane’s post, perhaps some might be interested.
I found this site a while back. Not ultra-early on, but well before it moved from blogger. First blog I regularly read. I eventually engaged actively in the comments, under another name.
I went kind of inactive for a while. Largely due to a mental health crisis one of my children had. Thought I still enjoyed reading Jane and Christy’s posts, I just wasn’t feeling verbose for the longest time. I also began sampling other sites even though my time was limited. I also spent what little time extra I had working for someone in the governor’s race in my state.
When I came back to read regularly, readership was up. Still liked the writing and perspective, but things changed. I appreciate snark and am hardly a wallflower myself, but there was a mean spiritdness I picked up on. I hope this can be taken constructively – I will not single out the particular main pager, but one of them, whose work and perspective and life experience I respect, can really be nasty when attacking someone for being fat, among other things. You know there is plenty to take someone like KLo on for without resorting to that. But I have noticed this repeatedly in this persons writing, so it wasn’t just a one off. There are other examples, but I don’t think I need to belabor the point. I’ll just say that I have winced on a number of occasions.
Another thing to note. I have probably posted 5-10 times under my new handle. Not a single time did anyone engage with me in the comments. Please don’t think that bothers me, I am far too thick skinned for that. I just mention it for your consideration. Earlier on it seemed a lot more open that that. Maybe it was because I was considered a “regular” back then – there may have been some then that feel the way I do now. But it does seem that regulars banter back and forth with each other.
Please don’t feel the need to respond or defend. I’ll still stop by to read some of the main page posts, which are good. And its Jane’s site, so the tone can be whatever she likes. but if the attitude is that I can just bugger off if I am offended that people are attacked because of their appearance or what they wear, then maybe I should take the advice of a previous comment and bugger off completely.
I just thought that maybe some of you might be interested in this perspective, coming from someone previously familiar with the site.
To Jane and Christy – if you like you could e-mail me and I will tell you what my handle used to be, just so you know I am not full of shit. I recall that a comment or two I made way back was even moved to the front page.
My internet went out so I’m on Treo now. Add my name to Matt Browner-Hamlin’s comme t above and I’m good.
Many psychologist theorists have come up with various paradigms for addressing mistakes. Pach is the psych major — check it out. Hint: It involves recognizing when a mistake is made.
global yokel @ 69
I agree. Also it is not just about words, but parallel/complimentary worlds of critique across the genders.
Jane – your slap down of Dowd (who has pissed me off for years on her crapping on women) was just purrfect!
jane hamsher @ 99
Que? Are you suggesting you’ll egg your own car if you stop blogging as you have in the past?
Save yourself the trouble Jane…
RGB — thank you for that high compliment. Your patience with my more infuriating qualities is both impressive and appreciated.
Hmm. I used to spend a lot of time on a forum which shall not be named, and then one day, I wrote, “John Yoo is a sniveling little cocksucker.”
That was censored as being unnecessarily rude to all fellaters. The intent of it was to be rude to John Yoo. Deciding not to be censored, I simply stopped spending time there (and stopped supporting them financially).
But, the tendency to interpret language too finely in order not to offend anyone is a form of self-censorship. We, and others, are forever complaining about that failing in the press, so to expect that same inclination here is a bit, well, difficult to parse.
What few wish to admit is that political correctness, like anything else, can be taken to absurd extremes. Call some politician or public figure a “weasel” and the people with weasels as pets are up in arms. Everyone knows what calling a sleazy prick a weasel means, but, it’s guaranteed to make a weasel-lover somewhere flinch–even though the person intended to flinch was the sleazy prick.
As for sexism and language, sure–but that can exist without saying a single “dirty” word. There are some incredibly foul, disgusting women in the world for whom the “c” word appelation would be complimentary in relation to what they actually are, but there are some who feel that denigrates all women. Actually, it doesn’t–it denigrates the subject. That’s a crucial distinction, I think. To say, “all women are c**ts” is sexist in its inclusivity. Saying that Michelle Malkin is a flaming c**t might well be accurate in its specificity and its vituperativeness. Sometimes that’s an essential part of ridiculing those who deserve ridicule.
No one gets upset (well, except those with Hitler’s tears tattooed under their eyes) by villifying Hitler in ever-more creative ways, but would one tend to be more reserved in one’s language, these days, if Hitler had been a woman? I would hope not.
Cheers.
Jane – your slap down of Dowd (who has pissed me off for years on her crapping on women) was just purrfect!
Still another point: Why is it okay, virtually obligatory, to comment on Hillary’s wardrobe and thighs, and Barbara Boxer and Nancy Pelosi’s alledged Botox, but pointing out Kate O’Beirne’s resemblence to a Budweiser drafthorse is out of bounds? Down may have started this trend, but she’s hardly the only one.
Candy-asses who can’t take a bit of a rough and tumble environment can go to their fucking clogging club or whatever.
This fightr, in which we recently went to the locker room with a three-point lead, is hardly over.
I think Jim Webb set the tone we all need to take with repukes in every venue, every time. NO QUARTER GIVEN, NO EXCUSES ACCEPTED.
The only way to make the repukes irrelevant is to DESTROY them. Since we can’t start shooting, we need to take every chance to smack them down,. hold them responsible, make them uncomfortable, humiliate them, deride them, ridicule them and make fools of them.
If anybody doesn’t have the stomach for that, I suggest they take their place in the stands and let the people who can get in there and HIT (there i go with the football metaphors again) get in there and do the job.
There is no room for civility until we have a veto-proof majority and the white house.
THEN we can see about a civil discourse. Not before.
Okay, I’m back. Went outside and smoked a cigarette.
I have this to say:
We live in a democracy where our freedom is speech is enshrined in the constitution which binds us together as a people.
You absolutely positively do not have to agree with everything I say, but when if comes to my right to say it, BACK THE FUCK OFF.
I don’t know how I can put it more clearly than that.
montag @ 104
No – you were unnecessarily rude to snivellers.
Patrick 4/4 @ 109
I think the little people should file a class-action defamation suit.
Cigarette
Mmm that sounds good.
One further thought: TRex has talked about ‘collateral damage’. Well, the invective of Late Nite leaves a blast crater that carries over into the comments threads.
The satirist traditionally wields a scalpel, not a bludgeon, and is all the more effective because of it. No-one reads the Coulters of the 1740s; people only know they existed through Alexander Pope’s responses to them. Or as that man’s friend once wrote:
Jane @84: as I said to Christy chez Tom, you have the benefit of knowing Pach and TRex personally. We, on the other hand, can only judge them by what they write.
Guitar bastard…
I can’t agree more about Webb. They guy has earned the right to tello Bush in the WH that he is full of shit and he did it with grace. He didnt confront Bush. That freak came to him.
Nobless oblige? NO MORE!
The French in 1789 had it right with their sharp new toy for dealing with the aristocracy.
steve kyle @ 41
Excellent comment. Pretty much says it all in a nutshell.
In society, civility serves the critical function of keeping things running smoothly according to the status quo. This is well and good in its place.
Now think about firedoglake.
What does it exist to accomplish?
In a nutshell, you might say that it exists to challenge the status quo, bring about change, and improve society by stepping “out of bounds” of normal discourse in order to achieve a new vantage point from which to view and evaluate the way things currently stand in our country and our world. To do so, we absolutely must confront reality, dead bodies and all.
It seems to me that the important work of FDL can only be accomplished if we deliberately avoid getting caught up in matters of “civility”. From time to time, fine, but too much hand-wringing brings us right smack dab into Althouse’s realm.
Civility and decency are two extremely different concepts. Once might say that civility is one of the greatest impediments to decency.
I have every confidence that FDL will continue to focus on being decent, which necessarily often comes at the cost of being uncivil.
I second Crick’s sentiments.
Frankly, I’m all for ridicule as long as it’s backed up by examples.
I think that is what defines the Left blogosphere vs. the right wing hate-ards – we back up the ’stuff’ with facts/links, they just rely on unsourced innuendo and ‘group-think’.
It doesn’t matter what we do or say, we will be characterized as dirty fucking hippies. We could sit around sipping tea with our pinkies in the air and dabbing daintily at the corners of our mouths with fine linen serviettes, and we would still be DFH.
Pach’s “whore post” acts as a marker that gives depth to the range of voices used by us DFH. And it was funny.
It was also true. There is perhaps nothing that has so fucked our political system than the rampant influence peddling (bribery, to call it by its real name) that runs our government. To take one of the more egregious and shameless practicioners and call her out the way Pach did was certainly uncivil. But incivility is an appropriate response to such indecent behavior. Given the choice between incivility and indecency, and I’ll take incivility every time.
I quit in 1984, at age 30. It was my birthday gift to myself.
I love my fdl home…. without the edge, I might as well just watch tv.
rwcole @ 111
Yeah. Too good. Just had to have one myself.
TRex @ 107
I doubt if many here would quarrel with your right to say anything. The issue, I think, is the wisdom of saying it.
I generally find myself to be beyond offending, but people of good will may differ.
I don’t have a car. There is only Kobe’s car, I am just the chauffer.
montag @ 104
The comment about John Yoo does nothing to refute his ideas. And it is ideas which need refuting. Speculating about what is coming out of his nostrels or going into his mouth only indicates an unwillingness to analyze why he’s wrong and explain it.
I’m not hearing as much from our regulars that they felt stifled in their ability to express themselves here, but I am hearing some people who say they are former readers say that. Some of them also say our regular commenters are mindless sheep. Now, I’m not trying to start a pie fight, but are the commenters here mindless sheep, or do they just have another oint of view from those who are lodging complaints?
You may think I’m being provocative, making a point, but really, I’d like to get a sense of what people think, purely form a site and culture point of view.
okay, first off I haven’t read any of the previous comments…
My take on “civil discouse” is this…. in almost all cases demands for civil discourse are bullshit.
“Civil discouse” is generally something demanded by those in power of those who have little or no power — and its a means by which those with power allow themselves to ignore legitimate objections to the use/abuse of power.
I refuse to engage in “civil discourse” with those in power — if anything, I’ll be as provocative as possible in my language. I’ve called the Executive Vice President of an Ivy League University a “scumbag” in public — and with good reason. Everyone knew this guy was a scumbag — and everyone condemned me for saying it. But what it accomplished was that people became far more willing to agressively challenge this scumbag, because next to me their challenges looked civil.
The message here is this….when you see bullshit, say “Bullshit” as loud as you can. If you see someone acting like a cunt, call him or her a “Cunt” as loud as you can. Because everyone really knows its bullshit, and everyone really knows the person is a cunt — and unless you care more about your own personal ambitions than the truth, speaking the unvanished, obscene truth is the most effective way to make that truth part of the public consciousness.
jane hamsher @ 84
Who gets to decide this?
You?
Is my brother a sexist? I would like to know.
The thing about writing is that the author does not own it once published.
Is Ted Hughs a sexist? I remember TRex going medieval on a woman writer calling her all sorts of names. So, OK for your people, but bad about them?
Bully trait — can dish it out, can’t take it.
Pachacutec @
18
I am so sorry. It’s all of our loss when this happens. I don’t want to agree with everyone and learn far more by reading along with passionate debates of differing opinions and choice of words expressing them. Including what I don’t like.
For a long time now I have admired Janes point of view on this subject. Now I wont try to sum it up, just continue to savor most of it as long as it lasts. I will never take it for granted.
Christy, Jane, TRex, Pachacutec and so many commenters here enrich my life most every day. Say what you want, Please! I am so tired of the err on the side of polite no kerfuffle approach to dialogue on topics that are at times so terribly gruesome and important.
I trust each and every one of the post writers or mods to do what they think is appropriate at the time. The willingness to have this conversation and revisit as needed only confirms that trust.
As a former moderator (don’t have time to do it now), I can offer some perspective.
There seems to be a minor meme from posters at the Watson blog laying blame at the feet of “the moderators”. I started moderating back when FDL was Jane and Christy. Most of my many many hours were spent clearing out polish spam from the threads, and def. not trying to stifle dissent. If there was a questionable comment, or one that I didn’t understand, I put it into moderation, so that others could look at it and weigh in.
I always viewed my job as a moderator not as proactive, but reactive, in the sense that my main goal was to try to understand and execute the choices that Jane or Christy would made, but at times that they were not available to moderate comments themselves. I did this for many months, with considerable dedication, because I believed in the two strong female voices given by J and C. I have never deleted a post because I found it personally antithetical to my viewpoint- I favor letting the discussion roll, barring obvious, like really really obvious, troll inputs.
So, if anyone wants to get into moderator bashing, please distinguish between the moderators (small m) who clean out the spam and release comments from moderation, which happened to end up there for reasons totally unrelated to content (like too many links, too many paragraphs, etc) and front-pagers, who can also “moderate” comments, or delete them at will.
Pach, I have no problem with changing the time window of closing posts back to 24 hours. The closing of posts after a certain time frame was based on the moderators (small m) observation that after a certain point, the only comments that appeared in older threads were SPAM, pure and simple. Not trolls, not dissenters, just plain spam. At one point, the closing window was 3 days. Same deal- added comments just spam.
Alas, Pach, despite what outsiders might think, and perhaps you yourself might think, moderators (small m) get virtually zero feedback as to the details of things like time for closing posts, problems with WordPress, and the like. We (myself anyway), unlike you, don’t chat on the phone on a regular basis with front pagers. Pretty much left out of the loop, and have to make it up as we go along. At best, I would interpret this as a sign of trust, at worst I would interpret this as a certain class distinction between the CEOs and the people who take out the trash (moderators, small m). Moderators (small m) do the work that they do at FDL to support the efforts of the front- pagers. We don’t impose the “rules”- like “the 12 hour rule” out of some entitlement as moderators- we do stuff like that to try to keep things running smoothly- in that case, on election eve. We moderate (small m) to serve, and a greater awareness of how hard we work, and what we actually do, coupled with more communication would be much appreciated.
Julie @ 120
Thirteen years and two weeks later, i could start again right now.
njr @
47
Amen!
Does a vicarious cig count? I gave it up 35 years ago. Still miss it. I think I’ll join you all in a vicarious one though. (Don’t tell).
Not exactly OT: here’s what happens when you get oversensitive about parsing language use.
Well, let me give you one word of advice, John. Don’t. You’ve been right in there with the instigators in not letting this go, and every time you whine about it you give them ammunition. If this is how you handle criticism of your “botched joke,” you aren’t yet ready to takw on the Swift Boat Veterans.
If an apology is warranted, make it–once–and make it count. If a counterattack is appropriate, make it–once–and make it count. And then move on. But don’t stand around in the ring trading jabs unless you plan to follow up with a knockout punch and end the damned fight.
It’s funny how the n-word has become taboo, yet the c-word is still here….and we are right now having a discussion on why it is man’s god-given right to use it to refer to women who don’t agree with them.
It does seem like the language on FDL has been on a downward trajectory. To me, the problem with out of control ranting or the use of major strings of profanity is that it’s not effective. It might get a like-minded crowd worked up, or be fun for a subgroup or a clique, but it chases off a newcomer and it gives a skeptic a reason to be discounting.
Blogs keep people informed, but they can also change peoples minds. Flaming rants do neither…
Jane Hamsher @ 38
I don’t believe this is the whole story, Jane. I hear the “we are artists” claim, and I respect that. Say and write what you want, and how you want. If that is all there is, then you are right.
But you and Christy did something else this year. You purposely and enthusiastically enlisted dozens/hundreds of us in a “cause.” And part of the cause was to convince hundreds/thousands of others to act/vote in a certain way. You used this blog to start/lead/feed/encourage/grow a political movement (and thank the goddesses you did!) and I don’t think you’d suggest that this was not part of this blog, because it was. There was a lot more than artistry going on here. You brought in Pach to focus on that other part.
I could be mistaken, but I think Tom is asking you to consider the implications of that calling us to the cause for how we conduct political discourse, as well as how we conduct personal discourse within the group, so that the group can stay together, work together, debate and teach each other, but still care enough about each other to remain a cohesive movement.
As Bob CT says, language matters. Tone matters. And if you want to lead a movement that is not bounded by those of us who show up here, every day, then you have to acknowledge that different words and different tones appeal to or repel different types of people. Who is your audience?
Well, last year, you/we wanted to expand our audience. You added SPOTLIGHT. At your urging, your movement e-mailed your posts and Christy’s posts, etc tens of thousands of times, to all kinds of media folks in all parts of the country. And many of those posts were meant to be sent to reporters and editors in Kansas, and Tennessee and … well you get the point. You made a “deal” with me because you fully understood this point. And you apologized, not as an artist but as the leader of a political movement, for a perfectly legitimate “artistic” work, which I and others defended, not because you thought it was wrong or outside the artistic bounds but precisely because you understood the need to empathize with the sensitivies of those you wanted to reach.
Be an artist, be an advocate — you have my respect either way. But I think we have to acknowledge they aren’t the same and they may require different langauge to be successful.
4:20
TRex @ 106
No worries, have another smoke (theropods smoke?).
But here’s a philosofistical question , and a serious one because I think its answer can only lend creedence to this venue. Where does the, “Can’t yell fire in a movie theater,” line exist on the blogosphere. Is it classic rules of libel; or there is something more intricate at work here? (oh, oh, please, please be more intricate, please…?)
Richmond @ 131
Good for you!
Just chug a cup of coffee (or down a Vivarin) and pretend it’s a nicotine rush. ;-)
EvilDrPuma @
132
This is what I believe Jim Webb will give others the stones to do.
eh…stupid fuckin blockquotes anyway. Sorry about the hatchet-job @ 67
p.lukasiak @ 125
Thank you, Jesus, for Mr. Lukasiak.
Will you marry me?
re: Valley Girl…
Christy, Jane, Pach, TRex….you NEED to give the moderators a bigass thread giving them the props they deserve. They are “invisible” to most of us, yet their contribution is invaluable.
Fuck em
Your snark is great.
Pachacutec @ 123
I think there is probably some reticence from people who might take issue with a post or a point. This is unsurprising behavior in any group. It is inherently difficult to oppose the prevailing wind.
The perceived cheerleading from commenters is more a function of people very grateful to have a place where they can read what they’ve been thinking themselves and to talk with like-minded people – no matter how harsh. Or silly. Or serious.
Baa.
Pachacutec @ 77
Ever been in the back of a bus (or the passenger seat of a car) and you get the gut feeling that the driver is going too fast, or taking too many risks? Sure, it’s exhilarating to be blasting along with the windows down, but then the feeling hits you that you might just end up in a mangled wreck.
It might just be an irrational feeling, but the last thing you want from the driver is to laugh and hit the gas some more.
Patrick 4/4 @ 109
{laughing] But, that’s not what the moderators and site owners told me. :)
p.lukasiak @ 123
Ahhh, I smell the very nexus of a philosophical postulate! Tell me more!
jane hamsher @ 100
A Treo, eh? How’s that working out for ya?
Much as I like FDL, Haloscan comments are much more Treo-friendly – less overhead of stuff to load.
the chronicler @ 126
Oh, I can more than take it, I assure you. If I had my way, this would be a fucking brawl. Don’t mistake the cautious actions of my cohorts as an endorsement of soft tactics on my part.
Tom W. has an interesting point about audience. As the site matures, there is the question for its authors of whether it wants to have one personna for the regulars but some other personna that can be projected to the outside. Before spotlight, that wasnt an issue. but now it is.
I think that the way the blog is ordered around posts solves the duality.
This post is obviously not one for spotlighting to David Broder/Adam Nagourney-land; this is just us talking.
Just like there is dinner table conversation for the family and the conversation you carry outside.
slade @ 133
I view that C-word as something of a swear word – I have no compunction using that word, regardlesss of gender, to describe its subject.
I’m kinda disappointed Tom left and the other bloggers who wrote in support of his critique have not stopped by.
ceci at 115 — I don’t know if you meant it this way, but that was awfully sweet. And crick (or whomever you used to post as at some point), glad you are back. With everything we have been juggling through the election, a lot of the little things got lost in the shuffle. And welcoming folks, unfortunately, appears to be one of those things — which I will certainly try to remedy, for my part. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. :)
p.lukasiak @ 142
Amen to that! I was a moderator on a forum…and it was a forum dedicated to Photoshop software. I spent a LOT of time deleting posts that were offensive and trollish…that is, posts that had nothing to do with the forum topics, but were written only to offend. I can well imagine what moderating a political site like this one would entail!
Let’s hear it for the mods!!
Patrick 4/4 @
144
You may be right about some but I promise you, the prevailing wind only blows a fart in its direction.
I am not a fart.
oddball @ 135
Is that what time it is? ‘ere!
;)
Pachacutec @ 77
Pach, there are two posts at Feministe, nothing at Feministing.
jane hamsher @ 121
You would throw eggs at Kobe’s car?!?! I’m shocked.
TRex @
108
Maybe. But you don’t have the right to incite violence with your words, for example. So I think the warning in caps is overstated.
But there’s another point, here: on any group blog, readers are looking to front pagers not just to state opinions, but also to foster discussion–to respond to even the most critical remarks with an eye towards growing participation. Telling someone to BACK THE FUCK OFF in a main post invites people into the discussion. Telling them the same thing in a comment thread does the opposite.
I think it’s possible to be aggressive as a writer and accomodating as a discussion moderator–without sacrificing integrity, honesty or freedom of speech.
Last I heard, he was married to Mary Magdalene, and frowned upon divorce.
Plus, he’s dead.
wandering mind @ 123
Well, you’ve assumed I had nothing to say about his ideas. What I mentioned here was just the introduction… and that was what garnered the attention of the site owners. You make the fallacious assumption that that is all I’ve had to say about John Yoo and his ilk.
Cheers.
First of all — WHY in the $#%$#%$# should anyone be “polite” in these times? Our country if falling apart and we still say “Please” and “Thank you?” F that.
Secondly, why can the right-wing loons say anything they want to and it is never uncalled-for, but for a librul to say FUCK is the end of the world?
Thirdly, the “accusation” of being HIPPIES is hysterical! I am 53 years old and even *I* am rather young to be called that. And to accuse 30- and 40-somethings of being “dirty hippies” is a hoot. Wanna know what it is? THEY are old coots, the real hippies made them feel inferior, and they are finally “GITTING” them. Yawn.
I really like those who are most accused of “saying naughty words.” Try reading some literature. Jesus!
I am trying not to cuss, but this is SO 1955. IF you don’t like a certain contributor’s language, DON’T READ THAT ONE! Christy seems to never cuss — read her writing. If TRex “cusses” too much for you, don’t read him.
I just get sick to damn death of Americans trying to make everything a vanilla-type boring deal. I say GOOD to difference!
Thank you mods, whoever you are, for what you do for FDL. :D
This site (along with John Amato’s) rekindled my hope in democracy when I discovered it several years ago. I thank you all for that. But there have been times that I really wanted to share the ideas at this site with acquaintences and family but have not because I knew their visceral reaction to the presence of the occasional offensive words (f***, s***, c***, etc.) in front-page articles would simply upstage the strength of the idea being presented. I’m not suggesting anyone stifle how they need to express themselves, especially in the comments area (which is really a conversation, and anything reasonable should be ok)…but I do wonder, in the front page, is the use of such language really that important or necessary? In the marketplace of ideas, those expressed at your site have to me proven very valuable. Why would you want to do anything (like using words that might not sit well with some people) when it mostly detracts from the value of your message? I took the time to write this, not to criticize, but to simply ask you to consider the importance of ensuring your ideas have a chance of reaching outside the tight knit circle of the blog’s present readership?
I’m afraid to post, but I will. I know I’m not one of the more intelligent or careful posters here (I’m an exhausted single parent of a small child on call 24×7 and in perpetual brain fog…), but I’ll give it a go. Perhaps I’m one of the “concern trolls” that you despise. I hope not. The following sort of scenario causes me to speak up:
- when groups that are not even related to the actual target get pummeled in the driveby.
As invigorating and spot-on as the curse-filled posts are (I never miss a TRex and I’ve proclaimed insta-love for Jane H.), the “collateral damage” that people don’t notice that their doing confounds me. I will offer one example:
Foley is a pedophile. An apparent creep without a conscience. It also happens that the [main?] targets of his predation were boys. So, ok, he is also homosexual.
Somebody took to calling the whole story La Cage Aux Foley. It would be a funny play on words, but for the fact that it totally veered off course. La Cage was about a committed and aging homosexual couple. Not pedophiles. Jane, you enjoyed the expression and decided to use it. But if it had become popular, if some FREEPER had gotten a hold of it, the emphasis and blame would have stayed on gays. Like they really need one more cute way to blame them for all the country’s ills.
I do not consider myself a hall monitor. I don’t want any particular power. I am sincere when I say, “Great! Fire with all guns on the right targets!” Smack ‘em down. I’m sick of them doing it to us. And smack downs WORK. I first became a TRex afficionado when he implored us to STOP playing nice on one of his early posts. It was glorious! I took it to heart and it changed my way of interacting with the people I debate face-to-face, with great success.
But, you know, the ricochets really suck when they hit the innocent.
Sometimes, it feels like it devolves into more ricochets than good shots once commenters start egging each other on.
Julie @ 153
we are the mods we are the mods we are we are we are the mods
G-P-B @104 & TRex @105
These are pretty much prototype posts that sum up the attitude of soil-your-own-house that people are debating here.
They’re posts fueled by rage, and the rage thus justifies the obscenities. We’re all grown-ups here and I assume we can all swear like sailors too, so that doesn’t impress. And the agressive in-your-face junkyard dog delivery is none too appealing either. TRex for his part starts off perfectly reasonably then throws out a big fuck you in all caps. But to who exactly? We all basically agree on the issues here. Who’s this aimed at, really?
Frankly these posts are a bit embarrassing; we’re all pissed off at Washington, but blindly spewing invective is something best done at home alone, when your fingers are NOT poised over a keyboard.
Though the community here is essentially anonymous, FDL is after all a public forum. No need to rage and howl and curse a blue streak to make your points, you do your arguments a grave disservice.
Shell @ 162
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amen to every graf
p.lukasiak @ 125
“Civil discourse” may also be demanded, of course, by those who seek more power of those on whose backs they intend to seek it. After looking over Tom Watson’s comments here and on his site, my impression is that there is no sincere criticism intended, and a good deal of power assumed. (I will not include any other bloggers who have discussed the matter at this time.) What I read is a distinct lack of respect or moderation of language from an individual who is demanding respect and moderation of language for himself and/or somebody else, and that should be a red light. There may be merit in discussing the boundaries of acceptability within this community–but not at the behest of, nor in response to, such a weak third-party chastisement.
Ahhh, I smell the very nexus of a philosophical postulate! Tell me more!
I will as soon as I figure out what the fuck “the very nexus of a philosophical postulate” is supposed to mean :)
FDL mentioned in Wonkette today…
“Giant “Republican Rubberstamp Congress” prop to be retired in whatever hilarious fashion you can think up”
:)
OT – NYT has up that the bilateral commission is calling for Bush to bring home the troops!
montag @ 160
Now you’re insulting ilk.
Jeffrey Feldman @
159
Yes, he DOES have the right. I think when it comes to restricting free speech, BACK THE FUCK OFF, is the appropriate response, whether the person is going with the flow or swimming upstream,. Who died and left you Miss Manners, anyway?
Trex. I make only one asumption about you: you a a tough talking little boy who has the thinnest skin I have ever observed in my life. You are not particularly learned or travelled, just a big mouth with second hand opinions amplified by invective.
Everyone protects you. Criticism about you is shouted down or disappeared. You have no problem calling women fat and ugly or cunts or other versions of that name. You seem to relish your coulter-esque position.
I sense you are one step away from moving back in with your parents (actually, you said that didn’t you?)
p.lukasiak @
125
Civil discourse is a luxury enjoyed by the empowered. Combine incivility with power — e.g. Bush to Webb — and you have a potent and often dangerous mixture. Calling Bush a fuckwit is quite different from having Bush call you a fuckwit.
But to some degree, FDL now wields power. (Oh, and I’ll give it up for the mods if they deign to release an early comment that’s gone awry for some unknown reason.)
jane hamsher @ 103
First Jane, I’m impressed that you’re sufficiently high-tech enough to have a back-up connectivity solution so handy.
I’ll add my compliments above and add to it by saying, that I, and I suspect several others who I have turned on to this site, would likely wander away if you all didn’t have the level of passion and energy that you do.
This is FireDogLake after all. You all are a blast to read and enjoy and great symbols of purpose and commitment to high ideals.
Personally I’m an ex-WestPac Sailor with a penchant for expressing my views in language more appropriate to the docks on midwatch. I barely notice the foul language as I frequently hear essentially every combination of assembled cuss words in strings of complexity to inspire a poet, in daily conversation.
This post and all the others associated with it are perfect opportunities to “people-watch” in cyberspace. Great fuckin’ stuff folks!
Julie @ 120
So did I.
Valley Girl at 128 — You and I have conversed a lot behind the scenes on the moderation page, so I would disagree with that somewhat. But you are correct in that, in the frenzy of the research, the writing, the posting, the discussion in the comments and everything else, we do lose sight of talking with the moderator crew enough. And we could use a lot more, frankly, because it’s exhausting work to slog through gibberish, foreign porn spam day in and day out. I don’t think folks who demand a sort of “snap to” for releasing comments understand this. And truly, you should understand how valued the moderators are to Jane and I, especially, because our lives utterly sucked trying to write and moderate nonstop, all day long, before you started.
the chronicler @ 175
And, um…was there anything negative about him you wanted to add? [-/
montag @ 160
The comment about Mr. Yoo is meaningless. It is as irrelevant as what color his house is. It doesn’t matter whether it is followed by 100 rational arguments.
p.lukasiak @ 169
I am “the very nexus of a philosphical postulate,”
I’ve information vegetable, animal, and mineral
I know the kings of England, and I quote the fights historical
From Marathon to Waterloo, in order categorical
Jeffrey Feldman @ 159
Since the words “back the fuck off” imply, apart from anger, a wish to place distance between antagonists rather than to close in for a fight, perhaps you could explain precisely why you regard them as an incitement of violence.
Tom, if it was not a thread where Jane had expressly permitted that kind of thing, I’d have come after you hard on that one, demanding you apologize to her. To me that sentence is totally gratuitous. It carries zero content and at the same time completely distorts who Jane is. Since Jane said it was ok, no problem, on this thread.
Jane, I really appreciate you opening up a thread to discuss this. IMO, the elephant on the thread is the pressure you, Christy, TRex, and Pach must feel to always post something interesting. I frankly don’t know how you do it. Tom, I think you make a valid point. The sandpaper snatch thing may follow Jane around. It does reinforce a theme about the liberal blogs that is unfortunate and unhelpful. I just don’t see how to get around it and I wouldn’t want to lose it. Without the “edginess,” I don’t think FDL would be where it is. I know I wouldn’t be here as much without it. Without the traffic, a lot fewer Dems would have gotten elected. Jane doesn’t go after people for no reason. They deserve it, because their actions have been a lot more obscene wrt what the Founders had in mind than any nickname we can hang on them. If a poster, or a commenter, steps over the line, we can always apologize. The whole community over time can usually make pretty good decisions about that. IMHO, I hope that the trust has been built up by the posters helps them feel freer to take risks as they see fit. (I don’t try the kind of snark that I read here. It takes talent I don’t have, but that I also really appreciate.)
I also don’t mean to imply that this process is painless. I’m sure we have lost others, but I haven’t seen op99 here in some time and I really enjoyed her perspective. I hope she comes back, but I am more convinced than ever that when the content doesn’t drive the blog, as it did when Luskin was leaking to pool boy for just one example among many, snark drives traffic, because it is fused with excellent content that we can trust. FDL doesn’t use unnamed sources.
I agree @ 142
Okay who are some of these people commenting tonight?
the chronicler @ 174
Fuck you! Who do you think you are?
Christy Hardin Smith @ 153
First, tahnks to ceci for the sentiment.
Thanks Reddhedd(sp? -don’t remember). I never really went away, I just decided to STFU and learn how to be a better listener, which one cannot do when focusing to much on what one wants to say next.
The welcoming is thoughtful, but its the engagement I miss. You know I made essentially the same comment here earlier today that I did at another site. At the other site, it led to a give and take that both informed me and apparently informed others. I guess that might happen again here if I work my way back to regular status, but given my personal situation I may not have the time to work that consistently, so I will commment palces where I can jump in and engage more freely. Of course, I will always drop by to read your stuff.
BTW, it was sonofslothrop.
JoyB @ 163
Oh you sand bagger, you! That was marvelous and well put. Your points are valid and your vision is crystal. Thank you for speaking out. I would love to read more, when duty does not call too loudly :)
from a lurker @ 167
Sorry, you’re wrong. People like you are why the damn Dems were a bunch of spineless pussies for 12 years.
TRex @
149
I don’t have a preference, but I have to concur in the sense that I cut my online-politics teeth on Usenet in the ’90s — and every “offensive” comment I’ve seen stir debate on the blogosphere (not counting LGF and other sites I don’t read) has been so fucking tame by comparison that it’s reminiscent of 1950s prudes condemning Elvis for shaking his hips.
Matt Browner-Hamlin @ 157
Thanks for the correction. You fucking bastard. Ban him!
from a lurker @
167
Well said…
p.lukasiak @ 168
You got the fucking idea by the nuts, MAN. Now just squeeze the gist out of it!
the chronicler @ 175
Ha haaaa haaaaa!!
You’re funny.
Oh, and blow me.
Yes I do get to decide if TRex and Pach are sexists. If you read one post and you conclude that the use of language is inappropriate, you better be familiar with their larger body of work before making such accusations or I think you are fairly well guilty of drawing conclusions based on too little information. I know them both, know their work and would gladly refute that charge point-by-point against anyone who cared to make it. That does not make me a bully but it does make those not willing to do the work look a bit lazy.
I could say “this whole thing smacks of homophobia” but lacking any concrete evidence of that, it would be irresponsible.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 179
Um, I would associate myself with this, and I’m sure TRex would, too.
I post, but the mods run the site.
the chronicler @ 175
I sense that “responses” like this (from people whom I have never seen post here before) will fast reduce the relevance of this thread below zero. Good night, all.
Heading home.
Late Late Nite post coming up in 30 minutes.
Who am I?
I am the Chronicler.
Remek @
151
And if the c-word bothers a majority of women, you couldn’t care less? It’s a powerful and hateful word to many. You don’t care if it angers others? And how often have you seen this word used to describe men? Maybe it’s used just to describe short, bald men….with no compunction?
And how about the n-word? Many feel like you…it’s just a swear word. OK to use it on a progressive blog?
well, this is a comment i would never make without an explicit request… i’m a big fan and wouldn’t want you-all to think otherwise. but since you asked… ;-)
first let me just say that these are only my personal reactions – no relation what so ever to right/wrong, stupid/smart or sexist/not sexist. just what i am comfortable with or has made me feel uncomfortable…
so, here goes….
i love “colorful” language used creatively. my “normal” (when my nephews aren’t around) speaking language includes many “fuck”s -but if i’m ashamed of anything, it is only the the lack of creativity of using one word so frequently.
loved “sandpaper snatch” – thought that was hilarious… but, “cunt” makes me really uncomfortable… in the same way the use of “nigger” makes me feel. and i’m not comfortable with the late nite tauscher post… in the same way i’m sometimes comfortable with maureen dowd’s column.
wow… meta at fdl.
Patrick 4/4 @ 173
Well, they damned well deserve it, hanging out as they do with John Yoo. :)
the chronicler @ 199
I doubt that.
Every blog has its own ‘personality’. Over the years FDL has established the reputation for fostering some really good give and take, especially among the commenters. Part of the reputation includes the expectation of hearing each other out – and therein lies the civility. I am not aware of forbidden words by the host/hostess, but more often read about comments getting caught in the spam filters for using the ‘trigger’ words.
If this place ever tries to please everyone, it’ll get effing boring really fast. Really, reading and commenting with the expectation of having human interaction is the best (and I mean that) we can hope for. Why ruin it with a list of forbidden words? Why not use our marvelous inventions of words to the fullest extent?
As long as one remains interesting, that is.
Patrick 4/4 @ 173
This is what they mean by Democrats becoming imprisoned by special interest groups.
First the fellaters, then the snivellers, then the little people, then the ilks. Will it never stop?!?
EvilDrPuma @ 197
Really? Well, that’s awfully good of you to say so, Pope EvilDrPuma XXIX. Let’s all pack up and go home.
crankyNYC @ 57
Welcome, crankynyc!
Here in the Bay Area, I have trouble walking about without stumbling over the big national trip wires:
Black/white
Gay/straight
Poor/rich
Renter/owner
Weird/normal
Crazy/sane
Person/citizen
European/indigneous
Antonyms from the perspective of grief and oppression.
I’ve worked with progressive and radical activists here and elsewhere. I believe language is the tool of thought.
And yet – I use tools of thought to get stuff done.
I am wary of group X’s claim for ultimate say on acceptable speech, cause I WANT TO GET STUFF DONE.
And I’ve watched productive groups spend YEARS diverted into self-absorption while sub-groups battled for control. They didn’t want to control the groups’ public service – they were fighting to determine which narrative of suffering would frame the organization’s culture.
As European economic oppression and genocide (in North America and elsewhere) imploded so many cultures, the battle for “pride of hurt” has no end point.
And while the fighting among the ideologies went on in LA, MLK Hospital degenerated into “Killer King”. Incompetent corrupt physicians were retaained solely due to ethnic loyalty.
Their patients – of the same ethnicity – died.
I’m grateful for the Lake. We respect diversity, and keep our discussions well-germinated.
And our “patients” seem to thrive.
Just check their discharge summaries – at Blue America.
The mod props are much appreciated…but do all you cocksuckers have any idea how fucking hard this particular thread is to moderate?
Whew, I feel better now.
Jane, you know I generally love you to death, but I must call bullshit. Invoking Lenny Bruce is out of line. Bruce used racial slurs and “bad” words, but always to expose the lies, not reinforce them. Not a one of you would call Condi Rice the N-word and for a damn good reason; because if you do that you’re not insulting her by the content of her character but by the color of her skin and thereby insulting all good people who share her skin color but not her character. Same with the sexist slurs. Jane, if Laura Ingraham is a cunt, then so are you and so am I. When Trex called her a cunt, he called you and me cunts. Because the word means “woman” and if you are one, he means to insult you. Intention counts for shit, unless you’re Jeff Goldstein.
I for one think Trex is funny and awesome, so long as he doesn’t lean on cheap insults. To hide behind the Muses to defend that word is lame. The Muses prefer funnier, more creative insults than reminding someone of her inferior social status because of her genital and implying that it’s deserved.
You got the fucking idea by the nuts, MAN. Now just squeeze the gist out of it!
now I need a cigarette…
This is not the first time that commenters have prefaced their remarks in this way.
This is a shame. Why should someone be afraid to post?
If free speech and open debate is the goal, the tone of the comment shouldn’t discourage or intimidate those who’d like to add their voices. And they shouldn’t have to publically disavow trolldom before making their point.
Free speech is not just about saying anything you want, but creating an environment in which everybody feels comfortable expressing their sincerely held opinions.
“If you want an audience, start a fight.”
– Banksy
The marketing M.O. of this site. Don’t expect FDL to give up the “edgy.” It puts asses in seats.
Agree with TW – climb down off the high horse. And the freedom of speech speech. Comical huffing and puffing, that. Reminds me of them pasty-faced keyboard warriors and their “Why We Fight” bullshit.
And a reference point: the Lieberman black face picture was the same kind of smashmouth, punk progressivism. It gave Lieberman an issue and a news cycle, and I remember vividly Lamont throwing FDL under the bus: “I don’t know the people who did this,” words to that effect, on national TV. This is TW’s point.
Suck it up. There’s something to what he says. Give him that, then if you must, kiss him off and move on.
Swopa @ 189
So what’s happened? Has the expansion/democratization of web communications brought in too many thin skinned people? Or are we just not used to hearing people of differing views or patterns of diction and flip our collective shit when we experience something different?
I can’t wait to wake up tomorrow and read the rest of the comments here…something tells me this thread will descend into a very creative miasma of uncivil, yet massively hysterical discourse!
G’night pups!
I tune every night to read T-Rex, he is hilarious. Of course he will say something that’ll piss you off on occasion (though not in a long while), he’s not holding back and on a deadline. And Jane with the “60 grit” comment! People need to relax and do the math. Positives way out weigh the negatives even if you’re a prune.
Pachacutec @ 190
I’m cowering in the corner, whimpering “there’s no place like home, there’s no place like home…”
oh, at patrick 4/4 @ 181…..
simply brilliant. Thank you.
How’s this for taking something out of context:
Discuss.
People like you are why the damn Dems were a bunch of spineless pussies for 12 years.
I wonder how many of the regulars on this blog understand why this is a sexist comment, that is why it is insulting to all women and not to Dems?
Connecticut Bob @
214
Well if there’s gonna be a lot of UNcivility in this thread, I’m staying to join in the fun, motherfuckers!
EvilDrPuma @ 183
I didn’t imply that those words incite violence. I was just noting that the argument about freedom of speech has limits. In our Constitution, we have freedom of speech, but not freedom of consequences brought on by our speech. “I have a right to say anything I want,” for example, is not correct. That was my only point.
But the larger issue I was trying to bring up was about the dual role that a front page poster plays on FDL–hard-hitting writer and discussion moderator.
Bastard @ 186
“Sorry, you’re wrong.”
Well argued.
Jane @ 38 “Our traffic continues to soar…”
Can someone show me where the soaring is? Do we look stupid?
http://www.sitemeter.com/?a=st…..e&r=36
p.lukasiak @ 216
A plezh.
It’s probably already been proposed, but surely there’s a technical solution to this. Something along the line of “parental controls” available on computers and cable subscriptions. It would require visitors to register, but it would answer the objection. Here of course, you simply let the user add to his profile a list of objectionable words and for that user sub a character string like **** for cunt in the posts and comments that appear on their screens. Or, even more useful, let the user create his or her own, less offensive, substitute character strings. It would be sort of like the auto-correct feature in word processing software; or mad libs which are kind of fun for those easily excited, or overexcited, by written language.
the chronicler @ 199
Here in SF, that’s a Hearst paper.
Are there any wars you haven’t supported?
Christy
Your post linked here was most appreciated, and was instrumental in keeping me reading some very interesting things.
Pach, you are welcome to use “whore” anytime you like. You are a very inciteful young man.
TRex, a little maturity goes a long way. You attack folks when you clearly don’t understand their point. You attack when it would be preferable that you debate. And we love you in spite of this.
Regarding cunt: Ann Coulter not withstanding, thirty years ago my wife explained to me that it is a very hateful word on a par with nigger, and she never expected to here me use those two words outside of quotations. I’ve always respected her request.
Jane, the black face episode is an example of what can go wrong. I knew what you meant and was not offended. Because of you, my wife and I put time and money into Ned and Blue America. I wanted to be a LaMonster. But damn, if you don’t think that hurt the cause…
Christy Hardin Smith @ 27
I wonder how many of the regulars on this blog understand why this is a sexist comment, that is why it is insulting to all women and not to Dems?
actually, I see it as an insult only to female invertebrates…
a former commenter @
56
Pach’s and TRex’s posts didn’t bother me at all when I read them, but I found these posts to be well thought out and very much on point.
I’m guessing there’s a mix od David Chappelle fans in here and people who thinks he sucks. I’m guessing there’s a similar split about Borat.
Amanda Marcotte @ 208
Jeff Goldstein has intentions? Could’ve fooled me… I’m not even sure he’s conscious.
And, I think if you feel that you’re reduced to the level of Laura Ingraham by a remark which is directed at her, not you, simply because you share a common sex with her, how do you feel about my calling Rush Limbaugh a sleazy prick?
statistician @ 222
OH MY GOD. A GRAPH. THIS MUST PROVE JANE WRONG.
Fuck this, I’m leaving. I thought this was An Important Blog. See you fools at DailyKos…
jcricket @ 201
I have to confess a certain serious prejudice. I am heavily biased towards intelligent folk. This site is one of the most highly concentrated I’ve found and, almost as important, provides ample links to other points of interest. It is populated with interesting and well spoken souls; and their voices are varied; their approaches are varied. The direction is decidedly progressive; and sometimes that progress might appear to bend back on itself but I think it is just that this environment has more dimensions than most people are used to cogitating over. It takes a lot mental energy to engage, amalgamate, synthesis and regurgitate all the information, wit and wisdom here. It’s worth it. It’s worth putting up with everything. And, if you don’t like it, try, try again and then give up because there’s no use being a fool about it.
NealB @ 224
Once again, those of us who wish to be more offended are ignored…
statistician @ 223
Compare year on year. Get a reasonable sample that knocks out seasonal fluctuations. Mr. Statistician.
Watch out, TRex! “the chronicler” has a crush on you! Eeeewwwww
p.lukasiak @ 207
Immediately on top of the post this links to, Amanda is making a case for drawing a line. This is your gist baby! You know what I mean?
rounding third, heading for the nitecap and bed.
a former commenter @ 219
How do you know I’m not referring to cowering pussycats? In any event, it’s not a gender-specific term, it’s descrpitive of weakness and ineffectivness (and spinelessness) on the part of both genders (or should that read ALL genders) of the Democratic party for the last 12 years. I stand by the statement. Weak little pussies like Barbara Boxer and John Kerry, traitorous pussies like Joe “Bush is my girlfriend” Lieberman and Dianne “I never met a Lieberman I didn’t like” Feinstein are why the dems were rendered useless by the repukes.
If that kinda language don’t suitcha, that’s a drag, but that’s how *I* talk. I see no reason to change for the kind of spineless PEOPLE who sterilized the party for so long.
kirk murphy @ 226
Rosebud, baby!
from a lurker @ 222
All the argument. I believe the results of the last 12 years of Democratoic emascuulation because of the whiny little prudes who are too afraid of a fight, speak for themselves. N’est Pas?
You’re the Chronicler? Speaking to you now is the Moose. The Bull Moose. The Moose always refers to himself in the third person.
p.lukasiak @ 227
FYI – invertebrates do not have parts that can reasonably be characterized that way.
which (in a personal aside) I think sucks. By the time I read a post, and the comments, all the smart people here have already said everything I want to say, and said it better.
I liked it alot more before so damned many smart people started showing up here! ;)
slade at 200 — we actually had a discussion about the “c” word via e-mail between the front pagers today and I do have a problem with it. (But, if you read here regularly, you probably already guessed that because I never use it.) I have seen it hurled at one too many women by abusive partners, along with any number of words which I also rarely use. And we all discussed that fact today, my reasons for disliking that word and others. But, ultimately, those are my choices in my writing. Would I prefer they not be used? Yep. Am I going to demand that no one ever use them in any writing? No. You know why? Because I believe in the Constitution and the Bill of Rights more. That doesn’t mean that I think they are wise choices — but we all have to make those choices for ourselves, and face the consequences once we’ve made them. You know, like a big long thread wherein we discuss language usage on the blog…
Pachacutec @ 235
Hmmm, why do you think “statistician” is a “mister.” Watch out, you gender bias is showing!!
Civility is running from the room in tears when your husband’s views are characterized by his supporters as “racist” in the eyes of his opponents.
Civility is saying it’s working out rather nicely for Katrina victims, since they’re low-income and now in the Astrodome, homeless and far from family.
Civility is ignoring a PDF entitled “Bin-laden Determined to Attack in US” since it’s an historical document.
Civility is telling an intelligence analyst who’s traveled to your pig farm with news that terrorists are coming for your countrymen in our homeland, “you’ve covered your ass, you can go back to Washington now.”
Civility: feh.
I’m an American. Honesty works for me. Fuck civility.
Troops
Home
NOW
Guitar_Playing_Bastard @ 239
And “pussy” is a metaphor for what? Don’t expect me or anyone else to believe that you think that when someone calls you one they are calling you a kitty cat.
No, it is an insult which demeans weakness. And weakness is associated with all things feminine. It is no different than .Robo-Gov calling his political oponents “girly-men”
Not to be a blog whore or anything (”whore” is okay, I hope), but I have a diary up on dKos entitled National Institute to Recommend Decertification of All Touch-Screen Voting: http://www.dailykos.com/story/2006/11/29/205434/88
An excerpt:
Btw, vis-a-vis “sandpaper snatch”, I guess she doesn’t wax :-)
Pachacutec @ 8:40 pm (#124)
I trust you’re not ignoring the fact that you’re comparing two self-selecting populations. The folks who stay here will be the ones who like it. Those who leave probably won’t.
To answer the question, though, there does seem to be some groupthink here at times. The worst thing is the labeling of “concern trolls”. There may be reasons that moderators do this that we’re not aware of, but it ought to be possible for new commenters to write things here that disagree with the group without being labeled as such, or as Rovian plants or whatever. I’ve even been accused of being a concern troll once or twice.
There are other phenomena that have contributed to this site being less fun to comment at, but that’s the big one for me.
Even if I didn’t know that about you already, your remarks at the Tom Watson site bear that out. Properly defining something is a prerequisite for understanding it.
I agree with Shell, and I’m older, 62. When I post a comment I’m talking to the other people here. I’m not writing considering off-site readers.
I absolutly love Late Night and TRex. Everything in the daytime is wonderfully informative and well-written. But Late Night is “vent time” for me. I’ve been in a constant rage since Bush the Lesser was “selected” in 2000. TRex provides an enjoyable, nonlethal release for some of that.
Anybody can find something to be offended at, if that’s what they’re looking for. And there are some people who hunt for something to be offended by.
Even as a little old lady I have a prolific array of curse words and I deploy them regularly. Sometimes curses (especially with the Bushistas in power) are the only words that cover it.
And if we don our white gloves and pearls and engage in “civil discourse” do you think the wingers will take us more seriously?
Jane Hamsher @
10
You are keeping happy your paying customers, of which I am one. Carry on.
I hope FDL doesn’t lose its “edge”. I’ve tried reading a few other blogs, and haven’t stayed with any of them. I think FDL’s editorial policy for comments is the best of the bunch. It allows folk to be themselves & have good tough discussions, but doesn’t allow things to degenerate into raw attacks for no reason.
Re: language. I don’t use language that I wouldn’t use at home or with friends, but that’s because several acquaintances know I lurk a lot, and comment fairly regularly. But other people’s more colorful language doesn’t bother a bit. I’d hate to see FDL’s policy on that change much, if at all. It’s just fine now, in my book.
I have occasionally been frustrated at not quite having the courage to recommend FDL to certain people who would really benefit from reading the discussions here – yes, because of the language. In our neck-a-the-woods, it just wouldn’t go over too well. But that’s not too much of a problem, because I can always ‘translate’ content for them in language they’d find o.k. and, besides, it’s so time-consuming to keep up with the blog, I know they wouldn’t have the staying power to keep up with it anyway.
The only time I became really worried about FDL and where it was heading, if it would even fizzle & disappear, was shortly before this past election, when everyone was very tense, and some pretty nasty-tempered sniping occurred. I know of some good people who left at that time, and I don’t believe they have returned. I myself was targeted once, unfairly I think, and to this day I still don’t comment on threads when that person who earlier, verbally smacked me upside the head for no earthly reason & continued to pursue and harass me through the threads, is part of a discussion.
So maybe not the language so much, but the tenor of the discussion should continue to be monitored. But I wouldn’t change a thing about how it’s done. I think it works well now.
lotsa words about not much… sorry…
it’s a good community here. I for one savor its diversity ;->
FYI – invertebrates do not have parts that can reasonably be characterized that way.
well, then, you can just take the nexus of a philosophical postulate you have there, and shove it up your undifferentiated parts, if you catch my drift…
I might as well weigh in, since this is actually a big reason why I’ve sort of drifted away from FDL.
I personally don’t swear much; I’m not opposed to it, I just don’t really feel the need to. But swearing in and of itself really doesn’t bother me, I don’t find it problematic in the least, *except* for the “c-word” and “n-word” infallibly make me wince every time I see or hear them. Still, I can chalk that up to my own personal sensibilities and conditioning (well, the c-word anyway; and I don’t *think* I have to worry about any of the front-pagers going KKKramer on us).
What disturbs me has been precisely the intolerance and active hostility towards criticism that others have already described. It goes beyond pushback or counterargument, and into active suppression and intimidation, and even, in at least one case, a full-blown ban (to the point where even the commenter’s *name* now triggers the spam filters).
And I don’t think this was a justifiable reaction to insincere, concern-troll criticism, but an unjustifiable reaction to sincere criticism by someone who was genuinely offended. Granted, they were obviously a lot more sensitive than a lot of the people here, myself included, but to treat them like a right-wing censor or concern troll was just disproportionate and unwarranted – and rather cruel, IMHO. Sometimes, criticism is just… criticism – it doesn’t have to be treated like an existential threat.
So yeah, basically what I’m saying is lighten the fuck up. People will disagree or be offended, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they have any agenda beyond expressing their own viewpoint, especially if they’ve been around long enough that they’re clearly not a troll. Let’s please not be like LGF or FR, okay?
There goes my political capital…
the chronicler @ 246
Quite right. I am, after all, not only a sexist, but a racist.
After reading more of these posts, I am more astounded than ever. The word “cunt” makes someone “uneasy?”
I am a female. I have a cunt. So what? It is fine to call a male a “dick” but not to call a female a “cunt?”
You would think this country was perfect in every way — all we have to whine about is words.
p.lukasiak @ 226
Ho, ho, I didn’t see that comin’. Well played!
I think it is important to see the difference between the words chosen by the posters and those chosen by the commenters. Posters are the principle draw to the site, and their words have more weight than commenters. I don’t think that we can assume that the posters will be perfect, but I can see that they are alert to the connotations and of their words and work to establish a tone for the site.
Commenters frequently engage in spirals of language, wordplay, puns and plenty of bad language. I read through most of the comment strings, but I skip that kind of stuff and move to the commenters who write more substantively.
I think we all have to draw our own lines. For me, I don’t get much from four-letter words, and avoid posting them myself. But I am frequently at a total loss for real words when confronted with the issues and people discussed here, and fully understand when other people explode with anger and obscenity at them. If I don’t like it, I move on.
The point of a site is to give space to people who think reasonably alike. Those who think too differently won’t like it and will move on. There are plenty of sites, and something for everyone. I like it here. I comment when I have something short to say. On the rare occasions I want to write longer, I can go elsewhere. So can everyone.
Markinsanfran @ 248
i don’t think anybody was talkin’ about the outside.
I recently unsubbed from an email list because the people there didn’t seem to know how to communicate. Yes, words have power, but only if someone else is actually reading them and thinking about what they mean. I read TRex’s post when it was originally posted, and I wasn’t offended in the least. Why? I don’t know, maybe because I took his words in context, in their entirety.
SusanD @ 250
I was about to make a joke about Barbara Bush, but, then, I remembered there’s nothing civil about her. :)
{{{TSF}}}
oh boy.
A problem, so it seems to me, is that TRex purports to speak from the left, in the name of progressive values–and actually, he does, quite eloquently (despite occasional grammatical lapses and no knowledge of a green screen), in both cases.
So the problem is that he speaks from the gay male perspective, which, while utterly valid and parallel to, is de facto a subset of, the left, and of progressive, values. Therefore, some sexist language difficulties may arise from a generalized cultural difference.
(Kinda like Ebonics–I saw the main proponent of Ebonics speak, and he made crystal clear the difficulty encountered by a student while taking a standardized test, faced with the representation of a situation that she knew well, but that was not described to her in any of the test’s given options, in a parlance with which she was familiar.)
Gay male parlance may well have more specialized aspects than this country’s overall speech patterns; hence certain references, to weight and other aspects of grooming, that to a het audience, even a liberal one, may come off as sexist.
What if I don’t know that you’re gay, and I read a comment? Some of the context of that comment is lost, and depending on the nature of the comment and what it is about, that context may be quite important.
This sounds terrible upon rereading, but in terms of language and how it’s used, I still think the comments are valid points of discussion: if one’s political leanings are reason for commentary, as well they should be on a site like this one, should not other defining aspects of one’s identity be brought into play to broaden the nature, scope, and accuracy of assertions made in a discussion?
As Margaret Cho says, the problem with racism and homophobia is that at a basic level, one chooses to be liberal or conservative, but one cannot choose one’s race or orientation, which turns racism and homphobia into a different class of discrimination.
Hence the difficulty of my difficulty: treading the fine line between what is given and what is chosen, when the two interwine so closely.
Fodder for discussion, perhaps.
Just my 2 cents.
the chronicler @ 244
Dude, you’re a faggot, pure and simple, regardless of male or female. You are a burning brand, attempting to start a conflagration. I honor you for it.
Freaked-Out Canadian @ 211
This ignores biology.
All interactions involving two or more sentient humanoids involve:
both humanoids’ perceptions of their internal environments.
both humanoids’ perceptions of their external environment
For some people, their biology will cause discomfort in any group social interaction.
That says nothing about about FDL (and says nothing negative about the person – they didn’t choose their biology.)
PS: That’s NOT to say anyone who doesn’t like FDL has social phobia. Nope.
Y’know, Yogi Berra was on to something when he said ‘Nobody goes there anymore, it’s too crowded.’ G’night.
Pachacutec @
18
If that’s where you’ve been I would have liked to have known. Did I miss your explanation about your decision to back off? I would have defended your speech here in comments, Pach, in fact I’ve missed it. I stupidly assumed you were earning a living or having a relationship, while I treasured your Saturday nite visits. But missed you.
a former commenter @ 218
I’m not a regular, but it seems to my ears more of a feline slur than a sexist one. Tony Tiger is gonna be pissed, not to mention Hobbes.
Y’know, after everyone got their licks in, I was really looking forward to a “dirty word”-themed punfest… PUNAISE! Where’d you go? :)
i’m coming very late to these comments, and this example may have been sited in some form already, but just today i saw a billboard for “south park” and was thinking about the way that it has often been accused of “crossing the line,” but how important it is for the purposes of communicating ideas to sometimes go just a little too far. and while i’m generally not a fan of excessive profanity, since i do think when overused it can diminish an agrument, sometimes it becomes the most effective way for an intelegent writer to capture the basic and elemental frustration they feel with the world today.
masaccio @ 258
I was wrong. I can be offended.
TeddySanFran @ 268
Work and “marriage” have kept me from comments in other people’s posts, mostly, but I always see it as my resposnibility to the community to hang around my own comment threads. Still, I backed off the wrestling matches over ideas, and stuck to light banter.
Nice to see you here again, Adie!
Adie @ 253
Christy Hardin Smith @ 244
I agree with the principal of free speech, too. I also think normal rules of debate, which do not include ad hominem attacks, because they are irrelevant, are valuable.
So, hopefully, those who believe in both free speech and the value of discourse will not be afraid to object when others ignore those rules. Not because of any “offense” taken, but because things like ad hominem attacks are a distraction from the important work of being a citizen in a free country.
It seems that many of the men on this site are underage boys whose computers are rigged with parental controls/ Poor young virgins don’t even know what the word “pussy” means!
Language. Now there’s a name to conjure with. To me, language is neither appropriate nor inappropriate. I for one don’t care, because I think there is no such thing as civility, or more to the point, that “civility” as the Washington Post defines it is a weapon, not something to keep the wheels running smoothly. We live in interesting times. Is a discussion any less important because it is “uncivil?” Is this a place where we have to be polite about corruption, murder, rape, and the destruction of America. I don’t think Patrick Henry would have said “listen, (fill in your own swear word), give me liberty or effing kill me), but I think that was the idea. Some people use language to keep other people down, but it takes two to play that game, one to do it and one to fall for it. I’m not saying that we should now intersperse all of our comments or posts with obscene words, but to say that a certain king is buggering the country (substitute the f word for that) is true, and expresses the depth of anger of the fukees. Yes, I know that’s not spelled right. It is righteous anger. It is anger that deserves to have a forum, and it is political speech, which, I believe used to be protected in this country. We tolerate porn, because if we don’t then whoever is making the laws is free to call political speech porn (it can happen). We must also tolerate the occasional use of a few well chosen words, even when they aren’t politically correct. You wouldn’t hesitate to call a certain Vice President a Dickhead (which is a sexual reference, and quite frankly doesn’t bother me as a male). Nothing about sexuality bothers me. I’m a pretty secure individual when it comes to that. What’s wrong with a “vulgar” reference to female parts in relation to a woman who could never possibly be a dickhead, because she doesn’t have a dick. As the satisfied owner of the aforementioned male part, nothing Trex or Pach could say should take away from the criticism they level at people who deserve it. Whether it is the mention of a male or female part or the slang for either. What we’re all doing here is too important to get side tracked with an F word discussion.
Special to Pach….
you’re attitude toward engaging/debating the commenters is precisely wrong. At least from this perspective, nothing validates me more than being acknowledged by a “front pager”… even if they disagree with me. (at least it means they’ve read what I’ve written, and found it worthy of response.)
……
(and if you don’t respond to this, I’ll assume you don’t respect me) :)
Pach’s whore post was good. It was methodically laid out and he came in quickly with the definition of the term as he meant it. It retained the subliminal connotation still, but he did it right and the piece was effective and true. I like Trex’s stuff, but I was a bit taken aback by the cunt word, because I know that women hate that word more than anything. In my mind, I let it slide.
In reality there are truly vulgar individuals in our government and others who have their own teevee or radio shows. Pach and Trex have got nothing on those characters.
Patrick 4/4 @ 272:
Good to know that I can offend!
Patrick 4/4 @ 260
TMI!
kirk murphy @ 281
TMJ!
montag @ 269
I can’t help on that front, but I will pass along what someone else (I forget who, or when) told me… regarding the c-word that causes controversy, “Ann Coulter” is an anagram for “loaner ____.”
I merely offer this without comment as a
pubicpublic service.new thread
masaccio @ 279
Then my work here is done.
Amanda Marcotte @ 9:05 pm (#209)
Well said, er, written. Insults that are directed at the things we really dislike or despise about people work better, at least for me. Just calling someone a b*tch, c*nt, or n*gg*r doesn’t show what it is we dislike, only something largely irrelevant about what they are. The great thing about the written word is that when such a word springs into your head, you can usually think of a better one before you write it down.
Cujo359 @ 250
Ahem– Cujo- of which moderators do you speak? I never labeled anyone as a “concern troll”. And, I know some other invisible moderators who have not done so either. And, then, your comment raises an interesting point- once one becomes known as a moderator (and I, personally, would have preferred not to have been identified as such, but it happened, and I couldn’t undo it) then one’s ability to be comment as part of the community in an ordinary way, seems to vanish. This makes the job extra-tough. Isolating, in many ways.
kirk murphy @ 266
I agree that I am kind of an approval-seeker, and by nature makes sense. And shy. And not confident. So YES. My preface was not to blame FDL, but to call attention to the fact that I was sincere in trying to post meaningfully. Not to grab for attention. I recognize that shy wimps like me would kill the left if that’s all the left had. But my value might be in helping the Big Guns tighten their shot groupings a little.
Swopa @ 283
Anagrams are fun, too. :)
I just want to say that I stayed up way past my bedtime for this, and not one of you people bitched about me yet. I’m feeling left out.
Oh, Jesus H. Christ on a raft. I went and read the entire argument(s). Sorry, but this is nothing but an old fashioned online flamewar. I want no parts of it, and TRex, you’re an asshat. Shut up for a couple of days. Take a break from the computer. Hike, bike, buy a balloon and walk in the park. C.S. Lewis once said that the invented world must have some relevence to the real world, and I believe him. Virtually.
Ich bin ein apple fritter, bitch.
p.lukasiak @ 278
Paul, that’s how I always felt. But we had a serious meltdown a while back with people accusing me of taking a machine gun to the threads, and many emails flew, and so I just disnegaged on that level. I personally felt it as a loss, because having the chance to question commenters gave me a chance to learn lots more, but there you have it.
That memorable time we got accused of censoring comments, it was when I was engaging in these debate/discussions. To my mind, at least, I felt my experience of the community was cheapened. But let’s not allow it to be said we haven’t responded to feedback.
So what’s it all about? Is it about what words mean? Yes, of course, exactly and not at all.
Is it about what people who use the words are feeling?
Is it about the methods they use to convey their emotion, thoughts and passions.
Is it about the perceptive abilities of the audience and the way those words are interpreted.
Is it that all this is happening so very fast over an information super highway that finally, at long last, is becoming just that. And why (because I think this is important), is it that the internetz are becoming so very adept in terms of utilizing the wealth of information just NOW?
I think it is because forums like this are just as fantastic as they are; marvelous, living, growing things. firedoglake, I say you are in your infancy and are experiencing some of the first of many, many interesting growing pains.
I am firmly convinced that your life will be long and honorable because of discussions like this evenings; and, I think you owe that, in part to all the people who express their opinions here…even the cunts.
God Bless you, everyone!
Peace, love! Out, here.
p.lukasiak @
254
I agree with this psot.
that’s what you get for always being such a “civil” pussy, christy!
(((I now assume I’m banned for life))))
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
You need to swear more, Christy. That’s the big problem I have with your posts.
the chronicler @ 240
salad, baby.
tossed.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
I’m sure with an invitation like that, someone, somewhere, is bound to say something, uh, mildly discomfiting. Not me, though.
Cheers.
Guitar_Playing_Bastard @ 237
Take a deep breath there, Little Bastard. Your strummin’ fingers are having trouble keeping up with your drivel.
A good rule of thumb is that a functioning brain and a logical argument help to convince other people, insults and grade-school vulgarity do not.
Et si tu veux continuer tes vomissements en francais, il serait mon plaisir. A toi, alors.
Amanda Marcotte @
209
Amanda the comparison to Lenny Bruce was not that literal — it was meant more in the context of testing the limits of language, as outsiders challenging establishment conventions in a way they often found nshocking. I don’t use the “c” word either, but I’ll defend TRex’s (or any poster’s) right to test the limits of acceptability with it. The flip side of that is being willing to respond to the community in the comments, which is happening here now and I think that’s a fair representation of how we expect the give-and-take to work. That doesn’t mean that every flame throwing Red State cretin is allowed to show up here and dominate the conversation, but we should be willing to listen to — and address — reasonable criticism.
hackworth @ 278
I think Pach’s post was based around Tauscher selling her principles for political gain. He took advantage of linguistic slippage between the definitions of whore and crafted imagery that while supporting the argument against Tauscher as a political whore had recourse to sexual metaphors.
I’m not sure all the people commenting on Watson’s thread took the time to read Pach’s post. Oh well.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 289
You &^%$#@*&%!!!!! Happy now? ; )
Sigh, I tried to make this short. As often happens, I’m sure someone is going to come along and make exactly the point I’m trying to, in seven words. I need an aphorist…
Due to an oversheltered childhood, I am simply incapable of uttering half of the words we’re discussing here, and I have my own personal little pearl-clutching episodes now and then while reading here.
But that’s my problem, not the sites’.
There’s no “language problem” in general at FDL. I do think there are occasional specific problems, but to my mind, they generally fall under the category of “weaker posts”, not language problems. And I do think that one of the things that most marks out a weaker post is an overreliance on ad homeinem attacks, whatever the language employed. I’ve slowly come to believe that a sprinkling of ad homeinem attacks are actually OK, as long as they are used in service of a good principle. Something that happens sometimes, though, when the attacks become an focus in themselves, is that the writing itself is still so good that it is sort of fun to come along for the ride. But then sometimes afterwords I don’t feel so great.
I’ve never counted, but there must be sixty or so posts a week here, so if one or two aren’t gems, that’s still batting about 0.967 . In fact I have no idea how it’s even possible to be this consistently good. I don’t think any other place comes close to that kind of signal to noise.
As for posters mixing it up in the comments. I kind of like how Trex is around for Late Nite, and I don’t see that we are well served by Pach’s commenting reticence. But I appreciate some people may take it hard when a front-pager mixes it up with them.
Finally, I’m going to disagree a little with something RH said. I think the freedom of speech found in the Constitution is a freedom from the coercive power of a government–the ability to throw you in jail or seize your property. If you or Jane or anyone else want to place limits on the posts or comments that take place here, I don’t see that it’s the same kind of issue. Churches, for instance, have rules about what you can and can’t say (and even when you’re allowed to open your mouth) and nobody thinks of that as coercive. I might think it would likely be counterproductive for you to have too many such rules–after all, discussion is one of the main draws here, as opposed to church–but I’d be hard pressed to say it’s unconstitutional. I do think the boundaries need to be clear, though, if there are to be any. What pissed me off most about the infamous Washington Post comment-deleting episode was that I had taken some time to write a comment; if I had known they were just going to delete them all I would have done something else.
I’m off to bed. I look forwarding to learning how vile I am in the morning. Best to all!
“asshat”? You made me laugh, and for that I thank you.
jennifer from pittsburgh @ 291
Jane, I was going to bed 2 hours ago when I saw this post. I’m kinda sick and beyond tired.
Thanks for giving us this space to revisit this discussion on FDL itself. Sorry more critiques didn’t take the time to show up and make their arguments here…
Night kids.
Pachacutec @
18
I’m drawn to this comment on a variety of levels. If the problem was that you were overbearing in your comments, why not remain in the comments but try not to be overbearing?
I don’t know if you were. I wasn’t there. But I think it’s worth considering the role of moderator in the threads, how it calls into play–or can call into play, if we choose–a set of moves distinct from those used in main blog posts. The tricky part is that same writing can be fantastic in a post, but overbearing in a comment. And it isn’t because the writer is suddenly mean spirited in the comments–just that the power dynamics and logistics of a comment thread are different for front pagers. This is a challenge that only the main posters are faced with. Commenters don’t have that responsibility or challenge of moving between two roles on the site.
I think, actually, that this points to a larger issue for blogs in general. We have posting policies, comment policies, ad policies–but we don’t have discussion moderator policies.
I know, for example, on DKos that the front pagers are asked to take on certain responsibilities in the comment threads that saddle them with a slightly different profile than everyone else.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
That damned, lazy Christy Hardin Smith sleeps in on Saturdays. My coffee is COLD by the time “Pull Up A Chair” FIIINALLY comes up on my monitor. I wonder why people aren’t addressing this? I feel like a voice in the wilderness!
I hope I made you feel better, Christy. {{hugs}}
RBG @
66
*whistles in corner*
Amanda Marcotte @
209
Great post…thank you.
Swopa @ 297
Yeah! What’s the fun in being a ReddHedd if you can’t be a flame throwing, foul-mouthed, fiery-headed bitch now and again? :)
Someone has to be the grownup. Guess you got tagged, so to type.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
Swopa @ 297
Plus, she drinks tea and takes pictures of birds. And she was lawyer! Bad, Christy….BAD!
Feel better now?
from a lurker @
300
OK, i didn’t want to do this but you give me no choice.
Bite me.
Agree with above comment
Totally disagree.
1) This blog is not full of “haters” – nothing could be further from the truth. 2) It would be impossible for any commenter on this blog to reach the level of hatred and hate mongering done by Coulter, Limbaugh, etc.
This country has nearly been destroyed over the past six years and unfortunately there are plenty of real obscenities to discuss at FDL.
For me, the problem isn’t the occasional shit or fuck. It’s the way we choose to attack people.
The problem with Ann Coulter is not that she looks mannish, and it feels like something right out of Heathers when people use terms like that (not to mention the transsexual jokes can make the left blogosphere feel unfriendly to actual transexuals; a number of transsexual Kossacks have complained about this). Similarly, I’ve seen more than one attack on Ellen Tauscher focus on her physical appearance, like whether she looks like a linebacker. I don’t like that crap any better coming from progressives (or alleged progressives like Maureen Dodd); it’s just cheap snark.
Tauscher takes her marching orders from corporations and moneyed interests, and is on the wrong side of almost every issue. Coulter is a batshit insane fascist, and comparisons to Leni Riefenstahl are, I think, completely fair. But calling someone “sandpaper snatch” (or Old 60 Grit or whatever the current name is) says that her offense is not related to her monstrous politics, but the fact that she’s menopausal, dried up, used up, no longer attractive, not like the very attractive proprietors of this site.
I love the part of Firedoglake that rallies the community to support progressive candidates like Ned Lamont, or that has all the best explanations of what’s going on with the Valerie Plame affair, that does hilarious sendups of the right. But please resist your inner Maureen Dodd.
TeddySanFran @
310
Try as hard as you like, my friend, you only meet the impressive part. Sorry.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 291
Pachacutec @ 294
Hey Pach -
#1 – I hope you return to our previous level of engagement. I miss it.
#2 – Somewhere above this thread sez the mods care for the lawn o’ comments. I’m inferring that means the “front pager” ain’t pruning the comments. (or usually isn’t).
For “front-page” posts, would it be useful to have a line after the end of the piece (in happy editorial italics, natch) stating the author does not moderate comments?
p.lukasiak @ 254
Its not a postulate, its a fact. Might behoove you to learn the difference between the two. Might save you some embarrassment in the future, unless, of course, you prefer to be unrestrained by facts.
Patrick 4/4 @ 282
Oh, my face is red (hence the “wax” comment :-)
G-P-b @ 311
Arghh! I’m melting!
You are an amazing intellect.
(This, btw, is how you use ridicule to wipe the floor with a troll. You can take notes.)
Joe Buck @ 317
As I said on my blog a long while back (don’t bother trying to find it; this is not intended as a blogwhore), we shouldn’t be attacking these people for being mannish crypto-transsexuals, we should be attacking them for being EVIL INCARNATE.
But maybe that’s just me…
Liberal communities like ours are so diverse that I think trying to develop a comprehensive policy is just impossible. I’d say don’t bother with that. Just take it day by day.
That’s the best I can come up with. :)
I am of the opinion that to forbid a word is to give it power. I’ve been through the argument over the “C” word on another blog, so I have a not-safe-for-work link at my fingertips, Cunt:A Cultural History
Maybe I wouldn’t get EPU’d if I could type more quickly. :-)
It’s fascinating to read through the posts and see the wide spectrum of opinions, and the wide variety of “takes” on what is acceptable discourse. We are a microcosm of the human world.
I agree with Christy on the topic of those highly-charged c- and n- words (highly-charged because of the long, tangled, and often vicious history of their usage): don’t use them myself, don’t like hearing/reading them because of the hurt they can cause, won’t bar others from using them.
So much of human communication is, as kirk murphy said, tone and context. Furthermore, body language is a huge component of communication that is often overlooked, even in face-to-face exchanges. In venues like FDL, e-mail, etc., we’re operating without the myriad of cues that clue us in when we talk in person. It’s no wonder we overstep other people’s toes. (A treasured family malapropism.)
I’m a reader of this site because I appreciate – in main-page posters and commenters alike – the activism on issues that are important to me, the commitment and passion in service to those issues, and the sense of community that, for the most part, is manifest here. May we all stay true to the better angels of our natures, and reach past our differences to *make* a difference for the better.
carolyn13 @ 325
Shouldn’t the domain be michaelhunt.com?
Remember, thread closes after 12 hours.
Patrick 4/4 @ 328
Almost… finished… typing…
Valley Girl @ 9:32 pm (#287)
I’m sorry, Valley Girl, I can’t recall. What’s worse, what I was really trying to point out, but not doing very well, is that other commenters are taking that role on themselves, accusing folks of being concern trolls. They certainly don’t have the benefit of knowing whatever it is that goes on behind the curtain (and I hope I’m leaving the impression I don’t know what that is, because I don’t).
UPDATE: Come to think of it, *ilson46201 had an amusing habit of re-writing some comments that came from trolls, although I must say in the cases I witnessed he was spot-on, and they were plain old trolls mostly, not concern trolls. Hope that helps. If nothing else, it may explain memory issues on my part. [END OF UPDATE]
Another point my confused language illustrates is that folks know moderation goes on here, and there’s clearly some mystery about what does and does not happen in moderation. I can only recall two comments of mine that were ever altered, and they were marked as altered by the mods, not just silently deleted. I’ve learned to trust the moderators through experience. A first-time commenter might not be aware of what’s happening if his comment disappears into moderation purgatory, and as we all know lack of information never stops people from speculating.
TRex @ 108
I have no problem with anything you’ve written, but appeals to the First Amendment are a bit of a hobbyhorse of mine. Freedom of speech means the government can’t censor you, and I don’t think anyone here is questioning that right. It doesn’t mean freedom from consequences, which is what we’re talking about here. You have a right to speak, but you don’t have a right to an audience (because other people can exercise their right not to listen) nor a right to be without criticism. Just as one of us can say we think the criticism is inappropriate, those criticizing can say they think the post is inappropriate.
Now as it happens, I’m generally more in agreement with you than with them, but in either case, we’re not talking about the right to free speech here.
RBG @
318
Damn. I was going to bet he met only one of the two criteria, but I picked the wrong one.
Either that, or you did.
Eli — I appreciate your comment at 255. Thanks.
Jane’s sandpaper snatch post was brilliant, strategic and effective. Oh, and funny ; )
The day to day potty mouth crap, over and over about feces and descriptions thereof in the comments gets REAL old quick though. If the shoe fits, grow up. Lenny Bruce you ain’t
It’s not all that hard to tell an ad hominem attack from a fast-held opinion. Commenters who scream censorship are usually guilty of the former, rarely the latter.
some random ideas while trying to think further on this….
when offense is taken, there is a BIG difference between responding with:
1. “STFU, you’re not allowed to say that – it’s against the rules”.
or,
2. an invitation to reconsider the implications and effects of how language is used.
a voiced objection doesn’t necessarily include an attempt to censor (#1).
carolyn13 @
325
Mom? Is that you?
I TOLD you not to come here!
You know what I don’t understand? How come Brits can use the c-word with abandon and Americans can’t? I kind of think that this is a form of sexism in and of itself. That to use the word for female genitalia is somehow more vile and despicable than to call someone a dick. And therefore women, being SO MUCH MORE DELICATE AND SENSITIVE THAN MEN must therefore be protected from that word AT ALL COSTS.
I say we use the words and dis-empower them as epithets, which has kind of always been my philosophy of swearing. But like I said at the end of the Late Late Nite thread, if my use of certain words hurts people who would otherwise be on “our side”, then I am not so attached to them that I must continue to use them.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
I’m usually a very obliging masculine Internet persona, but in this case I …
Well, the “Pull Up A Chair” threads are usually over by the time I start reading. There – a complaint.
TRex @
108
That and RBG’s #66!
I’ve been commenting at forums on the internet for about twenty years. There’s no more need for more PC here than for less…
Good introduction to this topic, Jane. When Christy brought something like this up back in August, the comments weren’t nearly as, as, as – what? I’m not sure, ’cause I haven’t read them all. But I’ve read half, and I’m glad people here care as much as they do about how and what others think.
fdl is to the brain what right-wing talk radio is to the lizard brain
Bottom line, vulgarity is lazy writing.
If you work hard at your craft you will find the right phrase or words with the higher impact.
Vulgarity is like cooking with spices, to much you overwhelm the dish.
Clear concise writing is the goal, you want readers to remember your message not the vulgarities.
Organic George @ 340
This was, in part, the reason that I forswore swearing entirely for several years. But eventually I came around to the viewpoint that sometimes a good cussword is helpful for emphasis. Plus I find that “shit” quite often *is* le mot juste for many Republican policies.
Cujo359 @ 338
exactly. We all need to move to the same time zone. The only times I’ve been able to “pull up a chair” have been when I was already there from an all-nighter.
Eli @ 341
Like right after that last Giants game? :)
Did someone already conjur up you can’t yell “fire” in a theater? I’m no wallflower. I’ve been in fistfights with men (and won), and had more than my share of smashdowns with both sexes, but calling women, any woman (or man for that matter) “cunt” is the equivalent to “fire”, especially in the Progressive community. It’s not about ‘free speech’. It’s about hate speech.
Amanda had it right in comment 209. Pach and TRex and Jane seem to simply to be unable to admit when they are wrong. That is the essence of why fdl is no longer a ’safe’ place for free speech and real debate.
I thought we were opposed to Bushco and the evils of the cabal, but no in fact it’s just about being the biggest bully on the block and oh yeah, traffic.
Rob Zuber @ 343
Too fucking right. Oy.
Well, Christy, post 309 hits you coming (me) for being a layabout, and posts 338 and 342 hit you going.
I hope you are satisfied!
Pachacutec @ 293
I agree that it’s a shame, Pach, that you felt you couldn’t engage the commenters. I for one enjoy that, but because I do, I’ve found that many don’t, and when I tried to pursue the arguments (but, I hoped, not them, personally), they were still offended. So, like you, I backed off. Debate is fun/stimulating/educational for some but not for others, even though your intentions were fine. For what it’s worth, you can take me on any time.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 291
Well Redd, I have a bone to pick with you.
Two, if I can find them.
(1) On a happy Saturday baking thread, I shared my post-move failure. Your advice was crucial in restoring the home bread line.
I gained 10 pounds.
(2) I’ve talked here about the Federal criminal trial of my friend. I’ve helped EarthFirst! (and other non-violent groups of civil disobedients), and praised them on FDL.
A few weeks ago, my friend Jonathan Paul pled guilty to burning a slaughterhouse where wild horses from our Federal lands were brought to death.
Now EarthFirst! doesn’t burn stuff, but many blogs would throw me off anyway – I’ve spoken up for a confessed eco-criminal.
You’ve never said a word of rebuke, never even commented on my criticism of active Federal prosecutors.
Seriously –
you are a former Federal prosecutor. Jane meets with Big Dog.
I’ve been helping EarthFirst! and tree-sitters for over a decade, and I was one of the team responsible for bottom lining logistics for the protests AGAINST the DNC in LA in 2000.
I’ve mentioned this enough that both of you – and the mods – have surely seen it, yet I’m allowed to comment here.
This tolerance will be too much for some to endure!
You have been gracious and welcoming of my comments. All the paranoid conspiriacy theorists I know will be upset.
Good work.I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m not ready to calm the fuck down. We’re not out of the woods yet, and those bastards are still in control of our country. There is plenty of thoughtful, well researched writing here. There is also some invective where (i firmly believe) it is called for. My bumper sticker reads, “If you’re not furious, you haven’t been paying attention.” I will not be civil to thugs and their tools. The people in this administration are criminal, and the the congress and the corporate media have been accessories to their crimes.
I stumbled on this site a while back, and the writing here…and the discussion (rambling though it sometimes is…full of links and sidelights) brought me back from the edge of despair and renewed my hope.
I’m not genius material, but I do know we’re in deep trouble. I read other blogs, and find news and views that I appreciate, but I participate at this blog because we’ve managed to accomplish something real here and I choose to support that and the people who made it possible.
I’m a firm believer in the right of self-expression. If a post makes me uncomfortable, I don’t read it. It doesn’t put me off firedoglake, though…or even whichever writer wrote the post. I think that the front pagers here are pretty representative of Americans in general, and frankly, I find the idea that a few choice words are going to damage my sensitive soul a bit laughable. What I find really soul-destroying is watching the rape of America.
One of the great attractions of the blogosphere is that it is a place where we are enabled – nay, encouraged – to let it all hang out. The downside of that, of course, is that sometimes the caffeine and the rush of freedom leads us to hit the send key somewhat in advance of the little editor in our heads (see: “Dooce”). I have been guilty of this many, many times since I first started engaging in on-line discussions, way way back when CompuServe was THE hot place to hang out online, and the best discussions to be had were on the Mensa bulletin boards. Man, you had to bring the A-Game if you were going to hang with the eggheads.
As many others have pointed out in this overly masticated thread, the point isn’t to censor TRex’s use of the venerable old “C-word” … the point is that overuse starts to sound like hysteria. Which makes it easy to pigeonhole our arguments as being the rantings of fringie frothing at the mouth hippies and powerless victimhood cherishers. It’s far more fun to compose an erudite deconstruction of the latest neocon ridiculousness than to just hurl scatological insults.
Then again, sometimes a c-word is more eloquent than a thesis (apologies to Ginsberg)…
Oh, my god. “The Chronicler” is Althouse!!!
Ed*ard Teller @ 10:06 pm (#342)
Ironically, an earlier commenter (from EST, presumably) complained about it being too late.
Sounds personal to me, Hope.
Not personal mommy…professional.
kirk at 348 — one correction — I’m a former state prosecutor. I was never an AUSA. Just FYI.
Jeffrey Feldman @
308
You actually put your fingeron the debate that this incident has sparked amongst us, and I think will continue to challenge others.
You come out swinging with a post and then you continue the same tone in the comments and it seems perfectly natural to do but I can see that it comes off differently when you’re reading it. It’s difficult to shift roles. In your own mind you’re being tonally consistent and just continuing the post in the comments, but it can leave people feeling “beaten up” (as Pach describes) in the comments. You scratch your head and got “WTF” but I think there needs to be a sensitivity to a power imbalence that you refer to that just isn’t necessarily a natural impulse.
I have long been addicted to Firedoglake, but this is my first comment (although I have commented on other sites). I have been thinking about this issue in the context of the Michael Richards’ rant and his use of a certain racial epithet.
I believe that we liberals/progressives/however-we describe ourselves have often tended to be more cautious in the language that we use because (1) we understand the impact that language can have and that the use of certain words does have consequences and (2) we have, conciously or not, wanted to be, and appear to be, reasonable, civil, mature and substantive, whereas I believe the right deliberately uses inflammatory, etc. language to attack us, with the effect of letting them frame the discussion and putting us on the defensive. Messrs. Neiwert and Greenwald, amongst many others, have done a much better job than I can in talking about this and the entire issue of staking an ultra-extreme position at the beginning of a discussion in order to make a less extreme position look reasonable later on in comparison.
I don’t believe the answer to that is to regularly use “inappropriate” language, but, (1) as someone already said above, be ready to pull that “fuck” out when needed, (2) to make sure that we frame the discussion, which I think is much more important and again something that many other posters have discussed, and (3) not to take any shit from the right. I got into an email discussion several months with a “moderate” republican who started complaining when I attacked his positions and his arguments and I explained to him that I am one liberal who doesn’t turn his fucking cheek anymore.
Two more points and then I am going back to my status as a lurker: I much prefer “sandpaper snatch” to “cunt.” The former is brilliant ridicule, the latter merely a vulgarity.
Secondly, I believe that there are some terms, such as used by Mr. Richards, that are always beyond the pale. When someone uses such a term, I not only stop listening to that person, I tend to be very vocal in explaining to that person that I find that term objectionable. As a 52 year old white male jew, I have never had that term applied to me (I had other terms applied to me), but I believe we all have an obligation to fight the use of this term.
Back to my lurking.
Cozumel @
43
Hope at 344 — not bullying, but pushback against people who have been bullying our side of the aisle and getting away with it scot free for far too long. I’ll grant you that it’s a fine line, and sometimes an individual post goes too far over it for my comfort level here and there — but that isn’t the intent of the posting by and large. And just speaking for me, I know I’ve admitted mistakes any number of times (although I note that you didn’t mention me in your post, but I wanted to state it for the record anyway). I noted you r post over at Tom W.’s, and wondered why you hadn’t been here to post the same because you have never seemed to me like someone who shrinks from saying what she is thinking. Am glad to see you came over this evening to do just that.
Do hope that Dr. Turtle is well, btw, and still home.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 356
Thanks for the correction, Christy!
And thanks for the baking tips. Hiking helped over the summer – but soon I’ll start visiting the Lake from a treadmill.
More seriously, thanks and props for staying up late and taking time away from the Peanut to attend to this community.
I’m at a loss for words about this. That doesn’t happen often.
Based on what I read here and to the other sites linked, I have a jillion things to say and yet nothing that hasn’t really been said before. And by that I mean said before somewhere in the space of the internet’s history of dialog between users.
Although I must ask this: who the hell is Tom W. to worry about whether the use of a perjorative typically used against women will hurt women? Aren’t women like those who operate this blog capable of making that determination themselves? Isn’t it rather misogynistic to think that someone has to step up and tell the poor female bloggers the language used in their blog is, uh, misogynistic?
As a female blogger I’d have responded, “F*ck the hell off. Mind your own knitting and quit your blog whoring. You want traffic? Create content that people want to read instead of creating a short-term tempest in a teapot at the expense of my blog readers and commenters.”
You see, that’s what happened here; somebody blog-whored while derailing FDL from what would otherwise have been an on-message, focused post puncturing the hype, hubris, hypocrisy of some pol or pundit that needed a smack.
And I’ve used the phrase “blog whore” twice now. It’s the same as “blogstitute”. Grok that it has abso-freaking-lutely nothing to do with gender, but everything to do with compromised ethics in content production.
I’d better stop. I’m tired, I’m punchy, and I’m too pissed off to write something more cogent about the stupidity of language purists who think that being “nice girls” will somehow make us so much more effective at stopping global Armageddon.
So Prick is Ok- but Cunt is verboten? hard makin these tough calls eh?
Rayne, have I told you lately that I love you?
pseudonymous in nc, Cujo, Eli (rock star), losing any one of the three of you from comments at FDL would be a great loss for me.
Cujo, I do remember the great work you did on polling of the CT Senate race and that it wasn’t taken very well. A lot of that had to do with it coming in the week before the election, imho.
Why TRex, it’s been a few hours now since your last devotional. You are slacking!!
* mmmwah! *
TRex @
362
I’ll second that emotion.
I wrote an email to TRex in response to a column dated (I think) 18 November because at that point the comments were already closed. They are as good as closed here, approaching the 400 mark, but I wanted to put this on the public record because even after reading all the arguments here, I still think my point is valid:
slade @ 133
This one comment might have been enough to avoid this entire brouhaha, if it had come early enough, and from the front-pagers. But so far, we’re getting the same thing we get from the Administration. I’m/we’re right. You’re wrong.
Mostly I don’t comment here, because when I do, even without profanity, I get moderated. Wonder why…
Eli @ 341
My mother never uttered a curse word until her 70th birthday, she said shit and really liked it.
Vulgarity is like actors who scream or cry, it’s the easy way out, but an actor who can make you want to scream for them has taken the time to work at their craft.
After a while people will stop reading a writer that goes for shock value since they will continuously have to lower their standards to be outrageous.
Thank you, RBG. ;-)
I know this is totally EPU’d, but I will leave it anyway, in hopes it might be read.
For me, framing this in terms of the First Amendment and the “right” to use shocking language is somewhat beside the point. Of course the FDL front-pagers can use, or not use, any language they choose. Fine. The question then becomes, What is the intent of using the language in question?
If the intent is to be shocking, perhaps to drive up traffic, then it may be effective in that small, targeted way. But is it effective in the larger picture? Christy mentioned something about accepting the consequences of our language. While it may be (and is) perfectly legal to use all sorts of language in a post, it is not necessarily the best thing, strategically speaking, to do so.
As a cost-benefit analysis: if a particular word, or even an entire post, sends a message of misogynistic sexism (and it seems to me, from this thread, that a good many people who are long-term community members and/or progressives in good standing, i.e., not trolls or bad-faith actors of any sort, have had such perceptions) – then is it worth it, in the long run, to use such loaded language? Or does it, possibly, do more harm than good to the long-term goals that FDL has for itself? Similarly, is the aggressive moderating of dissenting opinions drawing in more new community members, of a higher quality, than those it is driving away?
These questions, obviously, can only be answered by Jane and the other front-pagers. But I think they are worth considering.
Rayne @ 361
OK – I’m metaphorically slitting my throat as a Bay Area activist.
Group dynamics (Yalom et al) sez each group has at least two agendas – the stated purpose for meeting vs what the group really does.
Group dynamics also predict the struggles for power among the members in every group.
The sacrosanct “isms” – sexism, racism, classism, etc – are real.
Yet I also see these terms wielded as clubs in battles for personal ambition and primacy (in large or small groups).
And – in progressive circles – merely calling down the “isms” can shut down the discussion – and the whole organization.
They are powerful tools.
Thanks for looking at this question.
Oh, my gosh, I think I love her.
Karen M at 367 — because you share an IP address with someone who has repeatedly spammed us with porn spam, and thus we’ve had to put that IP addy in automod? Why is it that everyone always assumes a conspiracy first — I have never understood that.
JoyB @ 309
No, no, she gets up way too early! I always miss “Pull Up A Chair” except when some repairman drags me out of bed early on Saturday! It’s not fair to meeeeee!
Karen at 367 — oops — nope, I take it back. You IP is one number off the porn spam guy. Hmmmmm…I don’t know why you pop into moderation then. Will look at that tomorrow after I’ve gotten a bit of sleep.
Kirk, that is exactly what is going on.
There are people pointing to a word while missing the entire scope of the commentary or the blog, and quite deliberately.
This triggered a flashback for me, an unhappy one. I had a close friend who called me in a panic one afternoon over a decade ago, still in shock when she called, by which I mean a medically recognized state or condition. She’d just been slapped across the face in an elevator by a manager in her department. She was going on and on about sexual harassment and what to do, how to handle it without affecting her job. There weren’t many policies in place yet about sexual harassment, she wasn’t certain who in the HR department she should call, and so on.
I had to stop her short and say, “THIS WAS AN ASSAULT. It wasn’t sexual harassment that you need to deal with.” And then we called security.
Sometimes we miss the forest for the trees.
It’s not about being nice or nicer. It’s not about being a role model.
For Jane, Christy, Pach, TRex: We’re not here for the nice, those of us who’ve been here all along. And you’re already role models; see anybody else out there doing what you’ve done with the Book Salon alone, or physically reaching out and touching Congress with Crashing the Gates? Heck, even our lord Kos didn’t do that.
Maybe we needed to refresh and reset to stay focused on FDL’s objectives — but this is an asymmetrical war, and asymmetrical weapons are called for. Go for it.
WORDS
I see the same thing here in immigration discussions, mostly in the comments. Xenophobic, against brown people, hate Mexicans etc. It’s dismissive, implies racism. I have to scratch my head because for me, it’s an over population and an economic issue. And personally, I’m looking forward to retiring in Mexico! So there! ; )
the chronicler @ 175
well, at least he never resorts to adhominem attacks, but i guess an accusation of that from you would be (hmmmm, which is it, now?) satire or irony.
Jane Hamsher, you constructed your post very cleverly. You raise Tom W.’s central point – that Pach and TRex produced anti-feminist posts, which he contends is bad strategy – and then dispense with him yourself in the first paragraph. Then you establish the straw men of incivility and vulgarity – much less egregious offenses – and impugn the motives of your critics. Predictably, your faithful hordes tilt angrily at the pathetic little straw men you have erected – it’s not much of a challenge to knock them down, and you offer a safe thing for those with grievances to criticize. Now you get to claim that “yes, we do so allow debate at FDL,” and who will notice that 90% of it ran in the channels you prepared? The statistician notices, for sure, but not many others. I salute your masterful manipulation, Madam.
Methinks the statistician’s calculator needs fresh batteries.
Check your math. Again.
(This evening is one of those few times when I wish I was a mod; the IP numbers must be revealing.)
[Mod Note; Yup, and that’s all I will ever say on the subject.]
This person has made a shockingly close study of my resume for someone who claims to hate me, haven’t they? But really, I’d say s/he almost hits the mark. Throw “freakishly talented, dashing, and adorable” in there and you’ve about got me covered.
I still think it’s Althouse.
I finished reading most of the comments. Thanks, Jane, TRex, Christy…
Rayne – thanks for the compliment this morning. Its still Wednesday here.
The moon is up. The Northern Lights are doing their best show of the winter. I’m taking my pup out onto the lake. I’m going to try and skate ten miles or so before some tea and bed. A good break fom correcting 350 (!!!) essays.
Night, all.
John Casper @ 10:28 pm (#363)
Well, gosh, thanks. I realized that it was probably just emotion from people who were in the thick of things, but it just didn’t seem right to sugar coat what was clearly a problem. Good decisions never result from a mistaken viewpoint. Anyhow, the thing that bothered me the most was being called a “concern troll”, because it was pretty clear that I wasn’t. I’d been commenting for some time and I’d clearly done some work figuring things out and explaining them. There was plenty to argue about in what I wrote, but my motivations shouldn’t have been in question under the circumstances. That people have come to use that term so freely here is troubling, and I think that folks just dropping in will see it as an example of groupthink or pressure to conform.
I’d just urge people to step back and consider before they start writing such things.
I love Digby and his crew. Dear gawd, their political analysis is dazzling. But I strenuously objected when he and his commenters went crazy trashing newly minted Time Mag on-line commentator Ana Marie Cox, whom I revile as much as they do, with every variation on ‘cunt’ that educated and uneducated folk can possibly imagine.
C’mon guys and gals. Cox/Malkin/O’Beirne and their ilk are sooooooo not worth debasing ourselves with sexist BS. It’s not all that hard to trash them on their own merits. It has little or nothing to do with the fact that they are *females* who happens to have sold their souls to the devil …
I read this site (as “religiously” as I do anything) because I deeply respect Jane and Christy and all the brilliant commentary they and Pach and TRex and Jordan B. and all their friends so generously share with us all. Boy, girl, gay, straight, who cares? It’s all excellent, nourishing, inspiring stuff.
About 34 years ago, I promised myself I’d *never, ever* use the words “bitch” or “cunt” to refer to another woman. I adhered fervently to that pledge for about 30 years. As time has worn on, tho’, I’ve found a *very* few women who richly deserve to be labeled with such epithets. Ana Marie Cox and Michelle Malkin and Kate O’Beirne might well be among them. And I won’t write off Pach and TRex ‘cuz they occasionally find someone on whom those shoes fit. But I still find myself biting my tongue every time it occurs to me to refer to a sister in that fashion. That’s the best I can do.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 375
On internet chat, it’s difficult (maybe impossible) to narrow it down to one or two numbers. I remember once that AOL got banned from a channel because of one lout. It may be that sort of situation.
Cujo359 @ 383
Cujo, I remember that. I, and I think most of us, knew you were a regular and careful commenter and I appreciated your input.
Hey dumbfuck, welcome to linear chronology.
You seriously believe the poster – at 7:32 PM – wrote in anticpation of response comment 16 (logged at 7:47 PM)?
Where is your time machine? Did you lose it in the box of stuff from the last Star Trek convention?
If you really believe the causation you posit, please consult the nearest public health clinic to select appropriate antipsychotics.
statistician @ 380
Christy Hardin Smith @ 375
Perhaps there’s a block of IP addresses being blocked? That’s fairly routine some places, because spammers will tend to gravitate toward ISPs that tolerate such things.
As for your previous rhetorical question, I answered it earlier, I think. In the absence of real information, people are happy to speculate anyway. They’ll base their inferences on what they can see, and if they see a place that appears to be unfriendly toward certain points of view, they will assume that’s the reason they’ve been put into moderation. It’s only after you’ve been here a while that you realize it’s really about mutant h**sters and refining ur*n*um.
The Real MSM @ 385
her crew, sfb/MSM
Cujo359 @ 330
Cujo, there’s no real mystery to what moderators do these days. We use our best judgment and try to follow the FDL Prime Directive as stated by Pach some time back:
Now, as you can probably imagine, that can be a challenging assignment sometimes.
Much of the mysterious part is in the way that the WordPress filters sometimes automatically place comment in moderation. Some of this we know and need to leave in place to avoid prolific spammers, some of it remains mysteries to be solved. Did you see this morning’s thread where CHS and mommybrain found the brand-name drug inside the word “specialist”?
I won’t speak for the past, but it takes some real effort for any semi-reasonable commenter to be manually deleted these days. After all, just look at GPB.
And for the sake of full disclosure, I also remember both of your comments.
[Mod Note; beware the zig before quoting this comment]
Rayne @ 378
92%?
What does it matter who I am, Rayne? Would that make the content of my comment any more or less valid?
Firedoglake made its reputation by its excellent investigative reporting on stories such as the Scooter Libby case. Jane Hamsher and Christy Hardin Smith are capable of competent thought and excellent writing. I personally am not at all impressed with the use of profanity, nor am I particularly shocked. It merely identifies the writer as somebody who was momentarily lacking in the creativity to find a more interesting way of making a point.
At the same time, coming across a sentence that is liberally sprinkled with shock words tells me that I am likely to be bored. There are worse things, however — use of sentence fragments, topics that are insufficiently introduced and badly explained, and worst of all, the use of the slang of the moment set off in quotes. This is about as far from true ridicule as you can get. Finding the right phrase and wrapping it around your opponent’s collar is harder to do, but it is a lot more effective.
statistician @ 392
absent the time machine, your post is crap.
Antipsychotic selection:
3 classes:
low-potency (prototype: Thorazine)
high-potency (haloperidol, perphenazine)
atypical (numerous – includes olanzapine, risperidal, etc)
Christy Hardin Smith @ 373
Because it happened when I wrote something critical.
I generally love the site and the discussions here. I do find the use of some language degrades the site. I can’t stand some of the people who are targeted with these invectives, but I do not think they are appropriate.
The site perhaps started out as a shrp critque and is morphing, because of some of the langauge of the posts into a rock and roll way of seeing things. This may speak to some who see discourse as too stuffy and why be constrained by polite speech??? But I am not passing those articales by. Too much of this sounds too mean spirited.
I don’t care for some of MoDo’s attacks and here I find worse. This is not a matter of free speech. Language is very powerful and it defines the debate as much as the content. When you use such offensive arguments you drag the discussion down into the gutter, even when you are discussing some serious policy issues. Id Bush a piecew of shit? you betcha.. but that is not the problem.. it is what he does or doesn’t DO which is the problem and resorting to gutter language for emphasis only clouds the argument and turns some away from listening.
I don’t know if the posters here are sexists and frankly I am not interested in any of the sexually referenced comments as I think they simply have no place in most of the discussions on this site.
Although Christie’s posts are the driest of the lot, I love her work the most because of her style.
Perhaps I am too old for this newspeak. Or maybe I don’t get it?
Christy Hardin Smith @ 290
Nothing but blog kisses from this fan. You Rock Mrs. Smith!!
TRex @ 337
My fight about the “C” word was months ago and I expressed exactly the same things. It annoys me that a word describing a part of my body is considered unspeakable. Then I signed of with this very not safe for work link, Bad Mimi
I am unfortunatley late to this party, but it sure looks like fun.
I too have been chastized for my profane style from time to time, from everyone from feminists to miosogynists so I know whereof I speak.
The problem lies with the analysis of what’s intended by these terms. People assume that when you call someone a c*** (paying obeiescence to the spam filter) you are saying someone is a woman and that being a woman is a bad thing. That’s not only incorrect in real terms it’s a wrong reading of the meaning of the word. C*** in this context is a scatalogical reference, like prick, dick or a**hole. The terms are derogatory because they refer to execratory organs, not sexual organs.
They are strong, ancient anglo-saxon terms used to put people down, yes. In most cultures they are interchangeable by sex — women can be pricks and men can be c***s. The Brits — who know a thing or two about anglo-saxon stuff — use the c-word commonly for both men and women. As a writer I would hate to lose the use of these words over a misunderstanding. In fact, I refuse to. They can be very powerful in the proper context. Sometimes, no other word will do.
And as long as we’re on the subject, I will take this opportunity to point out that the word pussy is a term used to describe cowardice, but that too is not sexist because the etymology of the cowardice definition doesn’t actually come from the sexual meaning of the word but rather the straighforward one — feline. Scaredy cat. (You can ask William Safire, I swear.)
Of course these terms have all come to mean different things over time and we all know that sometimes a c*** is just a c*** and a prick is just a prick.
Still, people should wake up to the fact that when a whole bunch of words meaning “bad person” come from “down there,” it’s not because of the good stuff that happens down there or which sex they are, but because of the dirty stuff that comes out. That’s what makes the word so baaad.
JoyB @ 289
JoyB – thanks for your comment.
I apologize. I didn’t intend to suggest any symptoms or diagnosis.
I should have omitted the nestled quote and removed references, as well.
I apologize for my mistakes.
Digby—beautifully said. It is always such a pleasure to see you at the Lake.
Even coming in at the end of the game, Digby wins for Best Comment of the Night.
Congratulations, good sir. Now I’m off to check out Hullaballoo for more good writing.
digby @ 398
A choice bit of EPU if there ever was one. *g*
it seems to me that there is an evolving sense of appropriate use of language here. when it’s “just us regulars,” inhibitions tend to be tossed to the winds as the “fucks” and “cunts” whirl about us – rather like life in a summer camp bunkhouse (or, as my fathe described it, WWII basic training camp). On the other hand, i’ve noticed that when a guest blogger appears for a real time converssation with us, we tend to behave as if it were visitors’ weekend – there might be occasional slips (it’s hard to remember that betsy’s mother abhors cursing), but, by and large, everyone is respectful and makes the attempt to be as articulate as one’s english teacher (or grandmother) would like. although, there is always the pretty irresistible possibility of amusing one’s self with the reaction one gets from betsy’s mother with just a few of those “fucks” and “shits” (let alone a barrage).
the only argument against the use of any vocabulary is that it doesn’t adequately make a point and often the choice of even the most dreaded “obscenities” is completely intentional and very successfully makes the point. of course, all too often, it is simply childishly inelegant and as annoying as having three kids in the back seat of the car chanting “doody doody doody.”
Karen M @ 394
Demonstrating my point in my 11:05 pm (#388) comment.
OTOH, I’ve had comments thrown into moderation for using the phrases I mentioned before. I’ve also had comments in moderation for discussing pres*r*pt*on dr**s and int*r*st r*tes. As The Lurking Mod notes, the word “special*st” can be a trigger, also. See if you can spot the word hidden within that caused that little problem. No doubt, someone will soon be in moderation for mentioning The Great Depr*ssi*n.
digby @ 399
Digby, if you’d be willing to teach, hope the psych residencies thereabouts sign you up.
You KNOW, girl!
OMG IT’S DIGBY!!
*faints dead away*
digby @
398
Perfect EPU. Thanks for bringin’ it.
I’m late to this party, but I’m glad this is being discussed. My problem is not with substance or attitudes, but with simple language. We have the spotlight function, which is great, but more than once I have made the decision NOT to spotlight a post just because it has a lot of profanity in it. Ditto forwarding it to older relatives and friends. I love T-Rex’s snarky profane late-night essays, but I wouldn’t send a copy to my Dad. It’s a question of who the audience is, I guess. If you want to reach wider, tone it down. If you’re talking to the regulars, let ‘er rip.
i’m frankly amazed at what the team has built here with the firedoglake property. from nothing to one of the top traffic sites – with both insightful commentary and analysis to absolutely amazing/scathing battlements – it truly is awesome in the definitive sense of the word.
like many multi-writer sites, mileage varies as one’s taste tends toward some writers as opposed to others. i prefer hamsher and smith and am not a fan of the nighttime attempts at comedy whatsoever. but that’s just me; obviously many do prefer it and that’s fantastic by me.
but it is important to keep in mind that as your visibility continues to grow, so too does the retributive nature of the enemy publications and blogs.
witness the blackface graphic issue during the lamont campaign – it became a temporary lightning rod for which hamsher had to offer an apology, of sorts, which in my opinion was not necessary and probably was simply done to deflect negative attention away from the lamont campaign.
using the C word is just part of the creative arsenal. but you have to expect that it’s going to lightning-rod you with the wingnuts. that’s what they do – they look for reasons to bust out their only remaining weapon – the old, stale canard of “liberal hypocrisy” – which, of course, doesn’t really exist except in their walnut-sized minds.
so, fire away and keep up the good work. i appreciate what you do, jane and christy.
NealB @
225
Could I just buy and install the Tipper Gore version, without having to type in all those nasty words myself? My computer would feel enfouled afterwards.
ykn @ 227
How fucking condescending. Exactly which attacks of TRex’s have been upon those whose points he did not understand? You’ll have to be specific here, with links, to satisfy me, because while I’ve not agreed with TRex’s every attack, he’s understood the points of those he’s attacked quite clearly.
Do not speak for me: And we love you in spite of this.
Speaking here as an ex-nun, I have no problem with any use of language that fits the point being made. I can’t help calling McCain a whore to his own ambition. But I agree with those who have spoken about lazy writing and the use of “bad” language as a hammer when the stiletto would be so much more effective.
Don’t we want to be taken seriously, here within the community and by those who drop by to see how we operate? We’ve proven ourselves effective as fundraisers. We’ve aimed a spotlight at important issues and forced the mainstream media to pay attention.
But we also create a distraction when we use words not commonly accepted in the wider world. And we put a weapon in the hands of the MSM and others who don’t want to confront the issues. How many times have we been pilloried by the likes of David Brooks, L’il Debbie, et. al., purely on the grounds of our language? They zero in on words like fuck, cunt, bitch, prick, and all the rest, using them to demonstrate that we are wild-eyed, drug-ridden hippy leftists incapable of civilized discourse.
Yes, their notion of civilized discourse is pretty much lies and every version of bigotry, so long as they don’t resort to feelthy language. That’s their problem.
I do think we generally hold the high moral ground, whatever words we use. But we are less effective than we need to be because we often use language that throws up a barrier to what we are trying to say.
Not to mention that too-frequent use of edgy words robs them of their effectiveness, just when we really need them.
I think this list, and all Blue lists, would do more for our cause if we were more judicious about our choice of language. No rules. Just keeping our eyes on the destination.
And when it comes to real humor and true snark–Go for it!
I don’t have any problems whatsoever with ‘earthy’ language and I’m a first amendment absolutist. That said, when TRex insults Althouse in terms like “old bag” I can’t but see that as sexist. The last couple of paragraphs of his recent rant on her were full of insinuations that as being old and a woman she was useless and should shut the fuck up. I posted something about it at the time, but there was a silly pun cascade going on and no one paid any attention to it. It makes me reluctant to read his postings on this blog and it should make him sit down and really consider what he meant by those paragraphs. That Kramer guy didn’t think he was a racist either, until he had his face rubbed in it.
MKK
CatelynK @ 411
But really – TRex was refering to Laura Ingraham, a proper target if ever there was one.
I had a girlfriend who had a penchant for reclaiming words that had been misappropriated by… whoever. She wanted “cunt” back for a more intimate use, and was a little peeved when I referred to Leona Helmsley that way. Fine.
When Barbara Bush suggested that displaced folks from NOLA were better off in a sports arena since they were poor anyway, her comment was, “That fucking cunt.”
Context is rather important.
If I can’t appreciate what someone writes here, I simply don’t read it. People are dying in Iraq every day, and the responsible people carry on as if nothing is wrong. Seems silly to be so offended by mere words. I love this site, usually a lurker. I hope to hell it never changes. AND just for good measure, FUCK BUSH!
Christy Hardin Smith @
290
Oh. I thought there was gonna be an entire PullUpAChair devoted to our complaints about you! Here I’ve been holding back all this time….
newtonusr @ 413
Yes, indeed. I thought that I was making that very point. And I wasn’t referencing any specific poster. IMO, T-Rex gets a pass on many counts, including his genuine wit and the fact he does the Late-Nite gig, which is pretty much Saturnalia.
Sorry I came so late to this discussion. I was off rehearsing the Bach B-Minor Mass, which is so sublimely glorious that it’s hard to write sensibly about feelthy words. Although I love those too, when no other words will do.
CatelynK @ 416
You were, and I agree – I wasn’t clear. I was typing for the LGF fan behind me.
Pachacutec @
305
VILE
heh
newtonusr @ 417
Looking back, I see that. At this time of night, I’m a litle fuzzy. Regards to you and the LGF fan behind you!
“Under certain circumstances, profanity provides a relief denied even to prayer.” – Mark Twain
“Those who boggle at strong language are cowards, because it is real life which is shocking them, and weaklings like that are the very people who cause most harm to culture and character. They would like to see the nation grow up into a group of over-sensitive little people – masturbators of false culture of the type of St Aloysius, of whom it is said … when he heard a man breaking wind with deafening noise he immediately burst into tears and could only be consoled by prayers.” – Jaroslav Hasek
All I can add is having the wisdom and maturity to know when to employ profanity goes a long way toward building credibility. There are times at FDL when it is clear that unwise people have been given a platform to speak from, and the tactic of “targeted character assassination” is undertaken with less than honorable motives. The willingness to get down into the gutter with the likes of Coulter, Rove and Limbaugh does not inspire confidence that the tenor of public discourse will improve as power swings in progressives favor. It’s the ideas and analysis put forth by the cooler heads that keeps me coming back, though. Net balance: a positive contribution. Keep up the great work!
Let me just say this to those who are raking the FDL bloggers over the coals. The act of writing is a delicate thing. It takes me hours to really express my thoughts, one of the reasons I’m mostly a lurker. I could never do whata blogger whom posts daily do; write an interesting post on demand. I doubt most of you can either or I’d recognize your names. (Digby!)
We all get sloppy in our expressions sometimes and fall back on cliches. I think that’s all that is really happening here and the charges of sexism are overblown. The blogosphere has been through this before – pie fights and such. Controversy comes with growth. FDL is a target because of its success and because by attacking it, others receive attention. That’s not to say that there aren’t valid arguments on many sides of this issue.
However, what I am seeing here and elsewhere in the blogosphere, is a pressure for the more well known bloggers to not just work themselves into the ground for us, but to represent the movement at all times and to present it to the public in a certain way. This has just broken out into openwarfare herebut it’s been on the threads for awhile.
Personally, I think that’s asking a bit much out of our mostly unpaid volunteers. I like a diversity of voices and if a blogger bothers me, I just stop reading them.
Phew, finally !
I made it to the “end” of the thread (3.5 hours !) and can now comment.
Well, all I have left to say is Ditto !
(in a non-right wing way of course)
What a community this is.
Mahalo one and all
“A nation that continues to make distinctions between its fighting man and its thinking man will have its fighting done by fools and its thinking done by cowards.” – Thucydides
TRex @ #337 – THANK you for that:
Others here have covered well all points of the compass on this topic, but I think Christy at #245 is getting at something from personal experience that perhaps many others haven’t seen close enough to really appreciate. I mean the use of the C-word as a personhood-destroying venomous slur hurled at the wife by the domestic abuser in a family. That word probably registers like a gunshot for many, many women (and their now-grown children) who have survived domestic abuse, or witnessed it up close because of family and friends who have been trapped in such toxic relationships. In other words, think Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and how you might regret triggering that response unnecessarily in vets reading a word you’ve written that triggers their PTSD, when a more focused, descriptively accurate and piercing adjective could be used in the loaded word’s place, with a little more time put into it (as many here have pointed out).
I never have any problem understanding where the 33% or so of the country who will always support George W. Bush come from (at least until the day he actually comes for them personally): I just have to think about how the tyrannical domestic abusers I know of would vote, and the mystery is solved… And that male/female ratio is no 50/50 deal. There must be a minimum of 70% male abusers to 30% female (to give one reason for the difference in impact of the C-word versus the Prick-word). So thanks for thinking twice, TRex – I imagine a more specifically-defined use of words can only enhance the power and scope of your writing – of which your disarming wit is a very important part.
Eli, your political insights always seem precisely on point. I hope you will drift back to FDL. I have noticed the conscious effort on the part of the front-pagers, as with this post, to soften their bark a bit in the comment threads. They’re having to learn how positions of (relative) power force changes in behavior, however unwelcome, I suppose. Their admirable self-control here in the comments in this thread alone, should be noted. Criticism is so damn tough to take, and we all have to work to hold back our own ‘holier/wiser-than-thou’ opinions when words are only likely to cruelly cause hurt, without shedding any light. Meaning, give FDL another chance (as scarecrow did, to the benefit of us all), and see if you change your mind.
[digby @ #398, FWIW - I’m one of the very few (judging by the internets) that is left cold by the unending references to feces and “down there” scatological references. The defining word in the blogosphere (everywhere) seems to be “asshole” and how people should insert other parts of their anatomy therein. I somehow miss the whole point of that visual image… Swearing is expressing raw emotion - we get the point ourselves when we curse, but I’m not sure the message gets properly conveyed to others by use of the same old bodily-function descriptors, in most cases.]
Bottom line though, as carolyn @ #422 (and I think Professor Foland earlier) puts well — the daily pressure on the FDL hosts to produce (for the common good) what is basically a volunteered product, must be recognized and appreciated for what it is. These are volunteers offering to raise their own standards for the greater good of the community. That’s quite a service, indeed.
FDL attracts more thinking posters than many other blogs. An occaisional colorful word is not putting me off. Often this may be the only way to get the point accross.
However, I left Huffpo because there are too many who use profanity and base physical descriptions to simply attack other posters,[without making valid points on topic]. While I lean to warning of sliding into the murky side of language, I really doubt that FDL could ever be so lacking in class.
Language is still covered by the first amendment. We’re getting lots of people sounding like old republican Newt Gingrich who’d like to limit and censor how language is used. Barbara Bush is no arbiter of taste either. She only has the ‘power’ we allow her. (Taste! My God, this is the woman who birthed and raised Dubya the Dunce.) We know the four letter words, and we also know when NOT to use them. Blog postings don’t equal prayers in church. English is alive — let it breathe.
Because I came to this thread late, I haven’t done my usual, which is to read through it first before commenting. That’s because Jane has invited comment and I want to go on record with my observations before comments are closed. I have been reading FDL every day for about a year.
I also read Rude Pundit every day. So it’s not that I don’t have an appreciation for rude language used deliberately. But there are times when I’ve been repulsed by it here. It might be the art of it—that is, it’s not done well. It seems forced, or it goes on too long, or it is gratuitous to the point being made. All this intellectual defense of the word c***, or the trotting out of dictionary definitions of whore, or finally, the accusation that anyone who finds it objectionable are just uptight prudes, is not persuading me. All I can say is I had the same reaction some time ago to something Bob Somerby wrote, a passing slur, that I instantly knew reflected how he regarded women, and I stopped reading him. It was a visceral response. I haven’t stopped reading FDL yet, because of the community of expert minds here, but I think of it differently now. It’s a little tarnished for me. Not as adult as it once was. More adolescent. I am not persuaded that it is ‘cutting edge’ or what’s that word you like, ’smashmouth’, it’s just kind of derivative and I just get the feeling that I’ve seen this before and I go click on another blog to read some content.
Also, your community does have a pack mentality. I agree with those commenters in that Tom Watson thread who said that dissenting opinions are derided here. It is painful to observe. Skins are so thin here. You are very much like a clique, and it is an unattractive aspect to an otherwise fine blog.
I don’t comment often, but I did want to take the opportunity to make these observations.
Running late here this morning, and I can’t wait to get home from work and read all of the comments. I agree with martha, way up top, who said that you can just as easily turn off the toobz as you can switch the TV channel. If something said here annoys me I “harrumph” to myself, and go do something else. And for those of you still here:
Today’s NYT columnists, from behind the firewall:
http://select.nytimes.com/2006…..amp;emc=th
David Brooks, “Waiting to be Wooed.”
http://select.nytimes.com/2006…..amp;emc=th
Bob Herbert, “Badges, Guns and Another Unarmed Victim.”
Oh, my hero to the rescue. First off Teddy, it was the royal “WE”, but you knew that. Second, TREX likes to bully, not debate. Third, I simply don’t have the time or the typing skills, but it’s there. He’ll type something like “Y’all are really starting to piss me off”, for instance when someone did a Beck satire.
He lack maturity in my mind. But opps, my opinion doen’t mesh with the “click”, so call me out.
Condescending? Perhaps, but an opinion I assure you is shared by at least two other regular reads, and occasional posters.
TeddySanFran @ 411
I will admit that I came to the original comment from the backdoor. I found the controversy and then read the comment. What I saw was what appeared to be a brainfart- a slip between plan and result. The language simply missed its mark. As elaborately designed as it was, I suspect the comment simply went astray and the result is alot of excessive verbiage. I prefer not to use “those words” (as my grandmother would have said) and try to be a little more exact. The word itself tends to get in the way of what is meant, it simply has too much baggage and is therefore pretty useless for anything other than a broad attack.
As for the whole adolescent smashmouth craze used in political commentary, I can’t wait for it to be over. You do not prove that you are smarter than the other person by acting dumber.
Oh the words! They make me bleed.
But it’ll always be A. Cuntler to me.
My issue with the dreaded “c-word” is that it’s been used against me while a man was stomping the shit out of me. I suspect that’s the case for alot of women and why the word makes us cringe. It’s THE word that’s used as the biggest insult towards women in general. It’s use is generally done to diminish a woman,humiliate and demean,making her a body part and nothing more. It hurts,whether it’s hurled at someone else or at me personally.
But I am a grown up,and this would be my problem,not someone else’s. Recovering from Domestic Violence can take a lifetime,there are triggers for my PTSD all over the place. I’ve learned to cope,but it doesn’t make those things any less heartbreaking. I often feel like our culture loathes women,and sometimes that’s so depressing it makes it hard to get out of bed in the morning. But I get up anyway,life is too short to spend it wallowing. I’m raising a son,and I often feel like I’m losing him to all the crap this culture dishes out. He is why I fight and hopefully he’ll grow up to be a man of empathy,compassion,and concern for others,but not so much it cripples him(being a people pleaser over following his own heart).
Words can heal or hurt. It’s a fine line sometimes. Good writers take things to the edge,to make us think. Bad writing hurls the words but has no context or content that backs those words up.
I read here, when I read here, because Christy is REALLY good when she gets serious on subjects that I am serious about – most notably legal matters and during the Israeli-Hezbollah war. But I guess Jane’s explanation of the Lenny Bruce point helps me make more sense of the rest of the site.
Sometimes it works for me, and sometimes I’m embarassed to have recommended the site to a serious-minded friend (which I did during the summer war).
Maybe I’m too Barbara-Bushy for you??
I don’t recommend censorship. The site is what it is. I kept reading because the occasional comment is exceptionally good, but for months, for me, the site’s rhetorical style has just been off. I just check in occasionally now to see if something good has been posted. Occasionally something really great, and not just from Christy, shows up (I remember something from Pachacutec), but mostly, I’m put off. I LIKE seriousness (when dealing with serious subjects). Sorry. How very post-post-post-modern or something of me not to want to have to wade through too many layers of snark. And I didn’t like Lieberman, either, but the things said in this post excusing ways of going after him? I mean, not being in CT and not being focused so much on that race as you guys, I don’t know all the details, and probably most of it was fair and just good fun. But I don’t like the excuses. The Republicans figured (a decade or so ago) that the game was rigged against them and so anything they did was just fair play in a dirty game. The way to win now is to show that we’re not going to be just as dirty.
Really good bar-b-que is slow cooked for hours and rarely “sauced.” Sauce is served on the side and used sparingly. Cheap bar-b-que in chain restaurants is cooked quickly soaked in sauce. The difference shows…
Honestly I don’t believe I have ever taken offense by the language on FDL. I have been offended by the language on other blogs, but I think on FDL, strong language is more defiant than abusive. For me, FDL is a little citadel of blue America defiance.
and akr@433, for what it’s worth I *do* live in CT and *did* follow the race. And I think FDL was really brilliant in helping take the fake smug look off of HoJoe and in rallying Lamont suporters. It had to be hardball, because HoJoe is such a dirty player of the first class. Just ask Lowell Weicker.
as a great FDLer (whose name escapes me at the moment) once said: “well, fuckity fuck fuck.” lol
Let me make myself clear, if I may. I don’t believe my post on Tauscher or the choices I made were “wrong.” I knew it was edgy when I wrote it, and I’ve had all the feminist education in my background so nothing that has come up has been new to me. Hell, I was the first male staffer at an comunity center for battered women.
I made choices and while I understand some people think those choices were artless or, as you say, “wrong,” I don’t think they were wrong, though I’ve written funnier bits, and apparently I’m not alone my assessment.
I’m quite happy to admit when I’m wrong and do it all the time. But don’t equate “X = wrong” when you’re really saying “I don’t agree with X and the author of X should agree with me.” The simple evidence of this discussion should demonstrate that there’s room for more than one opnion on this.
Now, this is all separate from the question, as I’ve asked myself, “would I write it the same way again, given the range of perceptions in the reception of the post?” The answer is, maybe, I don’t know. I might and I might not. I don’t have an answer yet.
I completely reserve the right to write as I choose, but I’m not impervious to feedback. I left off comment participation/debate in response to some vocal minority feedback on the site, and maybe that was wise and maybe that wasn’t. I’m with Jane, though: the day writing stops being enjoyable, the day I have to filter my every sentence through the possibility of someone else’s outrage as I type, that’s the day I quit. In the end, the writing is the writing. Some days it’s better than others. It’s not like I’m in this for the money.
I’d also note than there was no pushback on my post in the comments that night, and frankly I was a bit surprised, and a little bored, actually, that the post seemed not to generate so much discussion, for a rather provocative offering. There was no moderation of the comments that night out of any dissent or critique. The people who later took exception were people who either chose to muzzle themselves, who decided making a fuss over the post from a distant perch might be in their interests, or maybe they just read it after the comments automatically closed.
Given all this, I tend to conclude that it’s not the engagement of commenters by front page posters that tends to muzzle people, since I’ve stopped doing that a while ago. It’s not the moderation system. It’s mostly self censorship. How is it that being a safe place to express your opinion rests on us agreeing with your opinion? It seems people want, not just to express their opinion, but to express it with no one in the community disagreeing with them. That seems like another request entirely. In that case, all this stuff about the site squelching dissent is just projection: you’re squelching yourself.
Pachacutec @ 437
I was too tired to stay with the thread last night, but upon checking it this morn, I see it is still active. Guess I feel maybe PAch will see this and think about what I am saying.
I have some feeling for the explanations of the use of the c-word etc. I allow that there are times its ok. What i was talking about in the post last night about mean spirit is something more subtle.
I have noticed an ongoing issue with references to body image issues from one poster. Its always gratuitous and shows, I think, that the psoter really has issues with people who are overweight. Surprisingly, this is from someone who has written eloquently of the pain caused by beingg called out for how one looks. Is this really defensible? And please don’t give me the crap that people do it to themselves so who cares. Economically disadvantaged people have a huge problem with this because high fat, high calorie food is over represented among things they can afford on limited funds.
Likewise I cringed at comments about the fact that Malkin was not fashionably dressed. WTF – at first my attitude is who cares, really. But its lazy, sloppy, and mean.
That kind of subtle stuff shows a creeping “kewl kidz” kind of outlook. No thanks.
Look, its not the end of the world, but would people at the site melt to acknowledge that the tone is not always consistent with the values being espoused?
Let me go first – I don’t always behave and speak off the cuff in a manner consistent with my values.
There…it didn’t hurt that much.
crick: I think, based on your descroptions of topics, such as Malkin, you’re not talking to me, really. What would you have me say? If your comments are for someone else, about someone else’s writing (TRex?), then that’s the person it would be best to address. I’ve never used the word “cunt” in my writing, for the same reasons Jane hasn’t: it’s not in my comfort zone. But I’m not one to feel it’s use is ever verboten, and I think digby’s made an interesting dissection of the matter above.
How PC have we become? If Norman Lear tried to make “All in the Family” now, no network would touch it, even though he’d never use the “c” word, the “n” word, the “f” word, the “p” word, or the “k” word. Archie said all manner of offensive things, without any of the “seven words”.
I am no big fan of cussin’, my objection is that it’s too easy. “Sandpaper Snatch” was great because it was creative, evocative, and funny. Cunt is just cunt, whatever that is.
I’m against rules restricting language, but as for me, I’ll try to stay within the Archie Bunker limits. No promises, the Republican party hasn’t disbanded yet. But if by avoiding certain words, I can get folks just as mad, without detours caused by the word police, it’s worth it.
(Yes, yes, if you’re wondering, I don’t know what the “k” word is either…)
The only point I am trying to make is that the c-word got so much attention that there was little discussion to the more subtle, general issue I addressed. No, you were not the person I was talking about, but you are here in the thread and I thought as one of the main pagers I could address my comment to you.
I would not presume to have you say anything.
As I said last night, I went 6-8 months still reading the site regularly without making a single comment after actively commenting before that. I offer the perspective of someone who has been focused on listening rather than talking. Its like someone who doesn’t notice how much their own children have grown because they see them every day, compared to the aunt or uncle who sees them every year or so. You notice things.
That is all I gently try to offer. Do with it what you will. For myself, I will go back to just reading the site, maybe more, maybe less depending on my interest in the issues written about, weighed against my comfort with the level of orthodoxy that may be demanded of readers.
I hear you, crick. It seems to me the subject you’re raising falls into those potential gray areas I tried to describe in general terms in my email to Jane, quoted in the main post.
It’s Jane’s and Christy’s blog to do with as they see fit.
The blogosphere is the ultimate free market. We can visit and participate, or choose not to. The power of the thoughts, and the manner FDL expresses them, is evidently what the marketplace wants. Or conversely, if FDL sucked, would any of us still be here?
Between the material presented and some virtual interaction with Jane, I have come to trust FDL implicitly. Had Jane and FDL come up short, it would have been otherwise.
With regards to language, you cannot offend me – actions are offensive. I can see both sides of the cursing/not cursing debate only as it relates to the marketing strategy of the book, movie, website, etc. Jane made her decision, deal with it. On any other decision regarding the use of language, the First Amendment works for me, and it says, speak your mind.
FDL does that brilliantly.
crick at 441 — I certainly see what you are trying to say with that, and appreciate it. I do think in the rush of the election coverage, a lot of the non-election-related things got swept to the side, mainly because we were all just so damned tired that this sort of meta thread, for example, could never have taken place without enormous temper flares on all sides, commenters and front pagers and what have you alike. I, for one, am still exhausted from all the late nights and very early mornings and such that ended up happening during the election work, while still having to produce something apporaching competent writing day in and day out, all week long. It was rough, and it probably started to show around the edges — which doesn’t excuse neglecting things like site meta conversations, but I think that it is understandable that human beings can only do so many things at one time and, when you reach your limits, something has to give somewhere. We clearly made a few choices that ticked off a few people, but that is going to happen when imperfect human beings run any enterprise. The only thing we can do is to do better in the future, whatever that may mean individually or collectively. It isn’t as though there is some handbook for how you run a blog where the traffic goes from 4000 people a day to 60,000 plus a day within a short span of time and, by the way, everyone expects perfect writing and for their point of view to always be respected and heard and civility and…well, you see where I’m going. It is a very difficult balance. But perhaps a meta like this a little more often can help everyone come to some understanding about where things ought to be — or not or whatever — going forward. But I’m tired this morning and this may make no sense whatsoever, so YMMV in the reading here. *g*
It’s kind of ironic – after 430 comments it’s still a matter of debate whether the word c*nt or a detailed description of a politician performing fellatio as a metaphor are triggers or outside the bounds of appropriate discourse.
Not one person has challenged the idea that sexist is a really, really bad word that calls for retaliation.
We all have fences in our heads that separate home from the place where there are dragons. It seems to me that the calculus for using strong language and explicit content is simply this: is it essential enough to what I have to say that I’m willing to lose everyone who doesn’t follow me outside their fence?
You may well decide that it is, but it’s worth considering anyway.
fwiw.
So sayeth Jane Hamsher, with intent to injure.
Evidence? None. Malice? Plenty.
Strategy? Oh so apparent.
But why?
Because Jane has declared herself The Decider.
Yes I do get to decide if TRex and Pach are sexists.
She’s The Decider on these issues, and respecting her ownership of this blog and obvious popularity among the commenters, I’ll leave it there. It’s fine to self-declare arbitration powers. It’s her blog, and Jane has a leadership position on the organized left in this country. How she decides to use her hard-earned prominence is her business.
And it’s great this post is so open. But I always thought the ambition of FDL was greater than “smash-mouth” liberalism.
Tom W. at 446 — that is an incredibly narrow reading of everything that Jane said throughout the entirety of the thread and you know that. Setting up your own straw man to make your own personal point, for whatever reason, does not make it accurate, nor does it serve your greater argument about the larger purpose of your initial post at your blog. That was beneath you, I’m sorry to say, and it smacked of personal retribution for hurt feelings and not of any genuine interest in moving things forward.
We are all human beings who write on these blogs, and of course human feelings and interactions are going to come into play with all the accompanying baggage. But to pull something out without honestly adding in all of the context is a cheap shot. You may argue that Jane’s criticisms of your initial post were the same, that she read your intentions incorrectly — and you could likely find supporting arguments to make that case, if you did a point by point and only pulled out bits and pieces — but the whole of the conversation that Jane had here indicates otherwise in terms of her intent in getting everyone’s views on the table, and listening to them as well. To come back this morning to just drop off a cheap, backhanded slap at Jane is really much less than I expected from you on this, to be perfectly honest. And to try and characterize this entire blog as only “smashmouth” liberalism by saying that is what Jane says it is? False, several times over, if you look at ALL of her comments throughout this thread. Sorry, but that is the truth of it. And I think what you meant to say is that you’d prefer it if Jane did things in a way that you were comfortable with because, at the moment, that isn’t the case.
Pach sez:
i say yup.
oh, and ykn: bite me.
I was writing a long post but scrubbed it. I am tired as well. There is too much over intellectualizing going on about this. I left academia because of my frustration with the omnipressance of over-intellectualizing. Let me say this, as my last post.
Racism is wrong, and I try my best to get beyond it.
Sexism is wrong, same.
Ageism is wrong.
Religious discrimination is wrong.
Attacking people beacuse of there physical appearance and what they wear is equally wrong as all of the above. I slip myself, but I try to examine myself all the time. I will not now, nor ever, accept an excuse for myself, or anyone else, that rationalizes that behavior under any circumstance.
ban Tom W.! and her little blog too!
In totality this discussion is not about the use of a particular word.
It’s about making this blog better.
Everyone worth their salt wants to improve themselves.
Focus on better writing and the blog will improve.
Criticism is not an attack. Instead of immediately putting the critic down, stop, think and then respond. By reassessing your writing on a regular basis you will improve.
Wouldn’t we all like to have our words have the impact on readers like an H.L. Menken?
Aspire to be more that what you are now, work on your craft, not crassness.
When I posted last night I didn’t see that someone had claimed (#385) I used the c-word to describe Ana marie Cox. Never happened. As a matter of fact I have never used the word on my blog. (I can’t promise I never will…)
I was scathing toward her in that post because she was using her blogging cred to “triangulate” against the blogosphere and make herself one of the kewl kids. Me no likee. But it wasn’t a sexist post nor did I use cussin’ words to describe her. (I do not, needless to say, speak for my commenters who say many, many things I find offensive. You know who you are …)
The post did quote Cox herself quite liberally, particularly her constant references to “ass-fucking” so perhaps that’s where the error came in.
I wasn’t going to comment, but I was really startled when I got to Eli’s comment @9:19.
Eli, I don’t know if the banning incident you’re referring to is the person I’m thinking of, but if it is, then that answers my question about what happened to this person and I am overwhelmed with sadness.
Pfifferling at 453 — feel free to e-mail me if you have questions on that. Eli is likely at work and won’t see your comment for quite a while…
Christy Hardin Smith @ 444
You always make sense dear, and that’s why you are not criticized. You points are always valid. Your indignation as a person, a member of the United States, and a legal professional are always worthwhile and I appreciate them greatly. I cannot tell you how much I look forward to your posts in the morning. That you choose not to punctuate with pejorative verbiage; well, I cannot tell you how much I look forward to Trex at night to hold up that end of the deal.
Thanks for being you. Don’t go changin’.
johnswifty at 455 — thanks much, I appreciate it. I think it makes my occasional swearing tirade all the more eye-opening. *g*
Cujo359 @
383
Really appreciate your comments and your dedication, guys!
Before this fall’s election, I expressed support, with documentation, for a high-quality progressive candidate with a wonderful proven record of service. I was “rewarded” by having a high-profile commenter at FDL (one regularly and openly revered by moderators and major writers alike) label me, as well as that candidate, “pro torture” (talk about hurtful labels! could there be worse?!)
I did not shout back. I also did not back down from my position on the quality of the candidate, and so that commenter targeted and harassed me as tho I were an odious blight on society.
As you can see, I am still here. Nevertheless, I definitely understand why some folks have left the lake, if they received similar treatment; and I miss some of them very much. We need everyone who has something positive to offer the community. The greater the mix, the better.
Label me undaunted by an otherwise brilliant commenter who, that day, morphed into a cranky scold and indulged in a vicious, petty, arrogantly self-serving, and wholly unwarranted attack. It’s hard to forget something like that. But I was born stubborn, so I guess you’ll have to continue putting up with me, dawgs. ;->
*HEY! felt good to get that off my chest at long last, & I didn’t have to… well, you know… g*
Pachacutec @
437
Well…sort of. I’d say readers relish disagreement. They love it. But they don’t like shaming–that’s what I would conclude.
The issue is power. Front pagers have a certain power that commenters do not. That power comes from a variety of sources, but mostly from access to the broadcast center of the site (e.g. the front page) which gives them status. In the comment threads, this power can be expressed through shaming, a very effective and common form of social control–in politics, but also in face-to-face communities. And I think FDL is a hybrid of politics and a small community.
Now, if we were all equal in the comments, then I would agree that any sense of control would come from people monitoring their own opinions. But when there is a hierarchy on the site, that hierarchy also translates into the comment threads and shaming becomes a dynamic with real consequences.
In those instances, to say that the front pagers don’t have power in the comment threads, would have to accept that a front pager somehow is stripped of all status and fame when in the comment thread.
This means that front pagers are faced with a choice (not just here…on all blogs): how to use that power in the comments? It can be used to confront, it can be used to elevate, it can be used to silence, it can be used to monitor, etc.
As I see it, since there’s no getting rid of that power, the best way to use it is to foster discussion. That choice many not sit well with everyone because it involves some premeditated caution (for lack of better word) by front pagers in the comments as a strategy for making sure that everyone else has the chance to be uncivil (if they choose). And it’s not so easy to do! In some blog threads, its best for a moderator to egg people on so that they open up, while at other times it’s best to hold back.
It’s that role of discussion moderator that’s often so elusive on progressive blogs and is completely non-existent on authoritarian/Republican blogs (they get pleasure from enforcing power and hierarchy).
Cuo sed:
Anyhow, the thing that bothered me the most was being called a “concern troll”, because it was pretty clear that I wasn’t. I’d been commenting for some time and I’d clearly done some work figuring things out and explaining them.
Cujo, I don’t remember who exactly it was who called you that terrible name (whenever I hear it, I think of those funny little troll dolls we used to play with as kids, and it takes the sting out) but I remember thinking they hadn’t been here very long and didn’t know you or they never would have jumped you like that.
I should have leaped to your defense. Next time, I promise…
We speak for ourselves only and if we are “helping the other side” in the process, they don’t seem to see it that way. Our traffic continues to soar
So does Rush Limbaugh’s audience. It is not a justification for an approach. Tom brought up points that needed to be validly addressed. He didn’t call Pachacutec a sexist, he said the post was sexist. He got insults.
Rude Pundit says much worse all the time, but there is a context which makes it art and I take no offense. Similarly, Roy Edroso has used c**t to great humor and effect by creating the right brackets around the use. The two instances that Tom W. points out do not have the brackets. They are attacks that have a backswing that demeans women. Defend the uses intellecually, or apologize, but don’t attack someone who is simply making a point that perhaps there is a problem with the use. Saying “just because I use the word nigger, doesn’t make me a racist” doesn’t work. Just ask George Allen.
johnSwifty @ 455
AMEN!
Christy Hardin Smith @ 454
Pfifferling -
Don’t waste your time emailing Christy. All you’ll get is “damage control”. If you want the truth you’re better off emailing me.
StellarInteriorsAThotmailDotcom
I read this blog less and less. You people seriously need to get over yourselves. There is a whole lof of stuff out there to report, and when FDL does that, it is always worth reading.
But nobody gives a shit about you. You’re not the story. Try to be more like Gilliard and less like Aravosis.
Shoephone, when you say this:
Pfifferling -
Don’t waste your time emailing Christy. All you’ll get is “damage control”. If you want the truth you’re better off emailing me.
What you really mean is you’ll get Her side of the story. Then you ought to get Christy’s too, because I’m sure there will be things that She leaves out.
Just sayin’. Life in general is a two way street.
I find that I appreciate virtually all the authors who write the prime material for FDL, and when I see Jane or Christy as author, I invariably read them. I appreciate that they use earthy, salty language sparingly, like a great chef uses seasonings.
But, when presented with the opportunity to read a post by TRex, I find I’m torn between expecting great, insightful observations, or an unendurable screed of epic anger, excessively punctuated by gross vulgarity. At the first sign of the latter, I move on, because it’s clear that TRex’s anger has blunted the rhetoric effectiveness for me.
If TRex, who has the ability to see things in interesting ways, and clearly possesses a towering intellect, were to take some writing lessons from Jane and Christy on how to be influential and persuasive without resorting to the gutter, we’d all be the better for it.
shoephone at 461 — Really? Because I don’t recall you e-mailing me about the issue. And I don’t know that you have all the facts from all sides of the issue. But it is instructive to know that you feel that way nonetheless, as I knew that you had been actively talking to a lot of folks about it, but I am saddened to know that you would do such a thing without bothering to ask me whether it was accurate.
Christy @454, I wasn’t asking Eli a question, just reacting to his comment. My ineloquent writing is one reason why I don’t participate much!
I am sorry if I’ve re-opened a sore wound. I didn’t know.
Jeff,
I hear you. I do a lot of facilitation in the meat world, so I’m accustomed to the tool kit. There are some challenges, in actual fact, with doing that online. Here are some that I’ve encountered:
1) If I ask questions, prod, cajole, try to get something going, there’s a role conflict, because I’ve already set the stage with what is probably a pretty passionately argued point of view. Facilitators in meat space tend not to begin the process that way.
2) Online communication leaves out so much tone of voice, non-verbal cues, etc., throught which to communicate acceptance and safety, that very often, people presume anger or other animus where there is none.
3) Given that, moving from point 1 to point 2, it not so much that I can’t switch hats, it’s that the context is wrong and people experience any more non-directive, facilitative approaches I may undertake as disingenuous or manipulative. After all, I’ve already taken a point of view in the main post.
4) When I do get into the debate over ideas, I tend to express myself very directly. That’s not shaming, but it does read as blunt on a page. Added to the percieved power dynamic you describe, that makes for wounded feelings, even if I have not made any comments about people, as opposed to ideas.
5) For all these reasons, I have tended to let the discussion go where it will with my hands off, unless something really egregious catches my attention where I think someone’s just not accurately or truthfully relating what I’ve had to say up top. But my default approach is to engage in wordplay and playful banter, or answer questions put to me, but not anything more.
I like the concept of the facilitative role, but I’m not sure it can be done by a front pager very consistently for his or her own post, and anyway, not everyone possesses equal skill for such a role.
On another level, this whole facilitating model feels a little. . . infantilizing to me to do it or to see it done. People around here are very smart, and I just have this suspicion that this idea continues to place the responsibility for getting people to speak up on the site hosts. Where is the responsibility of the community members themselves?
I have this notion that, after experimenting with facilitation, in three more months we’d be reading about the inadequacy of FDL’s facilitation, or it’s manipulative nature, as if it were part of some attempt to tell people what to say and shape their commentary, because we’re really all into groupthink and don’t respect alertante points of view.
See what I mean? There’s this meme out there about FDL, actually, a few of them. There’s the allegation of racism, nevermind the actual record. There’s the allegation now of sexism, the subject of the current debate. And then there’s the allegation that we don’t tolerate alternate points of view.
These things take on a life of their own beyond any reason. I’ve read comments from people in the blogosphere by people who perpetuate this stuff when they obviously have no real sense of what happened when, etc. But these memes are “out there,” courtesy of people on the left and from the Lieberman campaign who feel it’s their duty or in their interests to make these charges. And no, I don’t think the fact that shooting at us helps traffic is entirely absent from people’s minds, even if their motivations are a complex mix of shallow analysis, some good faith concern, etc.
Christy – you’re correct in that Jane’s charge of homophobia stung. I said that clearly. Mine was an answer to her “cheap, backhanded slap.”
She has read my intentions incorrectly from the start, despite my attempts at a dialogue. It was done with clear malice. Jane also said this (and yes, I’ve read every quote, exhausting as it’s been, here, there and everywhere – cos I feel a responsibility, having set match to kindling):
I have personally been notoriously short tempered with the Barbara Bushes amongst us who castigate us for lack of “civility” and our part in soiling their beautiful minds. It’s a classic accusation leveled against outsiders by members of the established order trying to disempower them, rather than addressing any validity of their viewpoints.
See that? Again with the assumed motivation, the assumed political background. Does it rankle coming from someone of Jane’s position in the world of progressive politics, the possessor of a strong and vital platform (that occasionally goes astray). Yeah, it does. And it doesn’t speak well for FDL.
Pfifferling at 466 — Please don’t feel badly, you didn’t know. But honestly, you are more than welcome to e-mail me if you have questions and I’ll be happy to answer them as best I can. And that goes for shoephone or anyone else as well.
Tom W. at 468 — Honestly, and I say this knowing Jane as well as I can from clear across the country and mostly phone calls and e-mails, but I think you may be overthinking or overreading what she said. I think she was using the “homophobia” comment that you pulled as an illustration of an accusation that didn’t have a full basis in fact — which she felt was what you and others were making with the “sexism” comments. You see how this could be so?
I think, perhaps, everyone taking a step back and a deep breath for a bit on this might be useful. Because, honestly, I didn’t read it that way — but maybe that is because I know Jane, and I hear her voice and her tone in her writing now as a result. The same with TRex and Pach. If you don’t know her, or them, the inflection doesn’t translate well because you can’t have any basis for being able to hear it.
Writing in this sort of impersonal medium carries with it a lot of risks in how open to interpretation everything can be — because reading is such an intimate and personal thing for everyone, individually. I try to be mindful of that when I write, but it is because of a love of the careful craft of writing. But sometimes, especially when I’m dealing with a very active comments thread or a lot of things going on at once, it is tough to be as precise as I might like. Last night’s comments thread was moving very quickly, and Jane was reading part of it from her Treo because her internet access was down for a while, and monitoring the moderation thread, and commenting and actively trying to drink everything in…and convery her own sentiments at the same time, in both her post and the comments thread altogether.
Some slack, somewhere along the line, in the discussion would be both welcome and useful, I should think. But just my two cents.
Tom, fwiw, I think Jane’s “homophobia” thing was presented in precisely the tongue-in-cheek way that my remark at your place about my latino heritage was.
It’s to make a point that leveling these charges is a very aggressive, destructive act, and one that can be made based on superficialities or wilful misconstructions of others’ writing. But once it’s made, it hijacks the discussion, setting fire to kindling, as you say, and if such irresponsible accusation becomes the norm, this is what sabotages all progressive movement empowerment. And it does. It really does.
A major question implicit to this whole discussion is what this blog can reasonably be expected to accomplish, and is it doing so? I think it was one of the more influential political sites at one time, but it is diluting its own influence with a lot of bad writing lately. During the runup to the Scooter Libby indictment, FDL was a must-read for me; the comments by Christy Hardin Smith cut through the fog and seem to have steered the discussion nationally. Jane Hamsher’s comments have been equally interesting on a number of different topics. FDL was an important source in a hugely important political battle that continues.
Then came this plethora of new writers, and things have changed considerably.
Some of it is good, but with all due respect, I generally just click away from TRex nowadays. It’s not that I’m terrified of a few harsh words. It’s actually quite the opposite — I know them all, and they have no substantive content to communicate. They are an immediate signal that the writer could find neither wit nor craft enough to write something entertaining or interesting. This is not to deny the importance of the Iraq conflict or George W Bush’s propensity for lying or possibly even the Connecticut senatorial contest, but merely to point out that an incoherent blog post has little effect on the real world other than to induce a click-away.
Besides quality of writing, there is quality of thought, and that is the other thing that has been diluted on FDL recently. When CH Smith explained legal procedures in regard to the Libby proceedings, she told me things that I did not know. It was a must read. To learn that TR has strong opinions about somebody is not, because he has not as yet established his credibility with me. One other point that may seem unfair, but which I think represents reality: People who sign their names to their work come across as more real, hence more credible than people who use fantasy names. “T Rex” may represent a fantasy of size, power, and ferocity, but it immediately creates an image of a nine-year-old waving a dinosaur toy and making animal noises. Perhaps I ought to know what the term pachacutec is supposed to represent, but I don’t, only that it’s not a commonly used word.
I sent my thoughts directly to Jane and TRex before the election. I think you are using a misleading heading to say this is about language. It’s about demeaning those with whom you disagree and using things far removed from the sources of disagreement in order to demean.
It is ugly.
It is not funny.
Managing to attract the kind of crowd that will stand around and snigger while someone is beat up is not the same as being funny. Being a successful bully is not the same as being a leader.
I have no idea if people “hate” TRex or not (I just stopped reading a long time ago), but it seems that the justification for all the bad behavior is “the other person’s fault” mantra. TRex whips himself up with visions of people do hating, to pre-absolve himself of mean and vindictive personal and gender and ethnic attacks – bc after all, it’s ok bc “they” don’t like him. Kind of a Bushian “they hate me for my freedom” approach, where Columbine aim gets praise and support.
It’s a very shallow exploration to leave this at being about “language” and “free speech” rights to use bad language. It’s about becoming mean instead of tough, specious instead of smart, and common instead of notworthy.
Lots of people were offended – not because the language is R-rated (nobody seems to has a problem with “fuck”), but because it implies certain things about who is worthy of respect and who’s second-class and may be insulted in order to make a political point.
On top of that, instead of acknowledging how people are alienated by this language, the official responses consist of defensiveness and reframing the issue.
Hello all.
I have been away from blogging for a while because I was flat-out on a Supreme Court Brief (just finished) during which process I caught a nice cold (over it somehow).
Two of my longtime Lake-friends checked in with me in the last week just to see how I was, which was nice and a thing that this community used to value. I told them that the lake had lost a lot of interest for me because it had moved from “informational” to “adversarial.” I get plenty of the latter in my non-virtual life and I just would rather spend my blog efforts in the informational realm. But one urged me to drop by, and I did, and I find this discussion.
Which really disturbs me. Primarily because I cared a lot about this place — it was, for a moment, wonderful and full of potential in a hugely interesting direction. It was like Unclaimed Territory with more personality(ies) which I really enjoyed.
But, where have all the flowers gone — and I am not just talking about the banned Lotus:
I saw Shoephone pop in, but that is a rare event now. And what about Lisadawn? And Ember? And Shez? and Anne. And Jenny from the blog. and scarecrow is rare. and op99 seems concerened, although hanging in here.
And where are my two bestest legal eagle commenter mates Mary4 and Looseheadprop. Is EPU still around? And I saw a day or two ago that Balrog left.
I had disagreements with many of these, included at one time or another, but I respected and liked them all. The fact that those voices — that part of the community no longer exists, well, that is not just change, it is loss.
If, as has been suggested, traffic drives the text, well that is a marketing decision and fine. But what is upsetting is the attempt to rationalize — not explain — the content/context problem away. An Angry Old Broad above points directly to my views about language. If a person is hurt by one’s words, the inappropriate answer if “fuck you” unless it was a hurt that was intended. That is the free speech argument in a nutshell. I am a free speech absolutist and I completely support every expression (even “hate speech” legislation gives me problems). But, that argument only works if you understand the harm you cause — and desire it. That is why the Neo-Nazis marched in Skokie. An action I approve.
But what I hear is not that people intend to hurt with their words, but rather people should not be offended because they were not meant to be hurtful. This can never be a valid argument because the value of language is never its intent — but its reception. And you can never really convince people that they are receiving information — especially emotional information — “wrong.”
Shakespeare’s Sister has a good take on this and this discussion.
Imagine a Texas example of calling women lawyers “Little Ladies.” No intentional disrespect, so the women can’t complain? And, as An Angry Broad says above, this use of language is the tool of the violent racist and abusers. So, to use it puts you in the same box, even if you don’t intend to associate with their ilk.
One good and commonly accepted process I try to use when someone says, “that offends me,” is, I immediately reassess the necessity of the language. If it is not necessary, Iapologize. If it is, I explain why such offensive language was specifically chosen — this is what Pach, it seems, is trying to do and I applaud him for that.
But others? Not so much.
Mary at 473 — you may have missed it in the plethora of comments above, but Jane also addressed problems of groupthink and attitude in at least one comment that I can recall from last night early on in the thread. (But I’m way tired today from staying up so late, so I don’t recall how early it was, just that it was within the first hour or so…). And the discussion in the entire thread was not wholloy about language, but about a broad range of discussion topics. But it is a lot to read all at once…
Jane, Christy, Pach, TRex:
Thanks for asking.
I am personally not at all offended by swear words, vulgar language, etc. But there is a huge difference IMHO, between an expletive like “oh, f*ck!” and “you f*uck!” The second one makes me cringe. It feels to me like bullying behavior and it may just be me, but I have had enough of it from the politicians who have been in power lately.
I guess you [Jane, Christy, Pach and TRex] may need to decide what long term plans you have for FDL.
IMO, if you plan to grow this blog into a national force, both for the political clout that we have seen a small piece of with Blue America and for a successful business venture for all of you, you may have to consider all the lurkers who never comment but may read daily. Many may not understand what you mean when you say certain things. They will not have been reading the backstory or know your previous posts or even know to whom you are referring. Many of us who read daily may cringe at a word or two, but we have been reading the entire body of your work and know more about what you all think and believe. We easily excuse a word or statement that might make us cringe because we know that the vast majority of what you all write is not summed up in one swear word. We excuse it and accept it, much like we accept mistakes or minor flaws in our friends and family.
But if you want to invite a larger audience, you may want to think about those people who are reading and lurking but not commenting. They may lurk and then disappear if they read a post with something that makes them cringe.
The people who stay and then get brave enough to join in will be people who are like-minded. This develops a like-minded community and there is much to say positive about that. I agree with that vast majority of the front pagers and commenters alike here, so it has been great for me to come here daily and read about the world from the point of view that resonates with my own thinking.
However, the blog itself may not grow exponentially because it will probably self-select regular readers and commenters who are like-minded.
Either choice is yours to make and IMO there is nothing wrong with either choice.
Jeff at 474 — I take issue with that — I stated clearly last night and will say again today that I do not use a lot of the language under question because of my work with women who have had it hurled at them in abusive situations. And I don’t like the language, period. I’m not certain how much more clear that can be — and I said it pretty much this way last night. I also linked back to an earlier post that I did regarding respect and civility and the need for both — between folks on the front page and in the threads. So be careful of broad generalizations, because I made a point of making my thoughts quite clear — both in this thread and in discussions we’ve had about this previously.
Tom W. @
469
See that? Again with the assumed motivation, the assumed political background. Does it rankle coming from someone of Jane’s position in the world of progressive politics, the possessor of a strong and vital platform (that occasionally goes astray). Yeah, it does. And it doesn’t speak well for FDL.
You do realize that there were a lot of other people weighing in on the topic other than yourself, and that this particular critique is a bit older than either this argument or this blog?
Bob G at 472 — you know, it’s funny that when I first started writing at FDL, I, too wrote under a pseudonym for quite a while (keeping the same name that I had diaried under at DKos, where Jane and I first connected, haggling over Plame details). Most of my early legal writing on the case was done under the pseudonym, and yet it still had as much validity as what I may write now — however much that may be to folks who read my work. And Digby is a fantastic example of a pseudonymimous writer who carries an enormous amount of weight — as does Billmon — in terms of writing depth. I’m not so certain the “under your own name” argument holds water well, but that could just be me.
From the top post:
BTW, if people are looking for a good way to get banned, sock puppetry is one of them. It’s not legal at Kos and it’s not legal here, so venture there at your own peril and don’t cry when it happens.
interesting comments from interesting sources today…
any deeper thots rising to the surface? hmmm…
“It is ugly.”
yes, that too…
If you’re Lenny Bruce, I’m Richard Pryor.
Here’s an explanation why you should think about these perceived boundaries you’re pushing and why. I’m not a regular reader of FDL, but here’s what I know about it: Well-known and well-respected blog, high readership, high traffic, raised lots of money for Dem election, defender of progressive politics, defender of blackface, defends putting a woman of color in her place by telling her to respect “her betters,” and has no issue with calling women cunts because there are more important things to worry about like electoral politics.
Pretend this is about pearl-clutching and Barbara Bushing if you want, but I’m not going to spend my time deciding whether or not this blog represents my politics, or whether I will contribute to it’s causes. It doesn’t and I won’t. What I know doesn’t add up to one incident but a worldview, and it’s bothersome to me to see people defend this worldview without greater consideration.
You can not fancy yourself an artist and a writer and contend that words are not important.
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For the dude above who insists that “pussy” is etymologically related to “pussycat”: “pussycat” is related to “pussy” because pussy has been synonymous with “woman” for centuries. Both were used in refence to something soft and pretty. Check the OED.
“Cunt” has been synonymous with “woman” for even longer.
Thus, Digby, as much as I respect you and you’re writing, pulling the etymology card is a little weak.
Obscenities are like antibiotics. Overuse them and they lose their impact.
For those who scrounge for the sharp sting, I offer you this:
http://www.petelevin.com/shakespeare.htm
I think it is great that you are all dialoguing on this topic. Democracy in action. I have read good points on both sides – though I tend to agree with the position that graphic smut is self-limiting.
The only thing that has bothered me about said discussion, is the upfront accusation that Tom W called either poster sexist. He clearly said the post(s) were sexist. A very clear distinction and one that I am suprised was confusing to anyone.
Btw, I have never been blocked from posting here – indeed even when I have been grossed out by some puerile “commentary” and said so, I have not been blocked. But I do get the point that if I dont like it – leave. Seems fair to me.
Jane at 483
I’m clueless. Please, what is sock-puppetry?
If not appropriate to answer here, never mind.
thanx
Adie @ 487
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_sock_puppet
I didn’t know either so I looked it up ; )
Cozumel thanks. Off I go. May quit for today.
This thread is, well, if not pristine, hopefully enlightening. whew
Sock puppetry is when a person who has established an identity under one user name creates another user name in order to give the appearance that many people share his/her original point of view. Features in the site show, for example, when “different” commenters are typing from the same IP address.
Perhaps one could use and adjectival or adverbial modifier such as political when calling Michele Maglagong or Coultergeist a whore. I wouldn’t use them, personally, because I view whoring as of a cloth. Although legitimate prostitutes might possibly be offended by being lumped with the likes of Coulter and Michele.
Pachacutec @ 491
Or, around this joint, given the swarming proclivities of a segment of commenters, perhaps they just want to present their ideas, or call bullshit, without the baggage of their real fake identities.
I wonder what the Brits who read this blog and Wolcott’s blog and Tom Watson’s blog are thinking of this whole dust-up, being that “twunt” (from the words “twat” and “cunt”) is now such a common British term among both sexes (as for example here) as to be almost not a cuss word any more (”fuck” having reached that point about a decade ago).
Pachacutec @
468
There shouldn’t be anything infantilizing about a moderated discussion, but I see what you mean. And yeah…the Left being what it is, you’d probably have to contend with hand wringing over the hand wringing in about 6 to 8 months. In that case, I’d say the best way forward would be more bourbon for everyone.
Ms. Smith: you may not use the language, but all that says is that you don’t use the language. When others on your site do, and are defended for it, it’s not all that reassuring that you personally eschew such terms.
Saying “they are too welcome here!” doesn’t get you very far.
Pachacutec: I read that as yet another “you women have no right to be insulted, because the term’s really gender neutral!” defensiveness; less of a sincere attempt at learning where they’re coming from, more a “prove me wrong” challenge.
Pach and Cozumel both – thanks.
I checked at Wikipedia as Coz suggested.
Weird! Guess I’m pretty naive. Fine with me.
Hope you’ll accept me as I am. Ain’t much for pretend-games. ;->
Pach – you’re just tops with me. I hope things settle down o.k. here. Not sure what I’d do without the Lake. Pretty lost and gloomy before I found it…
I too have been a longtime reader and occasional commenter. I see that I am so late to this party that perhaps this comment will go unnoticed. That might be a good thing. My take:
1) Tom W., the word cunt (no *** for me, thank you) is not sexist and neither are people who use it just because they use it. I assume you know that and are after the more intangible issue of how it was used.
2) IMHO any word used well can and should be used. One of my favorite deliveries of any line in any movie is Kevin Spacey saying “you stupid fucking cunt” in Glengary Glenn Ross. And fuck the reader who can’t tell or can’t take a joke or whose freak-out is the point of the use of the word in the first place. FWIW, my impression is that TRex is after that response more than any other in his writing.
3) The corollary is that words that aren’t used well, by which I mean artfully or inartfully but with the skill do so artfully (e.g. Punk), spiral out of the range of meanings that the writer was trying for both consciously and unconsciously. That can on rare occasion lead to art; it should lead more often to the writer’s wastebasket; often enough it leads to arguments like this.
That’s all I have to say about that.
On a personal note, I have to admit that I don’t read TRex much anymore. Skip right over him, look for Christy or Jane or Parachutec. Why? Well, it’s in the eye of the beholder of course, but I don’t find the writing that artful. I find it too sloppy, too blunt an instrument most of the time for what I perceive the purpose to be.
Some writers can pull that off. Hate to say it TRex, but I don’t think you do. Not because of what you say — 99% I am in the choir — but how well you say it.
I’ve been a creative director for a while now, and if you were one of my new writers I would tell you that you make yourself too much the center of attention in your writing, and that you will get better at it if you step out of that position. Then I’d put you on a pretty tight editorial leash for awhile until your better writing instincts were in charge of your lesser ones.
Fire away.
Phoenix Woman @ 494
They can say what they want as every move they make is recorded soundless by government video. As soon as Tony hires the lipreaders who decoded Hitler on his home videos with Eva, the “twunts” are screwed.
Meant nicely.
Jeff at 494 — I’m too tired and I do not have enough synapses firing properly today after being up so late to play precise parsing word arguments today. Sorry. So here is what I wrote in the comments thread in its entirety last night:
Christy Hardin Smith @ 245
I am not the only person who writes here, and I take responsibility for my own posts and I worry about the perception of the tenor of other posts at times and, when I do, I make that known — both on the blog and privately. Are you asking me not to write here because you have a problem with the tone or tenor of others’ posts? Because that is what it sounds like.
a sock puppet at 491 — well, then they would be an anonymous commenter and NOT a sock puppet.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 501
Pach said “Features in the site show, for example, when “different” commenters are typing from the same IP address.”
And it even reads minds – cool!
a sock puppet at 500 — yep, tis true. Haloscan allowed us to do the same when we were using that for comments. Otherwise, we’d have comments threads full of Polish porn spam. But that still doesn’t make someone who posts an anonymous comment in the thread a sock puppet — unless that anonymous comment is used to bolster prior comments made by that same person. See the difference?
BTW, from what I know, pretty much every blog monitors its comments for Spam and general trolling by using IP identification among other things. This is NOT unique to FDL, not by a longshot.
Weighing in very late on the language thing and related topics. I’m no delicate prude, but I personally abhor the “c” word, never use it, and reflexively wince when others do. But that’s just me. I’m in no place to be offended by it: as a middle aged straight white male, I’ve never been the object of racial or sexual epithets along those lines.
Having followed (camped out at?!) this site for well over a year, sure, I’ve noticed an evolution in the rhetoric and content. But the original passion, driven by outrage over Plamegate, evil Bushco failings and media sycophancy remain – for me – the enduring foundation that supports the rest. Jane’s and Christy’s brilliant if sometimes salty writing, augmented by the regular front pagers and guests, stands alone for its quality.
I think there is some validity to the argument that the broader public perception of FDL is affected by the language and tone of the posts and, to a lesser degree, the comments. You can’t be all things to all people. The very screed that inspires us rabble to the barricades may also be the diatribe that turns others away.
Back in “the day” many of the commenters, myself included, took pride in promoting a sense of community and a culture of civil discourse in the threads. I’d still like to believe that’s possible without getting out the smelling salts at the mention of certain words, etc. I prefer to focus on either the substance or the opportunities for snarky fun. Maybe I’m mistaken, but I sense that the “anything goes” nature of the comment threads, with serious legal discussions interwined with off-topic news flashes and “check this out” links, generously sprinkled with (attempts at) humor, snark and word-play…well, that it’s part of what makes FDL a unique place. Maybe I need to get out more.
An aside to my pal TRex: I’ve cringed on more than one occasion when your snark veers into vitriol, but that’s hard to measure out in perfect doses. Anyway, that’s part of who you are. Some nights I sense that you’re pushing a bit hard to stir things up, and may be quick to snap back at someone who takes offense. That doesn’t drive me away from Late Nite, as you may have noticed. Any claim that you or Pach are sexist or racist or such… well, that dog doesn’t hunt for me.
One tangential thing that doesn’t pass unnoticed: a few comments in this thread lament the Late Nite pun cascades and other attempts at humor. As a regular “contributor” on that front, I am prepared to ratchet that back if it’s deemed to be a distraction. On the other hand, I will remain ever vigilant on ziggurat patrol.
Oh, and a big shout out to the moderators for all that they do.
a sock puppet @
493
You get one identity, either under your own name or one you invent. Those are the rules. If someone can’t stand by their own opinions, even under a fake identity, I really just don’t know what to say.
ccobb at 496 — good to see you — hadn’t seen your phosphors around for a while.
WOW!
Took me two and a half hours to read this (off and on).
I type to slow to really get anything across.
I love this place. I have learned so much from this place it seems impossible
I love the discussions, I love the diversity.
I seem to be one of the lower caste posters, but thats O.K. with me. I aint no genius. I just appreciate being tolerated and being able to inject my viewpoint occasionally.
There are, however, some brilliant people here. I thank every one of you.Without you all, I would be a lesser man.
Since I was raised in a blue collar rednecked environment,and having worked in the heavy equipment industry for so long, Cussin comes natural.
I consciously try to watch that. There is no need for me to show my prowess.
If you happen to catch this before you crash Christy, I might take you up on the offer of an e-mail to find out what happenned RE; The Flowah. I some how missed the whole thing and have been loathe to ask, as an ugly undercurrent seems to exist .
Peace.
I’m glad Jane, Christy, and the other FDL front pagers are open to this discussion about how the fdl community interacts.
I can’t help it, but my inner shrink sees “word choice” (n-word, c-word, etc) as one aspect of a broader question.
Am I accepted at fdl?
(am I accepted in group “x”? – basic primate social imperative.)
One aspect of feeling accepted is word choice: am I comfortable with the words I read here?
Another aspect of feeling accepted is values: whatever words are chosen, is the writer caring about what I care about?
Yet another aspect of feeling accepted is how the group treats me. Am I bashed, celebrated, whatever?
As fdl has grown, I’ve seen increasing opportunities for accidental disconnects in the third area (but I’ve only been here for around ten months).
Balrog – on another thread this AM – shares his experience of what I’m seeiing as accidnetal disconnects:
Balrog @ 112
As the pool of commenters expands – as the number of comments expands on any given thread – the structure of our discussion sems to ensure that lots of constructive comments receive no visible response.
That doesn’t mean the comments are ignored – I’ve seen terms surface in an unacknowledged comment and then noted the same phrase moving into more frequent usage here.
But the phenomonon Balrog describes would leave the commenter feeling ignored in the group, and we primates are hard-wired to find that intolerable.
I’m not suggesting that this is something “wrong” with fdl – and I’m not aware of any easy fix that would change this aspect of our growinng comments threads. I do believe this dynamic is another factor contributing to individual experiences of the fdl community.
I’m a fan. Really. I am not familiar enough with Bruce to say, but, HST? Com’on. I regret to say that, while there may be things exciting, challenging, and interesting around here, they don’t rise to HST’s level.
I think I have to go adjust the track lighting again.
RBG @ 510
“there you go again…”
Great, 2 and a half hours of reading, one post, instant moderation.
Aint life grand?
lol.
Bustednuckles @ 512
Hey Busted! musta been all those swear words. ;) BTW, I am not moderating at present. Just wanted to say hello, and best wishes.
Jane Hamsher @
483
What’s “sock puppetry” in that context?
forgot to mention: my concern-troll radar isn’t very well tuned, so I must admit to occasional bafflement when that charge surfaces, setting off volleys of invective.
Hi VG!
Wo I’m late to this party.
Did it get discussed/resolved whether we are allowed to use the word b*tch?
Thx.
punaise @ 504
Punaise, I saw those asides and I’m mystified. The word play here is so sophisticated – and the range of reference so vast – that some of it goes over my head. I laugh at the parts I get, and I’ll look up the referents I blank on.
So the wordplay brings laughter and learning?
I can’t see how those comments on FDL Late Night interfere with anyone’s FDL experience.
I hope you keep up the word play.
And I second your shout-out to the mods for their constant work here!
Icky bad late to the discussion, sorry!
Jane, I’m glad you brought this up. I’ve seen that a number of people with some quite worthwhile opinions have been troubled by the tenor of the posts.
It is hardly a worthwhile goal to set about never offending anyone.
But the level of discourse here by both the writers (main page) and commenters makes this a unique place on the web. You never know when a national figure will pop in to respond to questions and comments.
I have mixed feelings regarding both the primary issues. While I don’t quite follow the the outrage w/ the use of the word “c*nt,” I’m aware that it is a real hot-button word for a lot of people, just as the dread “n-word” or the term “fagg*t” can be for many.
It seems pretty much a convention in all but extremist discussion that the “n-word” is off limits. Could be that “c*nt” ought also to be.
As far as calling a person a whore, I think it all depends on the context as to how offensive it should be taken. Are we calling a person a whore because they advertise themselves as such (e.g. Gannon), or because they have sold themselves out to some particular interest (e.g. Cunningham)?
Or is the term being used simply as a slur, based on nothing more than some facet of appearance?
Women are much more subjected to criticism of looks. Still, I can’t agree that every disparaging comment about a person’s appearance is sexist.
I’d take exception to Pachacutec’s characterization of the Lieberman coverage as “targeted character assassination.” All I saw being done was holding a bright light up to him and his record- speaks for itself.
In short (ha!), while I don’t think the site needs to attempt to be sterile and quash the fun, I do think that some degree of circumspection is valuable. Yes there are gray areas, and it’s tough to address… but in the interest of maintaining the high quality of discourse I think it is worthwhile to carefully address.
BTW: Addie (&johnSwifty), Sock Puppetry is creating your own pseudonymous (fake additional) reader to make favorable comments supporting your own position (see Lee Siegel).
Maybe Trex’s posts are meant to appeal to a younger, cooler, hipper audience.
I personally don’t mind the language. What I do mind are the references to fat, ugly, old people (I am, btw, none of the above – except perhaps getting old), and in general the nasty tone of many of Trex’s post. It’s irrelevent what someone looks like. Attack their bogus arguments and the lies that they perpetrate. The back and forth school yard boink about right wing bloggers and how much we hate them and they hate us is quite frankly embarrassing. So, yeah, I could really do without those posts, but that’s why I skip ‘em.
I read Trex, think he’s a great writer, but he could certainly contain himself and be more responsible with his newly found fame.
I think with power (however wee) comes responsibility.
I love the razor edge, the give and take, the brilliance, and the caring community here at the lake. I don’t think that you compromise any of that by self editing.
And at the same time I respect the right of anyone to use the language and tone that they choose. But agree with the many here who have said that these choices have consequences. Using careful language doesn’t mean that we acquiesce to the fuckers.
Jane Hamsher @ 505
If an idea can’t stand on its own merit, independent of its interlocutor, I really just don’t know what to say.
But I will defer to the house rules. I have no problem standing by my opinions.
- a sock puppet aka statistician aka op99
Mary @ 474
mary – don’t know if you are still around to see this… but i miss your comments and hope there will be more again.
Pachacutec @
491
Ahh, well that’s devious, and silly. What about the other direction. As a software contractor; I probably come in from any of four or five different IPs. Am I still the real me.
Oh, who cares. The important aspect in this is whether language is being used appropriately to convey good information to the participants here. I’ve read all this and it seems some older participants are bemoaning the possibility that things have changed.
Um, allow me to be insensitive and postulate that might, in fact, be the nature of the universe.
Did things change for the better? I don’t know; but the only people griping seem to be those who think it changed for the worse. All I can say to that is FDL must have been mondo cool back in the day. This is the first blog I’ve ever cared to participate in; and maybe it is because it presents a more full and encompassing perspective towards that ever changing reality.
I feel like there is a decided progressive bias here; but that’s where I want to go and I also feel that the remaining spectrum of human endeavor is also well represented — with the possible exception of crazy religious zealots. I do actually miss those people. They seem most adept at resisting change and it makes me feel like I am better at perceiving that universal constant.
I’m sorry for those who feel firedoglake is not what it once was; but that seems to me to be a very long way from a discussion about appropriate use of language.
I will continue to read everyone here, that I can, because I love what FDL is now, and I hope to love what it is in the future and I want to see it happen. I expect FDL to be its own story as well as comment on the world at large, and I love that too.
I want Pach to comment more. I want Christy to keep telling it like it is. I want Jane to keep moving and shaking and somehow make that seem real. I want Swopa to swop and Trex to rock on and I want everyone who left for the wrong reasons to reconsider that the halcyon days might be yet to come. I will warn those, though; I will try to be watching and will invariably comment with stupid shit — which is why I want all the best and brightest to continue to do what they do…and then I expect it all to change.
This really wasn’t about language at all, was it? Here I spent most of the morning boning up on Heidegger…damn!
The “cunt” word is perfectly fine, as is “dick” or “prick”, etc, when used appropriately. If I seek to really get under the skin, or show disdain for, some truly deserving nasty (Kate O’Sandpaper Snatch, Malkin, Coulter on the female side; Limbowel, Beck, and Coulter on the male side) then I will use the most vile epitaphs available. Get over it.
“Civil” discourse and King’s English is NOT appropriate in this case. You want to really get under the skin of these creatures AND show the lowest regard possible, then you use the proper weapon words. Cunt, prick, smegma-eater, etc, are fully useful in this regard and appropriate.
This is me saying nothing.
Mr. Swifty—beautifully said.
TRex @ 525
And usually so full of sound and Fury…it’s that southern writers draw to Faulkner again…let it rock!
TRex @ 525
Trex!
RBG @ 526
Thanks, you’ve had some hummdingers in this thread too. As has Rayne…too many others to name. I love you guys. I’m not getting a goddamn thing done!
johnSwifty: I’m sorry for those who feel firedoglake is not what it once was; but that seems to me to be a very long way from a discussion about appropriate use of language.
hey, john. just to clarify re my particular comment, if inddeed it is part of what you refer to – I wasn’t necessarily waxing nostalgic for the days of buggy whips and spats, just noting the evolution of the place from my vantage point as a participant/observer of some continuity.
punaise @ 530
By all means and for god’s sake protect the rights of the frivolous wordplayers. That might be the only relevant discussion of language in this thread. There are three forms of argument appeals logos, ethos and pathos…and then there’s PUNNING!
Bustednuckles @ 516
You might want to email Christy. In my experience, when people get banned it is for a very very good reason. And, the principals make this decision, not the “moderators”.
And, whatever you may think about being a “lower caste” poster, that just isn’t true. You hit it right when you said diversity- the diversity of the commenters. I spend most of my time in a very narrow environment, and it is a great thing for me to be able to connect with the wider world. Although I haven’t had the time to be reading much or commenting much at FDL of late, I do remember that I’ve always enjoyed your comments.
So, the fact that you commented pulled me out of the woodwork on the language issue. I wasn’t planning to comment… but… “Cunt” is the only word (at least among those that I know) that really offends me. Yeah, I’m probably a feminist, but that’s one word that I just can’t embrace, although a few female/ feminists above that weighed in with the opposite opinion. Just seems too ugly and demeaning and denegrating.
But, I sure did have to learn to stop saying “oh fuck” when something went wrong during a lecture to my Southern “Ivy” undergraduates. Had to tame back my language quite a bit, fuck and all of the other stuff, in fact.
So funny, when a dear dear male friend who I’ve known well for a long time remarked on some of the language I used in talking about Liebermann and the CT election! “I’ve never heard you talk like that”- so he knew how offended and serious I was about the issue. Just goes to show that well-placed invective can have an impact, especially if one reserves it for especially trying episodes. If it’s a daily habit, it seems to lose force, or so I have observed.
kitty @
499
Sorry, Kitty, but Tony Blair, Bush ‘ho that he is, is a mite too preoccupied with staying politically alive to indulge you in your paranoid wish-fulfillment scenario. And the UK is a bit too busy electing female politicians to places of prominence to get all worked up about Bad Words.
In fact, even though the UK allows the words “whore”, “cunt”, “twat”, and “twunt” (not to mention other words like “slapper”) to be uttered in public without anyone staggering to a fainting couch, the UK has done something I don’t think the US ever will accomplish: Allow a woman to become Head of State.
The best we’ve managed to do, nearly thirty years later, is get a woman in as Speaker of the House — and that was only a couple of weeks ago. This despite our being far more worried about sexist language than the folk across the pond.
VG,
have I told you lately that you are a sweetheart?
You are.
As for the “C” word, I grew up in a dysfunctional, old school home. I have witnesed the physical violence and abuse first hand.
For me to use that word is a very very serious thing.
I will email Christy. I know whatever it was was bad. I just don’t know.
*G*
Lauren, just as a factual correction, the blackface was taken down, almost immediately, and appropriate apologies were made at the time. The intent of the blackface was to illustrate Lieberman’s lack of support on issues that concern African Americans and all Americans. The fact that blackface was not a helpful conveyor of that message in all ethnic communities imo is pretty well understood. The fact that there was no intention to insult various ethnic groups is also imo well understood. I would invite you to review darkblack’s comments the day it happened and the comments of many concerned FDLers.
Same wrt “betters.” I know TRex made changes to his post as a direct result of comments made that night.
In scanning your comment, it looks extremely well written and thought out. Since you said up front that you weren’t a regular, I just wanted to point these facts out. IMHO, FDL is primarily a European American community. Sadly that insures that we carry a lot of insensitivity about Americans who happen not be European American. On balance I see FDL as a healthy agent of change wrt ethnic sensitivity, but clearly we have a very long way to go. I don’t want my comment in any way to dilute that fact.
I, too, have been gone from the lake, but I would like to say that TRex’s bestest pieces were about Little E. Anybody who can make a grenade out of Brussels sprouts and papier mache really, imho, need to do, as some great thinker once said, naughty e-mails.
Blergh,does NOT need to send…
JC—that’s one of your best…and that’s saying a lot.
Praedor Atrebates @ 524
When we read that someone is giving a blowjob and they should use a napkin to wipe off their chin, the question becomes; is the writer informing the readers or is the writer seeking self gratification or power by denigrating their targets? How has using this language educated the reader? We all cringe at right-wing-nuts who spew hate, should we stoop to their level of discourse?
I believe the line from Fiddler is “In the mud but never of the mud”
Three thoughts.
Cunts. I come from a culture where the construction “I saw some poor cunt with a flat tire, stupid cunt had no jack so he tried to use rocks and some cop came by and made him stop -wotta cunt, eh?”, would not cause much of a fuss in the right pub. Possibly one might think to oneself, “What a vulgar cunt”. That being said, calling someone a “cunt” is still a dreadfully powerful insult, enough to start many a fight. Even though UK/Aussie/New Zealanders have been comparatively desensitised to the word, its intended usage is still clear from context and, more importantly, tone – which is not available in a written piece. The fact that a 2000 word piece with one “cunt” in it is only remembered by some as a giant, single “CUNT” in 82 point type is enough for me to abstain from using it.
Pelosi v Harman. All criticism of TRex and Pach as sexist cannot be categorised as “attacks” by “shallow analysts, bad faith artists or both “. There are people who genuinely believe that the language used is sexist and that it causes harm. I don’t, but I can understand those who worry that while Pelosi’s misgivings about Harman can be categorised as being over mysterious women’s issues rather than Harman’s record, we still have a long way to go.
Conviction. I love a bit of snark and nicely honed invective, me. FDL delivers. Reading through these comments sent me off to read Kos and TW and frankly, I wish I hadn’t. In my opinion, Christy Hardin Smith was the only one who came with an enhanced reputation – others did themselves a disservice, or ended up looking like a prat. If you write, you will be critiqued. Some will be wrong, some may be right – they are not ALL attacks. Tactical choices include: ignore them, tell them to fuck off, insult them or explain yourself. When you insult someone, then proceed to explain yourself, then further ‘explain’ that your insult wasn’t an insult because the insultee was too thick to understand or his mom wore army boots or suchlike – you look like (and indeed are, in this instance) a prat.
I’m not suggesting adopting a faulty SaintKerrylike attitude of thumb-twiddling and risingabovingitness. However, the FDL attitude and language we love will attract a range of responses from the overly genteel vaporfit lovers, the tsktskers to the this-one’s-gone-too-far. Descending en masse to go after someone who objects to one word in, as he says “an otherwise excellent post on the hopelessness in Iraq” makes FDL look like it’s lacking in the nads department.
Holy shit that took forever.
Supposing that FDL’s mission is to expand its influence and promote the progressive cause…writers become counter productive to that end when their ideas/posts turn people away in greater numbers than the the same writers/posts recruit for our mission. It cannot be quantified but both effect are real.
ATTTAACK! ATTTAAACK! ATTTAAAACK! is fucking genius and the sole reason for many of our enemy’s defeats but the latest kerfuffle has had and will have the opposite effect, and in greater numbers I’m afraid.
It’s been pointed out before, but I think this type of character assassination (from Wonkette to Tauscher to Ingraham) ultimately undermines the effort because this movement that you all have built is a lot easier tear down than it is to grow.
I’d just like to mention that sometimes accusations of sock puppetry are unjustified. In a comment thread a while back, my wife and I both added posts. Since we’re both using our laptops and sharing the same wireless connection here at home, Jane noted the same IP address and decided that my wife was my sock puppet. That amused Dori, to say the least. Other posters know us both and quickly chimed in, letting Jane know that she was wrong. Jane did not admit any error, which seems to be her MO (she’s certainly given no quarter in this thread).
Come to think of it, I was also labelled a “concern troll” in that same thread, because I agreed with a friend who also thinks that some FDL posts have gone off the rails. The existence of this thread shows that we weren’t the only ones who think so.
Two incorrect accusations, both of which I see thrown around here with too much abandon, both of which serve to defend the groupthink and drive away posters who have something critical to say. Perhaps the FDL comminity is still growing, but is it really a good idea to only welcome people who agree with everything that the main posters say?
Christy: upthread, you complained that nobody bitches about you. Well, then, stop being so darned reasonable and writing such intelligent, well-written posts. :-) I’m still coming here mostly for your posts. I think that Jane often has good things to say, and I’ll read her stuff. Pac is sometimes good; it’s worth a quick scan to see if he’s on point. TRex’s navel-gazing primal screams are mostly a waste of my time, so I’ve pretty much given up on Late Nite; he was funny at first, but the schtick’s gotten tired (I presume that he’ll respond with something arrogant and puerile, if at all).
Mary at 9:41 am
I was very humbled by your comment. After the “betters” post I withdrew from commenting at Late Night, because TRex quite clearly said, if you don’t like what I write, don’t show up. For me what was worse was the way TRex responded on the thread, but I don’t mean to diminish how insensitive it was to refer to the “betters” of an African American. Calling op99 a fractious pie hole was also a serious problem although it wasn’t ethnic.
My decision to stick with FDL has more to do with my opinion about the need to drive traffic. Jane and Christy can depend on TRex to post something that people will read six nights a week. That’s important.
IMO, TRex does more good than harm. He showed real physical courage during the Lamont campaign and I was really impressed in his comments about the draft, that he would serve.
I think the fact that TRex still posts, simply means Jane can’t find anyone better, who will work for as little. Like everything it’s a value matrix.
Much love to you and every best wish.
Organic George @ 538
I don’t agree that all possible answers are constricted to the pair of options contained in the question.
RBG, thank you very much. Always a pleasure to be on a thread with you.
I think the fact that TRex still posts, simply means Jane can’t find anyone better, who will work for as little. Like everything it’s a value matrix.
John Casper, with all due respect (and it is due), I think this is an unfair characterization. I’ll leave it at that.
Phoenix Woman @ 533
Well I hear you have cameras on every street recording people, so the audio aint far behind. Since I dont live there and dont care, paranoid seems a tad an extreme thing to call me.
But getting into som esilly cross the pond bickering is of zero interest to me – i work with too goodamn many of your refugees!
Meantt nicely.
To paraphrase an FDL regular who usually has my greatest respect…it might be time for an apology.
punaise @ 545
gotta agree with punaise here. none of us are perfect… we come with all kinds of baggage and lack of skills…. (me especially!)… but the times are dire – we have to do what we can. and i thank everyone who makes the effort to contribute to the cause. i think that effort alone deserves respect… even if you don’t like his writing (i do).
and having met trex twice (in CT for the primary and for pre-election) i can attest to him being a sweet teddy bear of a gentleman. i’d love to adopt him as a nephew (i’m old enough to be his mom, but not very maternal). when i think of myself at trex’s age – i suffer from the comparison.
i may disagree with trex from time to time – but i am always his fan.
The point does seem to be that words matter, desperately, terribly. As I said once in a galaxy far, far away: Anybody want toast?
JC,
ouch.
I feel like such an idiot. Still stand by what I said way, WAY up thread, mind you.
But it suddenly occurred to me this whole damned thing is a pie fight.
Every community blog that reaches a certain age and size goes through the pie fight stage. It’s a hallmark. (The only thing really unusual about this one is that it was launched by non-regulars versus regular community members.)
And every blog — community blog or no — goes through population changes. What is not well documented is turnover or churn rate, but there is a churn rate that is far greater than any other traditional media type. Compare blog reading to newspaper reading; how many blogs have any of us tried, left, returned to, left again, versus newspapers? How many new blogs do we adopt each year, and how many do we shed? It’s all churn, and the pie fight is a kind of social spasm that earmarks a paradigm shift of some sort in the population.
This looks like a whitepaper waiting to happen, truth be told, although it may be premature. In early 2005, 62% of internet users didn’t know what a blog was, according to the Pew Internet and American Life Project. How much has that changed in 18 months?
And when, and about what, will we launch our next pie fight?
John Casper @ 543
speechless
punaise @ 546
This is interesting — as a matter of the type of language presentation we have been talking about –
Why is John’s comment, “unfair?” Is it because you simply disagree? and RBG, why does John owe anyone an apology? For stating his view of the situation?
Or are you saying it is objectively an unfair statement because, perhaps, Trex is paid a great deal of money and is in fact the best money can buy.
These, friends, are disagreements. On this issue, I side with John Casper. Selise is Trex’s fan — so I disagree with her. I don’t think she owes anyone an apology for liking his style and certainly not for liking him.
On other issues, I side with others here. It is not like a dispute of whether Albany is the Capital of New York. It is not about being “unfair” or so wrong that one must apologize.
In the end, it is a question of taste. Can’t we, about matters of taste, simply disagree without banging someone into right thinking?
wondering @ 550
I totally remember the toast.
Doesn’t John Casper have a right to say how he feels??? If not JC, then who? Cripes, people. If I wasn’t out before I am now.
PS
From fascinating CCTV facts:
” is estimated that there are in excess of 4 million CCTV cameras in the UK. You are likely to be caught on camera 300 times a day.”
Not that anyone gives a flying f**k, I’ve been shunned for months. Oh, and imm I just read your comment. Love ya madly. ;)
jenny from the blog –
don’t go before I figure out what you’re up to.
Then… well…
I am sorry if I ever lured you into a false sence of security here.
:~)
immanentize @ 554
Well said, imman.
Hey Jenny, stick around, K?
imm…
HA. Well, I do blame you for my agony, hee. Hey, I think res has your email. Let’s keep in touch (and no, blog owners/moderators, NOT to gossip about FDL, imm and I can talk about other things, for sure.)
Later!
Coz,
Can’t stick around but I have enjoyed you immensely. Take care.
immanentize @ 553
sure, i hope… but the comment struck me (maybe wrongly?) as more than an expression of taste. that was the reason for my bit about respecting each person’s contribution – even if it’s not to our taste.
immanentize @ 552
Bless you, imm.
It’s not about the words. It’s about the use of words.
Words are tools, words are weapons; and some words and forms of language demand greater care, discipline and respect, just as a band-saw or a semi-auto rifle demand greater care than a teaspoon.
Recklessness is exhilarating. Until someone gets hurt. What I see here, more often than not, is an embrace of that exhilaration, without recognition of potential recklessness.
I’m a Brit. I know my Derek and Clive. I’ve greeted my male friends with ‘how are you, you cunt?’ But I’ve also devoted many, many years to language and literature, and I tend to know when a paragraph clunks like a piano dropped from a fourth-floor window.
sorry about the italics – i can’t figure out how to fix that.
Christy Hardin Smith @
506
Hi Christy. Lovely to get a shoutout. As for my phosphors, they stream behind me as I chase our 18 month old around and are usually pretty dim by the time I get to the computer ; )
John Casper @
543
Wow. Now that is insulting. The c word pales in comparison.
Jenny from the Blog @ 562
Ditto
John Casper @543—now THAT is how to phrase a putdown. There’s hope for this blog yet.
JC has every right to state his opinion and I’m confident he knows exactly what I intended when I used the word “apology”.
What I’m objecting to is his suggestion that Jane can’t do better. I read it, perhaps mistakenly, as a cheap shot not worthy of his otherwise excellent comments.
“It’s a classic accusation leveled against outsiders by members of the established order trying to disempower them, rather than addressing any validity of their viewpoints.”
barf.
Ned Lamont lost the race.
Wow. Now that is insulting. The c word pales in comparison.
Exactly. A well-crafted put-down has nothing to do with cunts and cocks.
selise @ 549
With respect, that’s a privilege that most of us don’t have to go on, and until TRex visits us all for tea and scones, it’s irrelevant. Christy could have a secret dark Fristian life experimenting on cute kittens — NOTE: THIS IS NOT TRUE — but her online persona is derived from what she writes.
On John Casper’s point: once Late Nite became what it is now, I checked out. And because Late Nite is the post that stays up-top the longest in any 24-hour period — sometimes nine or ten hours — that means I come back less often.
John Casper at 543,
Hi, John, appreciate you asking after me. I’ve always found your contributions here to be well thought out and articulated.
In the case of
that’s pretty harsh and hurtful, aimed at TRex’s being and worth as a person, not at his work product. I wouldn’t presume to be your censor, though. As to an apology, those are best when you really mean them, not when you feel pressured into them. Food for thought – your call.
pseudonymous in nc @ 573
fair enough. i wasn’t trying to argue that your opinion or tastes are wrong. only that trex deserves our respect as a person and as someone who is trying to contribute.
op99—I couldn’t agree more.
Unfortunately, I have to go earn some money to pay of the most recent credit card statement. It’s really easy to audit this one…it says Blue America about 27 times.
RBG @ 577
Tell me about it.
Hi op! Glad you ducked in.
Good heavens. John Casper can say what he wants, and he did. As did punaise.
Really, people: having your say does not guarantee you won’t have your say unchallenged. The point of asking for the opportunity to have your say (which you all have) is not really a demand for someone else to subsequently STFU, is it? Is the desire to speak one’s mind simply a demand to have the last word?
Hey newtonusr!
wondering @ 536
Anybody want toast?
egregious @ 582
Hey egregious! I took your advice, OK?
RBG @ 569
that’s where I was coming from, in part. it’s not about groupthink – TRex isn’t everybody’s cup of tea. fine. my objection was to the way expression of opinion/taste veered off into a catty put-down of TRex and of Jane.
but then again, since that’s one of TRex’s trusted weapons, perhaps I should it as an artful parry on his own turf.
I’m back to the salt mines for now.
I wasn’t trying to take a swipe at TRex or Jane. If I have to apologize to TRex, I also have to apologize to Jane. Also, I thought this was a thread where we were invited to be a little more unvarnished.
In no way did I mean to show a lack of respect for the production TRex punches out, six nights a week, at least. I put a very high value on production and I’m sorry I didn’t make that clear in my earlier comment.
I could write six posts a week too, but the best four would be really boring. Two others would be quite a bit worse, and nobody would “come” to Late Night.
If Jesus’ General or TBogg wants TRex’s slot, for what she pays TRex, I think she should consider that very seriously. I don’t think that’s going to happen. TRex also has shown loyalty, so I don’t think Jane is going to replace him to save a nickel.
I’m a big tent guy. I saw what FDL did this year in terms of the mid terms and I know what it means to me in terms of intelligent discourse of which I get far too little. Taking positions which are not in harmony with long time posters who I respect immensely is not pleasant.
On a personal note, I have really appreciated TRex’s authenticity. TRex has been very open about his orientation and his issues. I’m not taking a position on whether that is wise for him personally, but it carries a lot of weight with me, because it shows how much he invests in his posts.
John Casper @ 584
thanks for the explanation, john. much appreciated.
John C – love back atcha and everything Imm said and the hope for this blog comment too. Since others seem to have skipped it, I’ll re-post this part
IMO, TRex does more good than harm. He showed real physical courage during the Lamont campaign and I was really impressed in his comments about the draft, that he would serve.
I’m hoping when I leave this life that someone saying I did more good than harm would require an apology. *g*
No real interest here in trying to change things or tsk tsk anyone. This is Jane’s blog and not many could pull off what she has with it and more power to her. I don’t want her job running it and couldn’t have done what she did with it if I had that job. That’s why I sent my comments to her directly and not as a comment originally – and since they involved TRex I sent them to him directly too.
I only commented here bc Christy asked (and I almost always check out Christy’s posts – and typically see the people I like to ck on in her threads) and bc there seemed to be some, imo off the wall, concept that only people who wish bad things for progressives and FDL are put off when the Trent Lott/Strom Thurmond impersonations start up.
One thing FDL has a fantastic record on is calling bull for what it is. It can and does to fantastic, substantive takedowns all the time. It doesn’t bother me to see all the circling of the wagons, bc there are a lot of strong postive feelings between lots of people at this site or about this site and that’s what they do publically.
The only thing that would bother me would be to think that privately no one is recognizing the wounded gazelle quality of some of the posts/comments, that no one is seeing they invite takedown and are not able to keep up with the healthy in the herd. That would be a sad outcome.
But this is a blog, not whirled peas. We’ll all get by.
While I basically think that people who launch these kinds of attacks, drawing false conclusions based on a superficial analysis of their respective works that consists entirely of the posts in question and engaging in gender- or race-baiting as a way to get their point across (or draw attention to themselves) are either shallow analysts, bad faith artists or both, the discussion of the language used in these posts is a valid topic of discussion and that conversation should have happened here at FDL One of the words used in TRex’s post — “cunt” — triggers the comment moderation function here and when the text was quoted in the comments they wound up in the filter and did not get sprung in time for the conversation to be conducted at FDL. So tonight I wanted to give people the opportunity to air their views here, and Pach, Christy and TRex are all here to add their thoughts, which vary by individual.
Hmm, how can something be a valid topic of discussion, yet if one raises the topic one is all those bad things above?
The mind boggles. Perhaps it is the musk of an emu, or the fragrance of cucumber that has me confused.
selise @ 585
indeed. hope to see you around here more often.
Even people who may be acting in questionable faith or with mixed motives can raise a substantive question worthy of review. Seems pretty straight forward. Two things can be true at once.
I found it interesting that immanentize, in an early comment, asked about certain people. Where are they? Why aren’t they here? I too miss them. And then over the next hour or so, many of them showed up. We’re mostly still here, and I think we need to reflect on what that means.
There seems to be a deeply shared and powerful ethic that’s flowing underneath all the pain and division in this thread, along with all the efforts to reach out and embrace. Many of us are here not only for the sense of community, but the hope of expanding it, of politicizing it, of taking it to the country.
I want to express the hope that we all remain here — all of us — and keep working at this. We don’t always like each other, or always agree with each other, but lets keep listing and talking to each other because the conversation is really important. This has never been done before, there are no manuals for this, and yet look at all that firedoglake has become in such a short time. Look what we just did in the mid-term elections.
I hope we all hang in there, realizing that, as our beloved President says, “this is hard work.” After all, if we can’t keep firedoglake together, with this strongly felt common ethic, what hope do we have of pulling the Democratic party (or country) together under some sense of humane, shared values? This is what we are about. Let’s get on with it.
Rayne @
552
Never that! I find your perspective insightful, useful and, most importantly, a really good read.
That said, I think you’re onto something with the Pie fight; but it’s more than that. Up thread (way, way up thread) I called it ‘growing pains’ but I’m sure that is incomplete as well.
It is a grand discussion on the nature of the nature of blogging and the personalities that make it what it is — their behaviors; foibles and shared experiences. A meta-blog, blog but that’s bad language in a real sense.
It is a grand discussion, born out by the shear number of entries; not to mention the incredible number of cogent points. I would not presume to synthesize a conclusion to nothing other than the golden rule — but I, for one, would be pleased to know that those I care about here would endeavor to treat me as they wish to be treated.
There is more than that here; of course, and Rayne has been an ample source.
Read…experience…enjoy.
Yes, but if the question is substantive, why should motive matter, when the former should be apparent and the latter needs to be inferred? Of course in the end, motive matters, but if the point can be dismissed without going to motive, does this not expose the accuser?
Jane’s argument reads “a bunch of total mush-heads (Mayor Quimby voice) said some stuff. I am inclined to dismiss them as total mush-heads, but the point the mush-heads raised is valid for discussion by non-mush-heads.” This kind of stacks the deck.
I’m just a mush-head.
Chalk off a spot.
TeddySanFran @ 448
There is some history it’s probably not best to dredge up this late in the thread, related to axes to grind and personal agendas some folks have out there with regard to Jane. When the same kind of accusations come up from some of the same quarters, as ultimately baseless the first time as the next, motive is very much a material issue.
Some of this got aired in some MyDD comments after the Clinton blogger meeting, when the attack du jour was that we are all racists at FDL. The same modus operandi applied: shallow, deceptive analysis, misconstruction of posted material, outrage! outrage! outrage!, publicize, publicize, publicize, gain an audience among some people with otherwise good intentions, press on with character assassination, get a bump in traffic. . . story is ultimately debunked.
I will not impose limitations on how people can express themselves here.
Yeah, right, Jane, and George Bush has always been a champion of bipartisanship.
To add to Pach’s 595 — that doesn’t mean that a valid criticism isn’t still completely valid and deserving of consideration. But it also doesn’t mean that people with an agenda, who have been grinding the same axe, over and over and over, should simply be allowed to do so with a clean slate, either — because, frankly, sometimes for some people, the agenda is the whole enchilada, and the criticism is a means to an end. And that is worth consideration and weighing as well.
It’s complicated, this thinking thing. So let’s all keep practicing and maybe, one day, we’ll get a President who likes to practice, too. ;-)
And to be perfectly clear about my 596 — I do not, nor have I ever, included Tom W. in any list of axe grinders past or present. Just didn’t want a spate of e-mails on that from cranky people who like Tom. I’m talking about this generally, as in your run-of-the-mill sorts of zxe grinders. Carry on…
Pachacutec @ 595
Well, that sucks and I’m sorry that ever happened; “Once bitten, twice shy,” and everyone understands that for average souls. I’ve come to expect you to be super average!
Racism, sexism, communism…the whole lexicon of isms is pretty inflamitory. Good writers know that and are careful with their intended audience. What’s the intended audience for firedoglake? I hope we never, ever know the bounds of that question.
It’s good to see you this far down the comment stream Pach. We’re going to have to decompress for hours to get back up. On the way, you can tell me about the Democratic powers that be, that didn’t support Ned Lamont. We can bide the time riffing on the idea that this special media of blog will be instrumental in making some of them the powers that be not!
Rock on.
and the coveted #600 comment goes to:
I’ve been lurking here, usually with multiple visits per day both from work and home, since September 2005, brought to FDL by the simply superb explication of Plamegate. Massive kudos to Christy (may I call you Christy?) for her clarity and passion on this subject.
It took well over a year before I felt I could post, and that initial post was on a specific point of information raised during the Hastert meltdown. Although I’m not using my real name (I work in government, and I’m a wuss), in my handful of posts I’ve disclosed enough personal detail that anyone who knows me or of me could easily see through my Secret Identity. Several commenters have acknowledged my posts, which was cool, and I thank those who did so. (Sadly, this didn’t apply to my cookie recipe at the tail end of last Saturday’s PUAC, but that’s what I get for sleeping late.)
So I’ve lurked on this thread off and on all day, and a couple of things resonated with me, for what it’s worth.
-First, the point a number of people have made about the increased responsibility that comes with a higher profile and wider recognition. When Jane (again, if I may) appears on Countdown, and Christy on CNN, a different level of scrutiny will obtain. How that is dealt with by the principals is the acid test of continued influence in campaigns and on issues important to all of us. It’s Jane and Christy’s endeavor, and they get to decide how it manifests. It is also up to them to determine the trade-off between leveraging their growing influence, and skating on the edge of oversnark.
-As is routinely acknowledged regarding email, those of us who visit here but don’t personally know the principals (and here I include all the front-pagers) can only assess and respond to what is in their posts. I can’t imagine that Christy and Jane would knowingly promote anyone whom they had reason to believe qualified for any of the –ist labels. However, when there is a tension between that assumption, and what is on the page, it seems to me reasonable that comments noting that tension should be assessed and considered on their merits, or simply ignored, but not suppressed by reflexively vitriolic responses.
-As to the language discussion, I think whether or not the c-word is or is not tenable is, as others have noted, a smokescreen obscuring the larger question of using sexual stereotypes and misogynistic imagery as political metaphor. I’m a very liberal, middle-aged, middle-western white woman, celebrated among my friends for my ability to swear in seven languages, and not a prude by any definition. The sexualized stuff doesn’t work for me, no matter to whom it’s applied. Obviously, others’ MMV, and that’s perfectly fine.
Again, for what it’s worth from the Lake’s shoreline. I’ve so much enjoyed this place and it’s voices, particularly in the many dark months before 11/7. Thanks to all, and my apologies for the length of this missive.
punaise @ 599
Me ; )
or not LOL
By the way, I can’t spell worth a damn, so any errors above are unintentional.
And if I get 603, that will have deep cosmic significance.
NormalLiberal @ 603
You got it.
Far out, man.
To Christy Hardin Smith re: symbolic names: Christy wrote:
“Bob G at 472 — you know, it’s funny that when I first started writing at FDL, I, too wrote under a pseudonym for quite a while (keeping the same name that I had diaried under at DKos, where Jane and I first connected, haggling over Plame details). Most of my early legal writing on the case was done under the pseudonym, and yet it still had as much validity as what I may write now — however much that may be to folks who read my work. And Digby is a fantastic example of a pseudonymimous writer who carries an enormous amount of weight — as does Billmon — in terms of writing depth. I’m not so certain the “under your own name” argument holds water well, but that could just be me.”
I’m not saying that it’s fair or just, but that it is an observation. I know who Kevin Drum and Andrew Sullivan are, and after a while I know enough to give due deference to their quirks and eccentricities when it is required. I also know and respect your writing and Jane Hamsher’s writing. Your examples are actually quite apt, because I have no idea who or what Billmon is, although I believe I have seen comments under that name somewhere or other. I am aware that Digby is an important blogger, but I am not quite sure where; instead, I click on links on occasion when other bloggers provide them.
Anyway, thanks for honoring me with a reply to my post, and at the risk of taking up the previous argument, you might consider the experience that a new reader would have by clicking into one of the new-style rambling, endlessly wordy posts full of self-referential in-jokes and smug attempts at humor. The problem for the naive visitor is that most such posts are largely incomprehensible. What used to be a site marked by cogent, stand-alone essays became the office water cooler for a while. I suspect that things will cool off a bit in this post election period, but it is something to think about. Here’s sort of what I’m thinking about: The blog spent tens of thousands of words and dozens of days characterizing Joe Lieberman’s campaign, character, and record. Then somebody new clicks into FDL and gets the condensed summary in five or six pithy words. It would be (and surely was) a jarring experience. If you are trying to build audience, you need to think about that first impression.
And by the way, what or where is Fire Dog Lake? Does it refer to a place or book or religious cult? Just curious.
punaise @
600
well, my comment was #599 when I posted it…..
The blackface incident…yeah, for me, that was when I began to withdraw. Not so much because it happened, because it was not the first time I had seen something written posted here that made me squirm. I don’t expect “perfection” from myself, and for that reason, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, in that we all have a right to do unthoughtout bone-headed things now and then, which was what I thought of the that incident.
No, what bothered me, was the unwillingness of particularly Jane but more generally the loyal legions here to really *think* about not only why it was a really dumb thing to do (and hurtful to Ned) but why it was so offensive to so many people of color and conscience. The refusal to step back and really think about what had motivated the use of that image (and Pach, before you go off, as a trained psychologist, you are well aware of the concept of an “unconscious communication”).
It is my personal belief that because of the generally bigotted (racist, xenophobic, intolerant, sexist) imagagery and language we are surrounded with throughout our time growing up here, we all have a little bit of an “inner racist” or an “inner sexist” (akin to our “inner child” or our “inner tyrant”). And that at times it erupts when we least expect it or need it, which could/should be a time to grow, to learn.
But I did not see that here. No what I saw was a half-baked “apology” (I am sorry if I hurt your feelings is not an apology made in good faith imo) and wagons being circled. But it was election time, so I for one did not call Jane out about it at the time, because there were bigger issues.
But then came the Clinton lunch. And I found it understandable why some POC felt as though it just looked like more of the same-old. Now, I realize that many (here esp) think that that was not the case, but whether or not it was is not the point; the point is that women and minorities have only advanced raising their voices and the roof when they percieve marginalization at work, even if there was no conscious intent to marginalize.
I thought at the time that it was a rare opportunity for some real dialogue to occur, but instead, TRex took it upon himself to pile upon another blogger, with whom it seems that there was some personal behind the scenes history with, rather than address the *real* issue (we used to call it consciousness-raising back in the days of 70s, early 80s feminism and radicalism).
And he did so in a manner that really sounded racist. Which, as I have pointed out above, can happen to any of us. But then once again, instead of listening to the many commenters who came here and tried to explain (yes, some of them were angry, but with perhaps the exception of one, none rose to the level of insults I have seen flung by Jane, Trex, and Pach in the comments on this and other blogs) why it was offensive, why the tone was racist.
And just to be clear, just because one of us is capable of saying or acting in a way which can be construed as racist does not mean that one IS a racist. But that does not mean the behavior is not racist (& on that note, I would like to point out that I did not see Tom W calling anyone a “racist” or a “sexist” rather he said the language was, and important difference).
So instead of really listening to those commenters, who speak from a perspective that many of us can only imagine, the bullying that I saw here was phenomenal, and it was led by Jane.
And that is when I checked out. I still check in occaisionally, because there are some very informative posts, esp, esp by Christy and some of the guest posters (I love the book chats) but I usually just skim.
So, that is my 2 cents. Take it for what it is worth. I never had any bone to pick with Jane or any other poster here, but I lost a whole lot of respect for her in terms of the way she handled herself with respect to those 2 incidents.
I will say this to Jane personally. I think you are a very intelligent, clever and edgy woman–I like your edginess. I like your spunk, I applaud your courage. But that does not excuse cruelty or willful blindness. I really think that in places where it really counts you are better than this, and I urge you, respectfully, to really take the time to read and take to heart to some of what has been written here and in other places the past few days. You don’t have to end up agreeing with any/all of it, but I think you will be more effective in ways that really matter if you do.
And I applaud FDL for allowing plenty of time for this conversation to develop, hopefully into some genuinely constructive dialogue.
Bob G ,
firedoglake is a combination of 3 of Janes favorite things;
Sitting by the fire with her dogs watching a Lakers game.
I know I searched Google for hours trying to find a place named Firedog lake.
Bustednuckles @ 608
there’s an old celtic legend about fired o’glakes, but pay it no heed in this context.
a former commenter, imho, the blackface and the “betters” comment, which came right out of the Clinton meeting were examples of massive inexperience wrt African American sensitivities. In my experience that is very common in groups that are predominantly European American. No one was “intending” to infuriate an ethnic group in the blackface photo. It was a naked and very well intentioned attempt to sway African American voters to Ned. Afterwards, it was difficult to say anything else, because that would have hurt Lamont’s campaign by restarting the controvery in another news cycle. The code for the African American agenda in this election cycle was “univeral health care.” FDL has been staunch on that.
The Clinton meeting was on Clinton imho, especially the group photo op. They should have known better and stuck with individual shots, once they saw that no African American bloggers showed up.
I think this thread shows a willingness to dialogue. If it is in your best interest, I hope you will reconsider your status as a “former” commenter, at least as an experiment.
a former commenter @
607
I never returned to this incident at the time because to do so would have given it another life cycle in the news. Anything I would have said would have been picked up and used as fuel against Ned. So until after the election that was a hands-off topic, and we said as much. Those who “demanded” that we do so, who thought they were helping Ned in the process — you weren’t.
In addition, I meant what I said at the time. If the imagery was offensive to some I am truly sorry, but it was a legitimate artistic expression by Dark Black. The fact is that Lieberman was being condescending to African Americans in his attempts to race bait at the same time he promoted himself as being for civil rights. He had to assume people were pretty stupid to fall for it, and they didn’t. African Americans overwhelmingly voted for Ned Lamont. That does not make either me or Dark Black guilty of racist intent, no matter how much people might object to the image. What Digby said here sums up my feelings as well.
I’m surprised there seems to be some trouble making the distinction here between discussing a post or a piece of art or the use of a word and saying that it has negative affect, as opposed to the broad leap that some want to make in calling the person who used it a racist or a sexist. Not only does it shut down the conversation and send everyone into their respective corners regarding something that legitimately ought to be hashed out, it’s just lazy and without further context and substantiation unjustifiable. Unless you want to do a thorough examination of the person’s body of work and prove the point, restraining commentary to a discussion of the usage at hand is both intellectualy more responsible and certainly more honest.
Pachacutec @ 595
Perhaps my historical analogy at Tom W.’s was hyperbolic, but you do run the risk of seeking out conspiratorial and malevolent subtexts in lieu of texts. So run with my other analogy: I have the motivation of a passenger who can’t help but get twitchy when he glances across and sees the speedometer hit 95 on a dark highway.
pseudonymous in nc @
612
I thought that analogy about the intoxicating exhiliration of recklessness was pretty apt. There have definitely been times where I’ve seen a sort of glee at pushing the envelope and, basically, asking for trouble.
It’s kinda like watching someone else’s kid dart out into traffic and wondering whether they’ll make it back.
Of course, I tend to be a pretty cautious, measured person in word and deed, so recklessness always makes me nervous.
pseudonymous:
I’m trying not to call out some people by being elliptical. Just because I refer to history and I don’t lay it all out, does not mean either that there is no history or that I’m paranoid.
We’ve been deferential about not putting all that on the blog, as we don’t believe in picking fights from the blog across the lefty blogosphere. But next time this stuff comes round on the guitar, we may have to rethink that.
I really understand what you are saying, Pach, and CHS, but when it becomes an assumption we’re totally fucked. Hit the text first then go for subtext in the second round. I only say this because a deliciously Machiavellian probing might discern that there is no subtext, and you save grenades for where they are needed. Since it is harder to take back a grenade once it is launched, best bet would be to minimize friendly fire. I think everyone can agree on this in principle. When we get emotional, practice is what is hard. I 100% admit I have blown my stack before, but I try really hard not to.
OK, thanks- I think we have an understanding.
Later taters. You know where to find me if we got anything else to hash out.
If Christy is still around, I sent you an email. Did you get it?
Pinko Punko:
I’d be happy to begin with an approach of all sweetness and light. But the record does reflect that we did not launch a grenade from behind lefty lines. We got fragged and returned fire. There’s a meaningful distinction to be made there.
I appreciate your response Jane.
And I do want to make emphasize, that I agreed with you at the time, that then was not the time to focus on the blackface graphic. Ned’s campaign was too important.
But, I have to say that I don’t get the reference to Digby’s post. No one (not that I know of anyway) is suggesting that anyone should be arrested for using blackface as “art.” I think that everyone agrees that anyone’s legal right to free speech (and that includes the right to be offensive) is beyond dispute.
But art has never been above criticism, and that includes the political and social ramifications of a particular piece. And some people have looked at critically. One blogger even did so after looking at Dark Black’s entire (available on flicker) body of work and came to his own conclusions here, which was that the imagery was inherently racist. Now I am not saying that I agree that Dark Black is a racist, because I would have to know a little more about him personally to come to such a conclusion, but I think this writers view is instructive because it does speak to why an African-American might come to that conclusion.
And then there is this from a very thoughtful former FDL commenter, Kai: Blackface Joe: Five Grievances
BagNewsNotes also critiqued it, and the context in which it was used.
Again, I would like to reiterate that just because someone considers a piece of writing or an image or a performance to be racist or sexist in nature, does not mean that they are saying that the person is inherently sexist or racist per se. I know that some have, but to lump everyone who takes issue with language or imagery that is often/generally felt to be racist or sexist into one group of name-callers obfuscates the larger point, I think.
J at 615 — I did. But The Peanut and I are playing Sesame Street games on the laptop at the moment and I haven’t had a chance to e-mail back. I’m only getting to reply at the moment because we’re having a “break.” She thinks momma’s laptop is hers. *g* Will get to it after bedtime, I promise.
Christy Hardin Smith @ 618
Okay, I appreciate that. I am going to get warm now (heat’s out) and will check back later. Enjoy the game. (bighug)
Mod alert–I replied to Jane with a comment that had 3 links and is likely hung up in the spam filter. ;-)
As Lenny Bruce (and a host of others, including a Duke) said, “Beat me daddy, eight to the bar.) Which is one of my wrecco-mendations for this discussion. Set me up, ‘tender.
As James Joyce said, “Were their views on some points divergent?
Stephen dissented openly from Bloom’s view on the importance of dietary and civic selfhelp while Bloom dissented tacitly from Stephen’s views on the eternal affirmation of the spirit of man in (the internets.) Bloom asserted covertly to Stephen’s rectification of the anachronism involved in assigning the date of the conversion of the Irish nation to chrisitianity from druidism by Patrick son of CalPORNus, son of Poitus…suffocated by imperfect deglutination of ailment at Sletty and interred at Rossnaree. The collapse which Bloom ascribed to gastric inarition and certain chemical compounds of varying degrees of adulteration and alcholic strength, accelerated by mental exertion and the velocity of rapid circular motion in a relaxing atmosphere, Stephen attributed to a reapparition of a matutinal cloud (perceived by both from two different points of observation, Sandycove and Dublin) at first no bigger than a woman’s hand.
Was there one point on which their views were equal and negative?
The influence of gaslight or electric (tubes) on the growth of adjoining paraheliotropic trees.”
As sophocles said, “Ya put ur right foot in, ya take yur right foot out, ya put yur left foot in, shake n’ bake it all about.”
As Nixon said, “Well, you won’t have Firedoglake to kick around anymore.”
That’s all i can think of after seven hours of lurking just this thread alone (two separate nights.)
Gimme a fucking break. One of your posters does a third-rate Perez Hilton imitation, dripping in offhand misogyny, and you somehow think you’re “punk rock.” I never quite knew the intellectual and moral bankruptcy of this blog quite as well as I do now.
My opinion:
Say anything you want, short of threatening violence, to take down the evil people who threaten our nation.
I do object to very senior people, including one moderator, being cruel to current fdl commenters. That’s just shooting our own troops.
My only other request, which we do mostly follow, is not to kick people who are already crippled by life: poor, disfigured, retarded, physically handicapped, and my own favorite mentally ill.
The categories of uncriticizable people change from one decade to another, but surely we can agree on those?
NBC just called me and they have decided to describe what is happening at the Lake as a Civil War.
a former commenter — I don’t think anyone on FDL ever argued that the imagery or its use was above criticism, but feel free to link back to it if I am mistaken.
And we’re not throwing traffic to a site that calls DarkBlack a white supremacist, so you’ll have to make any further points on your own.
HopeSAT, LOL.
[waving hi at Hope!]
Hi Hope!
Hope :) all is well for you and for Mr. Turtle.
I’ve missed seeing you here.
If you’d like to get together when you’re in the Bay Area, my addy is kmurphy (aaaat) riseup (daught) net.
Be well, Hope!
scarecrow, you brilliantly cut through the fog of the issues relative to this post and pointed our compass towards true north. Thank you.
scarecrow @ 591
Hey Kirk, you didn’t have to apologize to me way, way back when. I took your meaning well, and it actually kind of applied to me, to be honest. No harm done whatsoever.
And JohnSweety, ahem, Swifty. Thank you.
JoyB @
632
So, you’ll be neglecting your child regularly and contributing for all your worth! I can tell that’s not gonna happen, but I’ll read anything you have to offer. Hell, I’m never leaving this thread. And you’re more than welcome.
Thanks Christy – no axe then, no axe now.
Lookit, when reading a post it is incumbent upon the reader to be able to understand that sometimes the post is bigger than the words used therein. It is also necessary to understand that the post may be dressed up a bit to highlight or draw attention to particularly salient sections. The fact is, these same techniques can be found in great literature. If certain readers are hoping to read articles styled for their own particular taste, they’d be best served by self selecting at a book store or maintaining a steady relationship with authors they are familiar with. Otherwise let’s assume we are all grownups and can withstand the shock of ideas and words. If you read it, and don’t like it on its’ merits, fine . That is fair game. It is where the comments serve to either disagree, extend or reinforce thoughts. If something is crazy, bizarro foul, it might merit a mention. Never encountered anything like that here. Nitpicking is not warranted under any circumstance. Just suck it up if it offends sensitivities, read for the larger points, or make a mental note that the author is not someone you’re likely to read again. There is nothing worse than the Thought Police, unless it’s the Word Police. And as for “beautiful minds”, let each take personal responsibility for their own!